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Y R MORE PPL HAVIN SEX AT A YUNG AGE ??
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 Posted: Friday March 25th, 2005 16:29

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y is it more yung 1's seem 2 be havin sex at such a yung age ?

yung's 1 = 12+

 

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 Posted: Friday March 25th, 2005 18:08

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Some people might say its stupid but there nothing for children to do anymore so they seek adventurous things to do. well according to my mums friend! shes a child psychologist



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 Posted: Friday March 25th, 2005 23:18

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In the eyes of the young......To be cool you have to be fashionable

 

The fashion for young girls is looking grown and wearing clothes grown females be wearing and only grown females should be wearing ( high heels, low cut tops, short skirts, tight clothes, hords of makeup) ie beyonce, j lo, destinys child, ashanti, cristina millian, briteny spears and christeana aguilera......

and what is the proof you are cool and you have peaked the hight of fashionable? attracting a buff boy with your looks and your assets, in the young girls world if your a virgin ( god forbid) you cannot attract a man, your not good looking and fahionable so you have failed to be part of the fashion trend that is youth culture today. so virgin = something wrong with you

People when i was young 14 ish would try and adtract a boy and loose their virginity just to get rid of it so they would be cool and accepted, one night stands and mess its a sad shame :(

 

media+ social and peer pressure, add a smidge of nastyness from peers and hormones =young having sex



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 Posted: Sunday March 27th, 2005 18:40

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banana.gifu kool pplz?

da yungas are havin sex at such a yung age coz dey tink afta dat dey r grown they know evryting they tink it's tops etc.but i dnt coz dats how u gonna get hurt, used and abused at a yung age and ha all types of sh*t like STIs and STDs. dem yungas need 2 b educated!!!! im a yunga too but i got ma hed screwed on properly!!!



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 Posted: Thursday March 31st, 2005 03:22

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ummmm, well I think

 

Everybody wants to be grown b4 their time; they friends doing it (usually older friends). From what they see & hear on the TV (music videos, etc.)

Also their hormones start acting up at earlier ages now adays ( i think its the food). If you dont notice each year younger girl 11,12,13+ are having large breast, big in the body, looking older, so to fit the profile they keep dem selfs busy by experimenting sex, which they should be experimenting dem books & sh*t.

 

All i really could say to the under 18's that are sexually active...is be safe and know what you doing. you dont wanna catch any diseases or get pregnant



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 Posted: Thursday March 31st, 2005 19:16

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Y are Chuldren Complled To Typ Lik Dis?



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 Posted: Thursday March 31st, 2005 19:41

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Also their hormones start acting up at earlier ages now adays ( i think its the food). If you dont notice each year younger girl 11,12,13+ are having large breast, big in the body, looking older, so to fit the profile they keep dem selfs busy by experimenting sex, which they should be experimenting dem books & sh*t.


Do you think that lowering the age of consent is the answer, personally I think it’ll just open the door for more exploitation of children. These girls may have women’s bodies/clothes but they still have children’s minds. Personally I’ve never felt pressured some of my friends who lost their V (they were all 16), the impression I always get is it’s all a hype (the first time that is). I don’t think we can use the excuse of ‘they have nothing to do’ anymore there are plenty of places and things they can do either for fun or to better themselves. To me it’s just another generation of girls growing up conditioned to be whores.

 




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 Posted: Saturday April 2nd, 2005 22:36

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I think a lot of young children are having sex for so many different reasons

Some might want some love and attention because they don't get the affection they need from home so they turn to people of the opposite sex in the wrong way, this might apply too young girls especially who might have a bad relationship with their father, or no relationship with them at all

Another reason is the drinking...So many youngsters are drinking alcohol and just getting totally drunk and not having control of themselves, or even if they do know what their doing they use the drink as an excuse because they just want to see whats its like

A lot of young girls are now starting to go out with Older boys, and older boys like this because they know they can take advantage because they gurl will wana keep hold of him so she will do anything he suggests just so she can show him off to her friends and all that

Basically, the parents are teaching these children abour self-respect. A lot of young children have a low self-esteem and do ridiculous things so help solve their problems but it just makes it worse and when u get into a pattern, its hard to stop

I juss wana tell all the young girls (cus I am one myself) ....RESPECT YOURSELF! its sexy. Be confident and love your self. Because if you don't love yourself, how is anybody else supposed to? And if u don't respect yourself how is any other guy supposed to? These guys might tell you what you wana hear, tryna sweet talk you, but please... That guy is also telling 3 or 4 other girls



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 Posted: Monday April 4th, 2005 22:03

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:cool:Wahmm yeh mi agree wid u still nUfF_LuV_n_ReSpEcT, but sum of deez ytues dem nuh understand dem tink dat dem downstairs can teach dem an not dere books. when dem av pitnee (Baby) itll all change unless dem ah plan family. Mi is ov age mi over 17 i used my brain b4 mi did tek bwoi. Anyway sum gyals let sum Bwois tun dem fool but wen dem av pitnee,an sum ov dem baby farda's breed dem up an gwan bout dem business dem start cuss an barl.

niceone.gifSUM GYAL'S AN BWOI'S NEED FI USE DEM BRAIN. !!



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 Posted: Tuesday April 5th, 2005 07:40

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genie2 wrote: y is it more yung 1's seem 2 be havin sex at such a yung age ?

yung's 1 = 12+

 

???????????


DA PICKNEY DEM TOO DYAM FARSE!

Plus we are in a society when children want to grow up before their time



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 Posted: Friday June 17th, 2005 22:41

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kids are being exposed to more things at an earlier age



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 Posted: Saturday June 18th, 2005 17:37

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Becoz its expected .

I bin out wiv 3 year 8 girls at skool ( all white ) and every1 of them was expectin for me to ask for sex.

Specially white girls with black lads because they think all blacks are like dat anyways.

And I aint complaining.

Jus make sure you dont wear a condom coz we need more black babies . LOL 



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 Posted: Sunday June 19th, 2005 15:13

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^^^^^^^^^^Not serious^^^^^^^^^^

n i hope u catch nuff std's as well



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 Posted: Friday July 8th, 2005 17:37

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i think that young girls are having sex cos they wanna be popular so dat young guys cud come up to them they do dis to seek attention and make thereself feel worthly. and also cos dey see there friend having sex so they wanna expreince new things.



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i think that young girls are having sex cos they wanna be popular so dat young guys cud come up to them they do dis to seek attention and make thereself feel worthly. and also cos dey see there friend having sex so they wanna expreince new things.



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i think that young girls are having sex cos they wanna be popular so dat young guys cud come up to them they do dis to seek attention and make thereself feel worthly. and also cos dey see there friend having sex so they wanna expreince new things.



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 Posted: Saturday July 9th, 2005 21:21

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there's a lot of sh*t happening damn.  i blame a lotta things like food we all know most foods nowadays contains a lot of things that change peoples hormones , music also look at the videos . they are promoting sex sex sex



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because of things young people are exposed to at a young age so, they wanna try the things they see.

plus because of the bigger age gaps in relationships now. For example younger girls going out with older guys. So because the guys are  older they expect a lot more..

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 Posted: Thursday August 4th, 2005 22:16

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media+ social and peer pressure, add a smidge of nastyness from peers and hormones =young having sex



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@ Just_Me lol funny

by the way some1 what do those mana things mean??

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I think it's partly curiosity...cuz so many teens nowadays r chattin bout it in skool...tellin others how it was etc etc (an i'm talkin year 8's here), Cuz tha school I went, it was children as young as 13 talkin about sex an were so fascinated by it. Two two's they're all tryin it. Thinkin it will make dem grown, an make dem *big*..it's sad that ppl so young r bein led astray by peer pressure. When ppl this young talk about it, they don't talk about the negatives attached to it as much as the positives, so some people believe that hardly anythin can go wrong if they "try" it for fun, or feel like they have nothing to lose (xcept their virginity), they're not being fed enough information about both sides to havin sex, cause the people tellin dem tings don't know much more than dem



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i agree i fink its bad they do it so young

mainly cos peer pressure, or influence frm music vidz

my cuzin is in year 9, one of her friends has alredi had an abortion twice.. iv met dis gal n she dnt seem al dat bad but she's just bin ovainfluencd by stuff around her get me

n it always seems 2 b olda brers that are involved

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Well being a virgin in your teenage years is like a crime so I guess most girls want to lose it at quick as possible to tell their friends.



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 Posted: Tuesday August 23rd, 2005 22:53

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 alot of girls seem to think having sex and all that is 'cool' and they dont want to be the only girl not doing it. i think its alot to do with peer-pressure. they think that it will make them more popular and attractive to boys, bcoz i remember my days in yr10 and onwards, boys used to show more attention to the girls who were having sex and they found this flattering rather than just an attempt from the boys to get some sex from them as well. i think girls are too young to understand the concept behind sex and dont fully understand it.



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Hm, I dunno. I am 15, I had sex 2 months ago. Dunno why. i know its not to show of, cos m not telling everyone around, only ma close friends know it. If people ask my Id say yes, I mean, why lie? You aint neither gon say yes when you havent had any. I did it becus he was my boyfriend, and still is. Ok, I admit, 12 years old kids who be doin it, I think thats just nasty. But when youre 15 years old youre old enough to decide for yoself. If you love the boy, why not? Just do it safe.  



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 Posted: Saturday February 18th, 2006 15:11

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I just found out a girl I know (She's 17) has juss got pregnant, and she was goin out with a YEAR 9 STUDENT - he's like..14?!! He hasn't even done his SAT's yet an he's gunna have to be worryin bout alla this now cause of their moment of DUMBNESS -  neither of them thought it wud b "necessary" to use protection ..FOOLISH

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 Posted: Saturday February 18th, 2006 23:19

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Genie,

 

It looks like you need to worry less about sex and more about learning to spell, type, and use proper grammar.



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