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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 07:32 |
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WTF! are you on about Akousa. Thats the biggest rubbish i have heard in days. black women are treated just the same no matter whether they are tal slim short skinny etc. i would say the majority do not have a prefernce as to teh size of their women only europeans do. and know a black man is not going to ide his female partner away just because of her size.
akousa wrote Black men gotta be the most stupid group of people on earth I don't know why I'm marrying one!
i beg to differ. if you dont like my brothers go find yourself one of your own. BLACK MEN ARE WONDERFUL AND ARE NOT HOOKED UP ON SUPERFICIAL STUFF. EUROPEAN MEN SEEM TO LIKE WOEMN THAT LOOK LIKE THEM IRONING BOARD BODY.  Akousa you need to watch what you say and explain yourself. as that issue on sex is just blatant lies and myth making.
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 09:53 |
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Akousa - Are you for real?  You must be having a laugh with us right?
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 10:06 |
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I must say ive been readin post before i felt brave enuf to sign up so i feel quite proud that Lady day and Miss brighter days has responded.(readin previous post by them)
Do you think that any men could shed some light on this?
especially on the 1st post placed
as im really not sure what context this is meant 
Anouska can u express you views on dis please?
you think that bigger women deserved to be shunned like this? If these reasons you claim to be true do they deserves to be used as an act of experimental sexual lusts?
(sorry got carried away there lol)
Why is slim seen as more desirable to take out? And Big seen as something to hide away? Would your partner whom you are to marry accept if you gain a few pounds?
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 11:48 |
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| Its hard to say whether men like big women or not, at the end of the day each men has their preferences. Taking Akosua point about men using big women just for sex for them to come quicker is quite ignorant, however my male friends have stated that they do prefer to sleep with "bigger boned" women as they want something more to hold on to as opposed to much slimmer women...but whichever the case may be, big or small women are beautiful in their own unique ways and if a man was too ashamed to take out a bigger women out on street then he needs to grow up!
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 20:57 |
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Um Excuse me, I'm probably darker than the all of you I am black so I can say wtf about my own that I please, but if a white girl says that I will join in with you and jump on them 
Anyways back to the subject...you think I just pulled this out of the air? My friends boyfriend told her that and I've had men say it to me. And to say "black women are treated the same no matter what they look like" alright are you 12, live on mars or just plain blind? Black guys don't even like girls to look "black" anymore...they like them to look like Beyonce lol and of course this doesn't apply to all black men I am speaking generally here sweety.
And yes it is because they are "embarassed" fat women aren't beautiful *shrugs* this is society saying this not me and unfortunatley black guys have adopted this ideology.
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 21:20 |
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Funny thing, my friend just called me upset saying that her boyf asked her why d put on alot of weight. Now my friend well she is slim but still has the African shape ie hips, booty, thighs but no boobs lol. He actually pointed at the biggest girl to her and said she should start eating!
Actually I remeber my boyf saying that he never went out with a woman. as slim as me. I think black men just like meat on bone, but i think they are under pressure by society to be seen in public by slim women.
All my aunties who are ahem "big boned" are married and the slim ones are not ( not generalising just looking at my enviornment), I duuno why but I remember my Uncle saying that he prefers big women, cause they can eat and he will be guaruanteed a nice hearty meal joker!
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 22:10 |
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An_Advanced_Spark wrote: Just a simple question
Is big beautiful to men?
I mean for example Ms Nikki Parker from the ' Parkers'
Very beautiful woman and big
What do you think?
Would you date a big woman? If so/ or not why
Have you dated a bigger woman?
Do you think the media dictates too much on what is beautiful? Is it a western attitude that is big disgusting and to be ashamed of?
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no no no NO HELL NO!
my taste goes as far as lisa from sister sister (jackee haree) perfect size
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 22:17 |
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Where i live, and this might apply to all da black boys in all da diff area codes, dey like breast and bumpa. and some gyals r chunky so dey have both.
I do think boys like big women, but i doubt if dey like dem as big as Nikki Parker. dey probably find her to be dominating.
And black men prefer to be in control and where the levis jeans in da relationship. The problem might be emmbarassment or they jus feel that if a woman is physically bigger than them,they might loose their "manlyness"
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 07:21 |
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| well i'm a girl an i hav quite a lot of male frendz.... they will look at an ugly girl dats slim an dey will chirpse her an den a pretty girl who happens to be a size 14 will walk by an dey wont look till she's gone past, den they'll check her batty... I'm talkin about BOYZ here not men, i dunno wot black men prefer, but i think black boys prefer size 12 and under depending on height. i dont even know too much boys dat like tall girls, dey seem 2 prefer ones my height, 5ft 5... i think theyve been watching too much tv and american music videos an its left dem brainwashed.
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 07:35 |
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Lisa from sister sister(Jakee Haree) has got a nice figure but she is not really what I would call big, she well proportioned not a size 10
That aside
Ok... Any particular reason why lucas?
This is to everyone :
Nikki parker was an example of the type of women I am talking about,
She is big and beautiful, she doesn't 'appear' to slob around as does look quite glamourous see what i mean?
hmm.. How about Queen latifah those type of shapes?
I mean as long has someone has a good heart and willing to treat you right thats all that SHOULD matter right?---Hmm... I guess not
Are we doomed to follow into a media based society?
(sorry love to do likkle cliff hanger)
What do you think of this woman for example?
Oh yeh and to Anousa, thank you for your opinion but could you explain (without being too graphical) of how they make them 'cum quicker'
and putting aside the What the media thinks is beautiful I would like to hear what YOU think.
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 09:38 |
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An_Advanced_Spark wrote: I mean as long has someone has a good heart and willing to treat you right thats all that SHOULD matter right?---Hmm... I guess not
As women we would like to think that men would go for those who have a good heart and would treat you right etc regardless of what size the woman is...but unfortunetly its not that case all the time. Some men want a trophy woman, the ones who have typical beauty and is of an "acceptable" size for them to show off to their friends and to fit in with their socal status.
We see it all the time on chat shows, the men who claim to love their partners/wives but would like for them to lose weight cause he's lost interest in her in terms of her looks or in having sex with her or what not...either way whether she's a wonderful person or not, unfortunetly her size will matter to the men with shallow, ignorant minds.
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 10:15 |
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Give me Queen big Ass and Titty Latifah with Angie Stone any day gooood lord.
Akousa: You are fool to say what you after asking the question on Racism you Fooooooooooooooooooooooool, well if blackmen aren't good enougth marry a Caucassion and have mix children then beg Black people to call dem Black you [censoredword]!
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 11:04 |
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Nothing wrong with a big woman. Well bigish anyway.
Over that and a stick woman then the woman with meat gets my vote everytime.
But one mans meat is another's poison.
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 12:57 |
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mmmmmm
ok... im gonna rant on this....
i am tired of hearing.. all this its the inside that counts ... looks dont matter...
HELL NO....
god made us with a sex drive... and that sex drive is inclusive of physical attraction..
(key word attraction) yes the inside counts...
but for me to get to girls inside i have to be first physical attracted...
no point me foolin myself... then we get into bed and i have to be thinkin about halle berry... or jenifer lopez.. or desree... so we can have decent sex HELL no... to please who... again HELL NO...
that would like for example...
i want a porsche... i have the money to buy a porsche.. yet i take the money and buy a vauxhall vectra instead.. then sit in my vectra and make posche sounds with my mouth VRRRRRRRRRRoooooom VRRRRRRoooom........ what would be the point of that...
physical attration is just as important.. as emotional attraction...
to think otherwise ur just foolin yourself...
men need to be atractted to their partner to perform.... well both physically and otherwise...
i aint doin no one no favours and lie to myself.... same as if a girl isnt attracted to me physically... i tell her there is no point even if she is attracted otherwise...
because i have seen where girls go out with men ther not phycally attracted to... but the like them for other reasons.. ie. sense of humour car money.. security etc etc.(strange)... and then they se a sexy man their are attracted to.... and thats where the temptation to cheat comes in....
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 13:04 |
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Lucas you too funny man
But seriously the point is that some people ARE attracted to big chicks. The physical thing is important but we don't all have the same tastes....
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 13:15 |
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i never said people werent attracted to big women.. or shouldnt be.. i am attracted to some big women as well..
i was responding to the statement...
"Advanced_Spark wrote: I mean as long has someone has a good heart and willing to treat you right thats all that SHOULD matter right?---Hmm... I guess not "
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 13:22 |
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I got nothing against big women either....... just not overbig
I like Lisa Nicole Carson...She got a good figure.
Too big is way way better than not big enough I think
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 13:24 |
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mansamusa wrote: Nothing wrong with a big woman. Well bigish anyway.
Over that and a stick woman then the woman with meat gets my vote everytime.
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 23:32 |
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@All nothing wrong with a well built woman at all. But she has to be in shape and fit. Most black men I know from school like a biggish woman or know women of that build who they fancy big time. That is not an obstacle to reject a woman.
Nicky Parker in the Parkers...Nooooo. Latifa yes. She's got a bueatiful and radiant face and big heart which comes through and she looks good and nice straight back.
Problem with women too big if there is an emergency the day of the hero putting them on your back and carrying them to danger is out of it. Two injured people ain't helpining anyone...
Wait here, I'll be back seems more appropriate on health and safety terms....
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 23:58 |
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Lucas... wrote:
that would like for example...
i want a porsche... i have the money to buy a porsche.. yet i take the money and buy a vauxhall vectra instead.. then sit in my vectra and make posche sounds with my mouth VRRRRRRRRRRoooooom VRRRRRRoooom........ what would be the point of that...
...sorry but that was funny...
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 23:58 |
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Posted: Thursday July 1st, 2004 00:06 |
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@Ashanti. Take it from me. Never been out with a really big girl. But no broomsticks either and strong. Try wrestling with some of those sisters and feel their power and stuff. So you can only imagine that dead weight if they fainted or something.
Honey I love you bad, but got to get out the tow rope for this one. Real.....What happen if my honey Latifa had a fainting spell in the middle of knowhere eg Caribbean countryside. No reception on the mobile phone. Heat beating down on your black arse...Serious dilemas...
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Posted: Thursday July 1st, 2004 00:12 |
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Fredblack wrote: @Ashanti. Take it from me. Never been out with a really big girl. But no broomsticks either and strong. Try wrestling with some of those sisters and feel their power and stuff. So you can only imagine that dead weight if they fainted or something.
Honey I love you bad, but got to get out the tow rope for this one. Real.....What happen if my honey Latifa had a fainting spell in the middle of knowhere eg Caribbean countryside. No reception on the mobile phone. Heat beating down on your black arse...Serious dilemas...
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Posted: Thursday July 1st, 2004 00:27 |
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@Ashanti on a real tip. One of my girlfriends not really tal but solid and athletic threatened to jump of the bed for me to catch her and I told her not to as even though she weighted average weight on scales she felt heavy when trying to lift her.
You know our women are ears hard. She jumps and I was forced to catch her. Been watching to many of those Saturday martinee movies with those stick thin blond girls falling and being caught by Cary Grant.
Ashanti. Sister I had no choice but to catch her as she would hurt herself. My height reduced by 6 inches and body had been pushed into my legs, when this weight just fell into my arms. The base of my spine was screaming and I could hardly walk and could not train for months. So if a 10 stone or so woman could do that what the hell would happen if it was Nicky Parker? Well I know what would happen cos I am going to do side shoe shuffle.....OOPS,.....
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Posted: Thursday July 1st, 2004 00:39 |
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@ Ja
Alright now bro...you know you need to stop...you got me in tears over here,
But you know what...I have no doubt you would do the honorable thing in that situation had it happened with someone like Miss Parker...you would have caught her in your handsome arms as you looked at her lovingly with a big smile on your face....aww the things we do for love, right?!
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