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lilthuggy
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Posted: Monday May 21st, 2007 11:54 |
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Hey folks...
I was having a conversation with some people I work with yesterday about men etc blah blah...
They both have a significant other but they are both young...so I asked them; how do you know you really like them? One girl responded, you just know, its a feeling you have...
This got me thinking...
Is that how you know? Because from what the girl was saying, it seemed like she 'thought' she liked him, but there was no substance behind it, as she only liked him for his looks, or his persona...
What does everyone think?
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Posted: Monday May 21st, 2007 12:27 |
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| you can not go on emotions alone because emotions change. personally i need to be spiritually, soiulfully and physically connected. thats my view
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Posted: Monday May 21st, 2007 13:03 |
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soulunique wrote: you can not go on emotions alone because emotions change. personally i need to be spiritually, soiulfully and physically connected. thats my view
Yes emotions change, but so does one's spirituality, physical forms and so on. Everything is subject to change....nothing is ever static. Personally, the longetivity of a relationship is dependent on whether or not BOTH parties are willing to ADAPT to their changing perceptions, there will always have to be a give and take....plenty of compromises and the realisation that unless the man or woman is a nutcase, the grass is hardly ever greener on the other side.
Besides, if most of us just stopped dating for other people(friends and families), most relationships wouldn't be needing much.....i am the happiest i have been with anyone for a long time because i am finally dating someone who is different in his own ways, yet makes me very happy..... yet my cousin thinks hes nuts and my friends thinks he is too shy. The old me would have taken this into consideration and try change him. Now i just chill and let it develop.......and it's so much easier.
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Posted: Monday May 21st, 2007 14:46 |
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Mezmerized wrote: Besides, if most of us just stopped dating for other people(friends and families), most relationships wouldn't be needing much
You know that is so very true. I know people who date certain type of people for the 'perception' it creates, or because it would please their friends/family. I think this kind of attitude is a whole load of crap.
Last edited on Monday May 21st, 2007 14:47 by lilthuggy
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