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Posted: Wednesday January 18th, 2006 00:30 |
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Abissinia wrote: Don’t fall for it @prince hakeem
It’s her way of trying to get you to explain. Which I hope no one will. I doubt they will either, seen as they cant!
@flower
Before you ask why... i've already said it's African business. If it makes you feel better the Ainsley's, Trevors, David Matthews, Donkey Howe's love your kind so why does it matter what we think? My kind I am not a differnt species you know dear! It matters because I am interested. I dont care who loves or who hates me. I just want to know why it is that you have such a problem with this man and his wife?!
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Posted: Wednesday January 18th, 2006 00:32 |
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Well first there is a lot of academic and other evidnce which suggest these people are defective and have greater needs to be accepted than say whites which is why there is a relative hiigher proportion of blacks married to whites than there is whites married to blacks..You see that statistical disparity is not normal.....Furthermore there is more than enough evidence to show many of them have deep deep self esteem problems. Ever heard of Frantz Fanon the famous psychiatrist?
Most of those who marry whites tend to live amonst them and have to suffer more sh*t than most self respecting black people would put up simply for a partner, never mind their ignorant family and friends...
Why would a rational man take on such costs, when he can get better and lessen his cost unless you are going to spout out 18th century romance about love conqueors all because it doesn't you know. I have seen some of these so called loving relationships at close hand and seems both foolish and irrational to me.
As I said an intellgent rational thinking person seeks to maximise their benefits and minimise the costs and aggro. Nothing complicated about it.
Also on a whole heap of levels. You are white and don't know this that white people are not as attractive as black people or engaging culturally in the same way. Take a group of say female teachers from this country and randomly take a group of Caribbean or African female teachers. No bets to where the most attractive and engaging women are going to be found. The average white person is not attractive. It is the execption not the general rule.
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Posted: Wednesday January 18th, 2006 00:34 |
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Prince Hakeem wrote: @flowers
I'm quite happy as well that they choose to date and marry the very worse breed of woman on the planet...to hell with them.
They obviously can't handle a beautiful and strong African (not 'black') woman, who as far as I'm concerned, is the very cream of womanhood. African Men like myself would rather be dead than be joined in matrimony with the likes of you.
OMG! You made me spill tea on my laptop....I just fixed it today
 
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Posted: Wednesday January 18th, 2006 01:06 |
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FredB wrote: Well first there is a lot of academic and other evidnce which suggest these people are defective and have greater needs to be accepted than say whites I simply do not accept that if a black person is married to a white person the only reason they would do that is for acceptance, maybe in south africa during the apartied but certainly not in the modern world. which is why there is a relative hiigher proportion of blacks married to whites than there is whites married to blacks You see that statistical disparity is not normal..... This is all statistical evidence which is not very accurate.Furthermore there is more than enough evidence to show many of them have deep deep self esteem problems. Your evidence appears to be based on a lot of theories and assumptions not very c redible. Ever heard of Frantz Fanon the famous psychiatrist?nope
Most of those who marry whites tend to live amonst them and have to suffer more sh*t assumptions again! than most self respecting black people would put up simply for a partner, never mind their ignorant family and friends...This is just not true. maybe some people who marry a person from another race do have to put up with ignorant familes and friends but not everyone. Most familes simply love thier child and want them to be happy and if the person they are with makes them happy then thats fine. Why are you so cynical?
Why would a rational man take on such costs, If you want to be with someone you must be prepared to deal with whatever comes along with being them whether its bad or good.That takes a really strong person, a real man. when he can get better and lessen his cost unless you are going to spout out 18th century romance about love conqueors all because it doesn't you know I feel sad that you are so jaded, I see may examples of loving conquering all eeveryday, if you do not believe this is possible what is there? I have seen some of these so called loving relationships at close hand and seems both foolish and irrational to me. Maybe you have seen one or two that dont work perfectly but there are mnay that do.
As I said an intellgent rational thinking person seeks to maximise their benefits and minimise the costs and aggro. Nothing complicated about it. An intelligent rational person seeks at all times to maximise their happiness and if for the politician being married to a white woman is the way of doing that then thats great.
Also on a whole heap of levels. You are white and don't know this that white people are not as attractive as black people or engaging culturally in the same way. That is the biggest load of rubbish i have ever heard. It maybe true in your opinion, but a non racist person would say that a persons of any race can be neither attractive nor engaging. Just because a person is black or a person is white it does not automatically mean they will be attractive and engaging!Take a group of say female teachers from this country and randomly take a group of Caribbean or African female teachers. No bets to where the most attractive and engaging women are going to be found. This is really funny surely you cannot be so ignorant that you do not believe that it depends on the person and not where they are from?! The average white person is not attractive. It is the execption not the general rule. That maybe the case in your opinion but many would disagree, bueaty is in the eye of the beholder. There are many bueatiful black women and many bueatiful white women.
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Quite good. You tried to answer my question for which I am greatful but unfortunatly the answer was based on what appears to me to be a lot of prejudice and not rationality.
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Posted: Wednesday January 18th, 2006 01:08 |
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Mezmerized wrote: Prince Hakeem wrote: @flowers
I'm quite happy as well that they choose to date and marry the very worse breed of woman on the planet...to hell with them.
They obviously can't handle a beautiful and strong African (not 'black') woman, who as far as I'm concerned, is the very cream of womanhood. African Men like myself would rather be dead than be joined in matrimony with the likes of you.
OMG! You made me spill tea on my laptop....I just fixed it today
You have a very sad and distorted view of the world if you actually take any part of this post seriously. It is a post written with a lot of venom and hatred and one based in fictiona nd assumptions rather than fact.
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Posted: Thursday January 19th, 2006 06:52 |
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Well quite obviously flower some people have yet to "Rise Above Racism" as this site exhorts people to do.
There is nothing wrong with interacial marriage. The only thing wrong with it is the attitudes of some people.
It is funny that sterotypes of races - ugly, mean, lowdown, sneaky, lazy, stupid - are alive and well.
Last edited on Thursday January 19th, 2006 06:57 by zaghawa
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Posted: Thursday January 19th, 2006 18:32 |
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