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Posted: Monday May 17th, 2004 10:12 |
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| na man if u were raped by another guy u wouldnt say sh*t.this happened in birmz (ma cousin worked at the bar so she told me) 2002 a 32yrsold white guy and a 17 yr old white guy(chavster)in a bar toilet. drinking can fuk u up seriously. he diserved it why did he drink himself to be allowed to be raped.i bet he enjoyed it u know some of these guys are nutts.
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Posted: Monday May 17th, 2004 10:52 |
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@ Soul Machine, "OUCH" yeh 4 reel drink'n can frenchconnectionuk u up, but 2 say dat he asked 4 it, "OUCH"..He may hav been impliying dat he wanted sum & in a drunk'n state did wat he did but "OUCH" even in a drunk'n state it still seems unbelieveable..
If dat was a girl, we would tend 2b much more 4give''n & sympathetic..
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Posted: Thursday June 3rd, 2004 23:38 |
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u kno what gurl ur brave 4 talkin about dis!
we say that you tell your new man cause its gonna leave an emotional scar.i dont know wether you have slept with your new man or not but im guessin no so you should defo tell him b4 the first time you'ze 2 sleep 2getha! whateva happens he needs to know cause jus by comin on ere its obvious its botherin you and at least he'll know to be gentle with you and be aware of what youve been through.its gonna be hard to tell him but its best because if you say your serious then he needs to know.you're still the same gyal and it shouldnt make a difference to him atall.you should defo tell him soon before you get too serious and he might feel upset you've withheld it from him!
and most importantly tell him before you sleep with him or he might feel guilty afterwards like hes treated you too rough or even the same way!
letters are always a good way of expressing emotion because you can think about what you want to say,put it into the right words,read it and change it,have no interruptions and let someone know exactly how you feel and in as much depth as you want!
you may find tellin him face to face hard as you might let emotion get d better of you
good luck sista!
please reply and tell us how your doin and if your gonna tell him or not
we rate u 4 comin on ere askin 4 advice
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Posted: Friday June 4th, 2004 19:03 |
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i was raped2, n as ppl may think its easy 2 tell others its not, its hard for u 2 except it yourself, i was very young when i got raped i was 13 it all happened so fast i couldnt tell wat was goin on, i just felt pain lots of it, the man who did it was a disgusting man, he was in my house like familly he was the man whos was the father of my baby sista n da man who married ma mum. and now hes a divored man whos just been released out of prison and wants custody of my son who is now 2.
he raped me got me pregnant at 13, and only got2 yrs in prison, hes f**ked up my life 4eva, but he can live a normal life, they dnt do sh*t in this country so even if u do tell it doesnt at all make a difference it jus makes u think that,
but i wish u all da best n i wouldnt giv up ma son 4nuffin x x x x
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Posted: Friday June 4th, 2004 20:13 |
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wotsits18 wrote: the soul machine wrote: i know a guy who was raped by another guy becos were drunk, doont drink
Rah wat dats sum serious sh*te man..It seems more "SERIOUS" b'ca we is man & we dont talk about dis or get raped..However yeh dis is real, was n e ting dun bout dis, whether it be from report'n it 2 da five-o or was there was sum other sort of judgement call..
Jus b careful wid yr drink, 2 much sh*te fe gwarn & d sh*tes dem tend 2 get away far 2 of10 wid there sh*te..
Speak f**king english you filthy f**ks
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Posted: Friday June 4th, 2004 20:34 |
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I was going to offer tea and sympathy and the benefit of my great wiseness but then I decided not to bother because I can't understand a word you're saying.
Speak English - enough time for gibberish when you're in the jungle.
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Posted: Monday June 7th, 2004 01:03 |
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Hello,
I'm new. But I thought I'd contribute anyways..
I know how you feel.I was also raped on May1st of this year. I think it's so sad that there are so many women, and people who go through it. I wouldn't wish it upon anybody. Even though it's difficult to talk about, it will definitely help you..sharing the burden with someone you care about should ease the pain.
Good luck. 
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Posted: Wednesday August 11th, 2004 13:22 |
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hey girl really happy 2 hear things went well with you and your man.atleast now it's time 2 move on and concentrate on the important things in your life like (your man,baby,and good health.
without feeling there is a shadow of fear on your back,and as 4 those low lives, i know u may not want 2 hear this bit of advice but i hope they see you with ur beautiful pregancy/baby and boyfriend.
so they can see that they have not suceeded in ruining your life and your 10x better that them, so don't be in fear of seeing them, people like that will just carry on being the low lives of society and would never achieve nothin in their sorry good 4 nothing lives.
i wish you all the happiness in the world.best of wishes. 
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Posted: Wednesday August 11th, 2004 13:51 |
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from reading this thread it makes me feel so bad to seen how many ppl who say they've got raped.
like there is so many sick twisted ppl out there, and to stop it 4rm happenin to the next person us ladies (men) need 2 start reporting, it sickens me to hear how many sexual assults and rapes happen 2 women in a year, pls i cannot not stress how we need 2 make these scums get locked and off the street,in order 2 protect other women 4rm these mongrels.
i have never been raped, but 2 of my friends have and it hurts me 2 see the pain they go through in order 2 get their lives back.
i also think us ladies (men) should be more aware, and make sure were not giving wrong signals, and no i no 2 these men.
i know ppl can get raped in diffrent reasons and situatoins be it uncle,husband,boyfriend,and stranger.
like i no when i go late at night my brothers make me carry pepper spray, and i don't accept drinks in bars unless it's opend in front of me, and my drinking stays with me all the time, i ain't gonna b letting no stupid arse fool spike my drink.
i'm sure if us ladies just tke extra precautions by doing little things like this we mite b safer .
to all the victims of this crime, i hope u all get through this and carry on with your lives, you can never 4get, but u can move on. bless.
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Posted: Wednesday August 11th, 2004 20:07 |
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Hello,
I'm new. But I thought I'd contribute anyways..
I know how you feel.I was also raped on May1st of this year. I think it's so sad that there are so many women, and people who go through it. I wouldn't wish it upon anybody. Even though it's difficult to talk about, it will definitely help you..sharing the burden with someone you care about should ease the pain.
Good luck.
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Posted: Friday August 13th, 2004 23:35 |
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| When did I say I didn't go to the police? Actually, I did. It was difficult, because they do all sorts of humiliating tests for evidence against him. It's really quite enough to put anyone off going to the police.
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Posted: Sunday August 15th, 2004 02:58 |
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now i have started seein someone who is serious about our relationship and i love him, should i tell him or is it true "wat he doesn't no wont hurt him"???????????
I am so sorry that you had to go through such a traumatic ordeal, my girlfriend and other girls I know have been through similar situations. I think you should wait until you are personally comfortable with yourself and that you can trust him with this type of information.
You should also check for STI's cause you never know.
Black breers or other guys are using Green or some kind of convining way to trick young girls into performing sexual deeds without the girl's say or say 'If you love me, you will have sex with my bredrins as well'.
These young breers need to be taking to jail or taken somewhere and get the sh*t beaten out of them or chop their piece, limbs or things off and see if they can operate then.
Breers take the utter PISS today with young girls thinking they do not have feelings about their bodies and it can be violated by bare guys just because you are a PIECE of meat to them.
As a Black Community in this country this is a VERY worrying subject and needs to be brought forward to the proper authorities unles you known next BIGGER man that can take out these breers one by one and they can not put their finger to it and think its you!
I you are okay now but I know that you will not be fine for awhile until you reach a certain age and go and find a Voodoo priest and show them what you want done ok.
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Posted: Sunday August 15th, 2004 08:23 |
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| What hell is a "Breers"!!!???
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Posted: Sunday August 15th, 2004 08:43 |
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It means 'guys, boys etc'
I thought you would know!!!
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Posted: Tuesday July 5th, 2005 17:33 |
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 tell him innit dats da only way he can help u get me ..........if u want more advise e-mail me on lauritta13@yahoo.com
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Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 16:55 |
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The same thing happened to me last year and it happens 2 more people then you think.
A nice boy who you think you can trust invites you to there house and next thing you know his friends appear from nowhere. You want to fight but you're too scared as they're probably stronger than you. You're too scared to report it or tell anyone, because your scared that they will act on their threats.
At first I didn't want to tell anyone, because I blamed myself, but talking to people does help, as you get all those pented up emotions out your system. If the person loves/cares about you, they will help you to move on.
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Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 17:20 |
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Thank you for being brave enough to start this thread. I hope it makes people stop and think before trusting anyone. evil comes in many forms.
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Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 17:51 |
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alot of women dont report it cos they somehow blame themselves..and the police dont care anyway unless there is real strong evidence, its a hard thing to tell people..i got raped when i was 16, dragged off the street by 2 guys i used to hang with..they told me the same thing..'No-one will believe you' ..i never reported it and ive always regretted that.. cant trust anyone..
sorry to hear its as common as it is..time is the healer.
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Posted: Monday September 5th, 2005 02:12 |
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@ no name
first of all my prayers is out 2 u so u may heal mentally & physically
no one should really have to go thru ur ordeal, like every one what everyone is saying, you should seek professional help or talk 2 some one you trust by now, cuz bottling up events really dont help.
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Posted: Monday September 5th, 2005 02:19 |
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it would b my absolute plaesure to torture, I MEAN TORTURE, rapists, peados and all kinda nastiness beings.
piss me off man
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Posted: Monday September 5th, 2005 11:31 |
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@ no name
i just want 2 congratulate u on finding love again and being so courageous and strong. 2 nearly 3 years ago i was in a very similar situation and i never came forward because the people who took advantage lived near me nad i grew up with them i knew no one would believe me. Just like u i told my boyfriend at the time and he reacted in the same childish manner and didn't believe me which left me feeling lonely and isolated. I'm now 17 and i found love but i also found the courage to share with my partner my ordeal and he was understanding, angry and supportive it actually made our relationship stronger. The thing with experiences like this is that u don't eva get over them u just learn 2 deal with that burden and that pain becoz of that ur not really gonna feel that comfortable telling ne1 becoz it will still hurt u deeply. I suggest that u share this with ur partner becoz it'll ease sum of ur pain and provide u with sum1 2 confide and i'm sure he will love u more for trusting him enuff to tell him.
Take care always and good luck with everything in life,
U will be in thoughts, stay blessed xxxxxxxxx
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Posted: Tuesday February 27th, 2007 12:00 |
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| very good f**k with 15 boy next time it is good for your health ,more dick togeather is life more enjoy dont worry go gang bang with old men old is gold for f**k
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