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 Posted: Monday January 26th, 2004 01:56

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Blick. why use dis word to demean fellow blacks, who have a darker complexion.To a white man all black people are blick. Don't divide the black race into complexions.

 



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 Posted: Monday January 26th, 2004 01:59

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True say? Why r we hattin on are own kind? If we can't except r self then rascism will continue to exist 



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 Posted: Sunday February 8th, 2004 00:50

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i aint tryin to be rude but would u go out wid a blick person wit bright red lips dat look like lipstick.
no...i thought not.
but true say..though we have to be realistic.
i aint blick but i thought i should say what ive just sed.
i personallly don't go for blick people.



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 Posted: Sunday February 8th, 2004 01:53

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@light gal

how pethitic you really sound, you sound totally brainwashed by the beautiful reality. If you have that opinion on darker shades of black people then am preety sure they and other people don't find you attractive in any way.

babygirl am a call you this cause you sound young, just because you maybe a lighter shade please don't think you are more attractive, cause you are in denial of black beauty.

and your first sentence

i aint tryin to be rude but would u go out wid a blick person wit bright red lips dat look like lipstick....

do you honestly think all dark skinned people look like this stereotype???

well that just sums up how mixed up you really are 4real, truss cause you would'nt come on here making that statement, if you travelled the globe - although everyone has the right to make a valid opinion, however by using the term BLICK, you sound confussed.

am not a dark skinned woman myself but at end of the day you are dissing black people, on a level and you trying to make yrself sound superior to darker shades, cause youre light.- please girl get a life, a clue and travel this globe.

one question, why??? confused3


And by the way, where the hell has that word come from, i think its disgusting.


PEOPLE WE ALL ONE 4REAL, DARK SKINNED PEOPLE ARE BEAUITFUL AND LIGHT SKINNED PEOPLE ARE BEAUTIFUL.

STOP HATING ON ONEANOTHER, WHAT THE HELL FOR???????


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 Posted: Saturday February 14th, 2004 14:52

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Well said Miss Caribbean Beauty.clp)

I think that is a horrible word used 4 darker shades of our people. Light skin gal may think dat shes above anybody else but jus dat satement makes her ugly in every way. I hope u dont get the negative response from any man a lighter shade den u.

 



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 Posted: Saturday February 14th, 2004 16:29

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@litegal

Do you honestly feel u r superior 2 a dark skinned preson?....

And do you get off callin a person BLICK?... how pathectic!... you obviously is a young gal and you really need to grow up,.... and do it pretty quickly.

If u was now 2 walk up 2 a racist person they ain't callin you lite-gal!

They will call u a N****r! SO THINK ABOUT THAT. 



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 Posted: Saturday February 14th, 2004 16:37

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I find the confict between "lightskinned" and average skinned and dark skinned blacks quite stupid and absurd. But one thing that I do wonder about is how come lightskinned blacks often the bigger stereotypical rubber lips that dark skinned blacks are supposed to have ?



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 Posted: Saturday February 14th, 2004 21:28

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I aint rascist but i do call peeps blik....I would say suttin like  "i was gonna link dis boi but when i saw him, he was blik as sh*tt"

i would say dat and i do say dat sh*tt but in my point of veiw, blik mean BLACK LIKE BLACK BLACK! but must dark skinned breh's and sisters, i do not call dem blik but chocolate and to tell da truth i have a weak spot for chocolate brown boi's......lol



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 Posted: Saturday February 14th, 2004 21:54

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is light gal black tho f real.......?



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 Posted: Saturday February 14th, 2004 21:58

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lightskin darkskin aint much dif. from she's black she'd get ma vote-n i aint got 2 lie..



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 Posted: Sunday February 22nd, 2004 19:48

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eyo like the sayin goes

the darker the berry the sweeter the juice

the darker the flesh and the deeper the roots

i aint dark skinned but i love my dark skinned brothers ummmmmmmmm they just got it going on full stop. and the whole bright lipped blk ting some chick on here chatting bout is bull.

why hate ??????????????????

i have love 4 all shades of black but its all bout tyrese and omarion and joe brothers

amenniceone.gif

so there:P

u dont know what u missingconfused3

o.k i needa stop cause ill be here all day but one more thing to all the beutiful brothers out there

indie aries tune

:signing: brown skin u know i love ur brownnnnnnnnnn skin

and b2k's tune

chocolate fantasy

i think u needa listen to these tunes get inlighted a lil and stop thinking beuty is only found in beyouce.mya,alica keys types cause u forgetting bout laren hill,tweet,niomi cambell and so many more

agine :P :P:P:P



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 Posted: Sunday February 22nd, 2004 21:05

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white peeps come in different shades to altho we dont cuss eachother 4 it

now why peeps hate on darker peeps i dont no its frenchconnectionukin pathetic at the end of the day were all human other then colour and hair etc we all the same (i know someone gonna reply n say no we not the same)but we all classed as human beings which means we the same were all made by god we r all equal so im gonna show the fuk u sign to racist peeps of all races and dumb idiots that call there own race for being darker peace



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 Posted: Monday February 23rd, 2004 01:49

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I don't really notice this hating on darkskinned people that's being mentioned. I don't get around other black people and think that I'm treated any differently for the mere fact that I am dark-skinned. Are you solely referring to dating preferences, or the way that darker black people are treated as a whole?? confused3


p.s before anybody decides to say anything - no, I am not actually "blick", I just like the way that the name sounds and started using it online time ago. If anybody did decide that they wanted to call me blick offline though, for whatever reason, I'd know its meant to be an insult, and most likely react with an attitude, but I really wouldn't care too tough



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 Posted: Monday February 23rd, 2004 03:30

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I have always been joked on for being dark-skinned because they say boys won't like me. Guys most of the time choose light-skinned girls for some reason. I think the who thing is crazy, we should be talking about our own race. We are all black just different shades.



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 Posted: Monday February 23rd, 2004 09:34

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I was wondering if anyone here has simular feelings as me, and what were their oppinions regarding my question. My question is:

 Do you find black woman unattractive? Do you tend find females of other races more attractive? Since I was a little kid I've always found females of other racis more attractive than black females. African American females I never find attractive. is that wrong? is it okay and normal that I find other woman than black woman attractive? I am half black and white. My father is white and my mother African American. My dad really likes black woman even really dark skinned ones but I do not. I tend to be attracted towards girls that are cute with gold brown straight hair, white skin, thin lips, and cute straight pointy noses. Is it okay for me to feel this way? am I doing something wrong by not being unattracted to my own race. Does anyone here have simular feelings as me? What is everyone's oppinion?



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 Posted: Monday February 23rd, 2004 10:42

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U no wat, really and truly , ppl who have something against darker sj#kinned males or females must have an issue with themself. My lil sistah is dark skineed and she is beautiful. No-one can cum tell me that becos shes a couple of shades darker that she aint pretty.

I Know alot of guys who say they want a lite skinned gyal, and that their preference, but personally its all about the darker chics, they are more down to earth, dont live in the skies. Not generalising, but the majority of the lite skinned females i no, think that be-cos they r lite, they're automatically attractive. Sorry love, dont go like dat.

Anyways, i've said much of wat i want to say, if ur dark skinned, dont let no-1 put u down cos at the end of the day Black is Beauty

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 Posted: Monday February 23rd, 2004 17:17

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Naoki wrote: I was wondering if anyone here has simular feelings as me, and what were their oppinions regarding my question. My question is:

 Do you find black woman unattractive? Do you tend find females of other races more attractive? Since I was a little kid I've always found females of other racis more attractive than black females. African American females I never find attractive. is that wrong? is it okay and normal that I find other woman than black woman attractive? I am half black and white. My father is white and my mother African American. My dad really likes black woman even really dark skinned ones but I do not. I tend to be attracted towards girls that are cute with gold brown straight hair, white skin, thin lips, and cute straight pointy noses. Is it okay for me to feel this way? am I doing something wrong by not being unattracted to my own race. Does anyone here have simular feelings as me? What is everyone's oppinion?


^^^^ i am the same in the sense that im white and im only attracted to black and mixed race girls (all shades of black i dont want to hear that crap from peeps sayin i bet he prefers light skinned girls)im not attracted to white girls at all and i cant c myself ever being with a white girl EVER i dont hate white girls in case ur thinkin that im jus not attracted to them and no its not wrong for u to like other races sexually u like what u like thats what makes U U lol



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 Posted: Wednesday February 25th, 2004 21:53

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Its up 2 u who ur attracted 2. If your not attracted 2 black women/girls den there nothing wrong with dat because its ur preference.


 

 

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 Posted: Sunday April 11th, 2004 12:48

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sorry yeah is rude what u just said caus im not blink but true black is beauty.:P

I think that you are out of order because you can't change the colour of your skin. So you have to live with it. It don't matter what shade of black you are. Black is Black. 



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 Posted: Thursday April 22nd, 2004 15:55

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Naoki wrote: I was wondering if anyone here has simular feelings as me, and what were their oppinions regarding my question. My question is:

 Do you find black woman unattractive? Do you tend find females of other races more attractive? Since I was a little kid I've always found females of other racis more attractive than black females. African American females I never find attractive. is that wrong? is it okay and normal that I find other woman than black woman attractive? I am half black and white. My father is white and my mother African American. My dad really likes black woman even really dark skinned ones but I do not. I tend to be attracted towards girls that are cute with gold brown straight hair, white skin, thin lips, and cute straight pointy noses. Is it okay for me to feel this way? am I doing something wrong by not being unattracted to my own race. Does anyone here have simular feelings as me? What is everyone's oppinion?


I thought i'd reply to you my friend and point out a couple of tings to you.

First of all you are not wrong to feel that way and here is y.

think about it you have been brainwashed from childhood to think that the description you have given is more attractive than those with menalin. between you and me i bet you dont even like the reflection you see in the mirror. i bet you wish you were a bit lighter etc (am I lying?)

secondly your racially confused mother has gone and got herself mixed up with your father making your confusion go even deeper but even worse has obviously neglected to educate you about what it is to be a beautiful menelated human being.

i could go on but i dont want my wisdom to fall on deaf ears so ill stop. However if i have touched a nerve and you want to know how to love yuorself again reply and i shall give you the education you have obviously been lackingblkscholar

i will pray for you in the meantime. peace and love



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 Posted: Thursday April 22nd, 2004 16:22

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dis Naoki dudes mixed race neway what does it matter if he likes black women or not if he likes white chix more: wateva floats ur boat mate dnt beat urself up about it i kno blak manz like that swear they like blak women just as much like they feel they have to prove satn to ppl but they alwys go for white women in the end deep dwn they know the dilly... dis is probly a stupid ting to say but ur mother is black you came from a white man neway u wher destined to be white no matter what now ur neither fully black or white i'd rather not hav2 deal wiv the same confusion... Peace



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 Posted: Monday May 3rd, 2004 00:56

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I am 15 years old and I have noticed a color line in the music videos I watch. I am Black, English, and Native American , with a medium pecan skin tone. The "video hoes" in theses videos are mostly warm brown to dark skinned women whereas the video vixens or the video leading ladies are light skinned. I think this is crazy:shock:!!!! Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that lightskinned girls shouldn't  be in music videos. I'm saying that no woman, black, white, purple, green, or red should be portrayed as a hoe in a video and that it is dead wrong for only dark skinned girls to be portryed as them!!! Don't only have the dark skinned girls as the jiggly booty dancers and the light skinned girls as the golden goddess! And as a girl girl of mixed background...I think that all people should embrace all their nationalities.clp) And as a black american, I think that we should stick together and stop beefin with each other because of somethin as stupid as skin complexion!!!!:P

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 Posted: Wednesday May 5th, 2004 11:29

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say what you want but its time for the chocolate people to come to the foray and be recognised as the sexy people that we are!

 

at the end of the day, like the carribean lady said, we're all beautiful!!!



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 Posted: Wednesday May 5th, 2004 17:42

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i think this topic has been done 2 death. I am neither chocolate skin nor light skinned..i am smak bang in da middle. but what im sayin is... i think darker skinned ppl hav a complex n light skinned ppl think their heavii..generalised. why is this such an issue. the more we talk bout it and acknowledge this effects us, the more we will be divided. We all black at da end of da day.

btw dark skinned brehs are BUFF!



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 Posted: Thursday May 6th, 2004 20:27

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i am neither dark or lite i no ppl of allllllllllllllllll shades....but my personal preference is dark skin boys cos dey jus have sme sorta mistique 2 dem!!!



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 Posted: Saturday May 15th, 2004 08:32

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banana.gifwell i love off my dark bres and so do bare of my girls, light skin bres can be buff but most of them look like sweet bois and i like a buff rough kind of bre ugetme. but still i think all dis blick sh*t is rubbish we should be proud that we are so unique not all the same shade. i'm light skin myself so i don't have that problem but i wanna big up all those buff dark bres and alll my proud black and beautiful sisters ;) 



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 Posted: Saturday May 15th, 2004 09:49

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Bwoy, as black peeps light/red, medium, dark or really dark, just be happy dat you is here..No matter what be positive & focus b'ca not every1 is want'n fe like you..

I'm dark & I rememba bak in da days of school how the darker 1s would get teased etc: I can admitt I did hav/get a complex but as you get older & you see thing differently it not as bad as you 1st thought..

I just love b'n black (tanks b 2 d laard)..We looks good man dont 4get, jus respeck..Nice1



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