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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 19:24 |
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Treat those as you would yourself!!!!
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 19:32 |
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Treat those as you would yourself!!!!
Answer Kunjufu's question above.
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 19:44 |
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Crissgal I will try and break it down for you, so you can understand, we do not live in a perfect world, racism and prejudice exsists, white people (key descion makers in government and media) do not look out for black people.
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 19:52 |
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Kunjufu wrote: Crissgal wrote: You also are missing the point I am making.......the majority of white people cant see they are racist. However, white people that understand or try to understand what black people have been through and contribute to not living in a racist world, then I give props to them....
If you still hating a white person when they genuinely trying to help you then you dont deserve to know them. Help eachother! Why are you people so blind.....makes me sad.
Crissgal: I've got a thought that i'd like your response to if its possible, you said above that 'the majority of white people cant see they are racist'. Then you said; 'If you still hating a white person when they genuinely trying to help you'...
My thoughts is this how can someone or anyone help me if they do not acknowledge or accept that racism is not only an historic but also a current issue in this country, I'm intrigued. Isn't that a bit like me as man saying I'm helping a rape victim whom i then do not acknowledge got raped!!! Can i have your thoughts on whether what you've said is in anyway contradictory...
PS: it would help the debate if you could distinguish by the use of different colours what your views are the views you are responding to...
Maybe I am not explaining myself properly. That is true, the majority of white people make racist comments without realising it. This is because it has been breed into them from generation to generation. A brainwashing way of thinking. What dont you understand???
Speak to me properly blackbeauty instead of trying to insult me. You will get further in speaking with me bludd!
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 20:10 |
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Crissgal wrote:
Maybe I am not explaining myself properly. That is true, the majority of white people make racist comments without realising it. This is because it has been breed into them from generation to generation. A brainwashing way of thinking. What dont you understand???
Speak to me properly blackbeauty instead of trying to insult me. You will get further in speaking with me bludd!
Before I respond to Crissgal, can i say to each side in this debate, that this is a facinating and good debate, however if i maybe so bold as to say that it would be helped if people didn't insult Crissgal out of hand and if Crissgal tried not to be so patroning in her response to those younger than her..
Ok Crissgal: in response to your above point, no you are explaining yourself perfectly, what i think the issue is, is that the logic you are trying to sell to Blackbeauty et al is flawed.. I think we all agree that racism has been insitutionalised that is given.. However what i'm trying to get from you is whether it is possible for someone to help me or be on my side if they don't understand their own problem or if they don't acknowledge that they've got a problem..?
The point i'm making without going too deep into things , is that the reason why things are made so 'racial' all the time is because a. the people exhibting and benefiting the racism won't acknowledge or deal with it but expect us to ACCEPT IT!! and b. bacause Racism is a fundermental tenant (whether you like it or not) of the world system that is MEANT to divide and create elitism...that is why it is an issue..and that is why i believe it will always be an issue..
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 20:12 |
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Blackbeauty, there is no point conversing with Crissgal...she doesnt understand, she contradicts herself constantly and she is defending and justifying the actions of the racist white man, naively stating that white people do not know they are being racist, talk about being ignorant!! ...my guess is shes probably white herself, or has been brainwashed!!
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 20:34 |
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Kunjufu wrote: Crissgal wrote:
Maybe I am not explaining myself properly. That is true, the majority of white people make racist comments without realising it. This is because it has been breed into them from generation to generation. A brainwashing way of thinking. What dont you understand???
Speak to me properly blackbeauty instead of trying to insult me. You will get further in speaking with me bludd!
Before I respond to Crissgal, can i say to each side in this debate, that this is a facinating and good debate, however if i maybe so bold as to say that it would be helped if people didn't insult Crissgal out of hand and if Crissgal tried not to be so patroning in her response to those younger than her..
Ok Crissgal: in response to your above point, no you are explaining yourself perfectly, what i think the issue is, is that the logic you are trying to sell to Blackbeauty et al is flawed.. I think we all agree that racism has been insitutionalised that is given.. However what i'm trying to get from you is whether it is possible for someone to help me or be on my side if they don't understand their own problem or if they don't acknowledge that they've got a problem..?
The point i'm making without going too deep into things , is that the reason why things are made so 'racial' all the time is because a. the people exhibting and benefiting the racism won't acknowledge or deal with it but expect us to ACCEPT IT!! and b. bacause Racism is a fundermental tenant (whether you like it or not) of the world system that is MEANT to divide and create elitism...that is why it is an issue..and that is why i believe it will always be an issue..
I completely agree with everything you just said there. People still think I am talking about a majority. There are white people that DO exist that arent trying to fukk us up. Racism will never disappear, I know that. I never said that it would, to think that racism would be completely stamped out WOULD be ignorant.
As I have said before. People can not choose which colour they are born into....therfore you should not persecute every person that is white. They did NOT choose to be white....
As for people trying to tell me I am white. ha ha I aint even going to bother answering you, your small mindedness keeps shining through. You should really stop it if people are going to take you seriously.
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 20:54 |
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Crissgal wrote:..I completely agree with everything you just said there. People still think I am talking about a majority. There are white people that DO exist that arent trying to fukk us up. Racism will never disappear, I know that. I never said that it would, to think that racism would be completely stamped out WOULD be ignorant.
As I have said before. People can not choose which colour they are born into....therfore you should not persecute every person that is white. They did NOT choose to be white....
Crissgal: one more point then I'm gonna leave this debate as I'm a bit too old to be here anyway, I see where you are coming from, however just to labour the point I believe Blackbeauty and Stylishsister is making to you if i may..
Neely Fuller said: that you didn't understand the 'effects of global white supremacy, then everything else will confuse you'. So my point here is two fold, yes i accept that people cannot help being white and that not every white person whats to fukk me up..I accept your point but what i would argue is that its irrelivant.. Or if put it anotherway as a man I love women, try to be respectful and generally do not try to fukk them up.. However it is fact that ALL benefit from a system tailored towards men, it is fact that all men are imbued with an element of sexist attitudes and behaviours and it is also a fact that historically the expectation is that women take aback seat to the careers of men when starting a family.. There i as a man benefit from a historic precondition from birth..
Now i can be the nicest most kindest person in the world who loves women to bit and would do anything to help women, however if i collude and do not challenge the status quo, then how am i any better that the mysognist who hate women..when we both equally prop up a system inherently oppressing women?
The second and final point which i have already touched on, is this linking with Neely Fuller's thoughts.. Just because a white person isn't effecting one area of your life does not mean they aren't affecting you..for example my neighbour might love me to bits as a neighbour, but refuse to let his/her daught attend a school full of Blacks..might deny me or others housing as a local Goverment employee, might deny me a job in favour of a european as an employer etc etc. My point here is that we have at least 9 areas of activity in life and just because someone aint fukking you in one doesn't mean they won't in another..that my point..racists are NOT Bnp members or skinheads usually they are the person you least expect, who likes you and tell you that they are your friend....the nature od racism changed decades ago..
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 20:56 |
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stylishsista wrote: Blackbeauty, there is no point conversing with Crissgal...she doesnt understand, she contradicts herself constantly and she is defending and justifying the actions of the racist white man, naively stating that white people do not know they are being racist, talk about being ignorant!!...my guess is shes probably white herself, or has been brainwashed!!
I know that's y i didnt even bother to respond. But she keeps harping on about the minority-so what we r supposed to stop our debates and the work that we do because there are a minority of ppl who are not ''racist''....*ahem* That idea is ludicrous and n e one who spouts ideas like that i try and not bother with.
The minority will not help the cause, the minority are not in control, the minority will not keep groups such as the KKK, BNP, NF and Nazis at bay. THe minotiry will not prevent images of black stereotypes being used as scapegoats. The minority will not stop the killing of blacks elsewhere in the world. The minority will not stop the theifing of black resources, the theifing/appropration/redefiniton/watering down of black culture, morals, values and respect. The minority will not stop the divide and issues black ppl have to deal with on a day 2 day basis!  
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 20:57 |
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| Assumption is the mother of all fukkups....you should be more polictically correct.....
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 21:20 |
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i agree with black beauty, it is quite worrying that every form of black music has a white 
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 21:25 |
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BlackBeauty wrote: stylishsista wrote: Blackbeauty, there is no point conversing with Crissgal...she doesnt understand, she contradicts herself constantly and she is defending and justifying the actions of the racist white man, naively stating that white people do not know they are being racist, talk about being ignorant!!...my guess is shes probably white herself, or has been brainwashed!!
I know that's y i didnt even bother to respond. But she keeps harping on about the minority-so what we r supposed to stop our debates and the work that we do because there are a minority of ppl who are not ''racist''....*ahem* That idea is ludicrous and n e one who spouts ideas like that i try and not bother with.
Once again you have managed to completely disregard what I have said and its gone over your head. I dont know why I am wasting my time trying to talk with you....because as I have said before you wont understand, your level of intelligence wont stretch that fair yet.
You are adding to the racism....so just wanted to say thanks for fukking up our world that little bit more with your negativity.
I thought this forum was a place where you could put your views across and not have people ridicule you, but since I have been here I have found nothing but people being hostile. This is not directed at kunjufu......
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 21:28 |
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every black music form has a white character pushed at the forefront. this is because we may make the music but we don't control it. we don't control the media companies and distribution companines. The music may be black but the business is definetly white.
check del jone's culture bandits he goes into some depth about what is really going on.
eminem can spit but he's not the best. we know this but the white majority who control the music business want the whole world to think that. And they are doing a good job.
it all goes back to white supremacy the white man wants everyone to believe that he is superior in every field. so he hides the brillance of other nations so that he looks good.
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 22:04 |
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| I am a white girl. What is wrong with being white?
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 22:08 |
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| Itsme1: you do realize that as a moderator that i can naturally check people's ip addresses and thus identify posters with multiple identities......posting under different names.. Last edited on Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 00:35 by Kunjufu
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 23:06 |
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Excuse me Candice, yea but need you to fall back. Wot you tryna say black people can't afford the same tings as white, that's pure bull, u need to go and check yourself. Nah I'm afar id u the dumbest motherf***er here. Damon Dash { roca fella ceo} is using Victoira B becoz in this country she is known as a fashion icon. Plus who she married too? It ain't got nothing to do wit the fact she white, it ain't a colour ting but a money ting. In this country there ain't really no black woman known as a fashion icon. And if there was do you honestly think she will get the same attention as Victoria. Well I don't. And you just Answered Peaches question. Victoria back in the day wit them spice tings never used to try n be black. But now you can't deny it. I mean she rockin ice now drinking cristal n sh*t. Don't tell me she woz doing this back in the day coz u know she weren't. Plus wot the hell she doing tryna reocrd a RnB album when she can't even sing. She seems to think becoz she is wit Mr Dash now she can imitate the black lifestyle and get accepted. SORRY, but it don't work like dat. I ain't really got a problem wit white girls. But when they try and act black that just pisses me off. I mean why try and act like something you don't know anything about. I mean nuff white boys since emienm been coming up to me, and chatten like they kno nuff sh*t bout rap. But in reality before he came on the scene they didn't know what rap is about.
People need to stop copping styles. If you white quit tryna be black and if u black qutie tryna be white SIMPLE.
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 23:59 |
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stylishsista wrote: Hello Stealth I think you are missing the point!!
As you said easy sex and money top the list for having a white woman!!
Now look deeper and tell me why black men put these as priorities ...shouldnt love be the reason you are attracted to women...especially of another race...shouldnt it be the fact that you connect with this person and a spritual, physical and emotionally level!!
@Stylishsista Exactly! Black men who simply refuse to acknowledge their duty as fully capable adults who should educate themselves and work hard for a good life of their own, but instead opt for the disgraceful easy way out by using women of any race for sex and money only make all black men look bad.
The problem is when you turn on the TV, flip through a magazine, listen to the radio...the blond bombshell is hailed as beautiful!! How can you say that this image that is thrown in your face does not affect you descion to choose your potential partner
.If you asked a black man who they found attrcative they would give you a list of white women ranging from Pamela Anderson to Britney Spears, J-Lo etc etc They would give a list of A-list celebrities, who have been carefully packaged and promoted to a universal audience...the black man just happens to be a portion of this target group and would happily buy into this!! They start lusting after these women, and worship them as Goddesses, remember these are women whom the white man has deemed beautiful and this is why in American and British dispora many black men have white women on their arms!!
Throughout history women have always been the submissive characters whose job has been to take care of the children and the home...they have always been taken care of...these women whom are promoted by the media as beautiful didnt use their brains to get where they are now, they dont need to, in a sense they are just puppets who have been taught how to talk, act, walk say etc...Is this why the black man does not admire the 'strong independant woman attitude' often associated with black women, because its not a charcteristic associated with white women?
I totally agree!
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 00:32 |
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JERMAINEO wrote: THATS THE WAY IT IS WHITE MANS NOW LOOKING AT ME SAME WAY AS IF THEY ARE ON MY LEVEL NOW THEY ARE WEARING BAGGY JEANS ZIG ZAG IN THERE HAIR AND STRIPE EYE BROWS CUS DAVID BECKHAM HAS DONE IT THEY THINK HE STARTED IT OFF
They just adopted a fashion statement that's all!
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 00:47 |
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| Funny aint it. Dont really see many black men up in here complaining about their sistas being taken blah blah blah....,but you get these jealous black girls, getting jealous of white girls with their long flowing hair. etc etc They seem better than you right??? ha ha ha The way you are acting and spreading hate they probably are.....why would a black man want you when all you got is attitude. Thats not attractive to a man. Whether he be black,white,cuban or asian. You making yourselves look pathetic...
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 03:24 |
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Mockers wrote: Funny aint it. Dont really see many black men up in here complaining about their sistas being taken blah blah blah....,but you get these jealous black girls, getting jealous of white girls with their long flowing hair. etc etc They seem better than you right??? ha ha ha The way you are acting and spreading hate they probably are
Its not a case of complaining we are stating facts, a lot of black men are going for women for the wrong reasons, especially women of other races...SEX and MONEY....when it should actually be LOVE!! Shouldnt it be the fact that you connect with this person and a spritual, physical and emotionally level!!
No its not a matter of getting jealous and it has nothing to do with long flowing hair!! Black women are queens we are not shallow...if a black man wants to date a white woman solely based on her long flowing hair, then what is that saying about him in the first place!! Come on mockers you can do better than that!! (being brainwashed by the media comes to mind!!)
why would a black man want you when all you got is attitude. Thats not attractive to a man. Whether he be black,white,cuban or asian. You making yourselves look pathetic...
By whose standards is a woman who is strong minded and independant pathetic?
This should be an admirable characteristic...black people are naturally strong on a physically,spritual and emotional level we always have been and always will be...the only difference now is black women are using our strength in other areas,not only in the home but the workplace!! Why is this seen as a threat?
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 03:27 |
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| Stylish, I think you need to take a look at my strong black woman thread as I can honestly say you inspired that post
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 07:53 |
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Lucas:
7 out of 10 black men in the uk go out with white women (according to a survey i saw on tv)
2 things I think needs to be looked at:
1) You pointed out that most black men in the UK go with white women but according to the stats I just read from Temporary...yall are only 2% of the population.
So shouldn't we expect this in a free and intergrated society such as England?
2)Since people love to give statistics on what black men are doing and who they're screwing...what's the numbers on black WOMEN in England who are going out with white men?
I don't know about other Americans but every time I see and interracial couple from England it's always a black woman with a white man.
Infact, how many white women are going down into the former African conlonies and marrying men from aFrica....like the white MEN are doing?
Kwese:
Men on the whole are the ones who chase...the white women just is Much easier to be caught. She has not got the stigma attached to her character of "the stong woman" like many sistas have she also has not got the "attitude" associated with many sistas these days. These things make her an ideal perfect catch for ANY male. and thus the term "easy"...i guess there is some truth in this statement.
 Exactly!
We got too much sh*t to deal with than to sit around playing these f*cked up mind-games.
Most white women are much friendlier and much more approachable than the average sista.
This is the difference...
I can CHOOSE most white women I want...and she doesn't mind being chosen. They don't mind being controled and letting a man be a man.
But with most sistaz...they want to be in control. They wanna CHOOSE YOU..and if you don't sit back and let THEM run the show the way they wanna run it..they get angry.
But regardless of all the lies and tricks...I still blame white men for the deteriorating condition of black love.
I think white men are still shocked and angered about how quickly so many of his women flocked to us in the 60's and 70's after the playing fields somewhat evened out.
That's why they're trying to f*ck us out of our money and manhood so much now. Deep down they know that if black men ever gained the type of power in this society that he has....not only will we keep our own black women but we'll have his too...and the Asian woman also.
What a glorious day that will be.
 My black queens by my side with my white and Asian concubines laying at my feet!
Iyallah:
I know the problem of women being forced to be strong and independant to where they no longer needed black men has existed in generations (in the West)...the only difference between then and now is that black women were (atleast publicly) FORCED to be and remaind with black men due to segregation and separate societies.
Now that most sistaz have a choice...most aren't gonna continue to stay with bums and thugs if they know they can do better.
And that's what's destroying the black family and community.
White men hold so much power that many black women feel that black men are no longer needed for anything other than sex or occasionaly protection (from other black men).
Now, I don't want a retard or some mentally-disabled woman who jumps at the sound of an old man farting.
But I DO want a woman who looks to ME as her provider and protector.
I don't want an independant woman who doesn't have a use for me other than sex. I might as well be a jigalo...again.
What good am I if she can do all these things for herself?
Just like most girls and women have babies because they have a strong natural urge to be loved and needed...men have that same natural urge for our women to love and NEED us. If it's not their...most of us don't feel like real men.
I don't know if your comments are personal or religious, but i don't agree at all. If women were how you wanted them to be, we would not amount to much.
We would be waiting for the next man to come along to look after us and that is not on in this day and age, especially if we are capable of more.
They are both personal and religious and you're not SUPPOSED to agree with them.
But a woman and man is valuable only if they're behaving the way God designed them to behave. God gave women breasts and men balls for a reason.
God made black women to please black men...not to wander off in the street to do their "own thang".
Iyallah you have to understand that all this "independant woman" sh*t started during WWII.
In the West, when the men went off to fight in the military they left a vacuum back in the labor industry that needed to be filled so they brought in women to do the jobs men used to do to keep the nations going.
But the employers found out that although women weren't quite as strong as men..they were more reliable, demanded less pay, and would put up with a hell of a lot more sh*t without complaining than men.
Plus they made easier and more viable targets for sexual harrasment.
Every since then women have been heavily courted for the labor market to the detriment of the family structure and community standards.
Stylistic Sista:
Spice you are spot on!! Even white women are shunning the black man!! Look at all the mixed raced relationships that are breaking up!! Black men need to be more responsive to peoples needs...at the moment a lot have too much time on the hands and fill it with women!! They will be the ones suffering...its a trap so the white man remains on top...and they like fools they fall into it!! Damm this brings new meaning to the phrase white women are easy...black men are now becoming easy...easy manipulated, easily led, easily convinced by the media...its a damm shame!!
It's also a shame that I said the SAME THING
http://www.blackchat.co.uk/theblackforum/forum9/795-1.html
Yet you won't give ME credit for figuring out the game and pointing it out (you'll act like you didn't even see it and move on pass) but you'll give another black woman the credit for it.
This is exactly what I mean by our women not supporting us.
Stealth Black:
Black women for the most if you ain't famous or meet the whatever requirements wont even make simple eye contact with a brother,were as when I'VE SEEN white girls no matter if she is ugly,standard,preety,rich ,poor for the most if they are not of a high standing they will look at a brother even smile(though I don't take just a simple smile as a come on,as I know how white gal stay,need a black mirror)
I'm glad you said that because it seems that just looking and smiling or saying "good morning" is in most white folk's nature.
I think it's maybe because sistaz think about sex and love more often than white women do.
I've noticed that most of the time when a sista looks at a man..she immediately sizes him up for sex or a potential mate and if he doesn't meet the qualifications...she wants nothing to do with him.
But I've noticed that white women on the other hand can hold hours of conversation with the sh*ttiest of white men, smile, and even laugh with the man all the while letting him know "not in this life-time".
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Posted: Wednesday December 24th, 2003 01:44 |
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I agree, too many people just plain jealous!
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Posted: Wednesday December 24th, 2003 02:12 |
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Mockers wrote: Funny aint it. Dont really see many black men up in here complaining about their sistas being taken blah blah blah....,but you get these jealous black girls, getting jealous of white girls with their long flowing hair. etc etc They seem better than you right??? ha ha ha The way you are acting and spreading hate they probably are.....why would a black man want you when all you got is attitude. Thats not attractive to a man. Whether he be black,white,cuban or asian. You making yourselves look pathetic...
You sound just like another self-hating negro to me boasting about the so called physical attributes of white women. It is really sad. Does the woman who gave birth to you or yourself have long flowing hair, blues etc.? Please learn to respect and value your own qualities first.
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Posted: Wednesday December 24th, 2003 02:20 |
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Mockers wrote:
why would a black man want you when all you got is attitude. Thats not attractive to a man. Whether he be black,white,cuban or asian. You making yourselves look pathetic...
stylishsista wrote:
By whose standards is a woman who is strong minded and independant pathetic?
This should be an admirable characteristic...black people are naturally strong on a physically,spritual and emotional level we always have been and always will be...the only difference now is black women are using our strength in other areas,not only in the home but the workplace!! Why is this seen as a threat?
You go girl!
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Posted: Tuesday December 30th, 2003 00:52 |
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I am not trying to be libertys but there are alot of white people that try to beg black. back in the days there wazent that much but now there is the all trying to chat and act black and i dont anderstand why ! i have few white bredreans and the live in the black endz but alot of them dont .so why beg black den! i think the need to snap out of it our the going to get them self in to alot of beff you get me.Im not raisist if thats what you think so dont get it twisted. 1 out Thagsy
A bit about me if you wana know i was born in LONDON but my perents are from JAMAICA and i live in BRIXTONN u danno about that
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Posted: Tuesday December 30th, 2003 01:02 |
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| yeah i get nuff uv dat 2 derez nuff wigga's nowadayz and da fing iz even da wite peeps dat r racist dere da onez dat try and use our wrdz and pyrate our style
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Posted: Wednesday December 31st, 2003 22:52 |
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when i fisrt started to read this column i wasnt gonna comment, but the stubborness in me has been unleashed... i am not going to comment on anyone apart from CANDACE....
i would like to point out that even though there were some dipssy comments made in here, yours was the most stupid and inapropriate  .
we all do what we have to do buisness wise or else we wont get very far in this world...
If you really think that rocawear is being promoted by POSH BECKS, for only WHITE ppl to wear then you are even more ignorant than i thought.
DAMON DASH. is his name and the reason he is doing it is becuase he knows how the British media is obsessed with the Becks.. and because of our racist society and media the only way to get into this country is to advertise what they want to see...
BIGGEST JOKE OF THE CENTURY.....A WHITE GURL HAVING AN HOURGLASS SHAPE..???
MAYBE BACK IN THA DAYS WEN THEY WORE TENT SKIRTS AND CORSETTES....
PEACHES has a right to how she feels and what she says, and i in a way agree with her, because now a days white gurls will date a black man and be hating on the black females, it aint right.
I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO SAY THAT I CAN TELL THAT SOME WHITE PPL HAVE BEEN COURIOUS AND HAVE READ THIS....HOW DO I KNOW?...THEY ALWAYS REMAIN ANNONIMOUS AFTER DISSING BLACK FOLKS...HE HE HE..
IF YA CYANT STAN DA HEAT GET OUTA THA KITCHEN.
PEACE.
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