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Is a Man a fool for not wanting to be with a woman who loves him and
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 Posted: Wednesday January 24th, 2007 15:36

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Will do anything for him, good times, bad times, etc....
 
in this day an age is there any point waiting for the""Perfect partner"


should a man feel bad for not feeling the same way about a damn near perfect girl...

Thoughts?

Last edited on Wednesday January 24th, 2007 16:58 by Black_Power



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 Posted: Wednesday January 24th, 2007 15:50

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Black_Power wrote: Will do anything for him, good times, bad times, etc....
 
in this day an age is there any point waiting for the""Perfect partner"


should a man feel bad for not feeling the same way about a damn near perfect girl...

Thoughts?



I think it's much more complicated than this.... unfortunately



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 Posted: Wednesday January 24th, 2007 16:00

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Loving the wrong one won't get you high, loving the wrong one you're just getting by!



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 Posted: Wednesday January 24th, 2007 16:28

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DSP wrote: Black_Power wrote: Will do anything for him, good times, bad times, etc....
 
in this day an age is there any point waiting for the""Perfect partner"


should a man feel bad for not feeling the same way about a damn near perfect girl...

Thoughts?



I think it's much more complicated than this.... unfortunately

Indeed...still, women watching their body clocks and the fear of loneliness is a killer...get you ending up with all sorts:)



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 Posted: Wednesday January 24th, 2007 23:54

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Hmmm...
Well person may be damn near perfect, just not perfect for you....nothing to feel bad about, just the unpredicatable nature of the heart.



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 Posted: Thursday January 25th, 2007 02:02

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I was actually in that situation BP. She loved me, pretty face, phat body, smart, goal oriented, but I just didn't feel that way about her. I put myself through some hard times over that, but when it aint right, it just aint right. Nothing you can do about it.



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 Posted: Sunday January 28th, 2007 11:33

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I think been with someone because they seem 'right' is a bad idea, as in the long run you may start to resent her and she will sooner or later pick up on the fact that it is not what you really want and you will end up hurting her more for leading her on.

You should not have to make do, then again saying that feelings can and do grow. In this day an age it is really hard to find someone who you feel is totally right for you but you should not have to 'settle' because you feel that person is the best you can get. It is not fair on the girl or on yourself. 



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 Posted: Sunday January 28th, 2007 13:21

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what i dont understand is if this girl is perfect, how come u dont feel her??

unless ofcourse u like de gyal dat show no interest the one u have to fight for?

personally if a guy aint feeling me and im feeling him... (doesnt happen often, but there has been the occasion- lol).. i just move on.. aint worth my blasted time...

in this instant... no some1 shouldnt feel; bad, but they should be empathetic... it happens to all of us at one stage of another... oh well... suck it up nd get on...

start feeling bad cas u dont like some1.. end up with them and u both feel sad...
been there done that, bought the t-shirt and wrote the book! lol



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