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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 15:48

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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 16:22

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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 16:52

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I thought you  were kidding about this.
Is there some way you could post the trailer here?

Hmm.... Im not sure what 'tired' implies... tired of what exactly? *says nothing*



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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 16:53

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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 17:13

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LOL.  These people are not serious. 

"I am not a weak black man, I'm a tired black man."  That's why I had to come and pose up with this white girl.  LOL.  confused2

 

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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 17:34

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:shock: WOW ~Shakes head~.....here we go again BM Vs BW....boring!!!!



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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 17:47

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YOW! My opinon on this film is that its OUTRIGHT stupid!Unoriginal and lacks tact Why air your dirty linen in public. Any White Mon or White Woman would be laughing their ass off watching that and rightly so. Nahh film is NOT cool.

Its the 21st Century why should a black man or woman justify their choice of partners! Date whoever you wanna date and live with the consequence.


"TIRED BLACK MAN!" Nahh sounds stupid as well ! Jeez INterracial dating really is a tiresome subject and yep its always the same argument... one side blaming the other  BORING.

This film has simply created more barriers and exposed the division between the Black man and Black woman based on the clip with no meaningful solutions. Where  is the black family in the C21st ????


ONE BLACK LOVE!!!

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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 17:52

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colo-mentality wrote: YOW! My opinon on this film is that its OUTRIGHT stupid!Unoriginal and lacks tact Why air your dirty linen in public. Any White Mon or White Woman would be laughing their ass off watching that and rightly so. Nahh film is NOT cool.

Its the 21st Century why should a black man or woman justify their choice of partners! Date whoever you wanna date and live with the consequence.


"TIRED BLACK MAN!" Nahh sounds stupid as well ! Jeez INterracial dating really is a tiresome subject and yep its always the same argument...  BORING.


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Hence my other thread asking why some people love to beg 'white' validation.... Can you imagine a film being made that spoke about White men being tired of white women...not only would it sound rediculous, it wouldn't make any sense?

And lets be clear here its not as if that wars between genders in other communities is not an issue..you only have to look at the Divorce stories to know that..Look at the fathers4justice campaign..and look at the growing trend for white men to buy in mail order brides..why because white women are too demanding...

but yet I don't see any stupid films talking about tired this or that do you?



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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 18:00

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Indeed Kunjufu! What can i say? Every blackman who is right thinking  gats to handles his business right in these times and recognise who the enemy is !!!

Still some too many uncle Toms who wanna continue to sell us out, the battle continues both home and abroad:power



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This film should be called 'Diary of an angry black man'.  Seems like the writers wanted to get some stuff off their chests. 

I bet you this film was secretly funded by a ww... :DLOL



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 Posted: Saturday April 22nd, 2006 20:29

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Tit for tat foolishness... and I know I haven't seen it but the blurb says enough.  Bad enough that some black women make and enjoy these movies but stooping to that level ourselves is just as stupid.  Why be a male Sanaa Lathan if you can't stand Sanaa Lathan?  Doesn't make sense.



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 Posted: Sunday April 23rd, 2006 06:18

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Another poor excuse for a african american film...


On 2nd thought it might be entertaining seeing what issue's they actually present that maybe we haven't already been over a million times...... I'll download it. :)

The sequences look too predictable though, kinda like "Dairy of a Mad black Woman", but worse.

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 Posted: Sunday April 23rd, 2006 17:03

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Can you really imagine 'Diary of a Tired White Man?'

Kunjufu you really hit the nail on the head it would be totally ridiculous so why it is ok for a to be a black man is beyond me....



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 Posted: Sunday April 23rd, 2006 18:16

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I'll cut and paste my thoughts from the ligali forums on this stupid clip:

Ain't no way you're shutting up a group of sistas that easily! How come they were portrayed as mouthy and ignorant one minute then the next they're all quiet and submissive before he even began his little tirade? In real life if he asked them about their marital status they would have just told him to mind his own beeswax.

Plus I don't know any African woman that would just let their child be around a woman they no absolutely nothing about, especially a cracker. But hear the white woman nuh: "You want me to go get her for you?" ROTFLMAOOOOO!! If me and my wife had divorced and a white woman ever came to the house asking to pick our daughter up (not that it would ever happen in a million years) my missus woulda knock the wretch back to the caves of europe.

So what if he paid for this and that? As a husband and father he's supposed to be a provider it ain't nothing to seek brownie points for.

The lack of realism alone makes this video hilarious. It's too bad some 'brothas' on other forums are applauding this rubbish (much like the 'sistas' who bigged up the movie Something New) instead of seeing it for what it is. Some people wouldn't know an agenda if it came towards them in the form of volcanic lava.




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 Posted: Sunday April 23rd, 2006 18:20

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POST OF THE DAY


Prince Hakeem wrote: I'll cut and paste my thoughts from the ligali forums on this stupid clip:

Ain't no way you're shutting up a group of sistas that easily! How come they were portrayed as mouthy and ignorant one minute then the next they're all quiet and submissive before he even began his little tirade? In real life if he asked them about their marital status they would have just told him to mind his own beeswax.

Plus I don't know any African woman that would just let their child be around a woman they no absolutely nothing about, especially a cracker. But hear the white woman nuh: "You want me to go get her for you?" ROTFLMAOOOOO!! If me and my wife had divorced and a white woman ever came to the house asking to pick our daughter up (not that it would ever happen in a million years) my missus woulda knock the wretch back to the caves of europe.

So what if he paid for this and that? As a husband and father he's supposed to be a provider it ain't nothing to seek brownie points for.

The lack of realism alone makes this video hilarious. It's too bad some 'brothas' on other forums are applauding this rubbish (much like the 'sistas' who bigged up the movie Something New) instead of seeing it for what it is. Some people wouldn't know an agenda if it came towards them in the form of volcanic lava.





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Kunjufu wrote: POST OF THE DAY






Prince Hakeem wrote: I'll cut and paste my thoughts from the ligali forums on this stupid clip:

Ain't no way you're shutting up a group of sistas that easily! How come they were portrayed as mouthy and ignorant one minute then the next they're all quiet and submissive before he even began his little tirade? In real life if he asked them about their marital status they would have just told him to mind his own beeswax.

Plus I don't know any African woman that would just let their child be around a woman they no absolutely nothing about, especially a cracker. But hear the white woman nuh: "You want me to go get her for you?" ROTFLMAOOOOO!! If me and my wife had divorced and a white woman ever came to the house asking to pick our daughter up (not that it would ever happen in a million years) my missus woulda knock the wretch back to the caves of europe.

So what if he paid for this and that? As a husband and father he's supposed to be a provider it ain't nothing to seek brownie points for.

The lack of realism alone makes this video hilarious. It's too bad some 'brothas' on other forums are applauding this rubbish (much like the 'sistas' who bigged up the movie Something New) instead of seeing it for what it is. Some people wouldn't know an agenda if it came towards them in the form of volcanic lava.






Make that POST OF THE WEEK please!

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Prince Hakeem wrote: I'll cut and paste my thoughts from the ligali forums on this stupid clip:

Ain't no way you're shutting up a group of sistas that easily! How come they were portrayed as mouthy and ignorant one minute then the next they're all quiet and submissive before he even began his little tirade? In real life if he asked them about their marital status they would have just told him to mind his own beeswax.

Plus I don't know any African woman that would just let their child be around a woman they no absolutely nothing about, especially a cracker. But hear the white woman nuh: "You want me to go get her for you?" ROTFLMAOOOOO!! If me and my wife had divorced and a white woman ever came to the house asking to pick our daughter up (not that it would ever happen in a million years) my missus woulda knock the wretch back to the caves of europe.

So what if he paid for this and that? As a husband and father he's supposed to be a provider it ain't nothing to seek brownie points for.

The lack of realism alone makes this video hilarious. It's too bad some 'brothas' on other forums are applauding this rubbish (much like the 'sistas' who bigged up the movie Something New) instead of seeing it for what it is. Some people wouldn't know an agenda if it came towards them in the form of volcanic lava.



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What a stupid idea for a film. As if the black community hasn't had enough bullsh*t with that film Somthing New. Why won't theses filmmakers do more films focused on our history?

Do we really need more bullsh*t films like this that make it seem that all black men do not appreciate sistas. Im just waiting to see how the ignorant media like bbc radio, LBC, and choice fm deal with this issue. I can already hear it now, a bunch of token sell out blacks airing their dirty laundry on air, whilst the ignorant white majority in this country will be listening thinking  " O I GUESS BECAUSE THEY ARE BLACK AND THEY ARE SAYING THIS...IT MUST MEAN ALL BLACK MEN HATE BLACK WOMEN"

Usually i wouldnt give a dam about these kind of issues because I know im not one of those men, Ill put it this way..." I LOVE JALLOF RICE, YAM, CHICKEN, BLACK EYE BEANS TOOOOOOOOOO MUCH TO ABANDON IT FOR SLICED CARROTS, MASH POTATOS AND UNCLE BENS RICE...IF YOU KNOW WHAT IM SAYING" but since we have to co exist with these people ill be bdamed if im going to be generalised based on the views of a others WHO MAY LOOK LIKE ME, SOUND LIKE ME, BUT SURE AS HELL DO NOT REPRESENT ME.

p.s. im glad i got that off my chest.  Also the production in the clip is weak. Its the same quality as Sunset Beach 

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Judge J wrote: What a stupid idea for a film. As if the black community hasn't had enough bullsh*t with that film Somthing New. Why won't theses filmmakers do more films focused on our history?

Do we really need more bullsh*t films like this that make it seem that all black men do not appreciate sistas. Im just waiting to see how the ignorant media like bbc radio, LBC, and choice fm deal with this issue. I can already hear it now, a bunch of token sell out blacks airing their dirty laundry on air, whilst the ignorant white majority in this country will be listening thinking  " O I GUESS BECAUSE THEY ARE BLACK AND THEY ARE SAYING THIS...IT MUST MEAN ALL BLACK MEN HATE BLACK WOMEN"

Usually i wouldnt give a dam about these kind of issues because I know im not one of those men, Ill put it this way..." I LOVE JALLOF RICE, YAM, CHICKEN, BLACK EYE BEANS TOOOOOOOOOO MUCH TO ABANDON IT FOR SLICED CARROTS, MASH POTATOS AND UNCLE BENS RICE...IF YOU KNOW WHAT IM SAYING" but since we have to co exist with these people ill be bdamed if im going to be generalised based on the views of a others WHO MAY LOOK LIKE ME, SOUND LIKE ME, BUT SURE AS HELL DO NOT REPRESENT ME.

p.s. im glad i got that off my chest.  Also the production in the clip is weak. Its the same quality as Sunset Beach



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Some funny links on the site, including the radio interviews. Just listen to the guy who made this 'film' and why.....




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It makes me mad how the man takes the one or two bad relationships he's had with a black woman and uses it to generalize and bad mouth an entire race of woman.  Why do we always fall into this trap?  We seem to brush our own people with the same stroke, put labels on them, more so than any other race.  If a white man has one bad relationship with a white woman does he then swear off all white women and make a movie to shame them and glorify another race of women?  But black men and women will do this to the opposite gender without a second thought.  These people are not doing themselves or any one in this race any favours.  I'm sick of black women creating websites to complain about black men and I'm sick of black men blaming all black women for their bad relationships.  Why don't we realize that it's the company we keep that determines the kind of relationship we will have.  If you're having problems with black single mothers, then maybe you should try black women without children and incarcerated baby fathers.  Did he ever think about that? 

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Miss Nellia wrote: :shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock:

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This film should be called 'Diary of an angry black man'.  Seems like the writers wanted to get some stuff off their chests. 

I bet you this film was secretly funded by a ww... :DLOL


I can believe this because they sure are rejoicing all over the place about this movie.  Whites would never dare try this with any other ethnicity, but they prefer to pit black men and women against each other and ignore their own problems.  There are 2 other similar movies coming out this year depicting bw in the lowest light possible while uplifting the chosen white woman and their mixed child over the black child.



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DrunkMonkey wrote: Tit for tat foolishness... and I know I haven't seen it but the blurb says enough.  Bad enough that some black women make and enjoy these movies but stooping to that level ourselves is just as stupid.  Why be a male Sanaa Lathan if you can't stand Sanaa Lathan?  Doesn't make sense.

There's no comparison between that Sanaa Lathan movie and this one.  Let's face it...every time a black man has a role to give out...it's presented to a nonblack woman.  Look at Will Smith and all the others.  In fact, black men are openly talking about how they are not seen enough fukking white women on screen.  They hand so much ammunition to whites to use against us it ain't even funny.  Whites are having a field day with this one!

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