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Posted: Thursday April 8th, 2004 17:34 |
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Watsup peeps?
Question to the guys first of all : Would you rather have links or a wifey?
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Girls: Do you prefer being a guys link or his wifey
It's weird because the majority of the males that i meet want to try and have me as their link. I disagree with becoming a mans link and then he seems to run a mile! Lol why is that? He was eager to bed me but he didnt want the commitment. Hopefully you guys can shed some light on to this for me!
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Posted: Thursday April 8th, 2004 22:22 |
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i prefer to b a manz wifey then his link...i aint into jus havin manz 4 sex an sh*t like that...i kno bare ppl who da that an at the end of the day they jus gettin a rep innit an i aint gona gwarn like dat...i have respect 4 maself!!!
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Posted: Saturday April 17th, 2004 10:01 |
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| i prefer a wifey ive already got one lol yep defo forget skets its all about love (not sayin if u linkin gyal there skets lol)
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Posted: Saturday April 17th, 2004 10:30 |
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 As a female i believe that any respicting female should never be regarded as a link and is a fool to be made one if you cant have a man that can commit whats the problem of dashing him and you should know him long enough to know if he wants commitment or not before you lay down wit him
this is not aimed at anyone but im also sick of females lowering themselves to that standard and to top it all off some are proud of it that they say with great pride im a player and i play mans for everyting i can get
GET REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The only person being played is yourself i truly stand by my statement that "A man canot do you something unless u let him"
if you wanna be treated that way then be a mans link coz sure enough while hes playing you hes loving someone else.
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Posted: Saturday June 5th, 2004 20:06 |
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hahaha im glad u brought dis one up girl
i've jus come out of a 18month relationship and i recently met sum1 who took my number,im lookin 4 more than a link cause it aint alla bout dat but how can i go about tellin him without scarin him off.we live quite far apart whereas my x lived in d same area.any mans out there got any advice 4 me!
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Posted: Sunday June 13th, 2004 13:40 |
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hayyy
im wifey to most boy's i meet the ones that treat me like a link just end up being friends wit me cause i only bust joke on a link not a cherry u know.
umm this is a good light topic
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Posted: Friday June 25th, 2004 01:42 |
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I would prefer 2 be a wifey coz a link is just wat a boys gonna brag about 2 his friends like sayin ive got ber links.
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Posted: Friday June 25th, 2004 02:22 |
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| GOOD LIGHT TOPIC HUH????????
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Posted: Friday June 25th, 2004 08:09 |
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| only wifey
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Posted: Friday June 25th, 2004 12:05 |
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@coolie gyal
i dont tink any1 would prefer to jus be sum1's link, dats long knowing he's got next gyal aswell. everyones gonna link sum1 at 1 point but only 4 a certain amount of time b4 he ask you 2 b his wifey.
i prefer 2 jus have 1 man than linking mans her and there, it also gets you a name. although i aint got a man now, cos im too busy 4 dat but it would be nice.
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 09:44 |
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its easy to say 'wifey dis wifey dat', but all i can say is , im too young(im 16) to be fooled into bein sum1's 'wifey' cos den d boys make u feel obliged to sleep wid dem..ya undastan wer im cumin from??
i'm not sayin be sum1's link, cos dat to me feels loose but as a young girl, i'd like to be in control of wat i'm doin so i wouldnt want to hold any guy bak from havin sex in the sense dat, i would b his wifey but jus bcos i aint a virgin, dat don't mean im havin sex wid him....n ultimately, the boy wants sex!! even tho he likes u for u, i aint prepared for sex on the regular!!i guess its jus cos of my bad past -
the way i see it is, boy says - 'be my wifey', so u have a relationship, u sex, u break up, boy moves on to another 'wifey'....my point is, i've realised i'd rather wait till im old enough to give myself and my body to sum1 dats interested in me on a deeper level, ya undastan??! bcos i dont want to hav to count a number of boys i did it wid to the man i wanna marry!! think bout the future!!
it is hard tho, to keep to my theory bcos i really like dis guy and he's askin wat i want in a man, and i'm sayin dont want a 'man' and we r physically attracted but im scared of commitin bcos he would move on to further things n i really, deeply dont want to have ssex wid him..not dat i physically dont want to, but emotionally, im not ready for it again....n i feel by goin out wid him, as a young 18 yr old boy, he would want it - so i'm havin to jus stay friends wid him really, and its killin me, but dats my sacrifice init!!damn!
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Posted: Tuesday July 20th, 2004 04:59 |
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| wat da hell iz a link!?
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Posted: Sunday October 10th, 2004 01:16 |
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| LOL @ Tatiana
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Posted: Monday October 11th, 2004 20:55 |
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| "Link" - My definition...The under 18 version of a "f**k Friend"...
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Posted: Tuesday October 12th, 2004 17:43 |
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@coco brown,A link is not always a fc*k friend.
@coolie gyal
Depends on the man,sorry2say dis but if it was a jamaican man/asian man i wud preferto be his link coz u know you aint getting the sh*t that his wife has to put up with.
The wife has to stay home and lookmafta da kids and mek his dinner whereas he will take you out because his proud of you.H e will be more willing to spend more money on you as well.The wife just gets money to look after the kids.To be a baby momma is worst.There no better than babysitters that u may get2 jook now and then.
To be a succesful link you can get emotionally involved plus you hv2 stay clean coz manz chat.Be devious but maintain you halo.Play hard2 get.
NOTE LINKS ARE IMPORTANT BECAUSE WITH OUT THEM A CHAIN HAS NO USE
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Posted: Saturday October 16th, 2004 13:46 |
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| to be honest before i met my babygyal... i was on LINKSSS U DUN NO.. da whole sex ting .. sweet talkin da gyal to da tings u want was my ting ya get me i had all di gyal .. n i met my wife roxanne and i jus felt stupid .. we got to no each other n basically .. i jus started to care for her .. and i jus fell in love with her ... the ting a boy needs is a real woman ya get me none sum ickle gyal that we do anyting he wants .. a gyal needs to have her feet on the ground.. or manz will jus walk all over u dats da sad fact.. id jus hate for my wifey to tink i was like how i was bk den .. ka fo real gyals ...if u dont put ur foot down and say how it is .. da boy might bwoi u .. n not call .. but isnt that better than a boy using u for lord knows what n den THE whole world knowin? holla bk
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Posted: Tuesday November 2nd, 2004 20:48 |
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| wifey na question bout it cuz
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Posted: Monday November 8th, 2004 21:57 |
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 whagwan,
I fink its betta begin a wifey dan avin a link coz wa do u get frm a link just sex n dat it rite.Bt frm a wifey or relationship u get sex,love,care n sud get treated gud 2 bt on a link u get treated like sum sket
am i rite or wrng?
even doh i'm only 15 i wana be a breh wifey coz when i wid him i want him 2 say yer dats ma wifey n nt sum sket dat manz be sexin get me. n i wanna care 4 ma man 2 n be there 4 him.
even doh breh's thnk its big doin links n al its nt coz al there doin is tellin their brewins ,abt how easy or quick dat they got dat gyal rah rah.
n i fink dats wrng sum gyal's wanna go round as sket's n sum wanna be wifey.at da end of da day da wifey type gyal'z sud have nuff respect 4 dem self.
anywayz dats al i got 2 say.
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Posted: Monday November 8th, 2004 22:29 |
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**Kunjufu enters the twighlight zone***
Ok can someone anyone translate the above for me...thanks?
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Posted: Wednesday November 10th, 2004 15:16 |
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| its betta begin a wifey dan a link
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Posted: Wednesday November 10th, 2004 17:13 |
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Kunjufu asks:
'Ok can someone anyone translate the above for me...thanks?'
%100 wifey clarifies:
'its betta begin a wifey dan a link
Now Backatya asks:
'Ok can someone, anyone translate the above for me...thanks?'
***Backatya exits the Twilight Zone***
Respect
Last edited on Wednesday November 10th, 2004 17:14 by Backatya
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Posted: Wednesday November 10th, 2004 19:05 |
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LOL!
*Shakes head*
Literacy Hour desperately needed!
*Now gather round as I read the DICTIONARY!
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Posted: Wednesday November 10th, 2004 23:43 |
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what are u trying 2 say?
aint my english up 2 your standard well what ashame.
what are u trying 2 do this says"links or wifey"andi'm sayin its better begin a wifey okay.
so what cant you understand from that.maybe your the 1 in need off some english lessons blud.im not going 2 have you disrespect me like that.
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Posted: Friday November 26th, 2004 13:45 |
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 dis is mad yea coz personally im a brudda dat prefers long term relationships but it seems dat all the females dat i cum across only wanna f**k me even tho i show dem i want more dan dat
maybe im giving off the wrong vibes (advise ?)
ansa to da question is i prefer havin a wifey...any gyals on dat ( dat sounds desperate innit)
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Posted: Friday November 26th, 2004 19:00 |
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| Me personally I prefer to be a wifey cos a link can be ne gal and I ain't ne gal I respect myself so I deserve to be treated specially. U have to link man to find da one u want to wifey u up. Basically if I link a guy and he's saying tings about sexin me i know he ain't serious and he gets locked off I'm not on man chattin my name to his man dem and passin my name and number round dat is a disrespect! XblessX Last edited on Friday November 26th, 2004 19:04 by cookie#1
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Posted: Tuesday November 30th, 2004 16:29 |
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Right my m8s and i thought about this and we came to the conclusion that its better to be someones WIFE
NOT a wifey because thats not good enough. As special women we deserve the best.To be someones wifey just states that your the best girl out of the many girls the man/boy might have. The man is still going to cheat on you with his links.
A link can be good or it can be bad.
1. if your linking a man because he wants to take you out and wine you and dine you then fair enough
2.If he wants you to do him sexually favours then THATS BAD. Tell the man goodbye because NO Women/Girls should ever be going down that road of destruction.
3.If he wants to do you a sexually favour e.g Lick you out then that's fine but remember by you returning any favours will definitely demote you to a tramp.
Ladies always keep your head up
A relationship with your wife should be like this
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
niv Bible)
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