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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:15 |
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Arrest after MySpace house party
The house is being professionally cleaned
A 17-year-old girl has been arrested on suspicion of criminal damage in connection with a house party which left a family home wrecked.
About 200 youngsters damaged Alan and Elaine Bell's home after the party was advertised on the website MySpace.
Guests are alleged to have urinated on a wedding dress and stolen jewellery from the house near Chester-le-Street, County Durham on Easter Monday.
Durham Police said the girl had been questioned and released on police bail.
'Horrible memories'
Mr and Mrs Bell returned on Tuesday morning to find a trail of destruction at their £230,000 house in Chipchase Court. Mrs Bell, 48, said the couple may have to move out of the house.
She said: "It's absolutely unbelievable. It was a house I'd left at 10am on Monday morning in an immaculate state. "It's like a house rape - every single room's trashed. Every carpet is burned, they've been stamping out cigarettes on them.
"They urinated in the wardrobes, pulled my clothes out of the wardrobes and stubbed cigarettes out on them. The beds are burnt. There's food and messages all over the walls.
"At this point in time I might not be able to live in the house again - I might have to move because there are so many horrible memories now."
A Durham Police spokesman said some people had travelled hundreds of miles to be at the party.
Using this story as a vehicle to spark discussion, if this was your child could you ever forgive her actions? Speaking personally I think it take a lot not to permenantly disown her forever.....
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:20 |
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Come now, it ended in tragedy in this case but how many of us have thrown parties when our parents were away? It's almost expected!
Only thing here seems to be the silly girls put in online and had people THEY DON'T KNOW in their house... Never done that. Never seen that done! Very stupid.
And even in this case K. It's a terrible mistake and they must punish severly but unforgiveable? I don't think so. Unforgiveable is murder, rape, kiddy fiddling etc etc
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:26 |
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| Watcher...Ok the bit thats not in this report was that she INVITED people to come and WRECK the house to emulate some TV show where the same thing happened.... Sorry but I have to be hand on heart honest I would struggle to forgive this action..especially the bit where people urinate on my wedding garms, nah sah... she is hardly a pickney... If she was say 12,13 or 14 well you could argue niavety but come on....this child is nearly of age...
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:33 |
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Kunjufu wrote: Watcher...Ok the bit thats not in this report was that she INVITED people to come and WRECK the house
This makes no sense. There is more to this story. I'll await further developments.
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:35 |
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i read another report about this, and apparently the girl claims that someone hacked her myspace page and publicised the party (i'd claim that too )
if it were my parents, presuming i would still be alive after the ass whupping, i would be allowed to have all the parties i wanted ... at my bedsit hostel where i would be living after being flung out on my proverbial!
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:38 |
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Watcher: i agree it appears like madeness.. I could only assume that either this child has some issue with the parents and decided to get some payback.... Or she has some serious personality disorder going on...
MB..I don't believe the Hacking bit...because it doesn't explain how they got her address, and the time of the party... and even if that were so..two hundred people turn up at your house do you let them in if no party was gwarning? No I think she is trying to cover her arse...
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:48 |
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the way i read it, the girl was taking advantage of her parents absence (as you do!) and decided to have a party. somehow, someone (probably an ex friend) got hold of the details about it, got into her myspace page and made it public knowledge.
that being said, i'm not sure i would believe that version of events. About to reveal something kinda "personal" here, but it reminds me of the time my sister was caught shop lifting with her friends when she should have been at saturday school. She claimed she hadn;t been stealing and that she was just the look out. i'm assuming the thinking behind it was to save herself from a severer ass whupping than what she otherwise may have received. In later years it occured to me that ALL her friends probably claimed the same thing lol
this being the 21st century, a kid gets in trouble, then can just blame it on their web page being hacked!!
i have to say, if i were a teenager and with my penchant for revenge, i can;t honestly say i wouldn;t do the same to someone i didn;t like lol 
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:51 |
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hmmm...It's always been the case that the house bought for my children to grow up in is theirs to destroy....the fact that it's other people who have come in and destroyed it is a different ball game!
Come on. How many of you have boufgt someone home for a one pop when the other half has been away. At least clean up the evidence afterwards
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 19:56 |
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| dude, that child had 20 g's worth of damage to clean up!!
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 20:02 |
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Come on these people vomited everywhere, urinated in every wardrobe, took out the woman's clothes and destroyed them..... and mash up every single in the house... So it begs the question where was this child when people were wrecking the house? If things got out of control, why not phone the police?
Sorry but the way things played it, reading between the lines it appears that people got license to do what they did....and it looks like my girl was letting i happen... if not would she be forwarding the names of the people who destroyed HER home?
Sorry but for me its not just the act..its the BETRAYAL... As a family you fight together and stand together...not stand with others AGAINST your family...... Call me harsh, but I would tell to ADOPT some new parents...
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 20:06 |
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| well, what can i say her parents should have upgraded her ipod when she damn well asked...
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 20:30 |
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WTF. I'd have to demand she get a bloody ASBO until she left the house for good. No parties/No friends. What a silly girl.
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 20:59 |
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My girl wouldn't DARE....my two boys - ho hum!
I would (probably, after a good arse-licking with a studded belt), forgive, but I'd never, ever forget...
As TW said, compared to kiddy-fiddling/murder etc, ah nah na'ting.
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 23:17 |
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Booy what a thoughtless thing to do! I bet she wasn't expecting that much mayhem. If any of mine did that I would be in shock and very disappointed for a decent while.
I reckon I could forgive eventually but not forget and only after they arrest and release him/her. Hopefully that will be the first shake up. I'd find it hard not to beat them when they did get home then make them get a job to help raise money to fix it up. 17 yep definitely ready for work NOW. Full of vexation is putting it lightly
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Posted: Friday April 13th, 2007 23:35 |
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| Yeah I'd forgive my daughter no problem. As long as no one gets hurt then everyting irie....you can always replace material tings.
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 09:10 |
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| My space has become like a new diary...at least it wasn't ebay. I guess I would forgive my child ( I dont think she did it out of spite but rather ignorance - she just didnt know how many sick people access the net looking for their next victim) I think she master minded this one with her ex-crew. A beating could get out of control even leave the kid crippled so I wouldnt go there; Punishment would start with a severe spring cleaning of the house proper, I would provide all the safety gear and I would be barking like a mad prison warden; I would even cut off the pocket money and get them to find a job. Last edited on Saturday April 14th, 2007 09:19 by Footprints
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 16:48 |
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The child must have had a distinct lack of respect for her parents to have done this, even if it started innocent and got out of control, why didn't she put an end to it herself?
Would I forgive my child?, after i buss my ass to put a roof over the selfish little s*its head? Hell no!
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 17:00 |
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forgive=yes
reprimand=yes
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