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 Posted: Tuesday November 11th, 2003 21:44

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 Posted: Wednesday November 19th, 2003 06:45

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Kareem. Its confimed. Soft is best. And soft with a lil flesh has nothing wrong with it either. blkrainbowfro ummmmmmmmmmm



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 Posted: Tuesday November 25th, 2003 02:40

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Black people can be naturally stockier than our white counterparts but that could be down to your own family genetics and our diets. We are shaped different and carry our weight differently.

Sometimes you have to take into account that some people have slower a mettabolism than others, so even if they have the same food intake but they burn less.

Obesity is not a size 16 or 18, we're talking 26+. It is normally a psychological / habitual problems that causes it.

A lot of other illnesses can happen with smaller people too, but having a lot of weight can make certain risks higher.

But being tick is beautiful and i agree that the media need to stop trying to influence people to believe that slim is best, because the majority of men i know would rather have a girl with thighs and booty anyday!



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 Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 04:56

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 Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 05:07

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That was the best comment I've read. I'm quite a big girl myself and the same goes for me when it comes to men. I can't deal with a man who is the same size as me, that would be difficult. I need a nice slim man to even out the equation.



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 Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 05:15

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Mixedblood wrote: That was the best comment I've read. I'm quite a big girl myself and the same goes for me when it comes to men. I can't deal with a man who is the same size as me, that would be difficult. I need a nice slim man to even out the equation.

@Mixedblood

Your comments made me laugh do you mean a slim man so that he can mold himself around you.

@All

As long as your happy confident and comfortable with yourself and healthy most men will pick up on this vibe  anyway and you will be the ones they want to chat to. 



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 Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 05:36

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clp) WELL SAID MAFDET , IT'S ALL IN HOW YOU PERCIEVE YOURSELF , CONFIDENCE LEVEL ETC. MEN WILL BE DRAWN TO YOU REGUARDLESS.

 

@ MIXEDBLOOD :

 

I'M QUITETHE OPPOSITE AM USUALLY DRAWN TO STOCKY MEN , KIND OF LIKE THE BROTHER THAT PLAYED IN THE MOVIE "THE GREEN MILE"   HE WAS A WHOLE LOT OF MAN BUT HE HAD SUCH A TENDER HEART AND DEAMENOR. I'VE NEVER REALLY DATED SLIM MEN BEFORE THE OPPORTUNITY SIMPLY HASN'T ARISED BUT IF ANY PARTICULAR MAN NO MATTER HIS SIZE POSSESSED THE QUALITIES I DESIRED IN A MAN I'D BE CONTENT WITH THAT. HOWEVER SOMETHING ABOUT THE THOUGHT OF BOROUGHING MY HEAD SAFELY AND SECURELY IN STRONG ARMS AND MASCULINE CHEST IS QUITE APPEASING/ APPEALING TO ME AS A WHOLE........... HAVE A GOOD ONE MY SISTA ! 

 

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 Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 05:46

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Karen Applewhite wrote:  

 

@ MIXEDBLOOD : 

 

HOWEVER SOMETHING ABOUT THE THOUGHT OF BOROUGHING MY HEAD SAFELY AND SECURELY IN STRONG ARMS AND MASCULINE CHEST IS QUITE APPEASING/ APPEALING TO ME AS A WHOLE........... HAVE A GOOD ONE MY SISTA ! 

 

KAREN,  guyflag


 

Karen you know it ain't that the truth niceone.gif





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 Posted: Friday December 12th, 2003 01:04

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Mixedblood wrote: That was the best comment I've read. I'm quite a big girl myself and the same goes for me when it comes to men. I can't deal with a man who is the same size as me, that would be difficult. I need a nice slim man to even out the equation.

 

I FEEL THAT THOUGH SOME HEAVY MEN ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE, I DO PREFER THIN TO MUSCULAR MEN.clp)



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 Posted: Monday June 7th, 2004 12:57

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Hi Friends

I am looking for fuller figured women. That are proud and confident about who they are and the way that they look.

If you are an African-Caribbean woman that does not let her size bother her. Eat what you like, buy the latest clothes and party as you like. Then please get in contact with me.

janeylondon@yahoo.com

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 Posted: Monday June 7th, 2004 21:09

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Whats the purpose of this?



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 Posted: Monday June 7th, 2004 21:30

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Janeylondon..

Why don't you try posting your advert on the 'Webpal' section..You may get a better response.

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 Posted: Monday June 7th, 2004 22:08

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please explain more and what do you determine as full figured?



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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 10:37

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I am researching for a possible programme on black women that are proud and confident with their weight etc

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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 10:38

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Thanks for the advice!



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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 10:39

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Fuller figured would mean what this society classes as being overweight.



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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 11:32

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janeylondon wrote: Hiya

I am researching for a possible programme on black women that are proud and confident with their weight etc

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offtopic.gif however can you truly be proud and confident caring around extra weight? Of course, it depends on how much weight we are talking about here, but just imagine caring around two car tyres all day every day, apparently, if you are 20 pounds over weight that's exactly what you'll be caring around. 



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Ok what is 20 pound is stones?



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20 Pounds in stones is 1 stone and 6 pounds.

Personally I don't think that is a lot of extra weight compared to what some people are carrying around with them!!!  confused3 



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girlfriend85 wrote: 20 Pounds in stones is 1 stone and 6 pounds.

Personally I don't think that is a lot of extra weight compared to what some people are carrying around with them!!!  confused3  


Can't say 20 pounds excessive weight isn't a lot but i know what you mean.  



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Miss Brighter Days wrote: Ok what is 20 pound is stones?


20 pounds = 1 stone and about 4 pounds.

To convert pounds into stones u divide by 14 and to convert stone into pounds you multiply by 14 (as there r 14 pounds in every stone).



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Thanks all. Then 20 pounds aint nothing!



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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 14:50

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full figured is aan evil word!!! It means fat, not western fat, not english fat, not white fat, just fat!!! Most women arent happy carrying that weight , thats why you see them wearing jackets 4 sizes under there own. As black peopel we are already more sucepible to high blood pressure, diabities, kidney failure, etc and now we wana addobesiyty to our growing list of problems.

To full figured women, put the hot dog down and do a sit up. 10 sit ups a day, keeps these 5 belliies away



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Lol...

Your evil CashMoney......

"10 sit ups a day, keeps these 5 belliies away" ??

 

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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 15:53

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janeylondon wrote: Hiya

I am researching for a possible programme on black women that are proud and confident with their weight etc


We all know obesity has been shown to be a major risk factor for cardiovascular dieses and we know that less physical activity and more fat and calorie intake are among the various factors contributing to the dramatic rise in obesity among black people. 


I don’t get the point of the program, please explain to me the objective/s of this program. It’s got to be more than “I am big, beautiful and proudâ€? because there is no way (Please disagree with me if i am wrong) anyone could claim to be happy and proud carrying excessive potentially deadly fat? 

@CashMoney: 10 sit ups a day, keeps these 5 belliies away

LOL but surely you mean 10 * something.



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CashMoney wrote:
To full figured women, put the hot dog down and do a sit up. 10 sit ups a day, keeps these 5 belliies away


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is this for the jerry springer show id love to see that.

(sounds like bamboozled come to life to me.)

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 Posted: Tuesday June 8th, 2004 18:44

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@janeylondon the show/project sounds good. i know many ladies who do not fit into catwalk tv celebrity breadstick thin and are loving it. peopel on here make me laugh as it seems many associate bad eating habits with being so called overweight when that may not be the case.

 



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