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Posted: Tuesday January 27th, 2004 04:15 |
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| Hahahaha.... I'm a man... and I have learned the best thing to do if you want to be with a woman is to treate like sh*t.. and mix a little sugar sometimes.. It works!!! Stop thinking about how you suppose to exactly be by measureing everything you do.. Damn it... Women love a good old azz hole... Now.. The problem is that they want admit it, but it's ok.... Do your thing.. hahaha!! yes!! life is good!!
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Posted: Wednesday January 28th, 2004 02:18 |
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Honest_Man wrote: All women are STUPID.
This is a basic fact of life. accept it. The only reason a guy has a girl is so he can get p***y on the regular and someone to cook and clean his s**t for him. When opertunity presents itself dat a next gal become avalible then he takes it.
This shouldn't be news to any of you women. You know your mans cheated on you, even if you don't have no proof of it. You stay with him cos generally your girls arn't attracted to a guy you know would treat you right. The amount of times I've heard girls say "He's a nice guy....But he's just not my type".
You're all looking for action and excitement and 9 times out of 10 this comes hand in hand with a cheater. Of course there are always exceptions to the rules I have given. Not all men fall in to this catagory (hell if they did you wouldn't have the good men I speak about) and of course there are the women who do the same thing and in most cases even worse.
What it all boils down to is that women are all evil and drive men to cheat on them. It's all your fault (not that any of you would admit it), so you should stop complaining and just accept it.
You need to change your name from HONEST MAN to TWISTED MAN cos ur not quite right in the head. How can you seriously say all women are stupid? That is such a sweeping statement, ok there must be some stupid women just like there must be some stupid men but not all women are stupid. Does your statement refer to ur own mother, gran, sisters etc..?
A guy can have a girl for companionship, love, harmony, who says all a man wants a woman for is p****? ur an idiot.
You're wrong by the way, I for one do not know my man has cheated on me, I have no proof and I have no reason to suspect, it depends on the guy and the girl and the type of relationship. We are not evil and we don't drive men to cheat, men make their own choices. Anyway since we're so evil why don't you leave us with our evil p****** and go take a dick up ur ass instead? If you don't interact with us then we can't give you anything to complain about. LOL
To answer the question ,why do black men cheat? It's not only black men that cheat, I believe it has something to do with the mentality, they are physically able to cheat so they will (the because I can theory), also the ego, having a reputation as a c**ks man, gallis or cassanova is appealing to them it's all about how the next man sees him.
I don't believe they're insecure, I think they're too secure! we have every nationality of woman striving to gain piece of the black man and this boosts up his head and he acts on it.
Men can differentiate between P**** and love, he'll f*** a girl on road then justify it by saying ok yeah i f***** a next girl but it's ok cos I love my girlfriend/wife and I don't love this girl, she was just a f***.
I don't think there's any special remedy to stop a man cheating, if he wants to give out his d*** on road then thats what he's gonna do regardless, but you can help your own cause as a woman by being desirable, by this I mean have pride in yourself and ur appearance, give him some f***ing goooooood sex at home, LOL, don't be too clingy and insecure, that sh*t irritates, give him space to a degree, be confident in urself and independent, let him know what he's got is good, basically have his back in all aspects at the same time be ur own girl and know ur own mind, so if or when he does f*** up he's gonna realise what a good thing he had and he's gonna be sorry, and then.... u hold ur head high cos u know it was nothing u did that made him cheat, ur a beautiful strong black woman, blow him a kiss and move on to the next.
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Posted: Wednesday January 28th, 2004 04:05 |
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There is good and bad in every section of humanity.
Black men and women are BOTH prone to cheat. Not every man nor every woman will do so in their lifetime, but it remains a posibillty and NOT a proberbillty.
Temptation is the only reason anyone cheats. No matter what one going through, temptation can bring us down.
I know a woman who had been with the same guy for over 15 years. She'd had wondered what it would be like with another man, but was repulsed at finding out (cheating). When her husband cheated she forgave him. But that opened a door. She fell into an affair herself for a time, but he still does not know that. They are having problems.
After a breaking up with his girlfriend a woman confessed to doing the dirty on him. Got back with her in order to cheat on her. He told her what he'd done the next evening after cheating.
Some situations can make one FEEL driven to cheat. Some are reaction to do being wrong. But if the temptation is there to do it for whatever motivation and your guard is down it can happen, intended or not.
Genetics, I feel have little to do with it.
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Posted: Wednesday January 28th, 2004 05:03 |
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i feel that on mens side if things the reason why we cheat is because they can,whether it be because they are good looking or they have that kind of personality.men are craven bas***ds and wont jus take the cake and eat it we will take the whole damn bakery,there is no deep rooted reason i think why we cheat maybe we are just bored of the pum pum that were getting an want a re-stock.for some they like the veriety of the punny different face different conversation,different sex,keeps you active and i tend to find interesting to other women whether they know that your gready womaniser or not its the air of confidence that follows us and the exitement that we bring with it.it is as much as woman hate to admit it the fact that you allow us to do it be it conciously or sub-conciously.someone posted (i think its the one before this)that you have to give him gooood sex watch his back dont keep him on too tight a rope but hold your own at the same time.this is good advise ladies,trus me.most men need a woman that can stand up an say'look i know how you are and know how you stay,if you really want us to be i will give you two days to drop all your sh*t and sort yourself out,i will be faithful to you,look out for you stand by your side through thick an thin give and understand you,but frenchconnectionuk up once and thats it,and stand by what you say.trus me if you are real boneified tings watch how fast he will fix up.men need a slap,if you just carry on and hope he changes then your in for a long wait.i cant say why i think women cheat cus i aint one.dont fall in to the belief that its to do with anything other thaan the fact than we are jus too damn greedy.
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Posted: Thursday January 29th, 2004 00:19 |
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hahaha wrote: Hahahaha.... I'm a man... and I have learned the best thing to do if you want to be with a woman is to treate like sh*t.. and mix a little sugar sometimes.. It works!!! Stop thinking about how you suppose to exactly be by measureing everything you do.. Damn it... Women love a good old azz hole... Now.. The problem is that they want admit it, but it's ok.... Do your thing.. hahaha!! yes!! life is good!!
First of all, I am not talking about the good decent black men out there but whether igorant black ghetto a5sholes like this one. With all the problems and unrest in the black community between man and women, instead of suggest we lift each other up and show mutual respect for one another, this idiot thinks that black women should be treated like sh#t!
Sorry but this beyond moronic, it is submoronic! Please someone put this creep back in his cage!
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Posted: Friday April 29th, 2005 07:34 |
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Polygamy is unacceptable. Being "programmed" that way is a ridiculous excuse. Men are not animals, they have minds of their own, they can make a decision to cheat or not to cheat. Are you telling me that just because you are "programmed" to snap of and kill someone, it is justified to do this? Get real! And if you do want to be a nasty pig and sleep with a bunch of women, do not enter into a monogamous relationship. If a man want to stick his dick in several differnt women, then by all means go ahead and act like a wild animal, but he should make that clear to all and any women he dates and not perpetrate that he is a faithful man.
And by the way, I do believe that all Black men do cheat and I am sick and tired of the way they treat good Black women.
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Posted: Friday April 29th, 2005 07:47 |
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cagedbyrd1 wrote: Polygamy is unacceptable. Being "programmed" that way is a ridiculous excuse. Men are not animals, they have minds of their own, they can make a decision to cheat or not to cheat. Are you telling me that just because you are "programmed" to snap of and kill someone, it is justified to do this? Get real! And if you do want to be a nasty pig and sleep with a bunch of women, do not enter into a monogamous relationship. If a man want to stick his dick in several differnt women, then by all means go ahead and act like a wild animal, but he should make that clear to all and any women he dates and not perpetrate that he is a faithful man.
And by the way, I do believe that all Black men do cheat and I am sick and tired of the way they treat good Black women.
Uh uh, I think you have a bee in your bonnet here.
I think it's unfair to say all Black men cheat. I know of some who definately do not. That sort of blanket statement doesn't help with raising the esteem of both Black men and women.
My husband is Black and I can honestly say he treats me with the utmost respect. Respect begets respect, and if you have none for yourself then how can you expect someone to have some for you?
Men from all races cheat. Please don't cast unfair aspersions like the above statement.
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Posted: Friday April 29th, 2005 08:12 |
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**Stands readyto protect LadyVee from any more such bullsh*t**
 DIE DIE You repetitive gender bashers you!!!
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Posted: Friday April 29th, 2005 12:57 |
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Most people cheat because they are not ready for the commitment they find themselves in...when I was younger, I cheated a couple of times. But those where my teenage years. Others blame their infidelities on boredom, retaliation, and lack of trust (Ima do it before they do)...
That is why I do not understand why teenagers get into these big long term relationships...I tell my little cousins all of thje time, you'll have plenty of time to do that...have your fun now, date (innocently I pray), and later down the line, hopefully you will have experienced gong out and having fun with different people and feel that you been there and done that...And for most, it takes the pressure off of premature sex...meaning that unles you are bold and just like to bone, most young people won't feel pressured to have sex just because they are in a relationship. A little  , but it went with the comment...lol
One of my male couples in particular, was in a 5 YEAR relationship from the age of 14. He and his girl eventually had a baby a couple of months ago, but before she even had the baby, they broke up. He is a great father, and shows much responsibility at 20, but the problem I have is this...why would his Mama (my Auntie), even allow him to be in that type of relationship?...I mean this boy had his girlfriend spending the night before he was 18. NOW, he wants to date...and he is still young, but it is sort of reversed...when he should ave been out, dating , and having fun he was tied down...now he is ready to sow oats after he had a baby with this girl (who is two years older than him)...
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Posted: Tuesday May 3rd, 2005 12:28 |
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| Men cheat because they have deluded themselves into believing that women don't have the same feelings that they do. He has no problem understanding the hurt, disappointment, betrayal and pain that a man feels being cheated on, but he's told himself in his mind that she can take it because her feelings are different and even if she becomes extremely angry he's not afraid for his personal safety, so he doesn't care.
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Posted: Tuesday May 3rd, 2005 12:46 |
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LadyBridget wrote: Men cheat because they have deluded themselves into believing that women don't have the same feelings that they do. He has no problem understanding the hurt, disappointment, betrayal and pain that a man feels being cheated on, but he's told himself in his mind that she can take it because her feelings are different and even if she becomes extremely angry he's not afraid for his personal safety, so he doesn't care.
I agree with this, short and to the point LadyBridget. It's a case of not doing unto others...
Just like to add, I think some men cheat cos they think it's expected of them. To a lot of men sticking to just one woman is a bit effeminate. Better to spread the love so they can prove to themselves and peers just how virile they are. To prove how manly they are it is necessary for them to pretend to be driven by testosterone to the point where they can claim that it was 'offered on a plate' therefore they had no choice but to take it even though they were meant to be in a committed relationship. Being slaves to testosterone will also explain why some men seek out sex with other women as some sort of hobby, even though they have a woman. If questioned most will claim, they are just being 'a man.'
It would be interesting to see how many women could get away with saying to their man if caught cheating, "well I was ovulating you see, the egg can only get fertilised on about 5 days per month. Whether you like it or not Jim, my hormones drive me to get that egg fertiilised when it is released once a month. You weren't around. Dick was, so we had sex.
He chose to use a condom so I'm not pregnant but with the hormones racing thru my blood I was unable to prevent myself having sex. It's just that drive to mate darling, how can you expect me to control myself??
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Posted: Tuesday May 17th, 2005 21:55 |
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Men and women both cheat for same reason. They are unsure of their relationship or scared of actualy being in one. The finality of being with one person for the rest of their loves causes one to question ones own mortality. You think... "is this it? is this life for the next however many years?"
Most of us just live with it and look foward to growing old together. But increasingly today a high premium is placed on your sexual life, activity. It is how we judge our self worth. Are we still sexy? Can we still pull? Those stable in their relationships know the answer from the strength of their bond with their partner (keep in mind this is two way). Those who are not quite sure of the relationship (even on subconcious level) question their own sexual worth.
Cheating or flirting and recieving attention is the outlet. Since we associate our youth with our sex, we try to have extra sex to still feel young again. Its quite sad really. People look back to when they felt sexy (read worthy as person) and strive to catch that feeling back.
One thing does amuse me though, when men cheat they are naturally, bad bad men.. when women cheat, we excuse it by saying that the man must have done something wrong. Not only do we not attribute blame to the cheating woman in the same way, but her motives are examined as if she is thinking feeling human... The man is just a dirty dog ruled by instincts. A b**tard. He is given no motives or excuses. In neither case is he the victim.
This is a nasty double standard which impacts upon our dealings with each other. Modern man has been socialised to live up to and fit the stereotype as an expression of his manhood (self worth) and women expect it of him. It becomes self fuffling. Furthers the demonisation of the man, and lowers the value of the woman, she becomes a mere commodity, he becomes a devil...
The actual level of cheating is about 50:50 those who believe otherwise are deluding themselves because they might have to think of their own vunerability....
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Posted: Wednesday May 18th, 2005 17:08 |
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DrunkMonkey wrote: Men and women both cheat for same reason. With all respect sir, I beg to differ. They are unsure of their relationship or scared of actualy being in one. Most men who cheat verbalize that they feel secure in their relationship. If she does leave the relationship he's normally shocked. He trusted she would stay. Women express not feeling secure of his feelings, they complain of being ignored emotionally and or physically. The finality of being with one person for the rest of their loves causes one to question ones own mortality. This is what many women verbalize they long for. You are speaking for men here I believe. You think... "is this it? is this life for the next however many years?" As a woman, I hope so.
Most of us just live with it and look foward to growing old together. But increasingly today a high premium is placed on your sexual life, activity. It is how we judge our self worth. a man's point of view. Are we still sexy? As long as the person I am in love with still gets that look in his eye and on his face and spends time with me in and out of the bed, I don't have to ask myself these questions. But like I said I speak from a woman's point of view. Men tarry longer on it. Can we still pull? Again, a man's point of view. I'm pulling who I want. My partner. Those stable in their relationships know the answer from the strength of their bond with their partner (keep in mind this is two way). Those who are not quite sure of the relationship (even on subconcious level) question their own sexual worth. I agree that surety of the relationship is the driving force behind infidelity. 99.9% of the time women who cheat are being ignored emotionally and or physically. she's not sure. Men on the other hand seem to need conquest, need expressing his sexual prowess, and has feelings of being trapped with one partner for "life." These are not high on the hierarchy of womens needs.
Cheating or flirting and recieving attention is the outlet. Since we associate our youth with our sex, we try to have extra sex to still feel young again. Its quite sad really. People look back to when they felt sexy (read worthy as person) and strive to catch that feeling back. It can be found in the relationship but first you must look.
One thing does amuse me though, when men cheat they are naturally, bad bad men.. when women cheat, we excuse it by saying that the man must have done something wrong. Not only do we not attribute blame to the cheating woman in the same way, but her motives are examined as if she is thinking feeling human... The man is just a dirty dog ruled by instincts. A b**tard. He is given no motives or excuses. In neither case is he the victim. Most times it is because he cheats when he is sure in the relationship. He isn't being ignored emotionally or physically. He feels sure she will stay . He "trusts" that the relationship can withstand the threat. With women she feels unsure of the relationship. She being ignored she's seeking emotional and physical intimacy
This is a nasty double standard which impacts upon our dealings with each other. This is because men and women cheat for different reasons. Both devastate the relationship but at different times in the relationship. Men who catch their wife cheating are not shocked there was trouble in the air long before it happened. Most women are shocked because when he cheated things were "supposedly" good. Modern man has been socialised to live up to and fit the stereotype as an expression of his manhood (self worth) Years ago you were forced to be a BUCK sent to WENCHES for the profit of the white man but that is not an excuse now. We are no longer "jumping the broom" marriage is serious business, children are involved. They have to be raised to adulthood and become productive. and women expect it of him.What women married to a man expects him to service other women? It becomes self fuffling. He is fufilling his dreams of conquests, revered sexual prowess, not her dreams of a faithful, loving, attentive husband and father. She's looking for happily ever after, that's her dream. Furthers the demonisation of the man, he has free will he can change his behavior and lowers the value of the woman,many women assist in this by throwing pearls to swine she becomes a mere commodity, True, a cheap commodity, some people point to the bible Isaiah said 7:l , for throwing pearls to swine. he becomes a devil...He has free will, it's his choice.
The actual level of cheating is about 50:50 those who believe otherwise are deluding themselves because they might have to think of their own vunerability.... I agree but not for the same reasons.
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Posted: Tuesday August 2nd, 2005 08:06 |
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ANOTHER ISSUE IN OUR COMMUNITY THAT WILL NEVER BE RESOLVED. THE WORLD HAS TORN US APART AND THEY KEEP US THIS WAY. WE TALK BUT NOTHING SEEMS TO EVER GET FIXED. WE NEED SOLUTIONS INSTEAD OF TALK ABOUT WHERE TO PLACE THE BLAME. THE PAST IS THE PAST, WHY CANT ALL OF THESE INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ON HERE TRY TO SOLVE A PROBLEM. THE COMPUTER IS A WONDERFUL TOOL TO SPREAD THE WORD, LETS TRY TO US FOR THE BETTERMENT OF OUR RACE AND CULTURE. IF ANYONE IS INTERESTED, THERE IS A BOOK TITLED," HIS NEEDS HER NEEDS" ... CHECK IT OUT. PEACE TO ALL OF YOU
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Posted: Tuesday August 16th, 2005 19:02 |
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| I recently encountered this issue with the father of my child time and time again I said I was going to leave his black ass. I could blame no one but myself because I put up with it until I said to hell with this and left him. Now he calls everyday wanting me things the way they used to be I say Hell No. Sisters, my queens a man only does what you let him do. We are so much better.
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Posted: Tuesday August 16th, 2005 23:49 |
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Like my bad auntie told me (which i wouldnt do UNLESS i know its nothing serious or dont want it to be serious)
If yuh man a gi you bun, a nuh nothing dat......just call it bun fi bun. Whoever caah tek di bun, dem stop first..LOL whatcha think ? ROFL good 2 go ?haha
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Posted: Monday June 11th, 2007 19:45 |
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LOL @BP...you revived this thread from the dead because?????
ok... men cheat for the same reasons women cheat.
insecurity, lask of satisfaction, grass is greener syndrome, high sex drive etc etc etc
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Posted: Monday June 11th, 2007 19:53 |
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Miss Nellia wrote: LOL @BP...you revived this thread from the dead because?????
I knew it would bring your fine ass over to take a sneek peek.
naa not really they was a post above mine but the mods removed it
anyway...fancy cheating??
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Posted: Monday June 11th, 2007 20:03 |
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Well I saw your name and I thought I should sneak peek. As for cheating, tempting offer, hmmmmm..... let me think about it.
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| I dont even have to click on the links, but can mods sort this dutty foolishness out please!!!
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Posted: Tuesday June 12th, 2007 20:09 |
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Why do black men cheat? the same reason white men , china man, indian man .. etc.
We like sex and get fed up of the same sex but that dont mean we dont love the wife, women tie too much emotions into having sex, sorry but we dont. I think its something to do with nature, its the way nature ensure that we continue to breed.
Men just want to shag all the time and women are more selective, its like that to ensure that while men want sex women control it, so we dont over populate.
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Posted: Wednesday June 13th, 2007 07:37 |
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I have a simple theory:
Stereotype warning:
The average man would like a woman to have the same sexual personality (read that as good in bed in his eyes) in bed, it just he would like it with as many women as possible.
The average woman would like a man to have multiply sexual personalities in bed ( read that as a man with energy, passion, creativity, tenderness, sensitivity, staminia and an ability to kiss below the table like his life depended on it), it just she would like those personalities to be in one man and not be predictable.
SO: The average man has additional sexual partners (when in a relationship) because he is greedy, and the average woman has additional sexual partners (when in a relationship) because she is bored..
I also think that ego does play its part.. the average woman will say to herself that she wants to love you up like no other woman, but the average man will | | | |
