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What to dowhen the wife is using sex to manipulate the marriage?
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 Posted: Sunday April 29th, 2007 17:50

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COMMON PRACTICE IN CHRISTIAN CIRCLE.

 

What to do when the Christians wife is using sex to manipulate the marriage. This article is design to show you how to turn the table and cut the cake in your favor, but you must read all of the article.

1 Cor. 7:5 (NASB-U) Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Even in the time of the apostles, this was a common practice among Christians women.

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 Posted: Sunday April 29th, 2007 18:31

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Can't see the point of tit for tat tactics.  If the relationship comes down to playing them sort of games and using sex as a manipulative tool, then there has to be deeper issues at play which brings the relationship into question.  Not least of all that one you (or both if you play the same game) is very immature indeed and shouldn't be in a relationship for grown up people!

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 Posted: Sunday April 29th, 2007 19:43

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Why are christian women discussed like a "bunch of naughty kids" that need to be dealt with???

Are christian men perfect?? even when it comes to sexual needs, so do all christian men make sure to provide enough fore-play before trying to have sex, do they always go beyond 1 minute, not demand only wanting anal, not even wanting sex unless he is horny  and other issues...he who commits no sin cast the 1st stone



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 Posted: Sunday April 29th, 2007 19:51

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I wouldn't use sex for control...I would only be cheating myself.  There are other ways in getting your point across.  Such as DISCUSSION and possible consequences...



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 Posted: Monday April 30th, 2007 03:49

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Chica(go) wrote: I wouldn't use sex for control...I would only be cheating myself.  There are other ways in getting your point across.  Such as DISCUSSION and possible consequences...


You made a lot of sense.


 



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 Posted: Monday April 30th, 2007 03:52

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Tit for tat work. It show the other person that you also have feelings.

I spoke to every man I came across, and ask them " The first time you beat a bully, did he challlenge you again"?

" We became friends"  Believe me, tit for tat work. Eye for an eye work in the sense that it leave allof us blind. ahahaha



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