The existence behind a relationship
throughout my personal experiences I have come to a stand still and yet I find myself analysing the means behind what most people find themselves wanting, a relationship.
It’s safe to say that individually we feel that there is apart of us that at some stage or another we find incompleteness?
This alternatively defines loneliness from within, as self love can only conquer for so long and eventually you will need love from others or just that one other person.
So we take the risk in indulging ourselves with the process of meeting someone to fill the void that we feel at this stage inside.
But tell me is this process really worth it?
We find ourselves filling up this incompleteness but along with it come’s complications, as you know life would not be life without the ups and downs if I may say so.
Basically I feel we are unleashing our souls, who we are, our beings to be toiled with, a percentage of the time we end up back where we started, which is back in search for something to fill the void, our loneliness from within.
The only difference this time around is we have more experience of what it is like to have a companion, what it is like to face these complications.
Some of us experience heart ache, losses in so many ways, yet why do we still feel the need to be un - lonely (to be complete)
Some of us feel the need to hold back yet we still required the emptiness within to become whole, does that make sense???? Is it right to want something yet not completely give yourself???
But my question though out all of this analysis is why do we enter relationship knowing we could get hurt and end up back where we started, which is alone…do we go through this process just to still want what has once hurt and caused us pain…or do we feel its human nature to involve ourselves within this process in order to feel sane?
Can we really be alone?
Ask yourself that question can you be alone?
What will it take to fill our emptiness when you get to this stage?
Last edited on Sunday July 18th, 2004 17:37 by female poet
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