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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 05:13

KeeKeed:

Like Juvenile said, let's get this "foolishness" over......
The REAL reason most black women don't like to see black men with non-black women is for the SAME reason white men don't like it.

Jealousy!!!!

Just come on out and admitt that yall get jealous as hell to see bruthaz with mad game because you know giving him p***** won't fade him as much because he has alternative sources.

Most sistaz feel like blkphonecall

somebody, when they realize that they aren't the only game in town.

They WANT to be the only game in town so that they have a measure of control over their men and get what they want.

These negros are slow, I peeped the game back in high-school...the power of Coochie-Control will have you like blkexercise

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 05:59

Mafdet:

You're angry and confused but still as lovely as ever. smoking-devil

C'mere and let me wipe the sweat off that bald-head!!! blkpoke

We been done this road before on the old blacknet forum and a black brothers came into the debate and said they have no desire for any other race women but their own. Yet again another black brother Dillinger here on this topic put this straight forward statement to you and said don’t say black men just say you. Actually your above statement sounds like a junkie telling a non junkie try it man if you don’t you’re a fool, and can no way comprehend or understand why this non junkie does not want to partake in such activity. Don’t you understand that you "junkie" may look and sound replusive to the non-junkie…..do you get it now

Ya see, I can tell when you're mad and your hair is all messy because you get so hot you FORGET to edit your posts and sh*t...

But anyway........
The "black bruthaz" came in lying thier a*sses off, is what they did.
Any MAN WHO LIKES WOMEN...LIKES WOMEN!
He may find more attractive than others but still has a certain amount of attraction to women of all races.

I've worked around so many bruthaz who CLAIMED they didn't have an interest in white or oriental women...but as SOON as one of them touched his knee in a conversation...he starts tripping on his words.

When them white girls start talking dirty to him or asking him "dating material" questions...I pull out my PH.D and say, "Yeah man, too bad you aren't attracted to white women!"

You should SEE the murderous look on these negro's faces when I throw a monkey-wrench in the plan!

Some of yall sistaz just like being lied to for some reason.

A man tells you you're the only one when you KNOW he has 3 other women (because you check his cell=phone when he's in the shower)...but you accept it.

A brutha tells you he doesn't find white women attractive but j*cks-off to pictures of J.Lo and Beyonce and yall go rrrright along with it!
Backing HIM all the way!!!

There's just no help for some people.......... blksadbounce

You can pride YOURSELF in staying with black women but they ain't gonna pride THEMSELVES in staying with US unless we start getting on the ball and start gaining more power, wealth, and influence in the society.

But what has this got to do with what you wrote above or are you now saying this is your second reason/fact for interracial dating or as you put it interracial sex

I don't know EXACTLY what you're getting at but I know one thing.

Maybe a few "concious" sistaz with dreds might stick to thier NubianKings, but MOST sistaz ain't gonna hang around some bum who chants "queeny queeny" all day long.

She's gonna get with someone who can give her what she needs...BLACK OR WHITE!

Personally, I perefer that bruthaz start gaining some powere so that WE can provide everything our women need and aren't FORCED to go to white or Asian men.

Unfortunatly calling you "queen" without providing you a "queendom" ain't enough to get it started.

then like I said you are simply another person looking for so many excuses than rather admit you just like dating or in your case sexing women off other races....

Duuhhhhh!!!!

Helllooooo-oooooooo --knock knock!

Didn't I say that like...a million times already?

I FIND WOMEN OF EVERY RACE ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!
I FIND WOMEN OF EVERY RACE ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!
I FIND WOMEN OF EVERY RACE ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!
I FIND WOMEN OF EVERY RACE ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!

Do ya hear me now?

blkearstick

Good!

Bearing in mind I only chose a few quotes from you to use your posts are literally filled with example material and as the guy who has made it very vocal in the past to encourage blacks to have their own land, schools, businesses etc....well you can see why I am questioning some of your statements in this topic. However if after this you still can't see the reasoning for my questions then lets just leave it at that

What does banging whatever kind of woman I want have to do with me providing a descent and independant society for my people to live in?

Do you think black men are so stupid that we can't do more than one thing at a time?

How were WHITE MEN able to build up a great civilization and as well as provide comfort and saftey to HIS women and kids...while at the same time raping and concubining women of color by the millions?

As a race, we need to get our priorities in order and stop with all this "sexual" foolishness about who's screwing who and who cheated on who and who had a white girl and who stayed "loyal".

If my baby is still talking to me....I'm gonna ask her another question....

Who do you think is the biggest threat--

1)A black man who screws white women ?

or

2)A black man in the U.S. or British military engaging in war?

or

3)A black man who gang-bangs and sells dope?

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 06:17

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brutha tells you he doesn't find white women attractive but j*cks-off to pictures of J.Lo and Beyonce and yall go rrrright along with it!

Uh.....since when was Beyonce white?

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 08:12

@ Kareem

Now then let me just address a few statements you made

You're angry and confused .
Please don't try and belittle my post/questions to you with these silly statements.

I don't know EXACTLY what you're getting at but I know one thing.
Only trying to get you to clarify your post your statements are very contradicting blkfishslap

How were WHITE MEN able to build up a great civilization and as well as provide comfort and saftey to HIS women and kids...while at the same time raping and concubining women of color by the millions?
This bit I actually thought oh maybe this is Kareem beginning to talk now, part of your strategic plan to reverse history to build great civilization while at the same time raping and concubinning women of other races. But then you just hopped and changed again. blkheadbang

As a race, we need to get our priorities in order and stop with all this "sexual" foolishness about who's screwing who and who cheated on who and who had a white girl and who stayed "loyal".
How you can quote this

and still fail to answer my original question is quite shocking, do you remember what my original question was. blkhailer

it was not about sex but more to do with questioning your statement about why it is relevant to do so. Because you wrote

I'm just saying that as BLACK MEN in on this planet...we are among the most hated and despised beings for one reason or another and we are in NO POSITION to start restricting and limiting ourselves to "this" or "that" type of women. We better be trying to win as many on our side as possible while interracial relationships are STILL LEGAL in the West! As black men we are in NO position to be turning down women of other races and restricting ourselves!
Then I wrote the following

So who actually despises you Kareem as a black man on this planet, because it can't be women of other races otherwise they wouldn't get with you in the first place so please tell me how by dating other races takes this problem away.
Which up to this point it still has not been answered

Ah never mind your still missing the plot. blkhelp

........oh well I'll guess we just finish it at inconclusive.

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 08:44

Since this is a serious thread I just add my 50 cent worth.

@ Kareem

I was thinking the EXACT same thing myself when I saw this thread. I don't know about you but I'm tired of repeating myself over and over again on the same sh*t.

and you think you got it bad we're the one who have to listen to it bighairlol

@ alilbitaclass wrote

well yes i agree that this is a long talked about topic, .......

and then promptly lengthend it some more

@ Dada

Yes the emoticons are cool blkafro

down.gif" ALT="blkbowdown">now die thread please die go on thread that the way to go blkflush

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 10:17

Prince Hakeem:

Ever since that red-bone gal dyed her hair blonde and started wearing stone washed jeans with the knees out.

I believe her and Shakira are the same people...just watch how they pose to the side and start jiggling their hips while they smile at ya! :shock:

Mafdefeated:

......... .......down.gif" ALT="blkbowdown">Kareem

I guess you didn't witness me saying----

First of all...
Your American big brutha Kareem ain't the ONLY black man on the planet. It's not about ME personally because I don't represent ALL black men, but I can SPEAK for all black men in saying that they are more hated and despised by the world IN GENERAL than any other group of men on this planet.

How many men do you know have the constant criminal and agressive sexual stereotypes that black men were branded with.

How many other men do you know were called "children of Cain" like black men (people).

Who in America is avoided and feared on the street more than a black man?

Who is dissed in public on television, dissed in the movies, dissed in music videos, dissed in Romance novels like black men.

You can point out some example of this in ALL races of men but none like black men.

Now although a lot of black people HELP in promoting this negative portryal but WHITE MEN are at the core of the problem because they're promoting the program.

I've talked to dozens of East Indian, Arab, and P*kistani women and any of them that get to know me for a period of time and can open up STRAIGHT UP TELL ME how their fathers and brothers talk about blackmen and warn them not to come near us or THREATEN them not to come near us from fear of disownership and isolation from the community.

Like I said, I've never been to Europe so I don't know how things are there but there's around 20 million bruthaz here that can BEAR WITNESS that our reputation around the globe ain't too peachy.

So I can say with comfort, that black men ARE the most hated, demonized, and despised of any in the world.

blkafro

=Did ya baby?

But what else can I expect from a woman who picks arguments with strangers at bus-stops!

You're gonna get yourself in some...... blkhide

you can't get ouf of, if you keep doing that.

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 17:19

Hi Mafdet

Have to say I change my mind on Kareem;s state of wisdom after he said that he thinks 15 year old should legally be allowed to have sex.I think our kids grow up far too quickly as it is.So No, he may have brief moments of wisdom but I dont agree with him on That one.Methinks he lost the plot back there.As for this subject I;m beginning to think maybe he;s just a Sex Addict in general.

Also had to laugh at what you posted about Spice girls.I always thought Scary Spice was a complete idiot anyway!

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 17:32

Kareem wrote

As black men we are in NO position to be turning down women of other races and restricting ourselves!

This is the strangest statement I've ever heard.

Minx said:
"With our own history so messed up, I don't even wanna get my head round how a mixed race child would be feeling."

If the parent(s) bring the child up with love and knowledge, there's no reason for the mixed race child to feel anything but strong and proud. Without these tools, yes there will be "confusion"

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 17:38

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@Kareem

Actually what you said was I underlined the key word for you

I have NO PROBLEMS with interracial sex AS LONG AS IT'S PRACTICED FAIRLY AND EVENLY! you didn't mention dating, anyway you still haven't answered my question you see when you said

Don't be telling black men to stay loyal and condemn US for dipping our sticks into vanilla when WHITE MEN are allowed to have vanilla, chocolate, peanut butter, carmel, strawberry and every damn thing else and you don't hear a PEEP out of their women. Also Kareem when you wrote

ANY MAN who says that he's ONLY attracted to a "certain" race of women and none other is ethier lying or gay! We been done this road before on the old blacknet forum and a black brothers came into the debate and said they have no desire for any other race women but their own. Yet again another black brother Dillinger here on this topic put this straight forward statement to you and said don’t say black men just say you. Actually your above statement sounds like a junkie telling a non junkie try it man if you don’t you’re a fool, and can no way comprehend or understand why this non junkie does not want to partake in such activity. Don’t you understand that you "junkie" may look and sound replusive to the non-junkie…..do you get it now.

You can pride YOURSELF in staying with black women but they ain't gonna pride THEMSELVES in staying with US unless we start getting on the ball and start gaining more power, wealth, and influence in the society.
But what has this got to do with what you wrote above or are you now saying this is your second reason/fact for interracial dating or as you put it interracial sex.

It still doesn't tell me how that helps, why not expand and tell me exactly how .......

If black men wanna RESTRICT themselves to only black women then we're only gonna be the losers and fools while white men continue to have the fun.
"Keeping to your own" is a pretty cool POLITICAL STATEMENT, but on a strategic level---it's virtual suicide because we're painting ourselves into a corner.

.......this is strategic. You see you try and play a damn good game of dancing around the issue and trying to avoid straight forward question posed at you. Infact to be perfectly honest I don't think I could expect anything else from you,just like it is so typical of you to play around with posters name when addressing something they have posted to you, so unless you can place a good report to back up this statement....then like I said you are simply another person looking for so many excuses than rather admit you just like dating or in your case sexing women off other races.....its quite simple really when you read and digest what you wrote and how you wrote it. Btw I have taken on board your statements in regards to your HYPOTHETICAL CHOICE! that is quite straight forward its the above that doesn't make sense. Bearing in mind I only chose a few quotes from you to use your posts are literally filled with example material and as the guy who has made it very vocal in the past to encourage blacks to have their own land, schools, businesses etc....well you can see why I am questioning some of your statements in this topic. However if after this you still can't see the reasoning for my questions then lets just leave it at that.

Now then....

@ Locsgirl

Care to elaborate why you think Kareem, or shall I say his post makes him a wise man I am interested........ maybe you can clear it up for me.

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 18:10

Prince Hakeem wrote:

Kareem wrote:

brutha tells you he doesn't find white women attractive but j*cks-off to pictures of J.Lo and Beyonce and yall go rrrright along with it!

Uh.....since when was Beyonce white?

Maybe he means from a light-skinned/latino perspective. But if I'm right, Beyonce is full black, her mother could be mixed (she's pretty light) and her father is dark.

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 18:27

Menzer wrote:

Not being funny but your last response is that of a NEGRO!!!, not a black man fi real, I find it strange that when Dillinger aired his view that he 'could not detect any blackness in your postings', you reply with the statement 'I don't think or sound like the average negro! - Where did Negro come into this, or do i detect an undercover hatred of Black people? and if you are black then an undercover hatred of ones self.

Kareem Quote: ALL PEOPLE OF OUR KIND ARE "BROWN". ??????

Kareem, I think you need to understand that black is more than just a colour.... Eh up a kid.... 'ere's a universal name for the New Culture you was looking for... MUD UP!!!.....

Just remember this: Black is a way of life, it's a culture which should be preserved... and respected just like all other cultures, it should be built on solid grounds, cared for and nurtured. So we grow strong and stand tall,

FOR WE ARE WHO WE ARE...

And no matter what level we reach in life, no matter where we go, we will keep that with us.

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 18:34

Wow!!!

Menzer wrote:

Yes Yes Kareem, I see your disassociation from the Black community, very good... indeed you are in your rights to class yourself as AFRO AMERICAN, I suppose that's your way of fitting in and saying to your master country that 'hey I'm just like you' and I am a higher person than those Black people in the world.... Let me clean ya boot mas'ta

My friend, let me tell you something, I was born in britain and hold a british birth certificate and passport but being british is not my culture, over here, even in one of the main stream papers they had a comic strip displaying the english culture and it had a woman with big tits hanging out and drinking beer, over here, Britain does not really have a culture, they have history but no culture to the degree that the Black Community has or even the Asian Community and others such like. We expect to fit in by being ourselves, we come as a package and when our ancestors were pulled from our countries what did they expect.. for us to diss our culture, get cosmetic surgery and all look and behave white?

My point is?, by calling my self Afro British is my acceptance to the British value system which to be quite honest is all about money and greed just like America. The western world is destructive, they rip cultures apart and believe their way is the right way... and if you don't conform to their way, they destroy your country and it's own values.

So I as far as I am concern I am not Afro British, I am Black, I will stand tall as a Black man and continue in preserving the Black Culture. I intergrate in this society as a Black man and go about my business in a constructive and positve way, if the white man don't like dat then that is something they have to live with not me.

Quote from Karrem: Neither of these terms will work for the intellignent and upward mobile bruthaz and sistaz of the future...

PS: Sounds like you are calling black people dumb??? Just check how far we have come and what we have fought for and still calling our self black and still seen as black....

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Posted: Wednesday September 10th, 2003 20:21

@Kareem

I can't answer your question because i simply don't know the answer, I wish i did but I dont so I obviously I can't. I support the idea of being called a black man, I support the idea of me being part of the black community, I also believe that black is beautiful, I realy dont like the idea of being called british anything as i dont supported the idea of the brithish empire.

I accept the fact that I was born in England so am therefore known as an english man, but that does not meen i like the idea. The white people seem as though they will never apolgise for what there ancesters had done to the Africans through enslavement, but the fact is every time someone stands up to be counted as a proud 'Black Man or Woman' those very same white people remember it was they (the whites) who tried to put us down using the name 'blacks' but it was us the oppressed that that put the Power into 'Black Power'.

these are just my thoughts and feelings

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 02:29

HA HA HA
OkAY ITS OFFICIALLY
DEAD!

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 03:31

....is whiteboy coming back to answer his questions or what????

AQ:

This is the strangest statement I've ever heard.

Maybe because...

a)You like Missy Mr.Elliot and this automatically clouds your understanding

or

b)You're not a man and don't understand how men SHOULD think

Now I'm gonna do a Mafder\Spindarella and ask you,

What on EARTH did Mafdet say in that last post that had you grinning and clapping like Bo Jangles? blkexercise

Do you also think that these bruthaz who claim they ONLY are attracted to black women really mean it?

You don't think if I brought a nice looking naked Indian or Chinese woman in the room and sat her on their laps they wouldn't get an erection (those that can blkpoke

)?????

Maybe he means from a light-skinned/latino perspective. But if I'm right, Beyonce is full black, her mother could be mixed (she's pretty light) and her father is dark.

No I'm talking about before Europeans and Africans started mixing on a large scale...and before bleaching one's hair blond became a fashion...you couldn't find ANYONE in Africa looking like Beyonce.

Beyonce is a black woman in culture and because of her background but NOT IN LOOKS.

She has a caucasian features, light yellow skin, and blonde hair.

As far as looks go, shes far closer to a white woman than a black woman.

How can you believe a man who says he doesn't find white women attractive when he finds people like Beyonce or Halle Berry or Mariah Carey..all half-white women who LOOK WHITE very attractive and slobber over them?

He may not like the racist attitude that "actual white" women have or the way they talk or how they act but if he chooses the lightest or closest thing TO... to display his attraction then obviously subconciously he still finds the LOOK attractive.

Mafdet is constantly telling me to ADMIT that I find ALL women attractive no matter what the race...when I HAVE on several occasions.

But won't confront the OTHER bruthaz for hyping up these light\bright\damn-near-white women while claiming to ONLY find "black" women attractive.

Which is why I said a lot of Diasporan women enjoy being lied to...

Loxgirl:

Have to say I change my mind on Kareem;s state of wisdom after he said that he thinks 15 year old should legally be allowed to have sex.I think our kids grow up far too quickly as it is.So No, he may have brief moments of wisdom but I dont agree with him on That one.Methinks he lost the plot back there.As for this subject I;m beginning to think maybe he;s just a Sex Addict in general.

I don't know how mature you were when YOU were 15 (or how mature you are now) but when I was 15 I knew all about sex, I was educated about sexual disease, and I knew where babies came from.

When i said the age should be dropped to 15, I didn't have retared people in mind who NEVER will have the maturity to understand. I'm talking of those with NORMAL intelligence and congition....

Not some... blkbuttkick

Now, although almost everyone on this thread happens to be OPPOSED to interracial dating but ME...it's alright if you pick "one isssue" to find discord with one of the FEW people who support interacial sex and dating.

Although you're a product of the same interracial relationships that THEY DESPISE...ya know..it's OK. blktears

I personally think you made the right move to join on with Mafdet instead of me.......you should visit the OLD Blacknet and see what she did to the LAST half-white girl (R.I.Peace) who sided with me!

But since you think I'M not wise---

What would you call a woman who hangs out at bus-stops blksmoke

with 57 black youths running after busses and making noises at them when they pass?

What would you call a woman who harrasses old black women in business suits and challenge them to fights if they shake their head at the madness?

Would you call THAT person wise?

Mafdet:

These responses proves my point....

If we could COLLECTIVELY unite against a common enemy like some sistaz do when they get jealous.....

.

....we'd be on top in no time at all.

That's what I mean about getting our priorities straight.

People are more angry about who black men are screwing than how much power and economics we actually have.

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 05:32

AQ:

This is the strangest statement I've ever heard.

Maybe because...

a)You like Missy Mr.Elliot and this automatically clouds your understanding

or

b)You're not a man and don't understand how men SHOULD think

Now I'm gonna do a MafderSpindarella and ask you,

What on EARTH did Mafdet say in that last post that had you grinning and clapping like Bo Jangles? blkexercise

)?????

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 05:39

AQ: there is a big difference between physical lust and being attracted to someone.. Yes i'm sure most men would be physically attracted to a good looking Asian or Chinese..and yes may even get an erection if they were naked.. However I'm attracted to BLACK women, only they could get me coming back for more or wanting more...it more that just good looks.. I cannot put my finger on it exactly but Black women for me..gives me that exciting tingle..I just don't get the same tingle with any other culture.. yes i might think lust but not tingle and definately not relationship nah sah..
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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 05:51

@K,yes of course there is a difference between lust and love and I've given my opinion already on this subject when it was done in the past. I applauded Mafdet because of Kareem's rather predictable response to this thread. Even his recent post made me laugh till I cried because he said EXACTLY what I expected him to say. I won the bet... blkdevillol

evil "British" humour.

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 09:48

....I didn't mean to call Beyonce half white.

Kunjufu:

there is a big difference between physical lust and being attracted to someone.. Yes i'm sure most men would be physically attracted to a good looking Asian or Chinese..and yes may even get an erection if they were naked.. However I'm attracted to BLACK women, only they could get me coming back for more or wanting more...it more that just good looks.. I cannot put my finger on it exactly but Black women for me..gives me that exciting tingle..I just don't get the same tingle with any other culture.. yes i might think lust but not tingle and definately not relationship nah sah..

Hell, if you have ANY type of lust toward them you're obviously attracted to them in SOME sort of way.

Look how you said that..."however I'm attracted to black women, only they could get me coming back....."

You didn't say ONLY attracted to black women.
ALL MEN are attracted to Black women the same as any other woman...and that's mypoint.

I bet if just an ORDINARY looking white or Asian woman took off and went running down your street butt naked

you'd be the FIRST to get at her!

A MAN IS GONNA BE A MAN...if he's got something to be one with! blkdemon

AQpressure:

Now here you go with this "lust" business. blkheadbang

Why is it anytime a "black man" is involved with a woman of another race...he's accused of being LUUSSSSSTFULL?

Why we gott LUUSSTT after other women instead of just being simply attracted?

Why can't you just say, "Just like white men are attracted to different women...so are black men".

Why gotta tag LUST on everything we do like it's so wicked and evil when WE do it?

It ain't like I'm standing on a corner foaming and sh*t trying to find the first non-black woman to jump on and hump.

Just casually in the work-place or library or resturant...men and women should be able to talk with and meet eachother freely without the pressure of OTHERS staring at them and whispering.

Listen,
I'm just the type of brutha who believe in being honest because it's part of my religion.

I'm not your "typical" skinning and grinning negro who shucks & jives!

I'm straight up with minez!

Don't oogle and slobber over women with light skin and blonde hair when you hear they got some "black" in them; then turn around blkhide

and start making ugly faces and wiggling when white women come around like you can't stand them.

Keep it real. blkafro

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 11:12

@ Kareem

I will just say this once more for the records and if anything else to stop you bowing down to me, your knees must be hurting you.

1. I know you have said plenty all over the forums that you are attracted to every race, I am not questioning this.

2, You also in great detail say how the black man is treated and viewed in society and are the most hated I did not and am not disputing that

I wanted to know how sleeping with women of other races is a strategic plan as you yourself quoted.

Kareem when you wrote

"Mafdet is constantly telling me to ADMIT that I find ALL women attractive no matter what the race...when I HAVE on several occasions.

But won't confront the OTHER bruthaz for hyping up these lightbrightdamn-near-white women while claiming to ONLY find "black" women attractive.

Which is why I said a lot of Diasporan women enjoy being lied to... "

Now you know thats not true what i was trying to get at is if you don't back up your statements then one can only come to that conclusion based on your statements.

Oh and you can stop repeating yourself now I have finished with that subject.... but on the other hand you were quite un noble

in your response to Locsgirl sounds like your getting irritable and losing your composer and how dare you attempt to tarnish my name, thats a dirty low cheap trick that I could only expect from you. You even stoop as low as to suggest she do a search on me tut tut Kareem. Well since you was so close up my arse just remember where she finds me if she takes this up, she will find you and I am sure she will get many more laughs at your expense. Also I was very fond of Peace and was going to mention her in my "whatever happen to thread" then I remembered theres always a piece of Peace in this world.....so her presence will soon be felt and I would welcome her blkhug

About my experiences with the youths at the bus stop did you comment on that in my other thread or are you once again stalking me and watching every move I make waiting for me to trip up so you can gloat or are you just simply ANGRY and CONFUSED! blkpoke

@ AQ

Thank you I glad to know I'm not the only one who thought that statement too was strange (even Isis made a comment in regards to it) and I have been blkheadbang

trying to get it and others alike cleared up for clarification by the poster but I will have a better chance of bringing peace between Iraq and USA.

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 19:01

@ AQ

Thank you I glad to know I'm not the only one who thought that statement too was strange (even Isis made a comment in regards to it) and I have been blkheadbang

trying to get it and others alike cleared up for clarification by the poster but I will have a better chance of bringing peace between Iraq and USA.

You're more than welcome. Glad to know you "get" what I'm sayin'

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 19:37

@Kareem you do find black people in Africa who like like Beyonce they are called - Albinos LOL

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Posted: Thursday September 11th, 2003 20:10

Let me break this down to all of you - i agree with kareem on the whole and deep down we ALL know he is right.

Dating outside your race isnt a crime sacrilege or disgraceful to your community- u are not 'selling out' as people woould have you believe - this has nothing to do with being a multicultural society - simply God created all of us so who are we to decide to unequivocally reject certain types of people just because of their pigmentation - a case of reverse racism ??

Kareem makes a different point about how some black men dont treat their women right and depend on them for funds and he is right because the behaviour of some black men is disgraceful - cheating on your wife, getting women pregnant and running - these all live up 2 the stereotypes of useless no good black man

before u start sending me hate mail - i am a black man and know what im talking bout- been living in s london for bout 15 years and because i am a 'pretty boy' been lucky enough to experience a lot of different ladies. I personally prefer black/mixed girls and though ive messed with white girls not dated one yet simply because i havent met one i wanted to .

Therefore interracial relationships may NOT be for you - but dismissing people who take part is wrong - and can never be excused - i do admit it feels wron g when you see a gorgeous black woman with a f****** white boy but you have 2 be mature about it- every needs someone special so as long as she's happy you got to respect that

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Posted: Friday September 12th, 2003 00:45

@ Admin Moderators

Can you please remove the above post I made at Thursday September 11th, 2003 06:28 pm I was responding to a racist post that you have now removed....thanks

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Posted: Saturday September 13th, 2003 19:07

Greetings to evey strong black sister world wide,

I would just like to ask you all a question Is white the new black??

I am not a racist and I have no problems what so ever with Multi-Racial relationships, but there is one thing I have a problem with.. Why do we feel the need to turn white??

I know that half of the sisters reading this will know what I mean, but for the other half that dont let me break it down for you....

If a brother is seeing a white woman he sometimes looses his Black Persona why?? Why does he feel the need to go to the pub and speak how they speak? Ask him one question about god and he will shun into a dark corner.

And If a sister is seeing a white man she sometimes looses her Black Persona. Is it mandatory to behave how they behave and speak how they speak??

As I said before I have no objection to Multi-Racial relationships... But sisters please answer me this why can't some of us Just keep it real??

Love and Respect to all balck people world wide

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