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 Posted: Wednesday July 28th, 2004 05:47

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TO BLACKBEAUTY,

U wrote: LOL@Obal. Ok b4 i make a fool of myself and ASSume i am going to ask. Are u being sarcastic?
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 Posted: Wednesday July 28th, 2004 15:30

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obal85 wrote: TO BLACKBEAUTY,

U wrote: LOL@Obal. Ok b4 i make a fool of myself and ASSume i am going to ask. Are u being sarcastic?
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LOL well in that case thank you. But trust me, u dont want to be taking any math lessons from me-what i wrote b4 is one of the few things i remember from math in school. :)



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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 14:26

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Hmm..I want Lisa Nicole Carson's hair colour. She's gorgeous. I think Jill scott is amazing looking too, along with Mo'Nique and the rest. They have a nice look to them, I love Mo'Nique's glamourousness. I think it's all great as long as you don't look like this...

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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 15:03

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MI NUH MINE BIG HOOMAN, CAAAS MI BEEN BREEDING UP ALL SIZES OF HOOMAN FI DI PAST 18 YEARS AN' DEM ALL JES AS GOOD AS ONE ANEDDA!!!!



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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 16:00

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What's the borderline between big and thick? In your opinions.:?



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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 16:18

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Well I just wanna know the answer to something that's puzzled me a long time?

LOL!

LMAO

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Are the men who only date oversize mampys or supersize big tings -

Suffering from low self esteem  issues?

Are these big tings - romantic predators who can spot a low self esteem dude and use her wides, sorry I mean wiles to snare him.

Heh heh!

Bro if you are  such  a dude, how did they get you?- Did she trap you with the promise of cook food every day or did she promise you a Whale of a time? 

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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 17:52

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That was cold. :P People come in all shapes and sizes, we're all human. Why would a guy have low self esteem if he's attracted to a woman who happens to be overweight? :?



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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 18:35

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Big women with good shape who wear clothes that suit them is all good.



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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 19:13

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Lucia wrote: debated  a while about whether to post.........................but here goes......................... I am a woman of "nikki parkers" stature (altho i dont think she is that pretty at all). I am a very attractive woman (if i say so myself) and have no problem with men. I was quite shocked to read the responses in here but also newly educated, (thanks everyone), i must admit i expected to see more pro big gal people but never mind. i just wanted to let all of you know that we do existed. "WE" meaning very attractive and sexy large women/girls.

P.s. I dress in a manor in which I always look classy, yet gets me the male attention i deserve.

Thanks 4 listening banana.gif


Hey nice one Lucia clp) I think we should (pun time) get out of the closet when it comes to big women & see them 4 who they are..They love need love just as much as a smaller woman or a matchstick woman..Carry & wear what you have well & yes god dam man you have it going on..

We all generalize @ times & its due to this that certain peeps or catergories will get beatdown..What I dont get is dat even if the big/large/fuller girl isn't yr cup of chocolate surely you can still see the quality in her the same way as if it was a girl in "your range" dat you lilke was to walk past you..

Even if you think that she is nice or alrite does'nt mean your gonna change your view on the bigger lady but @ least your being honest..No matter what any1 says your still gonna like/prefer what you like no matter what..

Anna Nicole Carson has a phat chest, dats what u fe really see, & I can see dat..She is nice doh..;)



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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 22:16

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@PrincessA wrote:

Why would a guy have low self esteem if he's attracted to a woman who happens to be overweight? :?


The same way we are told that women who have low self esteem always settle for any old man.

We are told there are predatory men who pick on vulnerable women right . . ?

So I want to know if that works the other way round or is it only women who can be victimised?

I think the men who only go for big tings are deluding themselves - they are settling for second best. :-)

But obviously due to low self esteem these men feel they have no option but to go XTra large when looking for women. LoL!

Most men want a reasonably curvy woman - not something that looks like the Michellin Man.

I say to you men - don't settle for anything less than you want. Be strong go out there and find the woman of your dreams.

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 Posted: Thursday July 29th, 2004 22:32

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thanks wotsits x



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 Posted: Friday July 30th, 2004 00:35

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I say to you men - don't settle for anything less than you want. Be strong go out there and find the woman of your dreams.

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mmmmmmmmmm agree with that 100%

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 Posted: Friday July 30th, 2004 01:14

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I am looking for fuller figured women. That are proud and confident about who they are and the way that they look.

If you are an African-Caribbean woman that does not let her size bother her. Eat what you like, buy the latest clothes and party as you like. Then please get in contact with me.

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 Posted: Friday July 30th, 2004 05:58

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Lucia wrote: thanks wotsits x

Ok (me with phat :) on me face) No probs (I have 2 blkhideas my dark chocolate self blushes)..niceone.gif



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@ Obal

Whats wrong with Lisa's mouth?



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DrunkMonkey wrote: @ Obal

Whats wrong with Lisa's mouth?


Metinks you've had 2 much brandy V.Duttybwoy..Nut'n wrong wid she mouth jus use your head & tink b4 you chat..:D



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Oh ok (Im a bit slow these days) LOL!!

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DrunkMonkey wrote: Oh ok (Im a bit slow these days) LOL!!

Blame it on da drink..On 2nd thoughts dont as dat'll constitute you have a problem..Your rite you slow man..

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Being big or fat or whatever u want to call it, is not healthy. If u r obese and want to eat whatever u like and party excessively without making any effort to lose weight, i say to u GOOD LUCK.

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runfromyourwife wrote: Well I just wanna know the answer to something that's puzzled me a long time?

LOL!

LMAO

LMBAO

Are the men who only date oversize mampys or supersize big tings -

Suffering from low self esteem  issues?

Are these big tings - romantic predators who can spot a low self esteem dude and use her wides, sorry I mean wiles to snare him.

Heh heh!

Bro if you are  such  a dude, how did they get you?- Did she trap you with the promise of cook food every day or did she promise you a Whale of a time? 

>>>pissin myself larfin<<<


AND WHAT DOES A MAN WHO IS REJECTED BY A BIG LADY HAVE? IMPOTENCY COMPLEX? HAHAHA



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@Lucas u...r...a..true clown all your posts are repeating the same stale mmmmmmmm

do everyone a favour and shut the ..........up silly lady.

be a man for ounce in your life and contribute something worthwhile to the threads silly big c**t.



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wotsits18 wrote: DrunkMonkey wrote: Oh ok (Im a bit slow these days) LOL!!

Blame it on da drink..On 2nd thoughts dont as dat'll constitute you have a problem..Your rite you slow man..

;) 


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AND WHAT DOES A MAN WHO IS REJECTED BY A BIG LADY HAVE?

Don't know - never met a man whose been rejected by a fatty - fatty.

IMPOTENCY COMPLEX? HAHAHA

Perhaps - but impotency can be cured - menopause can't be cured.

You are nothing but sick twisted menopausal irrelevant hag.

The only men you've been able to attract are poor spe_SEMENs who go limp on sight of your dumb rihn_arse_ soraus frame.

Skin like a reptile

Body like a hippo

Mind like - sewer

No wonder you're a bitter b**ch.

I'm off to talk to some non menopausal women

Ov_u_later  

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mmmmm

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u's a funny dude

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@Cashclp)clp)Sweet joke...five bellies indeed.

But serious point. Big women are not necessarily fat and obese women. But a bredrin of mine was making this comment not long ago, because in a way larger women are becoming widely accepted, this has become the excuse for some slack conduct in women not looking after themselves.

Go to any black community and you will see some big belly women hanging out thier tight pants with big stomach and midrifts riding their pants....confused2. Damn disgaceful.

Round my way you should see them and they think they are cool and going on with things too, that is what "burns" me.
Big is one thing..But 5 bellies a completely different matter. Nicky Parker on the programme has a lot to answer for...blkbrukteet

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You are just asking for it, LOL!  Remember one man's trash is another man's treasure. You may not find 5 bellys attractive but someone else probably does. In fact Maury Povich just did a show about complete opposits and one guy weiged about 160 pounds at 5 feet 7 inches tall and his girlfirend was a little taller and weighed about 3-hundred pounds and he adored her....said she was the woman of his dreams and he loved every inch of her...so it's entirely possible.niceone.gif



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