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Posted: Saturday April 7th, 2007 11:11 |
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Hey ladies, does a size of your boyfriend anatomy determine your relationship, does it matter if it is big or small.
would u stay with your partner because of his size. email me back with your thoughts. have any of you all been in a relationship that was based on s-x only.
do you think it is healthly to stay in these relationships?
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Posted: Saturday April 7th, 2007 13:08 |
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bdiamond wrote: Hey ladies, does a size of your boyfriend anatomy determine your relationship, does it matter if it is big or small.
would u stay with your partner because of his size. email me back with your thoughts. have any of you all been in a relationship that was based on s-x only.
do you think it is healthly to stay in these relationships?
If it is so important, shouldn't you check before agreeing to be his girlfriend in the first place? Make it a condition of accepting a proposal to go out. Alternatively, make sure it is stated in your personal ad, if you use this method for seeking a partner:
"Attactive, vivacious young professional female, seeks similar intelligent professional male. Must be over 6 foot, have a job, his own house and a car (so he doesn't have to fleece off my six figure salary). Oh, and must be hung like a donkey! Those interested in a serious relationship only, need apply."
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Posted: Saturday April 7th, 2007 18:52 |
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as T-Boz sings on "Girl Talk" (3D) "If you ain't packing, put your tongue in it." Plenty ways to get around a "small problem  Seriously, since woman mostly get aroused from stimulation other than penetration, it technically shouldn't matter, except to the mans pride ad aesthetic purposes.
If in doubt, get the rabbit out!
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 11:02 |
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Loving the T-Boz reference!!!!
Well, as someone who was with Mr average tool for 20 years. I can honestly say it very much depends on whether they know how to manage their tools! (INCIDENTALLY HE DIDN'T )
I have had many a chat with the girls and we have discussed the many issues around sizes....
At the end of the day...if a man knows the many ways to please a woman...then he will know that size does not guarantee satisfaction. Big guys tend to think they don't need to do much and guys with less than average tend to be more creative! Sorry but a bit of creativity wins EVERY time!
Oh and a personality too! Nothing worse than a dumb big dick/dickless man!
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 14:00 |
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caramelcurves wrote:
Well, as someone who was with Mr average tool for 20 years. I can honestly say it very much depends on whether they know how to manage their tools! (INCIDENTALLY HE DIDN'T)
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL, I bet when you two were in your hayday you were saying something different then 
I have had many a chat with the girls and we have discussed the many issues around sizes....
Exactly the answer is not definative, all depends on preference, some sistahs prefer smaller and others prefer the opposite. But.... and here is where I become corney now....... sex is only one part of a relationship so much more has to work well as well.
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 15:08 |
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The size of a man in a relationship should not be a primary consideration as to the man's worthiness as a potential 'mate'. It does however depend upon what type of relationship the woman wants. If it is a bootycall type situation which does not offer the emotional and loving commitment of a real relationship then size will be a determining factor. In my personal opinion, emotional intelligence in a man tends to magnify the size of his penis anyway!!!
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 15:50 |
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| In a word yes. Anything less than 6" just isnt going to cut it. But a man who is creative and open minded goes a long way aswell!
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 22:31 |
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LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department. 
Just remember I have nothing to gain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me, size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings" and I got used to going without!
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!)
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 22:32 |
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LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department.
Just remember I have nothing to gain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me, size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings" and I got used to going without!
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!)
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 22:32 |
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LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department.
Just remember I have nothing to gain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me, size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings" and I got used to going without!
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!
This is kinda like the Marmite argument! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!)
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 22:34 |
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LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department.
Just remember I have nothing to gain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me, size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings".
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!)
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 22:34 |
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LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department.
Just remember I have nothing to gain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me, size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings".
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!)
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Posted: Monday May 28th, 2007 22:37 |
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LMAO!!! I know you will think that I say this out of anger or bitterness.... but NO back in the day he was STILL very much lacking in THAT department.
Just remember I have nothing to gain by lying about him as this is all pretty anonymous!
But for me, size was not the be all and end all! Thank god for that otherwise I would have "dashed" him from our first encounter!! After 20 years even tho he is a man in his 40's he still did not know how to "handle his tings".
I have heard it said that when a relationship is working sex is 20% of the relationship. When the relationship is NOT working it becomes 80%! So that for me speaks VOLUMES!!
Like Miss Nellia says the answer is not definitive as ALL women are not the same, except in the broadest terms. We all have differences and preferences. What may work for my girlfriend may horrify me and vice versa! At the end of the day, a man should want to explore a woman's body and attempt to satisfy her mentally as well as physically by any means necessary! Just using his manhood whatever its size is doomed to failure ( as I found out!!) LOL!!
This is kinda like the Marmite arguement! One mans meat is another mans poison! (Pardon the pun!)
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Posted: Tuesday June 12th, 2007 17:30 |
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| I think the real question is whether it's worth ending a relationship/possible relationship over what he has goin on in his boxers regardless of whether he knows what to do with it or not!
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Posted: Wednesday June 13th, 2007 22:50 |
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Please don't get me wrong I did not end the relationship b'cos of his Boxer short contents or the lack there of! There were/are many other complexed reasons for that ... But come on if a man cannot be bothered to sort himself out in terms of knowledge ANY woman would surely get fed up with it. I am not that shallow, otherwise I would not have put up with it for nearly 20 years!!
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Posted: Thursday June 14th, 2007 14:52 |
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caramelcurves wrote: Please don't get me wrong I did not end the relationship b'cos of his Boxer short contents or the lack there of! There were/are many other complexed reasons for that ... But come on if a man cannot be bothered to sort himself out in terms of knowledge ANY woman would surely get fed up with it. I am not that shallow, otherwise I would not have put up with it for nearly 20 years!!
Lol! that wasn't directed at you sis, just something i was talking about with abfriend of mine who's embarking on a relationship with a lesser endowed man. it reminded me of this thread.
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Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 12:42 |
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| I think it does
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