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 Posted: Thursday May 20th, 2004 15:24

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WHOA!!!!!!!! PEACEMAKER, damn, lol.

 

total low blow, yet nicely delivered!



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 Posted: Saturday June 5th, 2004 20:56

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hey girl,

first of all im gonna say man aint evryting,but i suppose you've hard it al b4 an dat aint what u wanna hear this time!

 

u said it urself dat you know your pretty and dats the attitude to have! d ting is though that its all about confidence! when you'r too nervouse to smile back and alla dat den ur gonna give off d wrong vibez to any mans dat like you.i went out the other night and there was this boy jus whatchin n whatchin me so i styled d fact i wanted to get near to him by goin to where he was sittin 4 a drink,as i got my drink i smiled jus to let him kno id seen him lookin turned and walked back to the dance floor where i danced so i was in his view.b4 long he came over with his friends and began dancin not too far from me n my girls,two mins l8a and he was behind me so i jus danced backwards and straight in2 his arms which took alot of guts and we danced 4 d rest of d night! anyway the motto of my story is that you dont always need tons of confidence jus d odd smile to let him kno wha gwarn! if your too shy too approach him make sure your nearby and your givin off a good vibe so he can approach you without feelin too shy! you know you look good so let people know it.stand tall,fake confidence and most importantly SMILE. another trick for gettin breh's to come and talk is to let them get to know you from afar.you talk and laugh with your friends and he can watch you.this means he will know what to say to you when he finally comes over to talk.if you know your pretty then its got top be the nervous vibes your givin which can be mistaken for attitude and you bein a very cold person in generalblktype this is because when people avoid eyecontact its kina like they cant be bothered etc etc you get ma drift anyways feel free 2 e-mail me n tell me if my advice was a load of sh*t laurynb1210@aol.com

 

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 Posted: Sunday June 13th, 2004 20:23

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i get wat ya mean i was 16 wen i had my first kiss but b4 that i felt like no 1 ever even looked at me i used to think id be lonely 4 ever how sad is that! but i decided to just chill i thought wen it happens it happens! and then it did happen and again and again and again after ure first kiss u will gain loads of confidence! and im sure it willl cum soon ure prob just not meeting the right ppl ! i live in like a sh*tty part of n wales just loads of fields and sheep no boys the ones there r are imature prats! then i started going out to chester and meeting new ppl now ive bin with my bf a year! and for the record my best mate befan is 17 too and fit;) and snogged a boy 2 weeks ago for the first time wen we were camping so it aint just you hun! it will so happen soon dont expect it and it will happen! hope this helped and u feel better! em x x x



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 Posted: Sunday October 10th, 2004 01:23

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MAYBE GUYS JUST SIMPLY FIND YOU INTIMIDATING THATS NOT NECESSARILY A BAD THING BECAUSE YOU JUST DONT WANNA SETTLE FOR ANYBODY WITH A "WHATS GOOD MA"? DO YOU? DONT GET WITH SOMEONE OUT OF PURE DESPERATION BECAUSE 9 TIMES OUT OF TEN YOU'LL GET HURT IN THE END



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 Posted: Saturday October 16th, 2004 13:55

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its tru gyal! DONT BE WIAITNG ABOUT FOR A MAN .. just do ur ting ... do ur studies... n he will come along at the time u least expect it .. gd luck ... BE URSELF GYAL



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 Posted: Monday October 18th, 2004 22:30

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girl if u see a fit fell go ask him out and even if he say no at least u tried

u c fellas these dayz allway go for ugly slappas because they no they cant pull beautifull mature galz like u

lol

go get ur self a man but have some self respect

good luck!!!

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 Posted: Friday December 31st, 2004 18:09

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shame wrote: get a life

u get a freegin life.niceone.gif



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 Posted: Friday December 31st, 2004 18:26

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jermaine ur a buff one.

 



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 Posted: Thursday October 20th, 2005 21:31

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blktypelove i think there is some one out there 4 every one u might think to your self now how my god i am 17 and i have'nt been kissed or i have'nt been out with a boy before .there no rush and these boys now a days just want sex and sum who waits for u, ending up go else where there are sum good boys out there but  god is choosing some one the right person to cum in ur life and make u feel loved and happy dont u hav boys as friends i hav a best friend name kevin and he treats  me like his girlfriend even dough i hav a man and he as a chick, he still my comfort. and we hug for aleast 3 mins every single day at skool at lunch time ,he proper pulls me close to him like bare hugs but he dont queeze me alot we hav   kisses on the cheeks wen u he hugs me he givs me so much comfort so if u hav boys has friends try dat , and get close wit him and u wont feel dat left out. and if dat dont work any time a brother looks at u and smile again jus build up the nuff courage to say wat do u like me are something and build up a convo wit him  and say it nicely aswell wit a little smile and sum boys luv it wen u jus cum out and be straight wit things and get to the point trust meniceone.gif:)bighairlol



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 Posted: Thursday October 20th, 2005 21:52

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little sexy wrote: blktypelove i think there is some one out there 4 every one u might think to your self now how my god i am 17 and i have'nt been kissed or i have'nt been out with a boy before .there no rush and these boys now a days just want sex and sum who waits for u, ending up go else where there are sum good boys out there but  god is choosing some one the right person to cum in ur life and make u feel loved and happy dont u hav boys as friends i hav a best friend name kevin and he treats  me like his girlfriend even dough i hav a man and he as a chick, he still my comfort. and we hug for aleast 3 mins every single day at skool at lunch time ,he proper pulls me close to him like bare hugs but he dont queeze me alot we hav   kisses on the cheeks wen u he hugs me he givs me so much comfort so if u hav boys has friends try dat , and get close wit him and u wont feel dat left out. and if dat dont work any time a brother looks at u and smile again jus build up the nuff courage to say wat do u like me are something and build up a convo wit him  and say it nicely aswell wit a little smile and sum boys luv it wen u jus cum out and be straight wit things and get to the point trust meniceone.gif:)bighairlol

 

Little sexy i think it's nice what your wrote to the girl but the girl posted this topic on the website over 2 years ago and hasn't returned since. It's an old topic. I think she's got her boyfriend now so she wouldne't need the advice no more. Make sure you check the dates on these post cause you could just be wasting time. Laterz



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 Posted: Friday October 21st, 2005 19:12

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In my honest opinion, until you learn to love yourself and have more confidence in yourself...chances are it will be much harder to find someone. Even though I have a man, trust me when I say you don't need a man to make you happy. I've had....3 boyfriends, I'm with the 3rd one now..an the first two turned out to be damn DOGS lol, there aren't that many good men out there nowadays so believe me there's no reason to want one! lol...they're not all bad..but what I'm basically saying is, if you don't feel confident within yourself, that's off putting for them, they may see you as stoosh or whatever an may feel that you're not interested. If they're not gettin any signs back from you then they won't want to take it further..that's how a lot of the males I know are anywhoo lol

 

Get ur mind right first before you look to catch man...an don't think about it so much..focus on other things, and chances are someone will come your way



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 Posted: Monday October 24th, 2005 01:02

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I really dnt knw how 2 say this but i need sum help on tryin 2 get sum confidence in myself. I am 17 yrs old, never been kissed or anythhing like that. Sometimez I wake upin the morning and wonder what is wrong wid me. Really and truly I know I am not ugly and I carry myself really well wid muy clothes and attitude. I have got bear friendz (not being rude) who I knw for definete I am prettier than, however they get bear nice boys. I am fed up of sitting on the phone wid them telling me hw good this was e.t.c. I wonder am I ever gonna get boyfriend?????. I know this is bad but I have reduced myself to telling some of my friendz and family about this imaginery boy. I do it so I dnt feel left out. Everytime I go out I do make an effort , but the boys just seem to watch and smile, and I get really shy. I would never approach a boy cos Im scared he will not like me. But I really do not know what else to do, cos I am really getting depressed. I always think my time will cum soon but it doesn't seem like it. Dont get me wrong I hav had a couple of boys who hav liked me but I hav been to scared to express my emotions, so nothing has happened. Some1 out there please help!!!!!



seriously, there's no need to worry, there's a time for everyone...and your time shall surely come. there's a man for evry lady- and yours is still out there. 

dont stress yourself over the matter..seriously pure girls these days, probs. are to do with boys...dont let them stress you out...when you havent got one to deal with.



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