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Posted: Tuesday September 5th, 2006 00:45 |
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well my son is fast approaching 1yr in a matter of days
because he is very adventurous i have started to enforce boundaries. he understands no , leave it, uh uh etc
he likes to touch and explore and certain things i have had to lay down the law.
he reaches the gas cooker and turns the knobs so i am quite strict to that and let him know he must leave it. he is obsessed with the washer and again i must tell him, who taught him to press the off button. he loves tables and everything on it.
i have found that when i am firm he listens. he stops and looks at me. but for saying he is practically 1 he has already started giving me the 10 second water works and dry tears
what i want to ask is what techniques what did you learm through experience trial and error how to set boundaries and discipline
when di you start setting boundaries, i feel if i break him in now i wont get the terrible twos thing
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Posted: Saturday September 9th, 2006 23:48 |
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You need to set the boundaries from now...and mean it!
There's no point in saying "NO", but then laughing after it!
It takes times, but eventually they learn - you just need to be consistent, as they have the concentration span of a gnat (or my Hubby )
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Posted: Sunday September 10th, 2006 10:15 |
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Who can't hear must FEEL!
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Posted: Monday September 11th, 2006 11:54 |
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Incognito wrote: Who can't hear must FEEL!
true but he is only one today
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Posted: Monday September 11th, 2006 12:46 |
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| Ladyday - he's got time..just make sure you're not competing with hubby as to who is in control of how the children should be disciplined....and doing things adverse to the boys growth as a means to prove it..
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