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Posted: Tuesday June 6th, 2006 19:39 |
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ebony_goddess wrote: Today has been the worst day so far.
I've been crying my eyes out constantly. I can't control it. If im on the streets and im thinking about everything, i just break down. i m gonna go see my gp today caz i swear if i dont talk to someone soon... im gonna literally go mad
Dare I ask what the problem might be?
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Posted: Thursday June 8th, 2006 21:18 |
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ebony_goddess wrote: Today has been the worst day so far.
I've been crying my eyes out constantly. I can't control it. If im on the streets and im thinking about everything, i just break down. i m gonna go see my gp today caz i swear if i dont talk to someone soon... im gonna literally go mad
i used to vry at the drop of a hat at times was very emotional
hormones where no joke
some good pregnancy sites which may help...loads of advove and support networks
http://www.emmasdiary.co.uk/ the midwife can give you a copy of emmas diary the website is a bonus
http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/having_a_baby/
http://www.bounty.com/ they are the people that give you the bounty prenanyy pack
http://www.nct.org.uk/
http://www.pampers.co.uk/en_GB/home/stageid/100.do
i referred to these alot
hope they help ya
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Posted: Thursday June 22nd, 2006 20:34 |
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Chique....ebony_goddess.....Bahamas Babe good luck with your pregnancies and births sisters
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Posted: Friday July 7th, 2006 16:57 |
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Hi every1, been away for a long while....I lost the board....literally......well I had my Prince on April 8, 2006.....he came 12 weeks early (28w4d gestat).....his due date was 6/27/06......I had pre-term labor......I was in the hospital 3 weeks b4 he was born, due to my dialted cervix of 2.5 cm and bulging membranes.....Mekhi came to the world at 2lbs. 13 oz. and 15.75 in long.......here are some pics of him then and now
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Now at 2 months (1week adjusted age)
10 lbs and 21.5 in long
Check out my Video Montage http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=49e7ff794881ad25fc66c
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Posted: Friday July 7th, 2006 22:00 |
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OMG he looks tiny!
Blessed be he looks ok, and has put on 8oz!
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Posted: Friday July 7th, 2006 22:10 |
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I found myself touched by your video.... what a soldier... what a fighter.
seeing that pic of dad kinda brought back memories of my own experienc...but anyway
good luck to you both.... I know you will raise him right.
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Posted: Friday July 7th, 2006 22:39 |
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Lady Vee- yes he was very tiny......he has gotten bigger now, but when I go out, ppl think he was just born.....and he is 2 months old. Thank you.
BP - Thank you. I will do my very best.
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 16:15 |
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Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cm and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour but my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.
Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over 35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.
Please pray for us as we really need it.
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 16:55 |
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Bahamas Babe wrote: Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cm and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour but my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.
Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over 35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.
Please pray for us as we really need it.
How sad Bahamas 
I for one will pray with all my heart for you and yours.
Bless your little one.
R.I.P.
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 19:25 |
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Bahamas Babe wrote: Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cm and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour but my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.
Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over 35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.
Please pray for us as we really need it.
I am fighting back tears as I write this.
I am so very,very sorry, BB. May his little, pure soul rest in peace.
I pray that you and your partner come together on this, as grief can separate couples.
My heart goes out to you both.
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 19:32 |
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Bahamas Babe wrote:
Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cm and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour but my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.
Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over 35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.
Please pray for us as we really need it.
I'm really really sorry to hear of your lost, I know it must be very difficultt for you at this time, especially if as you suggest negligence played a huge part of this tragedy...nothing can be said that will lessen your grief...however i will hold you and your family in my personal thoughts....sad sad news..
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 19:40 |
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sup girl...
yeah I hear you an LL...AND sorry for your loss..
however it simply wasnt your time... Im a strong believer in everything happens for a reason..and been proven time and time again to be right..
glad your ok though..
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 21:23 |
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Bahamas Babe wrote: Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cm and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour but my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.
Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over 35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.
Please pray for us as we really need it.
in my prayers and thoughts
may the lord get you through this time
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Posted: Friday September 29th, 2006 06:28 |
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Bahamas Babe wrote: Hi all, unfortunately I have some bad news. I havent been in contact with the site as I had been in hospital since the beginning of June. I had the same thing as Donzwifey, open cervix at 3cm and bulging membranes. Though I was in hospital for 7 weeks, really amazed the docs as they were convinced i'd have my son as soon as i went in (24 weeks), I went to 31 weeks and then went into labour but my son was stillborn. This was nothing to do with his prematurity, he was a good weight of 4lb 4oz, but I had caught an infection which went into his lungs and caused him pneumonia and he had struggled and fighted to beat it but couldnt.
Really cant believe it, my boy was beautiful and due to a number of complications and hospital investigation etc he was only laid to rest last week. Cant go into too much detail but some element of negligence has been admitted as I was in labour for over 35 hours and nobody believed that I was actually in labour. Got a long road ahead of us but we are trying to be strong.
Please pray for us as we really need it.
omg !! I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine how you must be feeling.
I hope you get through this babes.
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Posted: Friday October 6th, 2006 13:37 |
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Bahamas Babe - I know my response is late but I've only been logging onto the site sparadically and started on Page 1. Really and truelly sorry for your loss............. words cannot express.
Thanks for sharing your story as it will give me and all the other parents out there reference for when pregnancy/delivery goes wrong for many different reasons.
May you son rest in peace and to you and your partner stay strong and grieve until your hearts/minds recover.
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Posted: Friday October 6th, 2006 13:44 |
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DonzWifey - Your video and pictures were very touching. What is very weird is that you and Bahamas Babe had very similar situations.
Thanks for sharing your story.
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Posted: Friday October 6th, 2006 13:53 |
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I am about 6 weeks pregnant (although doctor and I are not sure of the dates as my periods are normally unpredicatable at best.
Having read everyone's stories I am scared to be going back there again (I already have a 5 year old daughter) but also excited.
Tired and moody as hell - and cannot find any food that tastes good, bought or home made favourites. Meal times are becoming a real nightmare as is brushing my teeth and walking around holding my breath incase someone's body odour or perfume is too strong.
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Posted: Saturday October 7th, 2006 11:18 |
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1_Princess_Blak wrote: I am about 6 weeks pregnant (although doctor and I are not sure of the dates as my periods are normally unpredicatable at best.
Having read everyone's stories I am scared to be going back there again (I already have a 5 year old daughter) but also excited.
Tired and moody as hell - and cannot find any food that tastes good, bought or home made favourites. Meal times are becoming a real nightmare as is brushing my teeth and walking around holding my breath incase someone's body odour or perfume is too strong.
Congratulations!
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Posted: Saturday October 7th, 2006 13:46 |
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1_Princess_Blak wrote: I am about 6 weeks pregnant (although doctor and I are not sure of the dates as my periods are normally unpredicatable at best.
Having read everyone's stories I am scared to be going back there again (I already have a 5 year old daughter) but also excited.
Tired and moody as hell - and cannot find any food that tastes good, bought or home made favourites. Meal times are becoming a real nightmare as is brushing my teeth and walking around holding my breath incase someone's body odour or perfume is too strong.
Congratz..!!!
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Posted: Tuesday November 28th, 2006 00:39 |
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Congrats Dons and Wifey. Baby is lovely.
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Posted: Tuesday November 28th, 2006 00:39 |
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Congrats Dons and Wifey
Baby is lovely
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Posted: Thursday November 30th, 2006 17:26 |
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BB- I know I am late as well......I am extrememly sorry for the loss of your angel. Our journeys are very similar. My prayers go out to you and your partner and family.
RIP baby!
Thank you all for watching my video. I feel truly blessed everyday. Congrats Princess on your pregnancy.
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BB - I know I am late.....I am sorry to hear of your loss of your precious baby boy. Our stories are very similar. My prayers go out to you, partner, and family. I know it was very hard to go thru. Especially being in the hospital for sooo long and the way they trat us, as if we don'tknow what we are feeling. RIP Baby! [wings]
Thank you all for watching my video of my blessing.
Comgrats Princess on the pregnancy. Enjoy it, it goes by so fast.
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BB - I know I am late.....I am sorry to hear of your loss of your precious baby boy. Our stories are very similar. My prayers go out to you, partner, and family. I know it was very hard to go thru. Especially being in the hospital for sooo long and the way they trat us, as if we don'tknow what we are feeling. RIP Baby! [wings]
Thank you all for watching my video of my blessing.
Comgrats Princess on the pregnancy. Enjoy it, it goes by so fast.
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