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What do chicks like in a man or is all for the wannabe thugish type?
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 Posted: Thursday June 24th, 2004 10:29

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What do chicks like in a man or is all for the wannabe thugish type?



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 Posted: Thursday June 24th, 2004 15:25

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i dunno wat all chicks like in a man but i know wot i like and dat is-

a man who can make me laugh

a man dat i can talk 2 about anything

a man dat will look after ma and show me love, it aint about dem wannabe tugz.

girls need 2b wid sum1 whos gonna make sumting of dereself! i hate 2 c mans going on like dere some sort mr untouchable. get me dats all long cos at da end of da day no1 is untouchable, u may be big in ur ends but remember deres lways sum1 bigger than u. i aint no gold digger cos i got my own doe, i dont need no mans money. but he at least needs 2 have money 2 take me out once in a while. its time 2 get clued up man dem every1s growing up now.

 



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 Posted: Saturday October 16th, 2004 20:44

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well i cnt lie i do like the thuggish type an if u aint a thug u hav 2 no sum 2 make it excitin



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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 00:21

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Fact: Women don't like nice guys.



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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 17:33

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Peacemaker wrote: Fact: Women don't like nice guys.

Could not be more wrong:P

I always thought this to be the truth untill i took notice at work, ther b this one guy who is my homeboy at work. He is the most caring, sweet, respectful, thoughtful male ever. He is such a nice gentleman. He would do anything for anyone he is so genuine. If there is a job to be done and he is around a female he will always do that job for her even if it means putting himself out, he always makes sure your ok and just has the sweetest personality. He doesnt have a giril at the moment and i always thought that it was becouse knowone would go for him becosue he aint no thug. 

 

man was i wrong have ma work is trippin on this boy why becouse he is sweet   



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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 17:57

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wot about da man

wot will u do 2 keep da man happy

will u eva hav da money to take da man out

will u eva entertain da man apart from heads

will u eva buy da man tings

FEMALES NOWADASY TINK DERE GODS ITS ALWASY ABOUT DA MAN DA MAN HAS TO DO DIS DAT f**k DAT sh*t

WOT ABOUT U WOT R U GONA DO 0 NUTHIN U JUST WANT A SLAVE 2 BE UR MAN U JUST WANT UR MAN TO DO UR SLAVERY BE A MOTHERf**kIN TV OR A RADIO CHANNEL JUST ENTERTAIN  U

AND NO ONE COPY MY WORDS OR SAY DEY MADE DIS sh*t UP IT WAZ MADE UP BY AN ASIAN REMEMBER DAT B4 U START COPPYIN

JUST REMEMBER 1 TING U CANT MAKE A MUSLIM MAN A SLAVE REMEMBA DAT WID NON MUSLIMS DATS GONA WORK BUT NOT WID MUSLIM OR TRUE GANGSTERS SUCH AS MAFIAS YAKUZAS OR TRIADS OR UNDERWORLD

 



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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 18:24

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Oh Shut up!!blkfishslap



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 Posted: Monday October 18th, 2004 22:31

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wot about da man

wot will u do 2 keep da man happy

will u eva hav da money to take da man out

will u eva entertain da man apart from heads

will u eva buy da man tings

FEMALES NOWADASY TINK DERE GODS ITS ALWASY ABOUT DA MAN DA MAN HAS TO DO DIS DAT f**k DAT sh*t

WOT ABOUT U WOT R U GONA DO 0 NUTHIN U JUST WANT A SLAVE 2 BE UR MAN U JUST WANT UR MAN TO DO UR SLAVERY BE A MOTHERf**kIN TV OR A RADIO CHANNEL JUST ENTERTAIN  U

whatever chicks you messing with put dem down and find a real girl, then stop generalissing putting all females in the same garies as dem lil girls and move on



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 Posted: Tuesday October 19th, 2004 07:28

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i ent a female but wannabe thugz piss me off



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 Posted: Tuesday October 19th, 2004 11:21

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Just_ME wrote: Peacemaker wrote: Fact: Women don't like nice guys.

Could not be more wrong:P

I always thought this to be the truth untill i took notice at work, ther b this one guy who is my homeboy at work. He is the most caring, sweet, respectful, thoughtful male ever. He is such a nice gentleman. He would do anything for anyone he is so genuine. If there is a job to be done and he is around a female he will always do that job for her even if it means putting himself out, he always makes sure your ok and just has the sweetest personality. He doesnt have a giril at the moment and i always thought that it was becouse knowone would go for him becosue he aint no thug. 

 

man was i wrong have ma work is trippin on this boy why becouse he is sweet   


Always one exception to the rule.



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 Posted: Tuesday October 19th, 2004 20:21

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Sorry i kno dis is off topic but.....

Mason killer why in every topic that u contribute to u ALWAYS have to make some reference to Islam and Muslims. Its completly irrelevant. You always sayin muslims dis and dat u act like Muslims can do no wrong. You cant make such big generalizations seein especially as you dont kno every Muslim in the world. And im sure they wouldnt want such an ignorant and foolish person like yourself speakin on their behalf!

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 Posted: Tuesday October 19th, 2004 20:24

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Oh and u can have ur words they dont make sense and no one would want to copy da bullsh*t u wrote anyway!



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 Posted: Thursday December 23rd, 2004 22:35

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To the person that said, "Women dont like nice guys," you're wrong!

There's this ONE guy that I've liked for 5 years now & he's soo nice!! I think I wanna see wussup with him when I go back to school...;) Anyways, yea he's nice, smart, funny.....& I really do like him! I really *DONT* like thuggish type guys. I think it's so FAKE! All those boys are tryna do is make them selves look like WACK RAPPERS such as (Nelly, Ja, Chingy, etc...) I think it's just *STUPID* people, guys and girls, need to start being THEMSELVES and stop trying to be like these rappers.....*SMH*


Sorry if you dont like what I said, but I speak the truth, IMO. niceone.gif



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 Posted: Thursday December 23rd, 2004 22:55

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most girls like the thugs. its the thought of excitment and being looked afta. but u also need some one whos gonna treat u with the respect u need, and not run off when he finds out ur carryin his kid

as long as my man can do the things above then im safe     ;)

 



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 Posted: Thursday December 23rd, 2004 23:40

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most girls like the thugs. its the thought of excitment and being looked afta. but u also need some one whos gonna treat u with the respect u need, and not run off when he finds out ur carryin his kid

as long as my man can do the things above then im safe     ;) 

 


mm lol U most be having a dream, cuz respect and carrying, is not one of a thugz characteristics. the only care a thug shows his for his timbs and jordans. So u best wake up gurl!..lol

 

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 Posted: Sunday January 2nd, 2005 16:03

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i'm not the type of person to go and search for a so-called thug. i want a man who is nice to me and treats me right but can keep me interested. if the man happens to be the gangster type then im okay with it as long as he is a nice person. but if he ain't a gangster, then that's okay too. at the end of the day, im not looking for some man who's gonna try and boy me off or treat me like his bi***! if his attitude is sh** then forget it! i ain't got time for no idiots. i may be young, but i've got my head screwed on right. i'm trying to focus on my education so im not gonna be wasting no time on a fool.



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 Posted: Wednesday January 5th, 2005 17:54

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Peacemaker wrote: Fact: Women don't like nice guys.

 

i am a typical example of that sh*t.Was nice got cheated on.Was rough and she became too possessive.Didnt want me to even hang with my boys.



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i like the bad boyz one who cud break ur heart like once or twice a breda who cud stand up 4 me  be there 4  treat me good sweet kind ones dat gives me a challenge i like the freaky ones romantic who cud talk freaky to me baby oil and ice does it for candle lite stawberry and whop cream hot bath music on slow jamz dats all me dats wat i mean freaky  the ones wit a nice ass a romantic bredablk2kissblkdevillol  peace holla



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what would I want with a wannabe gangsta...I wouldn't even what the definition of a "tru gangsta" cause I don't wanna be with someone who lives that kind of lifestyle. The person I'm with now, is exactly what I'm looking for: smart, good with ma family..like he plays with my lil bro an stuff, I can talk to him about anything, he knows what he wants to do in life, and find LEGIT ways to make money as opposed to some of these "Gangstas"...who will "jack fones" and sell them, and ish like that...don't get me wrong..I can't use that to generalise all :gangstas: but...the kind that I know of...do them kind of things. I wouldn't want no boyfriend that would give me a reason to worry all the time, worry if he got "caught" today, or if he got people after him etc etc...I want a quiet life mayyn, and right now, that's what I got. I leave them bad boys to link and chirpse whichever girls they see, In my opinion, they're not long term relationship material. I personally wouldn't be able to trust them, worrying that they been chirpsing girls on street etc etc, and if I can't trust them...then...there ain't a relationship.



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 Posted: Tuesday August 30th, 2005 22:42

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naaaa none for the thugs! im not gonna lie i used to want a sweet thug like cassidy or some1 but that woz when i woz younger but now ive grown up and the man i have now is perfect:


he makes me laugh


gets along with my family


treats me like a queen


he's intelligent and plans on goin uni


hes caring


hes not violent


doesnt sell drugz and all dat sh*t


hes just wonderful and i wouldnt want anybody else. all a girl wants really is sum1 she can connect with and just be urself around. sum1 whos gonna treat u right and not make u sit at home worryin about them all the time.



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Sweetboy192 wrote: What do chicks like in a man or is all for the wannabe thugish type?


4 me its about personality nd charisma..me not gwna deal wiv manz with jus a pretty face u kno or manz dat a thug uh-uh...me is all about the inner ....d outta playz a small part in it but its more about the inner thang.

those wannabe thugish types think they gwana get hold of this chic uh-uh...ill say it 2 dem directly...F***OFF n kiss my assmad-moonie!

 

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 Posted: Monday September 5th, 2005 16:51

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I know I like nice guys.. men with a thug attidude.. luv them to. I just want a man to make me laugh, a man who I can relate to and talk to about anything. And hes got to have nice hands and be sensual ; ) Cuz I like to be touched by his hands.. arms around me.. and stuff.. It makes me feel worthy, safe and special =)



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 Posted: Friday October 14th, 2005 18:03

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PERSONALITY


They have to be able to know jus what to say to make me smile, not use the word "love" so  losely, have to be able to stimulate my mind and say things that will stick with me. Dont want no wannabe thug or a guy dats jus wans to hit it then leave it. Want someone who knows what they want in life and dont make empty promises but i dont want a push over...iono what else to say so


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 Posted: Saturday October 15th, 2005 15:08

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a thug? pff. deep down inside evry "thug" is a guy who just wants love. or a hug. hence= thug.

id prefer a guy hu classes respect as more than just touchin fists
can hold a coversation without havin 2 stop to adjust his cap
shows lurve
makes me feel all special

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Haha a thug? Naah dont need them, though they can be exciting ;] No, I just want my boy to talk to me, to be sweet, to take me out, to hang with me, to touch me, to be swet and to love me. His style, hmm dunno, I like them layed back. skateboys are kinda hot. Like Pharrell Williams ;] And Im glad that I found my skateboy who loves me! =D He is my lil thug ;]



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When it comes to men, I would want someone who can make me laugh, and someone I can just kick it with.  But some girlz probably like the thugs because they give off an air of excitement, adventue, and they are turned on by the hard image they potray.  They also give off an illusion of leadership that most women want in a man.  Most if not all women want a man that is strong inside and out, that won't back down, that'll stick up for them. (No woman wants to stick up for her man).  No girl wants a punk, plain and simple, but thugs aren't the only strong men out there.  A thug usually ends up dead or in prision.  But a real man, he knows how to handle his buisness, and knows what he's doing.  But thinking that all women want thugs, that's reallyofftopic.gif



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