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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 02:19 |
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Each of my friends who have just recently started to lose their virginity one by one have been going on about 'how goods he was' or 'he ain't too bad in bed'- when i constantly wonder HOW THE HELL CAN THEY TELL WHAT GOOD SEX IS- ESPECIALLY WHEN IT BE THEIR FIRST TIME? It ain't only my female friends who chat about this- it's the boy- especially the boys. All they do is go on about their one nighter with a girl who was 'bad in bed' and that if they saw this particular person again, they would tell her 'how to improve'- just out of pity (thats what they say their doing- but i think they wanna embarass the poor girl).
And so all this just makes me wonder- when i decide to lose my virginity (don't plan on doing so any time too soon); will i be 'GOOD' in bed or 'BAD'. What do y'all see as good sex- when someone is good in bed- and bad sex when someone is bad in bed (i'm reaching out to the men in this one most especially) and why? What does a person have to do in bed to make sex seem so good to y'all (and i mean besides the 'love')?
P.S. can y'all get back to me on this one as soon as possible; i got a man and i know he gonna be asking for some 'bum love' soon- i can feel it (most literally cos he's been touching me quite alot these past days).
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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 03:53 |
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don't believe the hype...
wait.. be patient with yourself, cause once you give it away it is gone...
that is a gift from god that should not just be given away..
everyone i know would have waited if they could go back in time
lil sis you have time..don't rush, keep yourself pure, it may not be easy, but think of yourself as having something that none of your friends have, something, pure and godly...
opening that part of your life really can confuse things for you, when having sex sometimes people are not prepared for the emotional hurts that come with it ifnot prepared, if you should not end up with this guy, then you can walk away easier and still have your self respect..
plus there are too many diseases out there
if you have made up your mind to do this..then at least protect yourself, used condoms everytime!! but know that nothing is 100% safe except abstinence
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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 04:03 |
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@Clueless
NOW HOW OLD ARE YOU EXACTLY?!?!?!?!?IS THAT TEENAGER IN 13 OR TEENAGER AS IN 19.
If it 13 or a little older I suggest you get back to your studies and get your high climax from achieving those A+ in your studies
If its more closer to 19 then read on ......
....your completely correct with your observation how can one comment on how good sex is if it is their first time. Most women are so egar to experience an orgasm on their first sexual encounter and it just don't happen. I guess most of your friends will be trying to live up to the expectation that the media has printed in their head who knows or living up to others expectations and stories. Your a virgin and when you chose to have sexual intercourse only you will know what feels good and right to you and what doesn't, obviously communication will have to play a great part with your partner so you both learn to fully satisfy each other in terms of what each other likes. You can read as many literature on learning different techniques etc but only you will know what feels good and right and what you are comfortable doing, so I really wouldn't worry about it. There is absolutely no one who lost their virginity and was fully experienced its not logical don't make sense if you really think about it, so its all a learning process comes with more experience some learn and some still don't learn a thing. Btw those are my views as a female I am sure some men (who you have requested) will give their opinions. When you are ready to engage in sexual intercourse with your boyfriend (when you are BOTH ready with PROTECTION) the main thing for you to do is relax and you stand a better chance of enjoying it on your first times.
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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 11:16 |
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The key ingredients to good sex
1)is being comfortable with the person i.e. being in a stable and secure relationship
2)being willing to please your partner
3)tied in with number two be willing to experiment, you should try everything once and then tell your partner what you like and what you don't like and likewise for him
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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 15:48 |
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Clueless Black Girl:
i got a man and i know he gonna be asking for some 'bum love' soon- i can feel it
(((((  )))))
 Ohhhh not like you're GONNA feel it.......
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Posted: Saturday January 3rd, 2004 00:52 |
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The only people who can say who/what is good or bad in bed are the people involved in the bed.
But the advice is do not do anything yet, please! The fact that you have to ask this fairly dumb question, tells me that you are not ready. The fact is sex is not just about what is good or bad, -you have to ask yourself about the consequences of such actions and whether you are ready to deal with them; because I think it is wise to think of the worse case scenario's, in the hope that you would be prepared if it happens.
In case you did not know the consequences could be all manner of STD's and/or an unwanted pregnancy.
Listen to mafdet, bluehoney,Gemini and me, bottom line the message is to WAIT!!!  
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Posted: Friday January 9th, 2004 03:04 |
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Come on now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i lost my virginity at 14 and it was heavy. as long as ur comfortable then have sex weneva u like get me. gud sex is gud sex. it dont mata how many times uve done it. u'll no wen itz gud trust me i know!
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Posted: Friday January 9th, 2004 07:10 |
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Benefits of sex!!!!!!!!!!!
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> You've gotta read this. It's hilarious!
> Be sure to read the warning at the bottom.
> Did you know that you can tell from the skin whether a person is
>sexually active or not?
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> 1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make
>love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine
>and skin smooth.
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> 2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering
>dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the
>pores and makes your skin glow.
> 3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that
>romantic dinner.
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> 4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and
>tones up just about every muscle in the body. It's more enjoyable than
>swimming 20 laps, and you don't need special sneakers!
> 5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins
>into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a
>feeling of well-being.
> 6. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually
>active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones.
>These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!
> 7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE
>EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.
> 8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages
>saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that
>causes decay, preventing plaque build-up.
> 9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the
> tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.
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> 10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural
>antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.
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Posted: Saturday January 10th, 2004 01:16 |
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@Vestah and guest:
Most of us know someone who has lost their virginity early; I knew a girl who lost it at eleven! Does it really make it the RIGHT thing to do? People HAVE to understand it is not the sex that is the most important thing - anyone can do that right? Its the CONSEQUENCES that one should consider!!!
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Posted: Saturday January 10th, 2004 02:15 |
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Hey!! what up nuthing much here just chilling being bored......I don't there is such as GOOD SEX AND BAD SEX at all
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Posted: Sunday April 11th, 2004 19:04 |
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| hey i had sex when i was 14 is that bad??
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Posted: Sunday April 11th, 2004 19:23 |
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| Yes!
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Posted: Wednesday November 8th, 2006 00:39 |
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Posted: Saturday November 18th, 2006 23:04 |
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Posted: Monday November 20th, 2006 07:45 |
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Posted: Monday November 20th, 2006 08:53 |
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Posted: Tuesday November 28th, 2006 10:02 |
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Posted: Tuesday November 28th, 2006 10:53 |
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this thread is inappropiate due to the recent posts
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