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Posted: Monday May 7th, 2007 12:35 |
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Posted: Monday May 7th, 2007 22:17 |
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could you expand on that
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Posted: Friday May 11th, 2007 21:34 |
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Well I've got this bredrin whose salary is being terrorised by the csa to maintain the lifestyle of his babymother and her new punk but when his son visits he has no manners, can't do maths and can't yet use a knife and fork.
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Posted: Saturday May 19th, 2007 23:34 |
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Incognito wrote: Well I've got this bredrin whose salary is being terrorised by the csa to maintain the lifestyle of his babymother and her new punk but when his son visits he has no manners, can't do maths and can't yet use a knife and fork.
Brother I'm a bit confused. Who is it that doesn't have the manners and can't do maths? The punk or the son? I don't get where the other person raising the child comes in
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Posted: Sunday May 20th, 2007 00:12 |
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well whats stopping the guy teaching his son maths, and how to use a knife and fork, what is that down to the mother aswell. what has he taught his son..
csa terrorising his salary to fund her and her punk boyfriend lol,
im sure it does happen, but i think some guys use it as an excuse not to cough up...
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Posted: Sunday May 20th, 2007 14:12 |
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Vicious circle..I'm sure if nuff man thought the children were getting the money they'd cough up
The dad in this case has mnimal access so most time is soaked up in quality time, it's more a case that at least you know who your dad is as opposed to the dad raising them. Everything he may try to pass on is simply forgotten by the time the children go back 'home' and him seeing them again.
Babymother looks kriss though
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Posted: Tuesday May 22nd, 2007 13:28 |
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Its a double edged sword.
I am about to get the csa into my bf wages, he can see his son when he likes just chooses not too most of the time, and doesn't contribute anything towards his upbringing unless its to buy the better version of something already bought for him.
If his common sense can't tell him when and how much money to give his child i'll let the CSA do that for him.
.....And if i use a portion of whatever i get it to finance my lifestlye so be it, i've been bringing up my child on my own from day one, payback is a MF!
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Posted: Tuesday May 22nd, 2007 16:02 |
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Melissa wrote: Its a double edged sword.
I am about to get the csa into my bf wages, he can see his son when he likes just chooses not too most of the time, and doesn't contribute anything towards his upbringing unless its to buy the better version of something already bought for him.
If his common sense can't tell him when and how much money to give his child i'll let the CSA do that for him.
.....And if i use a portion of whatever i get it to finance my lifestlye so be it, i've been bringing up my child on my own from day one, payback is a MF!
Good luck with your claim!!!!
Seriously though, my daughter doesn't want to see my ex, and he sees his son when it suits him, although there have been times when my son has refused to go.
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