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Posted: Monday January 30th, 2006 00:56 |
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Posted: Monday January 30th, 2006 11:35 |
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BlackBeauty wrote: 
Just as there are superficial Black men out there and Superficial human beings IN GENERAL-there are superficial Black women.
Is anybody differentiating between SUPERFICIAL Black women and all other Black women? Most of you are talking as if we are one monolithic group.
As for the person who mentioned 'brush their teeth'...what's the problem? Did your mother/father never teach you??? 
Most seem to see bw as one dimensional, but are always willing to judge other women individually no matter what they actually know.
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Posted: Monday January 30th, 2006 13:51 |
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@Bredrins..Dear brothers been following this thread from time..
Have to say I am not really convinced at all. Women have plenty advantages over men in life, but not when it comes to partner selection men generally as a group have the upper hand.
So while I agree there are plenty women of the type you mentioned as there are men who love trophy type women eg ususally black versions of white cultural fantasies...but there are far more women who are prepared to be flexible than I suggest men who are prepared to be.
I also find women are generally deeper even if they have superficial sh*t going on...
Not conviniced at all on this one.
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Posted: Monday January 30th, 2006 15:07 |
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| I do agree that alot of sisters are very materialistic and superficial just like the brothers but from what I see, alot of sisters are not like that including myself. Thats like saying all men care about is looks and sex, thats true for alot but not all. To tell you the truth, I think some sisters need to raise the bar a little because I see some good hard working sisters dealing with some real losers thats playing them. And visa versa ofcourse.
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Posted: Monday January 30th, 2006 16:31 |
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ChubbiChix wrote: To tell you the truth, I think some sisters need to raise the bar a little because I see some good hard working sisters dealing with some real losers thats playing them. And visa versa ofcourse.
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Posted: Friday March 31st, 2006 10:31 |
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Well at the risk of sounding like a sell out, or a phoney but....my girlfriend is white, I make no appologies for that as I love her and she understands me.
Anyone who has read my previous post will know that I'm not too keen on the shallow materialistic image that so many black guys adopt, gold chains all over the place, designer clothes, fancy trainer, flash cars ect.
As a result, vary few black girls look in my direction. I seems like these females are judging men by their possesion with the view of "whats in it for me" or "what will he beable to buy for me"
I don't see why a woman would expect a man to buy thing for her, they can't harp on about equality then expect men to pamper them, that kind of relationship is prostitution
I have dated black women, mixed race women and white women and I'm sorry to say it but white women seem to have a better attitude in many ways. I know I shouldn't generalise, but I can only speak from personal expirience.
White girls who are not involved in the whold Hip Hop, Gangster Rap image, are more likely to treat the relationship as a partnership, where as black girls seems to want a trophy guy to show off to their girlfriends. Though there are white girls who wants to have a black boyfriend for the same reason, but those fools, are spotted straight away and avoided.
Your partner should have your back, and should drive you to better yourself, she should be a friend and an advocate for you, and in some instances, your bodyguard.my gf is all of these. Iv'e been with her 6years now and still going strong!
It would of been nice if I could of found this in a black woman, I tried, belive me but it seems that the younger women for the most part concentrate too much on having a man with an 'showy' image. These guys are the most desireable and as a result, they are less likely to be faithful, why would they be honest, if women all over the place are throwing themselves at them?
Ladies.....If you make your bed, you have to lie in it!!!
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Posted: Friday March 31st, 2006 10:37 |
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The real reason why black women find trouble in getting a good man is simple........MEN
Ive noticed especially in london where there is a huge shortage in good looking and im overly populated with men that the men will push these women to almost celeb status making actually think they are worth more then they actually are.
I noticed that from years back when I first settled in london that men will chase round some half decent chick like she was actually made from 24ct gold.... women I used to pick up and throw away like rubbish back home.
oddly enough you never seeing women chasing round men the same way.
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Posted: Friday March 31st, 2006 11:11 |
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Not being funny RLB, but it doesn't matter how reasonable you try to come across, you still sound like a grade-A idiot. You use an essentialist notion of black people, and then try to normalise yourself outside of that. It's the usual 'I know what the problem is with my folks, but they just can't understand it'.
Everything I've heard you say, women in greater numbers have also said, so what are you trying to pull. Why do you think that the least commited sh*t of a person like youself can dismissively pass judgement like that?
I agree there could be nuggets of truth in what you've said, but really it just looks like you've constructed a type of black women that convieniently fits the model of behavior you've described. These women don't exist to the degree that punks like yourself insist.
I'm also expecting that you expected a reply like this so you could get combative, and display some inverted self-righteousness.
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Posted: Friday March 31st, 2006 11:13 |
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lol
RLB you sound like a wild coconut
either that or a troll....
if your gonna disrespect black women atleast make your points truthful
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Posted: Friday March 31st, 2006 11:26 |
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name wrote: Not being funny RLB, but it doesn't matter how reasonable you try to come across, you still sound like a grade-A idiot. You use an essentialist notion of black people, and then try to normalise yourself outside of that. It's the usual 'I know what the problem is with my folks, but they just can't understand it'.
Everything I've heard you say, women in greater numbers have also said, so what are you trying to pull. Why do you think that the least commited sh*t of a person like youself can dismissively pass judgement like that?
I agree there could be nuggets of truth in what you've said, but really it just looks like you've constructed a type of black women that convieniently fits the model of behavior you've described. These women don't exist to the degree that punks like yourself insist.
I'm also expecting that you expected a reply like this so you could get combative, and display some inverted self-righteousness.
WHooo, name, Calm down! What your problem?
As I mentioned in my post, this is just my experience, which is pretty vast. At no point did I say all black women are this or that. Now don't you think that it could be an acurate one, as exprience is a vary personal thing? There could be a number of reasons for this.
Whilst I always 'blow up' on people who take pot shots at me, I now limit that to the racist forums. I have no intention of getting combative or self-righteous with you or anyone else in this forum, as I believe that black people spend too much time aruguing and insulting one another.
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Posted: Friday March 31st, 2006 11:44 |
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Black_power wrote: lol
RLB you sound like a wild coconut
either that or a troll....
if your gonna disrespect black women atleast make your points truthful
Black_power,
Nah, I'm neither, troll nor (depeding on you definiton) a coconut, either way you can put you bait and the fishing rod away, I'm not biting!!!!! We spend too much time distracted by posturing and image cultivation, I think you should put that word away perminatly, it's counter productive in this forum!!
Of course I'm not disrespecting black woman, just, more accuratly, a certain type of black woman. If you re read my post, you will see that it is directed at younger girls.
In my experience, espesially those around college age 17-early twenties, they are incredibly materialistic and image orientated. If you don't see this, maybe you were fortunate , or stylish enought not to notice.
I pesonally don't think it is too much of a strech to see that younger girls brought up on the MTV bling,bling culture would think this way....but we all see things differently, don't we?
Of course I knew that my comment would inflame many, I say it anyway, little will change it we only say the things that others would like us to say!! This is the reason for forums like this...isn't it....to talk openly and frankly.
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