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EF MAX
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Posted: Tuesday June 12th, 2007 07:10 |
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If you are not interested in marriage, and you say so, albeit because:
a) You are just not interested
b) You are too young/old
c) You are not ready
d) You have another reason
Should you still be dating?
What I am asking is this; dating can be fun, but I date because I love the company of the opposite sex when I am doing fun things,, and of course the intimate side is cool to; and I do not view every date partner as a future marriage partner.. I see them as companionship that could turn into a very loving friendship or relationship..
If marriage is not on my agenda on day one, should I not date [even when my date is just looking for a date today but maybe a partner tomorrow]
... Especially when so many women seem to say that on those first few dates, they are scanning me, checking me out as mate material, suitable parent/provider material,, when all I want to do TODAY, is enjoy your company and have some fun..
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Posted: Wednesday June 13th, 2007 17:33 |
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Good question........ with me my date would be cool, coz that would not me my 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 50th thought. But some people are out there scannning for a potential mate either for a long term relationship or more. So the question is how long do you date the person before telling them that marriage is not high on your agenda. Or should you try and get that fact in on the first date so as not to lead the person on?
I'm impulsive so I would say something early either indirectly or direct depending on flow of conversation.
You shouldn't stop dating though... just gauge the situation and get it in (your thougts on marriage) when the time is right, coz you dont want to put off someone who you might later fall in love with and actually want to marry or have a long term relationship with.
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Posted: Wednesday June 13th, 2007 17:40 |
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Funny you say this..because i remember telling my NOW wife, went we first met that I just wanted to hang,That I definately wanted no kissy kissy business and nothing serious and lets just go from there.... Now look I done gone married the flipping woman LMAO...
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Posted: Wednesday June 13th, 2007 17:52 |
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LOL @ Kunjufu, that is what FX MAX needs to be aware of.... happens alot.
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Posted: Wednesday June 13th, 2007 17:55 |
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Kunjufu wrote: Funny you say this..because i remember telling my NOW wife, when we first met that I just wanted to hang,That I definately wanted no kissy kissy business and nothing serious and lets just go from there.... Now look I done gone married the flipping woman LMAO...
Lol
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