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yaya
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Posted: Wednesday May 2nd, 2007 14:52 |
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At what point is it okay for a female to come onto a guy?
It seems okay for a guy to be up front and to the point even to the extend of females having to go through (what seems at times like mental torcher) the agony of listening to cheesy chat up lines. Society seems to have ruled the male figure as the more dominate leader and in many ways this has affected the woman's role within society, causing a lot of stereo typing for both men and women, and in a lot of cases women are restricted (mentally) in the way they approach the opposite sex.
Why is it frowned upon when a female expresses her confidence, sexuality, beauty and personality by apporaching the opposite sex in a public environment?
Are men threated by bold and confident women? or do they just love the idea of being in control.
It seems men are turned off by this and perfer a woman who just sits and looks beautiful, somewhat like a painting. *giving him enough time to look, admire before he approaches with the cheesy chat up lines*
Why is it most women feel it is out of character to approach the opposite sex? Does this show a lack of confidence or is this just pure utter pride kicking in?
Yet again the male ego is being pampered and in many cases guys have been lead to believe that they are much better then women in everything. What would the affects be if a woman approached the opposite sex would the world come to an end or will she just be classed as too loud, up front, forward, easy or even a hoe, all these social stereo types seem to be the reasons why women hold back in approaching the opposite sex.
And maybe just maybe the reason why many women are single today, because they are holding back and waiting for the men to do all the chasing.
What do you think??
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Posted: Wednesday May 2nd, 2007 16:39 |
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personaly I would appreciate a guy who liked the fact that I came up to him. If he's "turned off by it", good riddance. he wasn't for me.
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yaya
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Posted: Wednesday May 2nd, 2007 17:28 |
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I feel that!
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Posted: Friday May 4th, 2007 23:18 |
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I think it is okay but he should be careful also because she may have an alternative reason for approaching him, for example she may be looking for a baby daddy or she may be mad at all men for giving her an STD. There is a myriad of things that must be considered just like a woman, he should never go out with the first thing that flirts.
But if he finds that she is true I don't see anything wrong with it.
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Posted: Saturday May 5th, 2007 09:23 |
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Posted: Saturday May 19th, 2007 17:49 |
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You shouldnt make yourself such an easy target. Alot of men like to work for their efforts. You're bound to get used and end being another statistic.
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