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Posted: Thursday December 18th, 2003 02:32 |
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well would u boyz go out with a gal who asked u out.does dis tell u dat she is confident or wat. girls woud u ever ask a boy out. if no boy is asking a girl out she wants 2 ask a boy out is it ok ? *confused*
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Posted: Thursday January 8th, 2004 10:52 |
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| i would defo go wid a gyal who asked me out.
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Posted: Thursday January 8th, 2004 16:47 |
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I WOULD DEFINATELY AS MANZ OUT DUN IT B4 AND IT AINT DAT SCARY...IF U LIKE DA BOY DEN Y NOT ASK HIM OUT IF HE AINT MAKIN NO MOVES...BUT WOT I DONT LIKE IS THE FEELIN DAT I COULD GET REJECTED IT AINT HAPPENED BUT WHEN U DO DESE TINGS THAT IS A LWAYS A POSSIBILITY SO I THINK ITS DEFINATELY O.K
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Posted: Friday January 9th, 2004 02:55 |
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| no need for any1 to be scared, only the rejection.
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Posted: Sunday January 11th, 2004 06:15 |
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well i have asked a couple of boys out coz they were proper buff and i really liked them. i did not get rejected bcoz i knew they like me aswell and that gave me a lot of confidence.
wen i see a nice guy and i get really attracted to him, i just approach and talk to him and its not a chat up line ting!!!
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Posted: Sunday January 11th, 2004 09:24 |
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Posted: Sunday January 11th, 2004 21:38 |
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dnt fink itz propa,cuz wen u argue d bwoi wud av d rite 2 say"well u askd me out!"
dat kind of ting
kno sum bwoiz dat say doe dey wnt d gal 2 ask dem out,nd it may b cute,dey also lata realise it seemd cheap!
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Posted: Monday January 12th, 2004 00:15 |
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Yeah, I asked out guys plenty times and Its not scary Cus if U dont get rejected there's no Problem
If U do then there's plenty more
A lot of My Ex's told me they were intimidated so thats why they didnt approach me. So U may aswell go for it if U like dem, otherwise U'll keep wondering 'What If . . . . ? '
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Posted: Monday January 12th, 2004 03:17 |
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Yeah, this is a valid point that i've often wondered bout, and always fought, "how cum bres are so confident and feel no way to approach any chick, but when it cums to us gyals, we get all gigglish and nervous?" I suppose Iv'e always felt a bit intimidated bout askin out a bre coz i know if they think the chick is ugly they'll blatently start cussin and laugh in der face in front of all his bredrins. I aint ever asked out a bre, but in this day n age, things are definately changin, so i might consider it sumtime.
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Posted: Thursday January 15th, 2004 02:46 |
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| girls find it hard to talk t boys because they would expect them to call them over and and make them answer the question.
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Posted: Thursday January 15th, 2004 03:55 |
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Personally, I think its about time that girls step up to the plate and start approaching guys. Many females wanna call themselves Independant Women, that's not just having a job, and buying your own clothes, it means taking charge of your life including your relationships. I am definately and Independant women, who has asked many guys out. If he's on top of his game, show the brother some love.
For those men who are intimidated are just missing out on a strong woman. My man was surprised when I approached him in the club, but he responded. If girls are scared of being dismissed by a guy, then finally it might stop girls from dissing guys when they approach no matter, how butters they are. We need to start respecting each other.
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Posted: Thursday January 15th, 2004 04:15 |
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how old  are u
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Posted: Sunday January 18th, 2004 21:23 |
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| If the Gal was buff i would yes
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Posted: Sunday January 18th, 2004 22:43 |
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| 2 ladyshyness 15
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Posted: Thursday October 7th, 2004 19:49 |
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im 222 shy to ever ask out a breh an + i think its embarrassin coz they will always feel betta than u coz u asked them out innit
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Posted: Friday October 8th, 2004 05:44 |
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Trigger99 wrote: If the Gal was buff i would yes
Thats kinda obvious.
I think Sisters should ask men out BUT Ladies read the signs 1st.Even if you get rejected dont worry carz a plenty plenty more men out there.
oh yeh make sure you look proper stoosh/classy when you ask them out.
Dont dress lik a ho!!!!! you will just get the wrong attention and you might get rejected in a bad way(ka-blam!)
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Posted: Friday October 8th, 2004 05:45 |
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| Whats your idea of a so called buff girl?
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Posted: Saturday November 20th, 2004 12:58 |
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I aint a shy gyal but i cud neva ask ask a man out it'll b IMBARASIN as if im desprate or sumthin
if dey dont move2 me den dey obviosly aint feelin me init
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Posted: Saturday November 20th, 2004 13:17 |
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| Good then, yes and when your 15 plz stick to your age group , dont ask no 24 yr old broda out.if he accepts then he's a loser.
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Posted: Sunday November 28th, 2004 15:31 |
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Girls asking boys out is a good thing. For example if the guy felt the girl was way out of his league but really liked her and she liked him as well(although he didn't know she liked him), the girl could just ask the guy out.
Oh and the girls that say they would feel embarassed if they got rejected, well thats the same fear guys have to deal with so its no excuse. And also saying that the guy might think you are desperate, that is no excuse at all, as long as you're not being slutty, then there's really nothing wrong with asking him out.
Personally I think a girl is less likely to be rejected by a guy(unless the guy thinks he's too good-looking and doesn't find you attractive).
So go for it girls!
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Posted: Saturday December 25th, 2004 11:00 |
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hi i just wanna talk to u . My e-mail is :
MonmoN_33@hotmail.com
Gargeera@yahoo.com
hope to talk to u
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Posted: Saturday December 25th, 2004 12:08 |
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well i have asked a couple of boys out coz they were proper buff and i really liked them. i did not get rejected bcoz i knew they like me aswell and that gave me a lot of confidence.
wen i see a nice guy and i get really attracted to him, i just approach and talk to him and its not a chat up line ting
I RESPECT DAT U DONT SEE BARE GASL DO DAT NOWADASY DA GASL EXPECT DA BOYZ 2 CUM UP AND CHAT 2 DEM BUT DEN AGAIN U'LL ONLY GO 4 A BLACK BOY OT DA REST OF DA RACES VOZ OF DAT I DERESPECT DAT
AND DERES ODER REASONS I WILL DERESPECT U
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Posted: Saturday December 25th, 2004 12:16 |
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EYI BUFFLESS U TINK ITS GONA BE IMBARASSING IF U ASK OUT A BOY DA BOYS GONA TINK UR DESPARATE
IF U TINK DAT DEN ITS DA SAME 4 BOYZ DEY HAV TO GO THROUGH DA SAMETING
DONT MAKE LONDON NE sh*tTER DAN IT IZ WERE DA MOTHERf**k IZ EQUAL OPPORTUNITY GONE
EVERYONE WHETHERE HES A BOY OR GAL SHOUDL GET TREATED EQUALY
IN LONDON NOWADASY MEN R GETTIN TREATED LIKE sh*t WHILE WIMEN GET REATED LIKE GODS DATS Y LONDONS IZ BECOMIN DA sh*tTEST PLACE EVA BARE BRESH TOUCH UP GASL ASS WHO DEY DONT KNOW AND IF IT CARRIES ON GASL R GONA BE RAPED BARE TIMEZ SO CHANGE UE WASY NOW B4 EVERY MAN HERE FINDS OUT DA TRUTH ABOUT WOTS GOIN ON IN LONDON
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Posted: Thursday December 30th, 2004 23:16 |
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its definitly ight for a girl 2 ask a dude out...just as long as their not too agressive iss all good...it all depends on tha people and intent tho
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Posted: Thursday December 30th, 2004 23:46 |
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@The Ladies
Well.............I thought this millenium is about 'Independent Woman' and now the nineties are gone.
There is nothing wrong with chicks asking a guy out these days.
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Posted: Wednesday January 5th, 2005 18:14 |
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ladi flex wrote: well would u boyz go out with a gal who asked u out.does dis tell u dat she is confident or wat. girls woud u ever ask a boy out. if no boy is asking a girl out she wants 2 ask a boy out is it ok ? *confused*
It tells me she confident and when it come to getting served she wont be too scared to do that.i hate girls that when you approach em give you the bad vibes then when yu move to the next one they hate you.Get your act right girl and work with me.Besides if they dont ask me out the usually coordinate with me.I do have the ability to ask a girl out but when they do it to you i feel wanted.
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Posted: Tuesday January 18th, 2005 18:02 |
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| Never. I just couldn't, I'll approach a guy and ting but when it comes to asking him out, no. I expect a guy to ask for my number, call me first, ask me out etc. Maybe as I get older I'll change, but right now I like it this way.
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Posted: Wednesday January 19th, 2005 18:09 |
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Nigerian Princess wrote: Yeah, I asked out guys plenty times and Its not scary Cus if U dont get rejected there's no Problem
If U do then there's plenty more
exactly. guys are a lot more simple to get than girls. most of the time the guy is gonna be thrilled to have a girl all up on him. I've never refused a girl who asked me out (within reason ;p)
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