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Posted: Friday December 5th, 2003 01:16 |
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Whoa @ spice, I thought that would have taught him, bu still, why so much anger from the white chick, she coud ave just allowed it
She was just really prejuice for my brother to have not seen that in the first was so foolish of him.
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Posted: Friday December 5th, 2003 03:53 |
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I was taken aback by what spice said about her brother. HE SHOULD NEER HAVE BELIEVED HIS OWN PUBLICITY BUT BEING LOCKED UP FOR 9 MONTH DUE TO A MOMENT OF OVERZEALOUSNESS STINKS TO ME. Y THE WAY I NOT SHOUTING JUST CANT BE BUGGED TO FIX UP THE FONT
Whoa @ spice, I thought that would have taught him, bu still, why so much anger from the white chick, she coud ave just allowed it
 You don't know the white girls overhere and how they were brought up to think about and relate to black men.
Almost ANY type of positive relationship or communication between black men and white women in this country is suspect in the eyes of the general public (white men).
Just like with other people of color, anytime a white women smiles or laughs or just "gets along" with a black man...most white men are suspect and a lot are angred and terribly offended.
 "How dare they get along without my approval!!"
They might not say anything publicly but behind closed doors or on the internet...they make thier feelings known.
White women have learned how to deal with the insecurities of white men who are often their bosses, husbands, and lovers by pretending not to have the slightest interest in black men on any level.
That's how they play it safe.
When you come to parts of America like the Midwest or the Eastcoast where whites tend to be more racist...if you talk to most white women on the street, or casheirs at stores or in any other type of formal or casual setting...most will talk to you in such a loud and clear voice that you'd think she believed you to be deaf or stupid.
Sometimes they'll even repeat whatever you just said back to you in the conversation to let the world know that their's no "hanky-panky" going on and it's just and innocent exchange of words.
Most white women are TRAINED to kill all public assumptions that they are somehow intimate with black men and often go to extemes in proving it. Which is why some are quick to call the police or tell their bosses or anything else to show white men how much they hate you and want nothing to do with you.
What makes it even worse...
Like I said before, some bruthaz are so used to being snobbed and coldly-treated by white women in this society...that if one stops to have a conversation with them or smile at them...they usually take it as her making advances at him.
BECAUSE IT USUALLY IS!!!
Usually the only time a white woman smiles or is very nice to me is if she's sexually interested...other than that..they keep their distance and behave coldly.
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Posted: Friday December 5th, 2003 11:51 |
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| I dont know@ kareem, that is some pretty deep thinking. Do you really think white girls are thinking on such a level when vconversing with black guys. I'm not convinced but I wouldn't be surprised if it was true
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Posted: Friday December 5th, 2003 12:12 |
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@ lucas : most black guys i know say they go for white women because they are less stressful and black girls are too high maintanence. What i would like u black men to explain is why a lot of u cant be honist and just say you go for white girls because u like then and stop using excuses and trying to blaim blak women. If i was a white girl going out with a black man and he was saying that was the eason he did not date black women i would feel second best so BLACK MEN SHOULD STPO MAKIN EXCUSES OF DATING WHITE WOMEN AND JUST ADMIT THEY LIKE WHITE GIRLS!................... PEACE
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Posted: Friday December 5th, 2003 23:14 |
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Look lets face it times are-a-changing!!!
The days when 'doormat' white woman versus 'i can cook,clean and take no sh*t' black woman are over!!!
There are some black girls out there not taking no sh*t and there are white girls just the same!!!
You got the weak ass white girls and sorry to say there are sisters just the same.
Some men go out with white girls becasue they obtain 'things' with less effort, some because that is their preference and some don't have issues with what colour they date so it's no big deal.
If i saw a guy with a white girl nowadays i would assume that he liked her because when you are on the rinse (using someone) you ain't taking them no restaurant / going no Tesco's / going shopping in no West End!!!!!!
The common denominator with most men is P U S S Y (whether dealing with white or black women) and as long as it is being received they don't business!!! the less noise / demands the better!!!! The minority care about anything besides that.
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Posted: Friday December 5th, 2003 23:21 |
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very true@ illayah, the way some black women go o you would think that there isnt one single weak, easy to manipulate sista out there, when that is just not the case
I actually started a post about that. Strong Black women. I'll fish it up
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Posted: Saturday December 6th, 2003 23:14 |
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HERE IS ANOTHER SPIN ON THE SUBJECT OF WEAK WOMEN V.S. STRONG NO NONSENSE BLACK WOMEN. I AM IN TOTAL AGREEMENT THAT THERE BOTH BLACK AND WHITE STRONG AND BOTH BLACK AND WHITE DOOR MATES.
NOW PUSHING THAT ASIDE, BLACK MEN JUST NATURALLY EXPECT WHITE WOMEN TO BEHAVE IN A SOFTER, KINDER, MORE GIVING WAY THAN A SISTER. WHERE AS A BLACK MAN MIGHT FIND THIS SWEET PERSONALITY ENDEARING IN A WHITE WOMAN BUT IF A BLACK WOMAN EXHITBITS THE SAME GENTLE WAYS, MANY BLACKMEN WILL SEE HER AS WEAK AND AS AN EASY AIR HEAD TO BE PLAYED.
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Posted: Sunday December 7th, 2003 01:44 |
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I diagree@ spice
Genuinely nice, EASILY APPROACHABLE black woman are at a premium and the ones I know are always beseiged with eligable batchelors who want to wifey them. Infact, my best friend is like, she constantly getting unwanted/wanted attention and I told her she just has to be rude and stop smiling. Obviously easier said than done but thats the only advice i could give her
Therefore I dont think nice, gentle black women get mistreated, not in my experience anyway
* I put the term easily approachable in bold because there are plenty of genuinely nice black woman but easily approachable girls are not so plentiful
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Posted: Sunday December 7th, 2003 04:36 |
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Genuinely nice, EASILY APPROACHABLE black woman are at a premium and the ones I know are always beseiged with eligable batchelors who want to wifey them.
Therefore I dont think nice, gentle black women get mistreated, not in my experience anyway
Well CashMoney, I only wished your more of your American Brothers appreciated nice, friendly sisters that same way. When I was into dating black men, I was younger, a bit naive, friendly and caring. The black guys I met would take my kindness for weakness and try to play games.
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Posted: Sunday December 7th, 2003 04:46 |
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I see@ spice
Seperate issue, but do you ever think you will date a black guy again? None of my business but I just got the feeling from your reply that black men are a closed chapter in your book of life
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Posted: Monday December 8th, 2003 02:16 |
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I see@ spice
Seperate issue, but do you ever think you will date a black guy again? None of my business but I just got the feeling from your reply that black men are a closed chapter in your book of life
HI CASHMONEY, I DON'T MAY YOU ASKING. WELL IF I MEET THE RIGHT BLACK MAN, I SURE WOULD. 
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Posted: Monday December 8th, 2003 07:54 |
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@ lucas : most black guys i know say they go for white women because they are less stressful and black girls are too high maintanence. What i would like u black men to explain is why a lot of u cant be honist and just say you go for white girls because u like then and stop using excuses and trying to blaim blak women. If i was a white girl going out with a black man and he was saying that was the eason he did not date black women i would feel second best so BLACK MEN SHOULD STPO MAKIN EXCUSES OF DATING WHITE WOMEN AND JUST ADMIT THEY LIKE WHITE GIRLS!................... PEACE
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mmmm
yeah.... i dont go for... women based on their colour.... i go for women based on looks and compatiability... intelligence...etc etc.... in actual factthe magority of women ive gone out with have been black or mixed race..... and i'm not trying to blame black women for anything.... i dont like white girls over black women....to be totally honest... the woman who i think is the sexiest woman whom i have ever laid eyes on is a black woman.... (desree) but satin that there a sexy white women also....michelle phiefer.... cindy crawford.... i guess what im tryin to say is....or ask is....cant a man like women of all different races...????...well my answer to that is yes.... .....mmmm...i'm sure you find some white men attractive.... or mixedrace guys attractive... so?
im not gonna hate on you for that.... neither should anyone hate on me for my preferences...
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Posted: Monday December 8th, 2003 13:19 |
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I dont know@ kareem, that is some pretty deep thinking. Do you really think white girls are thinking on such a level when vconversing with black guys. I'm not convinced but I wouldn't be surprised if it was true
In most cases, they don't have to think about it at all..it's subconcious.
Like you and me for example...
We might cuss up a storm with our friends but when we come around our parents or elders somehow the words never slip out.
We restrain ourselves automatically and subconciously without even having to put any effort toward it because it's ingrained in our psyche.
They do it so much in life that many white women have told me that they had to FORCE themselves to treat black men the same as they treat white men because of ingrained and institutionalized racism.
But again, I don't think most white women in Europe are cut the same as the white women overhere so it may not always be the case.
I'm speaking of the white women of the American midwest and how most of them behave.
the way some black women go o you would think that there isnt one single weak, easy to manipulate sista out there, when that is just not the case
I know but from what I've seen...ususually these meek mild-mannered sistaz with the soft voices and shy smiles are usually snatched up by white or other races of men.
Meanwhile...I'm stuck with.... .............  
Iyallah:
If i saw a guy with a white girl nowadays i would assume that he liked her because when you are on the rinse (using someone) you ain't taking them no restaurant / going no Tesco's / going shopping in no West End!!!!!!
I tend to agree for the most part but let me ask you.....
Is there anything wrong with a man who desires EASIER women (black or white) rather than women who likes to cause a lot of friction?
You know, some bruthaz ain't strong enough to deal with a wild-bucking bull of a woman...maybe need something a little milder to start off with and work our way up.
Spice:
NOW PUSHING THAT ASIDE, BLACK MEN JUST NATURALLY EXPECT WHITE WOMEN TO BEHAVE IN A SOFTER, KINDER, MORE GIVING WAY THAN A SISTER. WHERE AS A BLACK MAN MIGHT FIND THIS SWEET PERSONALITY ENDEARING IN A WHITE WOMAN BUT IF A BLACK WOMAN EXHITBITS THE SAME GENTLE WAYS, MANY BLACKMEN WILL SEE HER AS WEAK AND AS AN EASY AIR HEAD TO BE PLAYED
I agree with Ca$h when he said.....
Genuinely nice, EASILY APPROACHABLE black woman are at a premium and the ones I know are always beseiged with eligable batchelors who want to wifey them.
Also, it depends on the type of black man you're dealing with.
Ofcourse you can't hang with a thug or gangsta and expect him to appreciate gentleness and warmth in a sista because that's not his nature nor is it what he's used to.
But take a good solid black man who was raised in a decent home and a moral background and behave that way around him and he'll treat you like a queen because he knows how hard it is to find sistaz in this society who behave this way.
Young supple sistaz with very nice open personalities are like gold around these parts.
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Posted: Monday December 8th, 2003 20:35 |
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@ KAREEM
I was commenting on people saying they deal with white girls because they are easy etc, yet they are doing things that couples that like each other do e.g. shop, go out to eat.
regarding you point:
Is there anything wrong with a man who desires EASIER women (black or white) rather than women who likes to cause a lot of friction?
of course not, if that is their preference, but personally i don't think anything too easy is good.
You know, some bruthaz ain't strong enough to deal with a wild-bucking bull of a woman...maybe need something a little milder to start off with and work our way up.
?? I agree with the comment, just not sure of the relevance.
Regarding the point made about if men like easy black women or exploit this:
Someone being approachable and someone being a soft person is two different things. I am an approachable sister but you will be able to see that i am not a pushover. When we meet people in the beginning it is normally on a nice level but does nto yet determine who we are.
A soft person is someone who is not willing to question anything, excepts everything, makes no decisions to better their environment (available in black / white). When men come across these women they will take advantage.
(Can you imagine? scenario: A man cheats and stays out all night and when he comes home he tells his worried partner he was at a friends house all night, she say "Oh, thats ok but you should have called" and leaves it as that - Is this man going to feel so bad and think "I am never going to cheat again??" nope!! he knows he has a gullable woman and will use that to his favour.)
i dont think that if you get unnecessary attention that being rude helps, i think being polite while very direct helps more, because even though we get used to men talking to us we should not get complacent with it. someone is still trying to admire / compliment you and if the feeling is not mutual then you can still appreciate without being rude.
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Posted: Monday December 8th, 2003 20:49 |
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@ ALL
And another thing i forgot to say is why is it that the same things brothers love about us is the same things you hate / can't stand?
It's ok when we are strong and running our families / household / careers / selves, but when this same strong person is trying to kick start your ass it's a problem????
Or is it just the way it is done??
We should be a modern woman when it is time to work / buy property /drive nice cars / have our own money / look good / go halves on the bills, but we should be old fashioned when time to cook and bring your food on a tray / clean the house / raise the kids / as no questions ??
Don't get me wrong i believe a mix of the two is good, but not every woman can be both types.
I know one thing that does not work in black womens favour is we are too mothering sometimes, sometimes it can be appreciated and sometimes it is just damn annoying!!
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Posted: Tuesday December 9th, 2003 06:20 |
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@ Iyallah
come on now. my husband he cooks cleans and pays his way. there is no coming home expecting dinner its all give and take. biy i must be the epitome of a modern wife.
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Posted: Wednesday December 10th, 2003 02:07 |
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When i said 'we should' i don't mean that is what i think, i meant that is what some men think we should be. I think you misunderstood.
I'm on your side luv, a husband should be helping in the home!!!!
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Posted: Wednesday December 10th, 2003 07:10 |
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But take a good solid black man who was raised in a decent home and a moral background and behave that way around him and he'll treat you like a queen because he knows how hard it is to find sistaz in this society who behave this way.
Young supple sistaz with very nice open personalities are like gold around these parts.
KAREN, THAT IS NICE TO HERE BUT IN THE STATES IT SEEMS YOU EITHER HAVE THE ABUSIVE THUGS OR THE WELL EDUCATED, BLACK GENTLEMEN AND THEY SEEM ONLY TO BE ATTRACTED TO WHITE WOMEN OR OTHER NONBLACK WOMEN.
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 02:41 |
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Just wanted to know why so many white chicks try and act as if they are on the same level as us black girls?
Alright I understand that a lot of black guys these days feel that they need to get some white p***y and once one does it it starts to become a trend- they all wanna do what their bredwins are doing.
But what gets me the most is the fact that these chicks are all up in your face and looking at ya as if you want their left overs- ohh no! Where they get dem props I will never understand- so someone tell me. Coz a few years ago a white girl would never think you and her are on the same level and certaintly wouldnt try it but now they're in the bashment raves shocking out and srewing ya.
I dont see white dudes doing that, they know where they are and aint trying to be anything else...there still in pubs drinking a pink of stella!
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 05:10 |
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Well you need to look harder my slang spewing sister.
Eversince eminem white guys have actually come up in my
face `rhymin ? ? ?
Baggy ass jeans,
Dry skinned confused negro honey on the arm,and puma kicks,
what is up? ? ?
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 05:56 |
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Hey Peaches,
I think what is happening, is that all the different cultures, races living in the UK are rubbing off on eachother...Think about how lanaguage has changed, its taken its influences from cockney slang, Jamaican dialect, american slang etc to become a way every culture living in the UK can communicate ...I think the same thing is happening to people!! The different races and cultures are amalgamating to form one culture British culture!! These white girls that love try screw us black girls dont see us as black they see us on the same level as they are, we are now part of the same culture...which we all have adopted!! God I hope you understand what Im trying to say!!
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 09:00 |
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@ stylishsista ITS CALLED 'BEGGIN IT' thats what I think their doing, turst certain white boys try it tooo, funny thing is the minute they see how real it can get in the field many jump back to either being pirsssy 'crackers' or lowlife 'whitetrash'.
Guess we should call good ol' Snoops Doggyfizzle for some 'WIGOUT' Special forces.lol
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 09:10 |
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@ all I just had to break it down I have no problem with this erhem! buzz word 'urban' culture which is still by overwhelming majority Black I have a problem with these imatators,who are quick to claim and copy,but also speew sh*t on I see the double headed python there.
Its so easy for them to escape all the harshness associated with Black life but then want to act or live it out ;ooh yeah like I'm supppose to open you with open arms ,after Black people have been struggling not even for that just for equal status,most don't relly give a ish if whites don't like or want us here, which I think is well in the 40% area if you look at the UK as a whole.
But then I get these silly white guys or non -Black peple giving me a lecture on how backward I am because I don't think eminem 'is the best rapper' and sh*t like that just pure bool cocks.
Lets see some Black people with the right qualifications running firms maybe then I might give it a thought.
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 10:25 |
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| YOUR JUST A SCOURNED B1TCH WHO TYPES SH1T...SOME WHITE PERSON MUST HAVE TOOK YOUR MAN OR RUBBED YOU UP THE WRONG WAY....WHAT THE HELL DO YOU MEAN '' ON THE SAME LEVEL AS US''...? ARE YOU ON SOME LEVEL WHERE IT'S JUST YOU ONE OR ARE YOU ON SOME KINDA LEVEL WHERE ONLY BLACKS APPLY AND NO OTHER RACE IS GOOD ENOUGH PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME TRICK....?
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 11:13 |
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| U KNOW WHAT PEACHES SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U HATEING THEM NOW JUST FIX UP LOOK SHARP YEAH U DO WHAT U GOTTA DO AND LET THEM DO WHAT THEY GOT TO DO IF U WANNA GET ALONE FINE IF U DONT THAT WHO GIVES A ???? NOT ME MY GIRL IS WHITE HOPE U AINT GOING TO GIVE ME BEEF 2
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 18:03 |
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Mc_Rascal wrote: U KNOW WHAT PEACHES SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U HATEING THEM NOW JUST FIX UP LOOK SHARP YEAH U DO WHAT U GOTTA DO AND LET THEM DO WHAT THEY GOT TO DO IF U WANNA GET ALONE FINE IF U DONT THAT WHO GIVES A ???? NOT ME MY GIRL IS WHITE HOPE U AINT GOING TO GIVE ME BEEF 2
@ Rascal If you dont Care why bother post anything in the first place...this a black discussion forum where people post topics affecting black people...and this is one of them!! Who cares if you have a white girlfriend are you that insecure that you had to tell us that...black men with white women as been going on for ages now...WE DONT CARE!! The way I see it if you want to deny you heritage and years of black people fighting for injustice to have a relationship with a white women...this is your problem!!
You didnt even make any effort to answer the question she asked!! I dont think she is hating, as she is the one being hated on by white chicks!! She just wants to know why white girls are are gaining more and more qualities assocaited with black culture and then using it in a negative way!!
Last edited on Thursday December 11th, 2003 18:05 by stylishsista
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 18:37 |
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Whatever Rascal??? So what if you have a white girl- what, do you feel all good now??? lol
Anyway, as I was saying before I aint hating coz I don't mind white chicks- just know your place, they havent suffered for years of hating and will never understand- all i'm saying is know your place and stay there- why are you shocking out to rugga when you aint got a clue what the dred is saying- leave it out luv. Why go around chucking it as if you're bad talking bout 'bredwin'??? I can never hate on a white chicks- ever- there's nothing to hate about- what pasty white cornbeef skin- flat batty- NAHHHHH MATE DONT THINK SO- fix up look a black chick fool!
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 19:02 |
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thats all food, yeah keep it on a level, to wrongs you know how it goes,its just funny how many of us Black know how to conduct ourselves good or bad in certain white environments why can't they do the same????
You know what 'screwing' can spark of in certain places ,so why are they doing it??? baffles me like I said follow fashion and when it gets deep they wanna play the innocent pilled on by 'thuggish' Blacks for the notion is ridiculous.
And you know if someone switches on them ,it will look like your beefin' cuz their white ,yeah I know they use their colour enough as I've aid they want to get sympathy from Black youths for what because they have no culture and cant stand being themselves????
We have our oen probblems and should be concerned with that ,not loosely'giving 'street' credit to people who aint 'bout it or mostly haven't even lived it - the struggle but wanna pop of like some of the lost peeps in our society and think they can find sanctuary because their white but stilltry and have Black people fear them????? huh!!
I f they are brewing cause they fear Black people thats their own problem they have to deal with themselves, like I said most Black aren't conceerned what whites think we just want to get on with it- on example of this is if you go to two totally seperate areas in London.
- A white street
- A Black Street
You will see all the white peoples house as they leave their curtains wide open even in wnter for the whole World to see;.
But Black people we are more private and most times you'll only see that if your supposed to i.e family or you know peeps.
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 19:18 |
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Peaches you do appear to be a young, immature female and I think you belong in the under 18 forum. At least I hope so, beacuse if these views are coming from someone of 18 or older GOD HELP US ALL
Your arguement is flawed from the beginning and its goes downhill from there. 'Same level as us balck girls'. This idea of levels has more to do with intellect than race. A conscious, hard working, intelligent black lady is more likely to find a white girl with the same qualities as being on there level, much more so than a lazy, unintelligent black girl. Therefore that arguement is defunct
You then go on to say that why are white people shocking out to ragga that they dont understand. Ridicolus statement! Ragga is my favourite rave music and when it comes on I get hyped. However, I cant even make out what Sean Paul is saying half the time never mind the hardcore cats, should I sit down when they come on or is it alright because I'm black. Infact, ask most Africans and they tell you the same thing
I have more to say but I dont put my eggs in one basket so I await your reply to these comments
Peace
p.s I think we need to get Kareem in here to reprogram your mind
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Posted: Thursday December 11th, 2003 22:01 |
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@ Cashmoney / Peaches
Cashmoney I don't know if you are going to understand what i am going to say but i will try and make it make sense.
Sometimes there is a 'street' way of seeing something and a more 'logical' way of seeing something.
I as someone who has grown up 'on street' / in a certain environment I can completely understand what Peaches is saying, but on the other hand I hear you too. Peaches fault might be how it is all written, which will effect how it is understood. (Others may class 'street' as ghetto).
The vibe i am getting from Peaches is not that she is dissing all type of white girls, i believe she is talking about 'street' white girls. Cashmoney referred to a decent black woman would rather a decent white friend as opposed to a wotless black friend which is understandable but i dont think Peaches is really referring to all these types of women. It sounds more like everyday white girls on street and how they are acting with everyday black women on street. (if you can understand what i am saying)
for e.g The other day i see one teenage black boy chasing a teenage white girl. First i thought they might have been in argument but they were playing with each other. The girl dropped her phone while she was running and it fell apart on the floor. She started cussing him and then said to him "Go suck your mother!!!" he said "what?" and she repeated "go suck your mother!!!!". At this point i was expecting her to get thump down (because if anything will get you slap up by a brother, saying that will !!!!!!!!) and he just started laughing and chasing her again. I could not believe it!!! It is bad enough for any woman to say that to a man, but inside i felt how could he make a white girl talk to him like that and take it for joke!!!! (I would not want him to hit her, but at least put her in her place!!!)
Back in the day that could have never happened, and it is those sort of complacency / familiarity that some white girls are having that i believe is annoying Peaches / many other sisters out there.
Stylish sista / Stealthblack and yourself are right in the comments you have made regarding the amalgamation of society which is the biggest factor of why this is happening.
On the other hand to be truthful i think a lot of black people are frustrated with certain white people because they may not be intimidated by us as some black people would like them to be / how they used to be. (yet again i am not sure if everyone will understand it, but on road that is how it goes sometimes).
Leave those girls too it, because they are obtaining a lot of brothers they may believe we are all the same or they are better (kind of like that letter written by the white woman about their superiority to black women because she felt black men were preferring them).
To say someone is not on your level does not always mean you think you are above them, it could mean that you just don't share the same level. White women may have their way and we have ours, but know some of them are getting rude (especially when accompanied by a brother), but when alone they would have nothing to say!!!
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Posted: Friday December 12th, 2003 00:09 |
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I AGREE WITH WOT UR SAYING ABOUT THEM........."WHITE CHICKS"
FIRSTLY YEAH AM HALF WHITE...........BUT AM NOT A WHITE GIRL SO I CAN SAY SAY WHAY THE F*CK I WANT...............WHERE DOES YEAH THIS COME FROM IN THE FIRST PLACE ITS FROM WHEN WE WAS LITTLE AND WE HAD RACISM AGAIST US FROM "WHITE" PPL...........I DONT APPRECIATE THEM WHAT GOOD HAVE THEY DONE FOR US NOTHING.............
I CANT TEK THE IMATATING WHITE GYAL THAT WALK AROUND THE MANNERZ LIKE THEY RUN THE PLACE WEN REALLY PPL HATE DEM( NO ONE AINT HATING ON sh*t) THE "RUDE" ONE BECOME BLACK MANZ FOOLS BECA THEY THICK AND THEY GET USED AND THROWN AWAY.... I CANT TEK THEM AT ALL THEY AINT NO LAW THAT SAYS I CANT THINK THIS SO AM GOIN TO.........WHITE PPL WHERE THE PPL THAT CHASED OUR DADS AND MOMS DOWN STREETS BEAT UP OUR OLDER BROTHERS AND TING WHY? BECA THEY WHERE BLACK.......SO DONT TELL ME I CANT DO IT BK TO DEM...........
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Posted: Friday December 12th, 2003 02:16 |
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IYALLAH wrote: @ Cashmoney / Peaches
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