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Posted: Sunday February 27th, 2005 19:34 |
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Boy...I feel it for you Jett Black.
Try to keep your strength up.
May your mother rest in peace.
God bless.
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Posted: Sunday February 27th, 2005 20:35 |
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JB......I know that I have contributed already but the following words that Mafdet reproduced were spoken at My Mums Funeral and those words nearly 9 years later will always carry me thru'....I'm sure it'll be the same for you..Continue to be Strong and cry when U have to..and you will....
All Is Well
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household world that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
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Posted: Sunday February 27th, 2005 21:13 |
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Sorry to hear of your sadness bro
My blessing goes out to both you and your mum.
May Allah grant her paradise.
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Posted: Sunday February 27th, 2005 21:43 |
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| Sorry to hear of your loss. May Allah grant her paradise and you peace.
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Posted: Monday February 28th, 2005 03:29 |
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Jet Black:
You have my deepest sympathies sweet-heart.......
That's for real.
My mother passed a while back and the only thing that sustained me those first few weeks was the fact that I was fortunate enough to have had a loving and wonderful relationship with her right up until the end.
It's truly a relief and blessing to know that you've had a good relationship with a loved one when they pass.
If your mother dies...you WILL grief...believe me.
But just remember that you mother is at peace right now and would want the same for you even under these trying circumstances so remember that and don't let your grief overwhelm you.
God bless.....
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Posted: Monday February 28th, 2005 06:12 |
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God bless, Jet Black.
You and your family have my sympathies.
Though in your heart her time was far too short, be sure to thank God for giving you such a gift and for such a long time.
Be strong for the journey is yours now.
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Posted: Monday February 28th, 2005 07:20 |
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| If I can do anything for you baby girl email me. I know the numbing feeling of losing someone as close to you as that and still fighting that pain myself. I am keeping you in my prayers.
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Posted: Monday February 28th, 2005 08:41 |
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my condolences
may your mother rest in peace Jett Black
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 11:45 |
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My Heart goes to you JB
Its always sad to hear of someone's death.
I can't imagine loosing my Mum or any of my Bro and Sis, they are my shield and Barrier.
All I can say is stay strong
Really good that you are Celebrating her Death.
May her soul Rest In Peace
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 12:15 |
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My deepest sympathy to you and your family
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 12:36 |
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My deepest deepest sympathies go to you Jett Black. May your beautiful mothers soul rest in perfect peace.
At this time, not much can bring comfort, except for kind words, and the knowledge that people have you in their hearts.
Take any comfort where you can get it, the pain eases with time, and your mother is still with you, always.
REST IN PEACE EBUJAH.
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 15:41 |
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| Extending deepest condolences to you in your moments of sorrow, May she rest in peace
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 16:55 |
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| My condolences go out to u, JB. I lost my mother some years ago. Your comment about "knees turning to jelly" really resonated with me. God Bless.
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 21:55 |
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You have my condolences and my deepest sympathy. God bless you and your family.
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 22:07 |
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| Jettblack, I am so sorry I think about losing my mom and dad and I don't know what I will do. Death is something we will all have to face at some time, yet it does not lessen the pain. I will pray that you be comforted in your time of grieving. Last edited on Thursday March 3rd, 2005 22:16 by Caraqueen
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 22:41 |
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I have only just read this.
I cant only express my sicerest condolences.
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Posted: Thursday March 3rd, 2005 22:48 |
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So so sorry that I have only just seen this thread. Sending my deepest sympathy (and empathy). Now all makes sense to me (re other thread).
Spirit lives.
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Posted: Friday March 4th, 2005 04:03 |
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| Sorry to hear about your loss Jett Black. May her loving spirit rest in peace.
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Posted: Friday March 4th, 2005 08:30 |
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My condolences go out to you my dear- so sorry to hear that you have lost someone so dear to you.
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Posted: Friday March 4th, 2005 09:21 |
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my condolences JettBlack. you are in my prayers, and i wish you strength and courage to get thru the hard times ahead.
you are in our thoughts
RIP Ebujah.
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Posted: Friday March 4th, 2005 17:59 |
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jett black
all i can say is that i know your pain. i lost my mum a few years ago. it was just 4 days after i turned 21 which is 3 days before my brothers 27th.
for me it was too much to read all your post as it made me confront feelings that i try to lay down. but know this as hard as it may seem now the times will get easier. my friends lost her dad shortly after meeting him and that was like 10 yrs ago,
you are not alone and i understand. need to talk just pm me
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Posted: Thursday March 10th, 2005 00:21 |
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Jettblack just wanted you to know your still in my thoughts and prayers hope you are bearing up well ........may our ancestors carry you through these troubled times.
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Posted: Saturday March 12th, 2005 18:37 |
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So sorry Jetblack, I know what you're going through based on experiences as yours.
She is resting peacefully now, and the bond you both shared and fond memories of her is a blessing to you.
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Posted: Sunday March 20th, 2005 12:24 |
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My dear, warmest sympathy goes out to you during this difficult time.
May you find your own strength through this terrible ordeal... But remember you are not alone, for she is high above watching you down below and smiling and guiding you.... Think of the good times and know that she loves you now, always and forever. My dad died when I was young so I understand what your going through
Stay strong Sistren! Ebujah will live on in you - XXXX May god bless you xxx
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Posted: Thursday March 31st, 2005 09:43 |
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My condolences,
She is now with the Ancestors, blessed. Try not to be too sad because she watches over you and guides you on your life Journey.
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Posted: Friday April 15th, 2005 01:38 |
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Well im back...
Just got back from New York about 5 hours ago.
Well this experience didnt kill me as I always suspected it would...but maybe im dying slowly?? I dont know.I do know that I am thoroughly depressed and heartbroken and the grief can be somewhat unbearable,but yet im still standing.
When I have slighty decompressed I will report back on the runnings of which there are many,whilst I was there my good friends aunt died so I extended my stay by a week so I could attend her funeral...in the back of my mind I was like"uh oh these things come in 3,s".Sure enough as soon as I step off plane I turn on my mobile only to receive a text that my friends Mother died....when it rains it pours eh?
Anyway there is much to talk about,it will be a-to quote Kunjufu"long tings alert" but I believe a lot of the Village will find it a worthwhile read.
Until then take care of yourselves Villagers.x
Last edited on Friday April 15th, 2005 01:40 by jett Black
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Posted: Friday April 15th, 2005 01:44 |
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| .........And welcome back.
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Posted: Friday April 15th, 2005 08:04 |
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| Jett Black....Welcome Back......Please remember as we all said at the time the grieving will not go in a straight line....there will almost certainly be "peaks & troughs" emotionally.. when,at times,U will seemingly fo |
