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 Posted: Sunday January 15th, 2006 19:50

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I am feeling restless and fidgety an i ain't even the one doing the carrying. 

  Baby Vee... 

Anyways...

@Lady Vee

Ok I’ll probably sound stupid for asking but is there any chance that you could have gotten conception date mixed up? See I always wondered how accurately they work out date of conception if you are married and i am assuming most probably get busy daily non? And also some women’s periods are unpredictable so how can they be sure what week you conceived let alone what day?


 



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 Posted: Sunday January 15th, 2006 21:27

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Abs.. the doctors add two weeks to date you last had your period. I can't remember why..but it means you can have your baby either side of your due date.. ie two weeks before due date..hence some people being early.. or anything up to two weeks after .. so due date is 40 weeks.. but in effect you could go up to 42 weeks.. I went into my 42 week/was two weeks over-due! was very frustrating ..




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 Posted: Sunday January 15th, 2006 21:46

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@eskay thanks

It makes better sense i think. 



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 Posted: Sunday January 15th, 2006 22:00

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Abs, it still isn't an exact science, though they can tell through the baby measures.  Some women even have a mild period after they are pregnant (breakthrough bleed) which may mess up the conception date even more.

LadyVee,  I am amazed that you are Rh- and they haven't induced yet.  Make sure baby keeps dancing but do not hesitate to go back to hospital if you feel abnormally uncomfortable.   If you feel they are fobbing you off, tell them you want to talk to a Consultant, not one of the blinking SHOs.

Fingers crossed for you...  everybody here sends their love!!!

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 Posted: Sunday January 15th, 2006 22:15

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I do feel very, very uncomfortable though.....
blkbowdown.gif" ALT="blkbowdown"> Smudge I beg u mek this feeling be a good one ...
 



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 Posted: Sunday January 15th, 2006 23:35

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i wish i knew what it was like to carry full  term but at the same time i dont envy you. baby may come friday my day

roughly this time last year i was panicking thinking my filling had ruptured and that i was being poisoned by them only to find out few weeks later i had a bun in the oven.

i will pray for you lady vee

hospital sent me home when i was spotting only to keep me in the next day as my waters broke. funny thing well not funny i wasnt even gonna call them the next day

baby soon come

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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 00:17

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YankeeJamaRican wrote:

Fingers crossed for you...  everybody here sends their love!!!

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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 12:15

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Ok no word from Lady Vee today - could today be the day?????

Hey baaaabeeeee you in the world yet?

Wow that child is stubborn!

 



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 13:51

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must be a boy. they stubborn



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 14:26

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Lady Vee this is for you.

I hope it cheers you up

Inserting Flash didnt work, here is the link: http://www.grab.com/fun/toons/f/50246/

(make sure your speakers are on)

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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 14:42

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lmao that is so cute!! but i think the only thing that would cheer lady vee up right now is someone sticking their hand up you know where and pulling the baby out!!



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 14:44

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Bwoy that baby stubborn is a raase,



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 15:04

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Ok one more.

I do hope you find these cute.

http://www.grab.com/fun/toons/f/50195/



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 15:15

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OK

I know I said one more, but this is the cutest thing! (Make sure speakers are on)

http://www.grab.com/fun/toons/f/50194/

*I think I'm just putting them up for everyone now LOL



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 18:00

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thats was too funny and too cute

 



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 Posted: Monday January 16th, 2006 18:01

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oops double post

 

come on baby vee
 

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BlackBeauty wrote: OK

I know I said one more, but this is the cutest thing! (Make sure speakers are on)

http://www.grab.com/fun/toons/f/50194/

*I think I'm just putting them up for everyone now LOL


 

I hate you now....that was so cute i re-played it 10 times! My niece is laughing her socks off at me.. :P

It even made me kind of broody...:shock::cool:





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BlackBeauty wrote: OK

I know I said one more, but this is the cutest thing! (Make sure speakers are on)

http://www.grab.com/fun/toons/f/50194/

*I think I'm just putting them up for everyone now LOL


BB if I was Lady Vee I would have laughed that baby out.  Those links were tooo funny!

LadyVee....... give Smudge his eviction notice, it's time to quit "hotel belly" and come join the party out here!



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:DThanks guys-glad you enjoyed!

niceone.gif@Mez. Welcome to the club!



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Where is the baby???

(That was a cute vid, btw... maybe she laughed and ruptured her water... :)



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 Posted: Tuesday January 17th, 2006 11:57

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hey the last time Lady Vee posted was two days ago... ;)



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 Posted: Tuesday January 17th, 2006 16:32

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Baby boy, born 2.44am on 16th January 2006, weighing 8lb 3oz.

He was definately overdue as his skin was wrinkled and peeling.

Well, after my last post I felt more and more pain. I started timing the contractions at about 7pm. I called Hubby when they were 15 minutes apart and he came home.

My daughter looked after my son when, at about midnight, my language became coarse and we went to the hospital. We arrived at about 12.30am. By this time the contractions were every 5 minutes.

Well, THE PAIN!!! I called for EVERYONE in that delivery room! Lawd God, JesusChristinHeaven etc, etc. I even caught myself singing "Doncha"(!). My language was FOUL, but the pain was terrible. I was screaming for the epidural but they had to give me antibiotics first. I threw up with the gas and air, and the TENS machine was a total waste of time and money. By the time I'd had the antibiotics I was fully dilated, and Baby just eased out.

No tears so no stitches.

Baby is absolutely beautiful. He is a bat baby though - he's asleep now so should be partying by 10pm.

Thanks to you all for your support. Your posts have made me laugh.

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yaaaaaay !!!clp)banana.gifclp)banana.gif  CONGRATULATIONS LADY AND BABY VEE!!  (and hubby vee and big sister vee and big brother vee!!) clp)banana.gifclp)banana.gif



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banana.gifbanana.gifbanana.gifbanana.gifHOOORRRAAYY....Smudge is here. Congrats to you and family on your new arrival Lady Vee.clp)clp)

How are you feel though? I bet you are rather relieved than tired....:)



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 Posted: Tuesday January 17th, 2006 17:13

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Congratulations Lady Vee...A new young Prince for the African nation..however two questions if i may...

Dem fling you out already...lawd Jesus, did they even give you a cup of tea FIRST before dem fling you out....LOL (ok seriously do they still give out a baby pack on release, you know free nappies and things like that for the new born?)

Second question did my boy come out of the womb wearing training pants or was he already potty trained...?

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 Posted: Tuesday January 17th, 2006 17:28

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Congrats! You had a big boy and pushed him out with no epidural. You're my hero! LOL, I had a 10 pounder but I had a c-section. Such a chicken I am. Anyhoo, new babies and thrilling and I know you and your family are having tons of fun. May your new baby be blessed. Keep us updated as he grows!

Oh, has he peed on you yet? Jacob peed on me and everything else including his own face for months! Happy squirtings!



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