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 Posted: Monday April 3rd, 2006 19:17

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How do you define destiny and fate.

I havent got the best definition for it i simply think that they are the same thing but destiny is often protrayed in a postive light whereas fate is not. What do you think it is and do you think you can change it?

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 Posted: Tuesday April 4th, 2006 12:30

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ΒēåűŧĨƒƯĻ ΒןáĊĸ Qüěęŋ¼/A> wrote: How do you define destiny and fate.

I havent got the best definition for it i simply think that they are the same thing but destiny is often protrayed in a postive light whereas fate is not. What do you think it is and do you think you can change it?


 

Destiny, our mind's set path(see, attitudes, beliefs, morals, etc, etc). Unless some force of change is brought upon it, then that set path will be our fate, which can be both positive, or negative.  For example, if one mindset is of the violent type, then similar sort of people will be drawn towards you, for you to experience. aka like attracts like.

Our lifes tend to pan out around based on we think. If you want to change your destiny and fate, then change the way you think. It's pretty much that simple. It wasn't ment to be complicated.

 



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 Posted: Tuesday April 11th, 2006 22:23

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Interesting reply & way to look at things we do, why we are here..@ Peacemaker..



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 Posted: Wednesday April 12th, 2006 00:01

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eskay wrote: why we are here.

"To realize what you are", "where here is", and "what is going on"

Also best to think in terms of "I" and not "we".

 

 



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 Posted: Wednesday April 12th, 2006 15:27

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Fate is my expectations of God.

Destiny is God's expectations of me.



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 Posted: Wednesday April 12th, 2006 15:36

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destiny is the path to your (destination) fate....

there is no escaping fate....



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 Posted: Wednesday April 12th, 2006 16:57

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Peacemaker wrote: eskay wrote: why we are here.

"To realize what you are", "where here is", and "what is going on"

Also best to think in terms of "I" and not "we".

Why should we think in those terms?!

I believe we are all various parts of the same body .. so to me 'I' and 'we' is sometimes sinominous/the same/similar..
 

 



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 Posted: Saturday April 15th, 2006 16:14

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I believe we are all various parts of the same body .. so to me 'I' and 'we' is sometimes sinominous/the same/similar..
 
I like that thinking. Ethiopian Oneness philosophy. Might make a topic about it if i can find the right info.

A religious belief that everything is according to plan is the belief in destiny and fate.



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 Posted: Saturday April 15th, 2006 17:26

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The Sphinx wrote: I believe we are all various parts of the same body .. so to me 'I' and 'we' is sometimes sinominous/the same/similar..
 
I like that thinking. Ethiopian Oneness philosophy. Might make a topic about it if i can find the right info.

A religious belief that everything is according to plan is the belief in destiny and fate.

I definitely believe in ONENESS PHILOSOPHY .. SPHINX..Why do you believe it's a 'religious belief'? and not just YOUR belief perse..

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 Posted: Monday April 17th, 2006 12:29

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Lucas... wrote: destiny is the path to your (destination) fate....

there is no escaping fate....


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Destiny is something  you can change even master, fate is the preordained result should you do nothing.

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 Posted: Monday April 17th, 2006 12:48

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no you cannot change fate...

because fate is an unknown quantity... excluding the ultimate fate which is death...



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 Posted: Monday April 17th, 2006 12:55

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I agree with all of the above, especially Lucas's first definiton, hotep can you explain why you think fate is your expectation of God?  



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 Posted: Monday April 17th, 2006 15:45

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Lucas... wrote: no you cannot change fate...

because fate is an unknown quantity... excluding the ultimate fate which is death...

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Ok....  I've already mentioned somethings will be preordained, like death as you pointed out..... obviously.  Our life cycle is 144yrs should you be able to keep the perfect balance from the word go, but this isn't realistic, so the age of 144 gradually comes lower and lower with differant choices/living conditions, everything in between is not  preordained and you can change this.

Someone walks out in the middle of the road and gets run over, life is cut short and that part of ultimate fate would occur, but thats not nessesarily the final roll of dice and entirely another topic altogether, had they not walked out or jinked to the left or right.......they would have changed this outcome.




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 Posted: Monday April 17th, 2006 16:58

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who made up that figure 144??

... someone's can dictate they will die at age 13...
nothing can change that regardless of which path is taken.. because all ajoining path's will lead back to the same fate .. death at 13...

thats why we know our ultimate fate.... but we dont know the time of our ultimate fate...
because that time is an unknown quantity to us...
therefore u cant say.... i was meant to die at 26 but i did this or that... and that altered my time of fate....
no...
because i said that time is unknown...
so..
we all die when fated to die... because we dont know the alternativ.. routes...(if there are any)

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 Posted: Monday April 17th, 2006 17:02

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"In this world nothing is certain but death and taxes" Benjamin Franklin (1706-90)

"There is no fate but that which we make for ourselves"  Sarah Connor (Terminator 2)



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 Posted: Tuesday December 19th, 2006 11:49

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Fate can be controlled by man.

Destiny
can not.

Destiny is controlled by the Creator, etc, oneness...

Most people accept their fate - i.e job, life, rules and ultimately death (negative)
Some fulfill their destiny - positive

To be on the path to fulfilling your destiny, first you must Know Self.

If you do not you are fated.

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Interesting topic.

Daniel77 that was a bad gateway:)



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Huh? This forum has the worst clunkiest software I've ever come across.
Not even my Avatar shows. The Emoticons are stupid.

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Huh? This forum has the worst clunkiest software I've ever come across.
Not even my avatar shows and the Emoticons are stupid.

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