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Posted: Saturday May 12th, 2007 02:24 |
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It had to come from America, where else!
Did anyone watch this the other day. What r yr thorts ladies or men for that matter.
In this modern world of equality between men and women, I find it hard to believe that there are women out there that feel they need to live this way of life with their man! Or am I just a feminist. 
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Posted: Saturday May 12th, 2007 10:11 |
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didnt watch it as i forgot about it
must have been an interesting viewing though
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Posted: Saturday May 12th, 2007 11:09 |
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Always remember women were created to serve man.
so why is it sooo suprising when a woman does what she was ACTUALLY put on this earth to do?
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Posted: Sunday May 13th, 2007 12:41 |
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Black_Power wrote: Always remember women were created to serve man.
so why is it sooo suprising when a woman does what she was ACTUALLY put on this earth to do?
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Posted: Sunday May 13th, 2007 13:44 |
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Black_Power wrote: Always remember women were created to serve man.
and man was created to wipe his own ass 
Last edited on Sunday May 13th, 2007 13:44 by Afriki
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Posted: Sunday May 13th, 2007 14:21 |
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I saw the programme, I actually agreed with some elements of it. Some peoples relationships benefited from doing this style of surrended wife business e less arguments but also getting on better. But I wasnt sure about the part where the husband decides how you dress and wear your hair.
Also the woman who worked to a housework timetable that was drawn up by her husband wasnt sure about that either. But each to your own if your marriage and lasts and you are BOTH happy then why not?? Like it was stated cant remember the exact percentage but a high number of marriages end in divorce. But its a two way street and the woman is not a doormat, but merely serving her husband but her husband serves her in a different way ie goes out to work and is the head of the household. Dont know if I could personally do it myself but like I said each to their own.
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 00:25 |
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You couldn't tell my ex wife anything, she knew it all so didn't have to listen to anything I said so just carried on doing her own thing. Ironic that when she was getting divorced all of a sudden she developed this listening ear that wanted to know all this stuff she discovered she didn't know. Guess she can take that to the next punk and drop it like it was something she always knew . Muppet.
We live in times were people think a 9-5 is proof that they are not fundamentally thick. Some men like to have a woman as a doormat, not me, she has to be my cerebral equal....you might as well sleep with a plank of wood. I suppose having a wife willing to be a doormat is seen by the husband (and the wife) as two minds thinking alike. Is alike in this sense the same as equal - 2 minds equalling 1 equals successful marriage.
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 10:36 |
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Incognito wrote: You couldn't tell my ex wife anything, she knew it all so didn't have to listen to anything I said so just carried on doing her own thing. Ironic that when she was getting divorced all of a sudden she developed this listening ear that wanted to know all this stuff she discovered she didn't know. Guess she can take that to the next punk and drop it like it was something she always knew. Muppet.
We live in times were people think a 9-5 is proof that they are not fundamentally thick. Some men like to have a woman as a doormat, not me, she has to be my cerebral equal....you might as well sleep with a plank of wood. I suppose having a wife willing to be a doormat is seen by the husband (and the wife) as two minds thinking alike. Is alike in this sense the same as equal - 2 minds equalling 1 equals successful marriage.
So your cerebral equal was...a muppet?? Shame.
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 11:13 |
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Well I didn't watch it, but I get the jist.....well if it suits both parties where is the problem sha? It's nothing I would be interested in, but if the next woman is ok with it, good luck to her and her man I say.
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 18:06 |
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c&j - so you got jokes - well muppet this time round was actually referring to me
Had my suspicions but there was enough to give her the benefit of the doubt that all those years of silence was her actually learning and chosing the rastaman way of life...guess you can only deceive for so long...it will come to a head.
Once she got her security she started to impose her own ways, yes those same ways she knew she could never tell me about...started bringing in her babylons bible for the yoots room, her microwave oven et all and when she get pull up on it you find out it's some big super you're dealing with.
Again it baffles me why she complains that I don't communicate when it's quite obvious she doesn't want to hear anything that I've got to say. In the end the only thing she found out was the next woman so I'm guessing she put two and two together and thought I've got a new woman so I'm off which is probably what she sold to the public.....nothing about the monkey name she gave my second boy or the oven or the pikney tv or the big super business. Muppet.
Quite sad cos if I found another woman but knew the babymother was dedicated to raising the yoots dem I would have left her everything as I could have easily moved in with the new wife and start my finances from scratch. But the fact that she try tek it or even worse saw it as hers as opposed to mine to give...and then the sell out business...you know them girls who have to put on a brave monkey face to you but bawls eye water to your enemies...yeah, never knew she was married until she got divorced...never knew she was fat until she got divorced....never knew she was an African until she got divorced....the list goes on.
She's still got some babylon cards to draw (mainly money) but she knows I don't run down that sh!t had it aplenty and gave most of it away. All she's got on me now is my boys but as I've said, when the crunch comes it's me one and the heavenly father in this....and besides since the day they were born I don't think shes's had more than 24 hours apart from them...losing them would kill her.....worse ting she knows I got a wifey who will raise and treat them like her own. She knows she was never representing she should have pi$$ed off a long time ago...think there were some hints I didn't take along the way but hey
Yeah got my honeys awaiting but reality is my boys need me more than I need any woman but that's not in my hands and to be honest that's all the babymother is out to prove..that with the backing of her white slavemasters I haven't got control over the only thing I lived for..the safety and security of the next generation. Monkey. Must be me she's using to get revenge on her wotliss poopa. LOL
But yeah it's all good...life is full of twists and turns and there's whole heap more to come. Women and saving face...you really gotta laugh...give her a low maintenance environment, a few novels and some soap operas...she'll be fine.
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 18:57 |
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Incognito wrote: c&j - so you got jokes - well muppet this time round was actually referring to me
Had my suspicions but there was enough to give her the benefit of the doubt that all those years of silence was her actually learning and chosing the rastaman way of life...guess you can only deceive for so long...it will come to a head.
Once she got her security she started to impose her own ways, yes those same ways she knew she could never tell me about...started bringing in her babylons bible for the yoots room, her microwave oven et all and when she get pull up on it you find out it's some big super you're dealing with.
Again it baffles me why she complains that I don't communicate when it's quite obvious she doesn't want to hear anything that I've got to say. In the end the only thing she found out was the next woman so I'm guessing she put two and two together and thought I've got a new woman so I'm off which is probably what she sold to the public.....nothing about the monkey name she gave my second boy or the oven or the pikney tv or the big super business. Muppet.
Quite sad cos if I found another woman but knew the babymother was dedicated to raising the yoots dem I would have left her everything as I could have easily moved in with the new wife and start my finances from scratch. But the fact that she try tek it or even worse saw it as hers as opposed to mine to give...and then the sell out business...you know them girls who have to put on a brave monkey face to you but bawls eye water to your enemies...yeah, never knew she was married until she got divorced...never knew she was fat until she got divorced....never knew she was an African until she got divorced....the list goes on.
She's still got some babylon cards to draw (mainly money) but she knows I don't run down that sh!t had it aplenty and gave most of it away. All she's got on me now is my boys but as I've said, when the crunch comes it's me one and the heavenly father in this....and besides since the day they were born I don't think shes's had more than 24 hours apart from them...losing them would kill her.....worse ting she knows I got a wifey who will raise and treat them like her own. She knows she was never representing she should have pi$$ed off a long time ago...think there were some hints I didn't take along the way but hey
Yeah got my honeys awaiting but reality is my boys need me more than I need any woman but that's not in my hands and to be honest that's all the babymother is out to prove..that with the backing of her white slavemasters I haven't got control over the only thing I lived for..the safety and security of the next generation. Monkey. Must be me she's using to get revenge on her wotliss poopa. LOL
But yeah it's all good...life is full of twists and turns and there's whole heap more to come. Women and saving face...you really gotta laugh...give her a low maintenance environment, a few novels and some soap operas...she'll be fine.
Now where those conscious sistas@
Oh so you were the muppet? I get it now.
But I guess I was still right - because if you are a muppet then 'your cerebral equal' by definition must also be a muppet.
Incognito, I'd just like to say how interesting I find your posts. They read like intimate journal entries, all on the one theme: The Ex Wife. From where I'm standing, what you feel for that woman appears to be true obsession. I wonder if she's flattered (if she knows about it) or disturbed by it? I must admit, it does entertain me so thank you.
Percy Sledge was right though, when a man loves a woman, can't keep his mind on nothin else.
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 20:25 |
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c&j - not quite...the conspiracy is a lot broader than you can imagine..as I'm sure I've told you before, there's a hidden audience. From when the ex wife tells you don't worry, she's got all the links (probably supplied by some hypocrite grey boy African militant) then it's like Eastenders, you got to keep the ball rolling...and sometimes you have to plat fool to catch wise...only sometimes though
Saying that, guess I've always been family oriented so anything elsde is a compromise. Even if I take my boys out to say a park or something, I could go with another woman as well but it's just not the same as going with the family.
But f88k that...the more you stand for the more you stand to lose. Nature blesses you with the tools to do what you have to do. The ex is superficial so for the most part you just need to tell her what she wants to hear and she's in your camp. Me my geniune sincerity and my nature of saying what I mean and meaning what I say leaves me exposed to hypocrites. Even the ex told me there are women out there just waiting for men like me...they see me coming a mile off...to genuine for my own good. So believe me, all that she might say to defend her face believe she screwing that it's me who doesn't find her worthy....ok got a couple of grey boys turned militant trying to stiffen her back but she knows...and they do to.
But yeah, my vulnerability means nature has blessed me with a cold side to deal with that if and when it comes...when the time comes to get cold I get frosty....that ex better mind she doesn't turn me into the old me LOL.
Can tell you about my new wife. I sent her a text one day with those very same words, when a man loves a woman. Heavenly coincidentally, she just happened to be listening to the very same song on the radio and we were in different countries at the time. The way it caught her off guard she thought it was a text from the radio station..but it was me. Ahhhh...some things were just meant to be innit so why would you want to be dossing around in a yard waring with a feminist grey. Still, maybe the new wife saw me coming too LOL.
But hey, certain people will only respond to certain comments. Like I told the ex, you couldn't pick out half the 'real' threads I've posted during my years here. Just like the sellouts she collaborates with take it for granted they only hear what they wanted to hear...but worse case, it's all therapy
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Posted: Monday May 14th, 2007 20:31 |
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c&j - I tell you what though, I been on a mission for almost twenty years and this is the first tiime since its inception that I've felt free and if I'm honest, when I got my decree absolute I got this feeling that who really wants to be tied up in a yard with a woman...it's like I could relish the freedom I've denied myself all these years for a few years.
The real irony is all the eyes that were on me only see your career, your yard and the car you drive, for all the chains of enslavement due to the mission, everybody lse thinks you're living it up loving life to the max. These people no nothing about sacrifice
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