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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 05:55

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First, remember to speak for yourself...because i know u dont speak for all black people..
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You are right, i aint speaking for uncle tom like yourself. However, i can speak for most blacks cos most blacks dont date outside their race.

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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 10:20

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Sorry no one has been brainwashed . Iam a white fella who for the last 30 years has only dated Black women and been married to one for the last 15 years. They are  the best in every way . These women can take care of themselves and loyal to their partner. So what I really would like to say is if Black guys are at their happiest whilst chasing white mamas , then let them , so much the better for white guys who feel like me .



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Why not try talking properly again then . After all if someone acts and talks like a thug then he will be thought of as one !!!!



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I think you have a problem and you sound like a racist . Anyone should be able to love whoever . White`s aren`t superior and neither are Blacks



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 Posted: Sunday October 17th, 2004 13:57

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obal85 wrote: First, remember to speak for yourself...because i know u dont speak for all black people..
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You are right, i aint speaking for uncle tom like for yourself. However, i can speak for most blacks cos most blacks dont date outside their race.

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Sorry to dissapoint you but not every black person who only dates someone who is black shares your way of thinking..
So again, speak for yourself because you dont speak for every black person ( whoever the race of their partner is)


And yea i am black and will continue to be black and love who i am regardless ..you may beg to differ because my boyf is mixed race (not the same race as me) but that is your problem and you can stay vexed all your life whilst i will continue to be happy.;), so whatever you say has no affect on me .. but the "uncle tom" comment was a nice try and im sure it made you feel a whole lot better to get that out of your system (lol) ,

 
But them label's/comments only would  bother someone who is insecure about who they are as a black person and who need the reassurance from people they dont know (such as yourself) to determine who they are and how they feel about themselves.
Unfortuantly for you that is'nt me.


 

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 Posted: Monday October 18th, 2004 17:06

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TO ARNOLD,

U wrote:I think you have a problem and you sound like a racist .

Thats rich coming from someone whose race has caused pain, oppression and destruction to blacks, Red Indians and other races in U.S.A, Brazil, Africa, West Indies, Vietnam, Australia and countless places. Your kind should not be accusing others of sounding racist.

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Anyone should be able to love whoever .

This is blackchat where we promote black-on-black relationship and progress of the black race without detriment of other racial groups. Can't you find a white woman to love in your community? Interracial relationship weakens us as black people and most of us cannot tolerate it any longer ok.

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White`s aren`t superior and neither are Blacks.

Whites are not superior? Bite me. Penetrate white community and tell that to your cracker brothers at Ku Klux Klan, National Front, Stormfront and other pieces of sh*ts you would like to enlighten. As long as your people continue to oppress blacks in Europe, South Africa, Zimbabwe (claiming lands that was not yours in the first place), Brazil to mention but a few, i will continue to be on your whitey case. Take your conscience off your buttocks and put it back in your brain.

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 Posted: Monday October 18th, 2004 17:13

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TO ARNOLD,

U wrote: Sorry no one has been brainwashed . Iam a white fella who for the last 30 years has only dated Black women and been married to one for the last 15 years.

You are a white fella? so what. Am i supposed to make you a swastika or kiss your white ass for getting married to a black uncle tom? whats the basis for telling me this?

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TO ARNOLD,

U wrote: After all if someone acts and talks like a thug then he will be thought of as one !!!!

I am not surprised about being called a THUG by your kind. History and experience have shown that when a black person reacts to white racism, he gets labelled a THUG. When Malcolm X reacted to your kind's maltreatment of blacks in the southern parts of U.S.A. via segregation, lynchings, black church burnings (remember the 4 little girls?) and countless vices committed by your kind, wasn't that what your kind labelled him "THUG"?

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 Posted: Monday October 18th, 2004 17:29

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TO AFROBOO,

U wrote: Sorry to dissapoint you but not every black person who only dates someone who is black shares your way of thinking..
So again, speak for yourself because you dont speak for every black person ( whoever the race of their partner is).


Disappoint me? How could you possibly disappoint me? The only person getting disappointed is yourself. My way of thinking with regards to relationship is the same as most black people regardless of where they reside on this globe. Like me, most black people all over the world date/marry black people and in the event that you are an exception, so what have i and other blacks got to lose? So what are you on about?

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 Posted: Monday October 18th, 2004 19:48

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Well good for you and anyone else who feels like you ..

As far as i am concerned
As long as we can love ourselves and we're all happy with who we are with,  thats all that should matter..

So therefore any judgements made (based on the race of someones current partner) ,are only assumptions..and assumptions are just untruth's waiting to be proved otherwise.

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It might be too late for our older sistas, but not too late for our kids. Lets teach them the right way now.



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It is time for all those Black women, who have been brain washed by the British media to the extent that they believe the white man is superior to the Black Man, to wake up and return before it is to late. I believe this is just the start of the new order of slavery based on willie lynches theory of how to make a slave, this is what the white man currently doing to us on physcological level


Men need to return also. There are more black men marrying white women than black women marrying white men. Blacks as a whole need to be loyal to each other unless that white person really is the person they are supposed to be with.

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Thank you

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We may lost some sista's, but honestly, there are more brothas marrying white women, so when people are telling black women to come back to black men, it sounds funny



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i think its time to accept people of all colour to accept and respect individuals decisions about dating sexuality religon and politics
i should never matter who anyone chooses to spend their life wtih.
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So what you are saying is you want me to give up what I have to go back to men who have next to no chance of succeeding at anything because they want to keep blaming everyone else for their woes and blaming everyone else for their showing in society. I have a loving caring man and he is white. I have been with several black men and aside from the beatings, the drug use and the guns I think I am better off. I hate rap music, I love Bach, I hate hip hop, I love Sade, I hate reggae, I love opera, but whenever I tried to explain that to the black man I was dating he insisted I change back to black. So what he meant was segregate myself voluntarily from the rest of society for the sake of pride in Africa, a country I have and never will go to and because if I don't I am a traitor to the black race. May I remind you that nearly 70% of all crime is black associated and and nearly all the gun and drug crime can be traced back to black gangs. WOW!! I can't wait to get back to that. Simple truth....it's time black parents stopped teaching the kids that all their problems are because of everyone else in the world. My parents did that to me and my 4 siblings, plus start teaching them to use their minds and join the rest of us trying to make society a better place.



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By the way asshole....there is only one race, the human race....you sound like the very white people you claim are the problem......the segregationists.



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blooknight wrote: So what you are saying is you want me to give up what I have to go back to men who have next to no chance of succeeding at anything because they want to keep blaming everyone else for their woes and blaming everyone else for their showing in society. I have a loving caring man and he is white. I have been with several black men and aside from the beatings, the drug use and the guns I think I am better off. I hate rap music, I love Bach, I hate hip hop, I love Sade, I hate reggae, I love opera, but whenever I tried to explain that to the black man I was dating he insisted I change back to black. So what he meant was segregate myself voluntarily from the rest of society for the sake of pride in Africa, a country I have and never will go to and because if I don't I am a traitor to the black race. May I remind you that nearly 70% of all crime is black associated and and nearly all the gun and drug crime can be traced back to black gangs. WOW!! I can't wait to get back to that. Simple truth....it's time black parents stopped teaching the kids that all their problems are because of everyone else in the world. My parents did that to me and my 4 siblings, plus start teaching them to use their minds and join the rest of us trying to make society a better place.

You're a coconut, just accept the fact and live with it.  You complain about black people blaming others for their problems, yet you are on here blaming black men for your decision to marry white.  Get off this site, you're wasting our time with your idiocy when you should be busy white washing your blood.  You've turned your back on your own people and that is sad, just don't expect us to come to your aid when the "better" society you're joining lets you know exactly what it means to be black.  Stop sterotyping black men to make yourself look good.  I have a father, a good, hard working black man who doesn't abuse his wife, take drugs nor blame his woes on other people.  It is an insult to him and the other good black men in the world when coconuts like you drag black man's names through the mud to validate your contradictory, coconut tendencies.   If you want to be with a white man, then be with a white man but don't blame others for it.  I bet you've never even been with a black man, coconuts never date black yet you'll gladly complain about the opposite sex of your race. 

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Aryek wrote: blooknight wrote: So what you are saying is you want me to give up what I have to go back to men who have next to no chance of succeeding at anything because they want to keep blaming everyone else for their woes and blaming everyone else for their showing in society. I have a loving caring man and he is white. I have been with several black men and aside from the beatings, the drug use and the guns I think I am better off. I hate rap music, I love Bach, I hate hip hop, I love Sade, I hate reggae, I love opera, but whenever I tried to explain that to the black man I was dating he insisted I change back to black. So what he meant was segregate myself voluntarily from the rest of society for the sake of pride in Africa, a country I have and never will go to and because if I don't I am a traitor to the black race. May I remind you that nearly 70% of all crime is black associated and and nearly all the gun and drug crime can be traced back to black gangs. WOW!! I can't wait to get back to that. Simple truth....it's time black parents stopped teaching the kids that all their problems are because of everyone else in the world. My parents did that to me and my 4 siblings, plus start teaching them to use their minds and join the rest of us trying to make society a better place.

You're a coconut, just accept the fact and live with it.  You complain about black people blaming others for their problems, yet you are on here blaming black men for your decision to marry white.  Get off this site, you're wasting our time with your idiocy when you should be busy white washing your blood.  You've turned your back on your own people and that is sad, just don't expect us to come to your aid when the "better" society you're joining lets you know exactly what it means to be black.  Stop sterotyping black men to make yourself look good.  I have a father, a good, hard working black man who doesn't abuse his wife, take drugs nor blame his woes on other people.  It is an insult to him and the other good black men in the world when coconuts like you drag black man's names through the mud to validate your contradictory, coconut tendencies.   If you want to be with a white man, then be with a white man but don't blame others for it.  I bet you've never even been with a black man, coconuts never date black yet you'll gladly complain about the opposite sex of your race. 


 

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blooknight, ( judging by the number of posts you have, i think that you are just some mischief maker trying to stir up some sh it, but, i'll bite)

you think that just because you walk street on the arm of a white man, that the rest of society will not see you as some kind of low life black n*gger like they try to portray the  rest of us as ? is he some kind of 'pass'?

dont kid yourself fool. when you are on the bus or in a queue, the white woman next to you will always hold her handbag that little tighter, regardless of the colour of the man who takes you up the arse every night.

me, i have always been an advocate on these boards for dating outside race if you love or connect with somebody of another colour...........

...but i resent being called a rap loving thief just because you have dated a few losers who found you too stuck up your own arse and superior like you do seem.

if black men are leading the crime statistics in certain areas, then may i remind you what colour tops the paedophile crime stats? all i'm saying is, if you have kids by this guy..............watch him closely, especially if he suddenly goes off sex with you, or you wake up in the middle of the night to an empty space................

 

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blooknight wrote: So what you are saying is you want me to give up what I have to go back to men who have next to no chance of succeeding at anything because they want to keep blaming everyone else for their woes and blaming everyone else for their showing in society. I have a loving caring man and he is white. I have been with several black men and aside from the beatings, the drug use and the guns I think I am better off. I hate rap music, I love Bach, I hate hip hop, I love Sade, I hate reggae, I love opera, but whenever I tried to explain that to the black man I was dating he insisted I change back to black. So what he meant was segregate myself voluntarily from the rest of society for the sake of pride in Africa, a country I have and never will go to and because if I don't I am a traitor to the black race. May I remind you that nearly 70% of all crime is black associated and and nearly all the gun and drug crime can be traced back to black gangs. WOW!! I can't wait to get back to that. Simple truth....it's time black parents stopped teaching the kids that all their problems are because of everyone else in the world. My parents did that to me and my 4 siblings, plus start teaching them to use their minds and join the rest of us trying to make society a better place.

 

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Anyway, I would never take back a woman like blooknight.  If you've gone over there that's where you are staying.

I've experienced women who have jumped the fence and when things don't turn out right after their sly clandestine ventures they turn into creatures.  The thing that never suprises me is that they will never open their mouth to comdemn the white man that did them wrong or even tell anyone about their ventures but will come back to their supposed black people even more bitter, resentful and with a greater sense of self-loathing and continue to bad mouth us.  There's plenty of them, believe. 

And I always wonder about the particular type of woman who makes a great effort of totally avoid eye contact by focusing what's 90 degrees to the left/right of them or who focuses on the pavement as if gold were on it just as I walk past them as if I personally have done something wrong to them.  Something's definately going on there.  It feels like they're ashamed of something.

Clandestine yes, I see them nearly everyday.  Stealth and secretive tactics. 

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Actually black women are the ones that are breeding all over the place and who deserve the title,  they would for 3 different man.

They would breed within the first six months a man just to keep him.

all over Africa the women breed for any colonizing of invading force, whether they are Germans, English or Indian.

You think black women were  raped in slavery days? Think again, a large portion of them gave them self's to the slave master.



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@ Locsgirl and Stylishsista, if u're still around:

There is no "right man." Ask your grandmothers who were probably married for FIFTY years or something. You'd be surprised to hear how Granddaddy used to be when he was younger. But you never heard grandma going on about how there were no good black men.

And they'd tell you that their relationships didn't work because their husbands were "the right man," but because they worked at making their relationship work.

I mean, I'm sure the brothas will agree that a lot of sistahs are downright mean, cold and selfish. But most of us don't go around bytching about how there are no