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Boring Discussion on Inter Racial dating and Biracial people
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 Posted: Sunday August 7th, 2005 10:14
I think its more of an issue when someone in your immediate family has a child who is mixed race..THAT is difficult. I dont hate the child but I hate seeing black people dating other races and when I see white people fawning over her and rubbing her hair it just makes my blood boil blkangry



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 Posted: Sunday August 7th, 2005 10:20
What is it about BN's policy on IR topics that peeps don't understand?......Geeze

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 Posted: Sunday August 7th, 2005 16:33
No they are not doing anything wrong.

We are just f**ked up in the head/mind.  We're just too weak as a people.  We're all over the place as 'individuals' and its the individual mind that it lost.  We need to come together, organise ourselves and reach a consensus on certain issues.  Otherwise we're just nothing.  We won't have a consciousness.

Do you see how because certain of our people have a position in the Western world they loose themselves in the lifestyle that comes with their position/career.  The word 'sellout' or 'house *****' comes to mind'.



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 Posted: Sunday August 7th, 2005 16:44
please read the guidelines these we don't do these type of circular discussions



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 Posted: Monday August 8th, 2005 13:40
I know that this is not really a proper subject but I had to say this.  Basically a white friend of mine from college days invited me to a girls night at her house.  She had organised people to come and give us facials, a fortune teller and an Ann Summers lady.  I was the only black woman there, everyone else was either English or Mediterannean.  Anyway, the ann summers women did her thing, we played some games and she gave us catalogues to choose stuff from.  I went for the underwear but many of the gilrs were interested in getting vibrators.  The woman then came out with this massive white willy that looked about 9 inches long and 5 wide.  She then explained how it works and then took a deep breath and said 'now ladies the best thing about this one is that it also comes in black' and I have never heard a bigger cheer, two girls gave eachother high fives. I had to laugh but I ws embarrassed. Now what's that about? what is this obsession with black dick? I can't understand why they feen for it so much. 

After the party a couple of the girls were going to a club which I know is 99.9% black coz they are black man mad. One of them only ever seems to have time for black men now and she was telling me how back in the day she would have to fight with black women who didn't like the fact that she was in the club scoping for black men. I weren't vex coz the type of men I've been told she settles for are not fit to even talk to me.

Nevertheless, I know I have heard it plenty of times that white women love off black men but witnessing it was something else. My eyes have been opened.  I will never let my man near these white women if I can help it because they are too forward and many men give in to the pressure of a women that is obviously so free with her loving regardless what colour she is!

 



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 Posted: Monday August 8th, 2005 13:59
 

Am sorry but i have to laugh......why worry about it?? when it comes to race, i don't even think its a matter of letting your man close to white women.....because knowing me, my man can leave me in a room full of white men and i wouldn't even bother checking.....so unless your man has what i call *coconuts* tendencies, then you have nothing to worry about.....

And why are we in trouble? do you want to be with a black man who shags white girls?? Hell NOOO....so really its actually better we see them in the open that way we know who they are.......and keep our children away from their halflings!

 



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 Posted: Monday August 8th, 2005 14:00
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

 

 



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 Posted: Monday August 8th, 2005 14:07
Believe my man ain't in it (but I ain't naive enough to think if a woman was constantly waving her fanny in his face that he wouldn't be a little tempted, whatever her colour as I've seen many people do things that you would never believe they would do), however,  I still don't understand what white women in the uk have with black men.  Why are they brucking them neck to sleep with them?  They are just men not Gods, its not like America where they were banned from being together before so now its like they are trying to be with the forbidden fruit.  Trust me these girls were feeling the black dick thing hard! You just had to be there I wish I had video footage, the look on my face alone was priceless!

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 Posted: Thursday August 18th, 2005 00:37
Robert de Niro and wife



David Bowie and Iman



Serena Williams and Brett Ratner



 

Diana Ross and Husband



 

Boris Becker and wife (now split)



Denise Lewis and Beligian sprinter Patrick Stevens (now split)



 

Michael Caine and his wife



Whoopie Goldberg and Ted Danson



 

Thandie Newton and Directon husband Oliver Parker



Simon Cowell and model and tv girl Terri Seymour(used to be with 80's singer Sinitta)



 

 

 



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 Posted: Thursday August 18th, 2005 12:23
okay, i dont know if i'm posting this in the right room, but here it goes.

i dont mean to diss all black males, but some of them are going on a bit too much, and i dont mean to go on about the light skin dark thing either os i believe we should all see past that.

i was with a friend a week ago, and we walked past 2 boys. one of them (who i knew) said hello, so we said hello. then the other boy said hello but i weren't sure if he was tlking to me or not. but i didn't want him to start saying "how you black girls are rude blah blah blah"- so i said hello. he then replied with "not you, the beautiful light one". that just pissed me off, but i didn't let it ruin my day.

now a few days ago, i was with my friend, and she had to go and get something from her boyfriend, so i went with her. after wards when we were about to leave, his said "next time bring another lightskin"

i'm not even dark, and if i was whats the problem??? black is beautiful. i'm sick and tired of being disrespected brainless males just because of my shade.



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 Posted: Thursday August 18th, 2005 12:36
lol you do know where this thread is heading right????

 




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 Posted: Thursday August 18th, 2005 12:48
Change friends......she should not be letting her friends talk to you like that....i know no one is talking to my friends like that.....no matter what...

Its a generation thing at the moment.....my little cousin whom i thought was a nice lad, we heard him say this to some girl about why she deserved to be happy slaped........he said i quote*i couldn't kick little Beyonce now could i*......even his mother was sickened by it that they are taking the car they brought him back.

Its the THING at the moment.......most black people are just led by fashion rather than brains......rise above it....in a few years time, you'll have the last laugh....trust me....;)



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 Posted: Thursday August 18th, 2005 14:21
Immature, brainless little boys some people can be sooo rude and not even realise that a little offhand comment can give someone a complex about the way they look and make them believe they are not beautiful, it makes me soo mad when I see the way some young black boys carry on these days. Sorry not to be rude but im assuming from your post you are quite young ie under 20?? But too be honest it wouldnt even suprise me if you are over 20 but Im just hoping that you are young, so I can believe there is hope for some black males and its just down to immaturity. Dont hang around with these people anymore if your friend is going to let her man make comments like that, she isnt your friend.



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 Posted: Thursday August 18th, 2005 14:30
Why indeed!

Why do people come here with this stuff over and over again? 



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 Posted: Sunday August 21st, 2005 17:25
Hi
Firstly I am a white single male - late thirties.

I work with a black guy originally from Jamaica who just married his childhood sweetheart from Nigeria.

Superb day. Love the Nigerian colourful outfits.

However chatting to his brother/best man afterwards, I was advised that hitting on a very pretty Jamaican single ladie who sat at my table and whom I got on with great would not be a good idea despite her being single and a professional like myself.

I did point out the number of Jamaicans & Nigerian males with English women present at the wedding, but he told me that was different.

I don't want to push this obviously sensitive issue with him or the groom, but would someone here care to enlighten me why is this such a problem?

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 Posted: Sunday August 21st, 2005 17:29
PLease read the guidelines BEFORE posting thanks....



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 Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 17:22
JoJo with (Ghanian bor USA Soccer star Freddy Adu)




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 Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 19:25
Are you sure this is NOT a rumor?!

Many White women have behavior that Black people would consider "forward", while they think its normal and being friendly.



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 Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 19:37
HERE WE GO AGAIN...(SIGH)

 

Maybe she just like sat next to A Black guy???????confused3



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 Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 19:50
I saw this on a show where they were talking about the young footballer and he said he wasn't dating but would love to hook up with JoJo said he liked the look of her and she is his type of women. 

So they went to Jojo and told her and she replied that his people should contact her people and see what happens seem like it went to plan.



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 Posted: Thursday September 1st, 2005 19:54
I saw that also it was on Mtv and it was actually hosted by Jojo by Freddy also said he like Hilary Duff but she is seeing some white rock star.

Jojo was recently dating what's his name they guy who sang "everybody in da club getting tipsy".

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 Posted: Saturday September 3rd, 2005 06:01
;) i saw some of msg here in forum about white man , i am a white man i am not a racist i have few black friends i even used 2 work with black man in the security industry i dont look people by skin colour 4 me black white pink all are same all are human race but one think i saw at few black people they are the one who they raise racisem in this country towards white people 4 nothing come on .this is remind me something where i come from in yugoslavia 20 years ago in earlys 1985 serb people they were accusing albanian 4 racisem against serbs ,albanian against serbs ,croatian against serbs,bosnian against serbs ,slovenian against serbs, srbs against croatians,bosnian against croatians  THEN WHAT HAPPEND  all u know what happend blody war so what i am saying we all are same we dont have 2 accuse white man or black man or asian man 4 god sake we all are same we should  love each other  2 mix white and black in marrige  from hate and differences we dont win nothing so we all are one and united i hope all u understand my msg  god bless u from ATLANTIS

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 Posted: Saturday September 3rd, 2005 07:25
Tell the KKK that.



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 Posted: Saturday September 3rd, 2005 23:33
Has the black man & woman fallen out of love with each other?

A recent study has shown in the uk, that majority of marriages that take place in the black community are between black men and white women.  You can also look in the entertainment, sport and polictical worlds and see that same reflection. Within  black on black  relationships, from the age group of 25-35 they tend not to marry, however still have children. So why do some of us have no desire to have a meaningful relationship, that leads to marriage with our own kind?  Yet when some of our people get a white partner they just can't wait  to tie the knot.  Oh yeah now some of our sisters seem to be taking up the cause to get a white chappy too. Other races like asians and orientals don't seem to have this fetish and obsession with marrying outside their race.  So is the white woman still on the pedestal.? Is she the standard of beauty, the blackman's prize?  If  a black man and black woman were worthy enough to be your parents, why then is the a black man or woman not worthy enough now to be your husband or wife?



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 Posted: Sunday September 4th, 2005 05:43
Stop studying statistics, get a life.



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 Posted: Sunday September 4th, 2005 08:52

Those statistics do not tell the truth!


And with that we say goodbye to another, and not so subtle, attempt to start an IR thread by (surprise, surprise) a first time poster.

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 Posted: Monday September 5th, 2005 14:00
i like very much black women they are very friendly i am a white man i have got about 5 girlfriend they are black women all they are beautiful banana.gifbanana.gifbanana.gif



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 Posted: Tuesday September 6th, 2005 06:34
ATLANTIS wrote: i like very much black women they are very friendly i am a white man i have got about 5 girlfriend they are black women all they are beautiful banana.gifbanana.gifbanana.gif


gud that you like black women.

yes we are very friendly, but 2 say u got 5 gurlfriend and to admit ur a player...well im not so sure about that!



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 Posted: Tuesday September 6th, 2005 10:10
 a white guy  with 5 beautiful black womenblkpoke we don't believe you ,you need more people



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 Posted: Tuesday September 6th, 2005 19:58
why do mixed race ppl classify themselves i dont know cus i can see lots of white feautures in them and more or less they r eassily accepted into the white community than been black.



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 Posted: Tuesday September 6th, 2005 20:04
IR threads like this will probbaly be removed because such topics have been done to death.

but before it is removed I will say to you that most mixed race people in the UK no longer class themselves as black.



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 Posted: Tuesday September 6th, 2005 20:42
Hustla4Life wrote: why do mixed race ppl classify themselves i dont know cus i can see lots of white feautures in them and more or less they r eassily accepted into the white community than been black.

Dear Hustla as you are new may I gently suggest that you acquaint yourselves with the 50plus threads which deal with the questions you have posed.These topics have been done to death,ad nauseum,ad infintum.

After reveiwing these threads and you feel that you have a different slant or perspective which noone else in the enitre history of Blacknet has discussed then eveyone here will be delighted to get into this with you.

Happy reading.:)



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 Posted: Tuesday September 6th, 2005 21:31
Hustla4Life wrote: why do mixed race ppl classify themselves i dont know cus i can see lots of white feautures in them and more or less they r eassily accepted into the white community than been black.


"I'm Hustla,Ima, Ima, hustla Homey!"

In America this is the result of the middle passage;  Whites having mixed kids and Society imposes a Black Identity on them; Black people being naive and always looking for numbers allow them to do this.  I can go on and on but I won't!


Not Sure if they do this in Africa and the UK but in the States these muthafukkas like a white actor or singer so much like Bruce Willis, Bill Clinton and others and make them honorary Blacks!  This Shyt gets under my Damn skin so Damn MUCH!@##$#$%%

blktrainersI need to go for a walk now, Peace!



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