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Posted: Tuesday April 26th, 2005 14:05 |
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Posted: Tuesday April 26th, 2005 16:18 |
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darkomega wrote: thanks for ary-'drek ' and abbi 'sillier'
Cleaver very cleaver, how long did it take you to think of the not so disses? That’s why you were away for a bit, wasn’t it? you were trying to think of cleaver **giggles**names to call us... ahhhh how sweat of you , your head must be hurting what with finally being put to use .
for their pmt fuelled rants. apparently i am a 'coconut' because i do not kiss black womens arses 24/7, and now i have rumbled their desperate man seeking methods.
Hey coco butterz.... what's the matter? now that you are getting some attention from black women you don't like it...
just a suggestion ladies........how about going on street and actually talking to a man instead of trying to find a cyber-man in a mans forum, like desperate s l u ts.
Lmao! stupid aren't you the one getting vex over women contributing to men’s forum? Lol no other man on BN history has ever done it before. Actually, most red-blooded men would appreciate women’s point of view unless he is gay and feels outshined Hmmmm what's the matter dumbo too much competition for ya?
oh. i forgot...you are both 300 lb whales with faces like bulldogs chewing a wasp. ladies...take my advice, un wedge that stool from out between your buttocks (man that stool must *stink* of sweat and ****!)and get out into the fresh air. then maybe the men would come back.
Oh, what a talk for a man who claims to be educated and a loss to a black woman hehehe... I love it when people make my point for me… Thanks for clearing that up for us…
Anyways, Mr Undesirable even if we were ugly and overweight, we will still be way too good for you. This is the point you are missing, you were a looser when you were little and the little black girls were laughing at your sorry ass... you are still a looser and the ladyz of BN are laughing at your retard self.
Now run along to Becky...
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Posted: Tuesday April 26th, 2005 17:25 |
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hey, abbi, we all know you are *hunting* for a man, so the bow and arrow in your sig are irrelevent. maybe a pic of you with some listerine, colgate and slimfast might do the trick and net you a man.
and what? i was away for a few days...i gotta life! i know that you cannot relate to anyone who takes time away from their pc for more than 10 mins, but i assure you, this is normal. to most of us...but i am here now, so feel free to converse.
you should be a magician, cos you can make a stool seat dissapear. up your butt. it is so far up there, your digestive fluids are starting to disolve it. get up from time to time. experience life away from the p.c. it might suprise ya.
all i hear from you is about how much of a loser/coconut i am, but you are nearly close to stalking me woman. with all the hundreds of posters registered on here, all i get most times are responses from you. a loser who follows a so-called loser..............
....ON A MENS FORUM!
and now, if you can get your 20 stone fat, ugly stalking arse out of the way, i might even SEE becky, much less run to her.
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Posted: Tuesday April 26th, 2005 19:06 |
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darkomega wrote: hey, abbi, we all know you are *hunting* for a man, so the bow and arrow in your sig are irrelevent. maybe a pic of you with some listerine, colgate and slimfast might do the trick and net you a man.
and what? i was away for a few days...i gotta life! i know that you cannot relate to anyone who takes time away from their pc for more than 10 mins, but i assure you, this is normal. to most of us...but i am here now, so feel free to converse.
you should be a magician, cos you can make a stool seat dissapear. up your butt. it is so far up there, your digestive fluids are starting to disolve it. get up from time to time. experience life away from the p.c. it might suprise ya.
all i hear from you is about how much of a loser/coconut i am, but you are nearly close to stalking me woman. with all the hundreds of posters registered on here, all i get most times are responses from you. a loser who follows a so-called loser..............
....ON A MENS FORUM!
and now, if you can get your 20 stone fat, ugly stalking arse out of the way, i might even SEE becky, much less run to her.
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wait a minute... You remind me of ... nah, couldn't be.... LOL!!!
you sound familiar.... hmmmm
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Posted: Tuesday April 26th, 2005 19:39 |
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DSP wrote: Desperate or not, I can appreciate all women and their opinions. You need to stop making an attempt to run them off. What man in his right mind would do that? Are you heterosexual?
LMAO I was thinking the same thing!! I'm glad the fine, hetrosexual, black men of blackchat think differently
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Posted: Wednesday April 27th, 2005 00:30 |
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darkomega wrote: hey, abbi, we all know you are *hunting* for a man, so the bow and arrow in your sig are irrelevent. maybe a pic of you with some listerine, colgate and slimfast might do the trick and net you a man.
And you are vex because what? i might be a competition? you keep chatting about hunting for a man... lol be careful the men of BN do not like your sorts... you might have better luck if you visited a few bars in soho.
and what? i was away for a few days...i gotta life!
And i am the Queen of Sheba... lol you wouldn't know what it is to have a life even if it came and straightened your crooked face with a smack.
i know that you cannot relate to anyone who takes time away from their pc for more than 10 mins, but i assure you, this is normal. to most of us...but i am here now, so feel free to converse.
Yeh! i totally agree its normal not to have access to the net, especially true for people like you who work in mac nasty... looser... The closest you come to a PC at work is when you are on the till asking would you like a fries with that?
you should be a magician, cos you can make a stool seat dissapear. up your butt. it is so far up there, your digestive fluids are starting to disolve it. get up from time to time. experience life away from the p.c. it might suprise ya.
Hmmm you seem to know too much about things getting stuck up people's butts... Come tell is it a fetish of yours or are you chatting about your Becky?
all i hear from you is about how much of a loser/coconut i am but you are nearly close to stalking me woman. with all the hundreds of posters registered on here, all i get most times are responses from you. a loser who follows a so-called loser..............
What can i say, i am a sucker for losers, and i find you the epitome of a loser... i just can't seem to keep away from one more time teeling you what a waste of space you trully are. Quite impressive how you have managed to perfect the art of being a loser... very specific to you.
....ON A MENS FORUM!
I see you still vex i am sharing some of the lime light with you... are you sure you are on the right site? maybe you were looking for a male only site? you know the special kind... When you stumbled up on the black men forum.
and now, if you can get your 20 stone fat, ugly stalking arse out of the way, i might even SEE becky, much less run to her.
Wow you keep mentioning the fat and arse thing. Its either you have an infatuation with fat arse or you truly crying out for help... if it's the latter i apologies for not taking it seriously... i hear living TV is doing a cosmetic surgery program for people who are physically challenged, fat or in your Becky's case both, why don't you give them a call?
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Posted: Wednesday April 27th, 2005 06:20 |
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darkomega wrote: thanks for ary-'drek ' and abbi 'sillier'
Idiot, how is this a diss?
for their pmt fuelled rants. apparently i am a 'coconut' because i do not kiss black womens arses 24/7, and now i have rumbled their desperate man seeking methods.
Oh, you're more than a coconut. You're also a homsexual, black women hating a-hole.
just a suggestion ladies........how about going on street and actually talking to a man instead of trying to find a cyber-man in a mans forum, like desperate s l u ts.
Let me see, I already have a man, don't need one, especially not your self-hating, coconut, loser arse. And I've never started any topic on the Black Men's forum asking for anyone's advice or opinion, I only contribute to topics that have already started so quit whinning like the little b**ch you are.
oh. i forgot...you are both 300 lb whales with faces like bulldogs chewing a wasp. ladies...take my advice, un wedge that stool from out between your buttocks (man that stool must *stink* of sweat and ****!)and get out into the fresh air. then maybe the men would come back.
Get a life loser and quit pinning for those little black girls who rejected you. It's time you moved on and learn that it is YOU and not them who has a problem. Seek some psychiatric help for that paranoia and insane ramblings you make and stop letting black women get to you. If you weren't so bothered by black women you wouldn't have made this post. I bet you go to bed every night thinking of how to get back at those little black girls and all the black women who ignore you.
Get over it, coconut you're not good enough so stick to what you can get.
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Posted: Wednesday April 27th, 2005 13:39 |
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hey ary- drek..
even if i was a woman hating a- hole homo...i'd still get more c0ck than you,little m.s desperate. spending 24/7, 365 analysing, dissecting and responding to the words of someone you call a loser and idiot. .on a mens forum .(not even a womans forum)yeah...sure you got a man.(dont embarrass yourself. please.)..yeah sure.....plenty of hot girls spend their entire lives wrapped up in a computer monitor conversing with peple they hate. before colgate even touch your mout', or water even touch you eye, or the pickney see cornflakes, you are plonked down on a stool in front of your pc typing crap. at least wash your face first , when day light, gyal.
you see that arse you show off in that pic in your sig, make sure you wash it first early morning before you start hunting for men on the 'net. pace yourself.
there are so many fat arse man hungry beasts in here, it is like a buffalo stampede. (apologies to the nice black women on the forum not named abbisinnia or aryek).
and one more thing, abbysinnia...you re boring. you only warrant a finger. stick that up your bunghole. (makes a change from the rolled up yellow pages you usually use to pleasure yourself.)
good-day.
p.s look at the time these mooses post. only vampires and crackheads are awake them de times deh.
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Posted: Wednesday April 27th, 2005 14:09 |
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darkomega wrote: hey ary- drek..
even if i was a woman hating a- hole homo...i'd still get more c0ck than you,little m.s desperate. spending 24/7, 365 analysing, dissecting and responding to the words of someone you call a loser and idiot. .I responded to you because you were insulting me, idiot. If I was on here 24/7, 365 days a year analyzing you, I would have made a lot more responses to your post than the three I have just made, dumbass. And I'm glad your finally getting cock, perhaps it'll shut your sexually frustrated arse up.
on a mens forum .(not even a womans forum)yeah...sure you got a man.(dont embarrass yourself. please.)..yeah sure.....plenty of hot girls spend their entire lives wrapped up in a computer monitor conversing with peple they hate. before colgate even touch your mout', or water even touch you eye, or the pickney see cornflakes, you are plonked down on a stool in front of your pc typing crap. at least wash your face first , when day light, gyal. Oh, so the 2 minutes I took to reply to your insults, is my entire life. Man, your more of a dumbass than I thought. I'm living at a residence in my University, I come on this site in between classes sometimes when I'm taking a break. You on the other hand, say that you have a job but your on this site at regular office hours when you should be working, seems to me like your the one who spends your entire life on the computer.
you see that arse you show off in that pic in your sig, make sure you wash it first early morning before you start hunting for men on the 'net. pace yourself. Idiot, that picture is not me. What is your obsession with avatars anyway?.
there are so many fat arse man hungry beasts in here, it is like a buffalo stampede. (apologies to the nice black women on the forum not named abbisinnia or aryek).
and one more thing, abbysinnia...you re boring. you only warrant a finger. stick that up your bunghole. (makes a change from the rolled up yellow pages you usually use to pleasure yourself.)
good-day.
p.s look at the time these mooses post. only vampires and crackheads are awake them de times deh.
Idiot, I'm on a different time zone and I stayed up late last night to study for an exam. I only came on this site when I was taking a break. Offcourse you wouldn't know anything about that because your stupid arse has never seen the inside of a University, dumbass.
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Posted: Wednesday April 27th, 2005 14:21 |
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@Abbissinia
what have you done to upset the guy that much?
didn't i tell you to leave enuchs alone..........................
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thanks for the lightning swift response ary. (too f*cking lightning for my liking. wash your face yet?)...anyway..i think we should split. i've moved on. we dont connect any more...its not you...its me... look maybe we should have a trial seperation....i've met someone else....its not working out.....
24/7? dont go there.
look at your post ratio to mine, then chat crap about who is on here the most. you are the equivalent of an internet squatter up in here.
as for that pic in your sig, of course i know it aint you, moron. you aint gonna put up a pic that looks like the back end of 'seabiscuit',more hair on your top lip than tom selleck , smiling with a big gap in your teet', that look like an aircraft hangar half opened. university? time zones?tell us some more "porkies". you got more imagination than walt disney.
anyway i,m done with this topic.
good luck in finding a man.
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and to the other idiot...the name says *soooofresh*, but the thong you been wearing for 3 weeks says different.
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darkomega wrote: thanks for the lightning swift response ary. (too f*cking lightning for my liking. wash your face yet?)...anyway..i think we should split. i've moved on. we dont connect any more...its not you...its me... look maybe we should have a trial seperation....i've met someone else....its not working out..... You level of idiocy is unbelievable, that's the best you can come up with.
24/7? dont go there.
look at your post ratio to mine, then chat crap about who is on here the most. you are the equivalent of an internet squatter up in here.Let's see, I've been here for months while you've only been here for a week and you still think that I should have fewer posts than you? You must be dumber than I thought.
as for that pic in your sig, of course i know it aint you, moron. you aint gonna put up a pic that looks like the back end of 'seabiscuit',more hair on your top lip than tom selleck , smiling with a big gap in your teet', that look like an aircraft hangar half opened. university? time zones?tell us some more "porkies". you got more imagination than walt disney. Time zones and University may be imaginary to your grade 2 drop out arse, but they really do exist. And quit mistaking me for your 400 pound white girlfriend. Your so quick to accuse people you don't even know of being fat and ugly just because they don't like you yet your the one who's probably going out with some fat, ugly white chick.
anyway i,m done with this topic.
good luck in finding a man.
No, you're the one who needs the luck.
Now, dumbo continue with your foolish thread.
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I got this in an e-mail from my friend, and I'm still shocked by this guy's audacity. You'll just have to make your own observations, cause I'm too bewildered to even comment
An open letter to black women
by Ray Jackson
With so many brothers like myself being blamed for the spread of HIV, I
feel a need to get this off my chest. First of all, I would like to say emphatically that to all
black women-I LOVE YOU!!!! I respect you. I adore you. To me, there is nothing more powerful nor more sexy nor more divine than seeing you walk
proudly in the sunlight of your blackness, your femininity, your sexuality, your sass, your strength, and your spirituality.
But sometimes, I want to taste a man...
Black woman, to me, you are God's gift to the entire world. All the women of the world want to be like you. They seek to emulate the beauty of your full lips, your broadened nose, your wide hips, and even the
crown of hair upon your head. They try to talk like you, they try to walk like you, they even try to swivel their head and pop their gum like
you. But, they just can't you. Only a black woman can be like a blackwoman.
But sometimes, I want to feel a man...
There is nothing like making love to a black woman. I never have, nor do I ever plan to merge my body with any woman other than a black woman.
;There is something about our flesh when it comes together, when oursweat drips from one to the other, and when our sweet juices run together. I love to feel your body when you reach climax and when your loins contract tighter and tighter and then release. I love to hear you;when you moan and groan and finally sign and collapse back into the.
But sometimes, I want to experience a man...
One day, I plan to walk down that aisle and begin a new life with a
black woman. I want you, a black woman, to be the mother of my children,
the grandmother of my grand children, and the great great-grandmother of my children. I want my legacy and my destiny to be forever etched withyou-A BLACK WOMAN. No other woman will do.
But sometimes, I need to be inside a man...
Not any man, he has to be a black man. Not white, not Asian, not;Hispanic. He has to be black.
Sometimes, I don't know why, but sometimes I just want to feel the warm,
hard body of another black man laying under my body. Sometimes, I long
to hear another man's grown, just like I long to hear your groans. Late in the night, I want to hear him moaning deeply, just like I want tohear you moaning. I desire to feel his body tense up as my manhood
;enters him just like I desire to feel your body tense up as my manhood
enters you. Sometimes, I want to just feel his full round lips wrapped
around my manhood just like desire to feel your sweet lips wrapped
around my manhood. Sometimes, I just need to pour my juices into another man just like I need to pour my juices into you.
Yes, sometimes I want to taste, touch, feel, penetrate, and experience a man....
And, when I want a man- I WANT A MAN. I don't want some brother whothinks he's a woman or tries to act like one. If I want a woman, I'll get a woman. But, when I want a man, I want a hard, strong, masculine
black man. I want a man who's just as manly as me. I want to enter him deeply. I want to feel my pelvis against his buttocks, my chest against
his back, and my sweaty skin against his sweaty skin.
I'm not trying to love a man or kiss a man or any of that. I just want
>to go inside him. There's something about the hardness of this body and the tightness of his backside that makes me want to taste what he's got.
It's not that I don't love black women, I just like to feel myself
inside a man...It's not that I'm gay, homosexual, bisexual or any of those things. I
don't claim any of those titles and so if you as me if I'm gay, homo, or
bi- I'll tell "NO". I'm just a brother that knows what he likes. That'sall.
;Now, if you ask me if I have sex with men, I'll tell you "NO" Yes, Iknow that lying is wrong and God don't like ugly. But, if I laid withyou, and made sweet love to you, and then told you that sometimes I like
to go inside a man...you wouldn't want me. Our relationship would beover. And more than likely, you would "warn" your friends about me. Andso, I lie. Not because I am trying to deceive you, but because I just
don't think you need to know. All it will do is destroy what we have.
You see, honesty is not as simple as you....
;One day I'll stop, I'll settle down with my black queen. I can't promise
;that I'll completely stop experiencing men. There's just something about
;it that draws me. But, I do know that I won't do it nearly as much.
>Well, I don't know that, but I don't think I'll do it as much.
To the woman I will one day marry: I promise to be a good husband, and a
good father to our children, and a good grandfather to our children.
I'll love you, and protect you, and cherish you, and make you laugh, and
;dry your tears, try to give you the kind of home you have always wanted,
;and do my best to make your life as happy as it can be.
;But sometimes, I'll still want a man...
&;Rayman Jackson
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*Sighs* My oh my....what can i say.....this down low business has been going on for centuries anyways, what i find disturbing is that just when the black men picks up on it, they unlike their whites or Afghanistani counterparts(yes, they do have em over there as well.....don't let that religious zeal kid you....they even love little boys as they love their crack) have to take it to a level thats just not only the lowest of the low, but to actually openly infect their wives, girlfriends and at thesame time try and defend it as one of the only way a *brother* is gone have what he wants that the black women cannot provide.
Oh man, like if we haven't got enough things attacking us from every corner imaginable. Not only are these filthy men a disgrace to our race, they are also openely endangering our communities by spreading deseases around like careless mongrels.
For heaven sake, if you are gay, you ARE gay.....simple! There is no two ways about it.......now i am really begining to understand the hate that most black people have towards homosexuality.......
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On the Down Low: A Journey Into the Lives of “Straight� Black Men Who Sleep with Men by JL. King’s
Life of men who do not consider themselves homosexual or bi-sexual. Their attraction is strictly sexual and no real feelings are involved. The majority of these men prefer and want to be in a loving relationship with a woman and a great majority are married with children. Their desire is to be with a man who is in every sense a man and would not be with an effeminate male. In exploring the reasons for these desires, King cites among others is the need to be dominated, to be held and the high esteem in which the penis is held.
Beyond the Down Low : Sex, Lies, and Denial in Black America by Keith Boykin
Boykin says, suffers from overgeneralizations, inconsistencies and distortions - and accuses King of serving up another "stereotypical image of black men as pathological liars, surreptitiously satisfying their primitive sexual cravings by cheating on their wives." But the heart of Boykin's argument is that the media, which often blame closeted black men for transmitting HIV to their female partners, are avoiding the opportunity to responsibly discuss the realities of sexuality, gender, race and AIDS. Boykin lucidly draws on science as well as personal experience in this important book. And while many of the cultural manifestations of black sexuality that Boykin documents here are fascinating - e.g., references to the DL (which Boykin defines as cheating on a partner regardless of one's sexuality) in popular music - the power of his book comes from his impassioned call to examine the real facts of sexual behavior and HIV transmission.
http://www.tgsrm.org/MSM.html
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Posted: Saturday May 7th, 2005 08:07 |
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Regardless how one tries to sugar coat your action but if you are engaging in homosexual activity..you are that A HOMOSEXUAL. If you have homosexual tendencies, used to engage in homesexual relationships, and the urge is still there having a woman is not going to rid those negative thoughts as most are trying to do. Men need to admit that they do not want and love black women if you are lusting and craving a man. They just need to admit they are using woman as a cover up to save face value in front of your friends and family.
If you know that you are into men then you need to be open with your partner and tell them--let them make the decision if they want to continue the relationship with you.
You are not respecting a your woman (regardless of race) if you are going around lying and having sexual encounters with men or women.
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Posted: Tuesday May 17th, 2005 07:44 |
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| ive been going out with this girl for the last two years shes buff and that a bit to buff for my own good and everybody stops and stares at us on the street even girls but some of my friends have been telling me that they'd seen her doing things with other girls but i dont believe them. most of the time when we walk on street i catch her staring at other women and sometimes she even says look at that girls ass and breasts but when i ask her if she's attracted to other women she says no what should i make of all this and now i hear stories about her with other girls behind my back.
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Posted: Tuesday May 17th, 2005 12:49 |
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peacefuldon wrote: ive been going out with this girl for the last two years shes buff and that a bit to buff for my own good and everybody stops and stares at us on the street even girls but some of my friends have been telling me that they'd seen her doing things with other girls but i dont believe them. most of the time when we walk on street i catch her staring at other women and sometimes she even says look at that girls ass and breasts but when i ask her if she's attracted to other women she says no what should i make of all this and now i hear stories about her with other girls behind my back.
Lol,count your blessings man,..do you know the amount of guys who wished they had a pretty bird who was also into other pretty birds..? lol.
Just get her to invite one of her pretty friend around and enjoy the party.
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Posted: Tuesday May 17th, 2005 13:04 |
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As I read this I pictured some spotty-faced, pot-bellied, sweaty geek type who relies on glossy magazines and fantasy to fulfill his desire for interaction with the opposite sex.
Peacefuldon, I shall consign this topic to that place where the sun doesn't shine.
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Posted: Thursday May 19th, 2005 01:30 |
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@Hey you sad excuse for human life. Haven't you got anything better to do arse hole. I can bet money you are a male with a little teenie weenie ego about that big. Have some shame and respect for yourself you fool.
Wanker.
Somebody bans you have some self respect and stop wallowing in your own excrement in public. It's shameful.
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Posted: Thursday May 19th, 2005 01:32 |
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@Moderators
Hmmmmmmmm...?
***Shakes head***
Let it stand... just consign it to the dustbin... as a sign of the motivation and tactics employed by those who do not have the wellbeing of this site... of Africa... or of Africans... close to heart...
***Shrugs shoulders***
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Posted: Thursday May 19th, 2005 01:37 |
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@Ijexa. What's up good brother. Yep the perverts and wankers are out in force tonight. I just contacted Dillinger. Hope he sees it. Some of the creeps need to grow up fast or catch stiff metaphorical slap given the difficult to adminster a real one.
Hows the little one bro? All good?
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Posted: Thursday May 19th, 2005 01:51 |
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@FredBlack
...Bro...
The little one is fine... 'cept he's not so little...
***Shakes head***
Wretch is only eight... yet pusing close to five foot in height... tekking thirteen year old clothes...
***Shakes head***
Doing quite well at school as well... but need to tek 'im inna hand... since quite well is no where near good enough...
But... you right... been watching the various going-ons over the last two to three months... just sitting back and watching exactly where the site is going...
And...
***Shrugs shoulders***
...This outburst was/is entirely predictable... so... disgusting and horrifying as it is... it's life... any attempt to strengthen and enhance the African emphasis of the site will just cause those... some of whom are our own... to completely lose it... for any advance along that path leaves such vermin isolated and bereft...
Anyway... it has actually been good to read some of your excellent and incisive posts over the last week...
...Excellent and superb work as always...
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Posted: Wednesday May 25th, 2005 18:21 |
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brothas and sistas, please tell i what we do to fix this shame? see this website http://www.blackpeopleloveus.com/
and tell i if you ever seen anything more shamefull than this....i almost cry when i see stupidity such as -- Sally always says things that make me feel special, like: "You're so cool, you're different, you're not like other Black people!"-- i ask u ever seen a more willing slave?
or this foolish sister at
http://www.blackpeopleloveus.com/testimonials.html
who say --Johnny always compliments me by saying things like, "Damn b**ch you stupid fly, or by telling me you a big fine woman back that thing up. Just things that make a black girl feel good."-- and she is laughin!!!! man, to see a white man calling a black woman a b**ch, for me, is just one of those things in life i just can't stand!!!! i mean = is already a big issue in my eyes even when it's a brother doin that........i tell u,
the brotha who said "sometimes white supremacy has a black face" was right,
now brotha i know you also know "i never seen black mental slavery without a black face"
.....free our bodies, free our minds, free our hearts, freedom for everyone.....(freedom now, tracy chapman) .......i love this song, and i respect this woman
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Posted: Wednesday May 25th, 2005 18:31 |
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But wait!
This thing offends you so much yet you put so much effort in giving us chapter and verse about it? Why you think any right thinking sensible black person would want to go looking at that foolishness for? Just so they can feel outraged? Not only that but you posted it twice to boot!
Man this is pure foolishness. If some guy abused and raped your wife (assuming you are a male) or daughter and took pictures of the event, would you go showing them to all and sundry and giving graphic descriptions of what he did, so that they could share in your outrage?
Forgive me, but I must confine this foolishness to where it belongs, and I hope you have more sense to go looking for things to get outraged about.
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