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 Posted: Wednesday June 1st, 2005 16:23

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why is it dat im seeing 13 year old girls with 17 year old mans?Aren't they just being used for sex?My close freind (who's 13)had sex wit a 17yr old boy and now she is  seein some bad bruck boy whos 16.Wat is goin on wit you mans out dere? plz tell me wat draws you to younger gals



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 Posted: Wednesday June 1st, 2005 18:34

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i no why 16 yr old girls like older manz...... dats cuz 16 yr old boyz are immature

but i dunno wots wrong wit da little thirteen yr old girls for realz tho....... dey sudnt even be thinkin bout manz let alone sex!......

u cnt always blame the manz dem for goin wit 13yr old girls cah alot of dem do lie to da manz dem...... i memba wen i was 13 i use to tell manz i was 15/16..... so i cnt really criticise dem can i.......

but i neva slept wit any olda manz...... and i am nearly 17 now and still a virginbanana.gif



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 Posted: Wednesday June 1st, 2005 21:11

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I think the more important question is why would a man want to go out with a pre-pubescent slut

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 Posted: Friday June 3rd, 2005 00:07

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I'll give you a clue Child, he isn't looking for a deep and meaningful relationship... blkthumbsdown



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 Posted: Saturday June 4th, 2005 09:53

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sexychick from da endz wrote: why is it dat im seeing 13 year old girls with 17 year old mans?Aren't they just being used for sex?My close freind (who's 13)had sex wit a 17yr old boy and now she is  seein some bad bruck boy whos 16.Wat is goin on wit you mans out dere? plz tell me wat draws you to younger gals

well....wen i was 13 i was neva thinkin about sex maybe talkin about but i can assure u dat i wasnt thinkin about actualli doin it and these dais children coz at 13 ure still a child all they want to do is grow up and act like adults and older teenagers....and you cant realli blame it on the manz actualli 90% of cases  i no girls lie about dere age coz most people look older than thier age, so its confusin. and u cant say dat manz just want to have sex wit dem coz dere r sum sweet bois out dere dat just wanna treat a gyal rite dere r a few but they're dere!

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 Posted: Saturday June 4th, 2005 19:35

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Just a hunch but it might be something to do with age.



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 Posted: Saturday June 4th, 2005 20:39

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Dutty b**ch...! 13 n sexin har body. What kinda relationship and sexual needs does a 13 yr old need to the point that there sexin wit 17 yr old mans..?



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 Posted: Monday June 6th, 2005 11:06

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Stop saying 'mans' its 'men' don't even say its bloody quicker, thats just being a silly twat



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 Posted: Monday June 6th, 2005 15:13

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I know why younger girls wanna, cuz it makes them seem more 'grown up'. Da 17 your old boys reason is another ting especially if dey know tha age ov tha gurl, n still sexin her .

Tru say if i was 17 i wuddnt get with n e boy younger dan me!



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 Posted: Monday June 6th, 2005 15:53

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@ childofbloom

Stop saying 'mans' its 'men' don't even say its bloody quicker, thats just being a silly twat

why shud we stop sayin manzzzzzzzzzzzz? its how us youths chat init......

we say manzzzzzzzzzz.................. you say "men"



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 Posted: Tuesday June 7th, 2005 12:04

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I'm 17 and I say men, grow up



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 Posted: Tuesday June 7th, 2005 15:16

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Who cares manz or man or men, its just slang init.

Anywayz some gurls like older men because they think boys their own age are immature, well thats what ive heard.



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 Posted: Tuesday June 7th, 2005 15:21

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I FINK DAT U HAV SOME SERIOUS ISSUES DAT U NEED TO RESOLVE WIT URSELF.UNTIL U DO DAT CN U PLZ STOP CUSSING EVERY1 INCLUDING MYSELF AND IF U DN'T LIKE DA WAY US CHICKS AND MANS TALK DEN DN'T POST TINGS ONTO THE FORUM AND U WN'T HAV 2 PUT UP WIT OUR BAD ENGLISH.THANKU FRM SEXY CHICK FROM DA ENDZsh1

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 Posted: Tuesday June 7th, 2005 15:46

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I dont have any issues, you may do though, thinking capital letters make any difference to what you're saying. I can put up with it, but it doesn't mean I can't question it. So yeah, basically, I'll stay, and carry on 'cussing' everyone who deserves it.



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 Posted: Tuesday June 7th, 2005 18:25

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listen yeh i dnt want any beef ting on dis site. if u say manz, den it only meanz dat ur puttin yor wordz in short, ya get me liek, deres nt ne point n speakin real enlish coz dat is just long get me like? u knw wat, im cuttin i cnt take dis presue on dis site, im goin yea, peace!, BIG UP ALL DE MAN DEM STILL YA REPPEN IT LARGE. BRAAAAAAAAAP



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Im sorry any girl at da age of 13 dats havin sex wiv older men is dirty, and too damn fast. having sex period is at dat age is no. 1 not even leagal, and no.2 is disgusting. They probably havent even started going thru puberty. its nasty. and the men who are doing it are nasty, or if its the case that the girls have lied bout their age the mans a fool not 2 b able to clock that this girl wiv a childs body is young!



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 Posted: Saturday June 11th, 2005 17:02

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Girls like older males because most girls are more mature then males
But as far as the 13 yr old messing wit a 17 yr dats not good
dude just wants to hit it
think about it , why would a male mess wit a young, not fully developed, immature girl when a he can get a girl thats more mature both phisically and mentally



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 Posted: Friday June 17th, 2005 17:59

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You can blame this whole young girl older men stuff on BET, MTV, BET UNCUT, MTV AFTER HOURS, all that stuff.

All you see in videos is women wearing a pair of shoes and that's about it. How can you not expect a girl 11, 12, 13, 14-15 years old to be influenced by all those video girls shaking and showing their goods.

I mean don't get me wrong, I'm a grown man so I ain't got no problem with it. But if a young female mind constantly sees these videos and then hears them all day on the radio, while they're driving with friends or walking down the street, they're naturally going to want to represent what they see in the video. That means they know the fellas like the thongs, alter tops, cut off T-shirts with no bra, the super short shorts and skirts, skirts with no panties, etc. They are drawn to what's being fed into their minds.

Prime example. I'm sitting at a stop-light yesterday and I notice that there's a suburban that's stopped almost in the middle of the street when it should be going through the green light. As I look I see that there are 3 fellas in the truck talking out the window to someone. Sure enough it's a young girl. She couldn't be no more than 13-14 years old. So, what's the big deal about this girl that makes a truck stop in the middle of the road to holla at her? She's wearing a tight-fitting mid-drift shirt obviously with no bra (she was developed for a young lady), and a super short jean skirt. The skirt was so short that you could tell she either had on a thong or no panties. The first thing I thought was "damn, her mother let her dress like that?". But then I realized that her mother probably dresses the same way.

So now you have girls realizing that the less close you wear, the more attention you'll get from the boys driving cars with the 22 inch rims on it.

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 Posted: Tuesday June 21st, 2005 16:17

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I am a 14 (just turned) year old girl and personally I do find myself attracted to older boys. However it isn't anything to do with the fact that it'll make me look better or i'm trying to grow before my time it is just a preference. As I am one of the youngest in my family and in my area i'm naturally surrounded by older people (boys in particular) and feel I can connect with them better however i do know where to draw the line (which is 16 by da way) although it is hard because I do look older than what I am and even though I am truthful about my age I am still approached by people much older than me.I don't think it is fair to call young girls  who sleep with way older boys nasty as at the end of the day it isn't as black and white as that. (by da way i'm a virgin)niceone.gif



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Yeah, 14 and 16 - that's a good age gap. I think age matters less once you reach 16, but it's still an issue until your 18. A boy who's 17 should no better than to be with a girl who's 13. I think that's probably rare anyway. Girls will always go out with older men, they're more appealing and more experienced; men will often go out with younger women because they may feel they have more control over them. Infact a lot of my friends (who are 15) have been out with guys who're 20+, why are these men interested in such young girls? Although I personally think age doesn't matter once you're 16, as long as both people are over 16.



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well boi im 13 and i prefer mandem in my age group because we wud hav more in common and shud be on da same level of maturity tho i hav alot of friends dat like da  olders but dey wudnt neccessarily go 4 da olders it's da olders dat go 4 dem but y

 



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Exactly - I doubt it's the girls initiating the contact. The men have more to answer for. If an attractive older man is interested, then obviously you'll feel flattered and probably give them more time of day than someone your own age. It's a status thing, an older guy is seen as "better". Proves a girl's attractiveness in a certain way? Even in schools, the guys always seem to be with a girl in the year below, because the girls in their own year just aren't interested.



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 Posted: Sunday June 26th, 2005 22:46

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could dat be bacause the mandem are 2 imature 4 der age or cud it be dat sum girls fink dey are 2 grown, but i fink it might jus be dat da olda mans no dat dey can get a younger chick easily and dey would be naive.

da topic shud be 

y do olda mans go 4 younger girls?

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Exactly because the men should no better. And the excuse of "she told me she was 18" etc doesn't cut it, because a grown man can tell a woman from a girl.



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 Posted: Monday June 27th, 2005 01:07

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cause older men are mature..

and dont try go out their way to try and sound cool...
by sayin things like ..."mans"

;)

mm im just playin dont mind mesmoking-devil

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 Posted: Monday June 27th, 2005 01:45

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More than likely they are being used for sex. While younger girls may feel more desired by being with the older man, the man think that he can manipulate their younger girl into something she shouldn't do. If there are younger girls dating younger  men around the age that you mention they should leave'em alone. For one thing it's statutory rape.



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 Posted: Monday June 27th, 2005 02:12

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