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 Posted: Friday March 11th, 2005 06:17

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You whore,

how can you write a title like that, and

expect me to treat you like everything is wellmad-moonie,

Write sh*t, get sh*t.

I still stand,

you asked,

Why i'm sick of being black?

and,

You got,

I'm sick of you.



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 Posted: Friday March 11th, 2005 08:48

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Yeah if being black is so bad why don't you a Micheal Jackson And a Lil kim ,...Bleach out your skin,..not that it will make any difference,..you will still be a Dumb a** Heffa any way.



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 Posted: Friday March 11th, 2005 08:52

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Yeah if being black is so bad why don't you a Micheal Jackson And a Lil kim ,...Bleach out your skin,..not that it will make any difference,..you will still be a Dumb a** Heffa any way.


 


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 Posted: Friday March 11th, 2005 09:06

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With a name like Realistic 101 i reckon you should be of been called confused 101...:?

What a sad thread...



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 Posted: Friday March 11th, 2005 11:16

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Wow there is so much ignorance being expressed; I couldn’t give a dam what skin tone a girl has, I just go out with people I like no matter what colour they are. More fool me for forgetting just how narrow minded people still are. It has never occurred to me that I should stop and wonder if some one is too dark or too light for me, in fact I would find it hard to think of anything less important.



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 Posted: Saturday March 12th, 2005 17:28

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Well u people must have skipped english class blkhelpbecause if u know what a m-e-t-a-p-h-o-r is u would know that's what the title meant. You know an attention getter that went way over your head.headpoint It wasn't meant to be taken literally. And then I went on to explain myself genius.blkheadbang Wow some of the people in this website have rocks for brains.



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 Posted: Saturday March 12th, 2005 18:36

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Why you're sick of being black?

You pathetic plebian sh*t herding moron. Close off this damn wothless thread



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 Posted: Saturday March 12th, 2005 18:48

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Realistic, all your doing is talking negative which no one wants to hear. The way some blacks put down others, that's what your doing. Not all blks talk about weaves, and light/dark blks. You are the reason other blks hate being blk. You haven't said one good thing about us. If you have kids what do you teach them? You are not black. So on a job application what do you put, other?

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 Posted: Saturday March 12th, 2005 19:26

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stop crying cause you er black

hey there's nothing wrong with that

you should be proud of what you are

because things are good so far

god created black and white

someone tell me  if i'm not right

if you'd travel a little bit

you'd see black we apreciate

go up north its not a myth

but first love and do not hate....ass hole black or ass hole white...god created us!



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why is being black such a big thing? segregation and all dem days are ova can't we just appreciate that we weren't alive in those days and that we live in a improved society and that it was our ancestors who went through all the sh*t?? at da end of da day yeh at least u not mixed race like me and u dont know wat to identify urself as. b proud of wat u r and dnt let stereotypes get u angry b an individual and if u dnt like da conversations you having with people make new friends that you have something in common with so you're not stuck listening to the same old stuff.

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 Posted: Saturday March 12th, 2005 22:32

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Well u people must have skipped english class blkhelpbecause if u know what a m-e-t-a-p-h-o-r is u would know that's what the title meant. You know an attention getter that went way over your head.headpoint It wasn't meant to be taken literally. And then I went on to explain myself genius.blkheadbang Wow some of the people in this website have rocks for brains.

 


 

You still don't get it ahhh.

Ok I will make it simple,

You could be white b*tch,

You could be muppet, lost in the web,

You could be mentally challenged,

You could be........,

So now,

If you didn't mean the title,

we are sorrysmoking-devil.



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Bele wrote: Well u people must have skipped english class blkhelpbecause if u know what a m-e-t-a-p-h-o-r is u would know that's what the title meant. You know an attention getter that went way over your head.headpoint It wasn't meant to be taken literally. And then I went on to explain myself genius.blkheadbang Wow some of the people in this website have rocks for brains.

 

Whatever no one really cares what you say. Maybe you shouldn't have skipped english class with that ignorance you wrote below.
 

You still don't get it ahhh.

Ok I will make it simple,

You could be white b*tch,

You could be muppet, lost in the web,

You could be mentally challenged,

You could be........,

So now,

If you didn't mean the title,

we are sorrysmoking-devil.



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 Posted: Monday March 14th, 2005 10:55

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urm

 

we are sick of you being black

again I repeat

 

Being Black is more than just a Colour..............................

so sorry to join our exclusive group of being black you have to activily be black.....................otherwise you have already been expelled.

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Sooofresh wrote: urm

 

we are sick of you being black

again I repeat

 

Being Black is more than just a Colour..............................

so sorry to join our exclusive group of being black you have to activily be black.....................otherwise you have already been expelled.

Enjoy
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we are sick of you being black

again I repeat

 

Being Black is more than just a Colour..............................

so sorry to join our exclusive group of being black you have to activily be black.....................otherwise you have already been expelled.

Enjoy



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nUfF_LuV_n_ReSpEcT wrote: why is being black such a big thing? segregation and all dem days are ova can't we just appreciate that we weren't alive in those days and that we live in a improved society and that it was our ancestors who went through all the sh*t??

If being black is of no significance, what are you doing on a black site?



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I understand and empathise with your post.  I would have thought that it would be perfectly obvious to all reasonable minded people that your heading wasn't literal.  With regard to those who have taken it the wrong way, I think they are deliberately misinterpreting your message - you've probably hit a raw nerve. 



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thank you maria1. I guess some  of the people didn't read the rest of the post. I don't mind the comments though. I'm not going to let a few uneducated apples spoil the bunch. Most of the people here are very educated and cool. I've gained alot of great info and opinions from this website.But see how easy negativity breeds negativity it went from a cool discussion to this. If this gets you off be my guest.blkbowniceone.gif



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There's nothing cool about this discussion when you have a negative view of the black society,..not everyone thinks like the way your potraying us to beconfused3..

You should spend more time concentrating on your punctuation,.. grammars and spaces belowniceone.gif

realistic101 wrote: Sometimes i get so sick of being a black woman in this society. If it's not some dumb ass conversations about light-skin vs. dark-skin, weaves, baby fathers, interracial dating then there is no conversation. Let's talk about how our black community is falling apart due to our ignorance and lack of self love for our people. We are such petty people we don't see how we give white people the power we possess. Our music, our culture, our beauty, our everything is copied, sold, and bought by these people yet we still feel the need to debate amongst ourselves about dumb sh*t. Let's talk about the real. Sometimes i just feel like what's the point of being in this society. I'm in america where everyone wants to be white but in turn really want to be black with white benefits. I go to Africa where people there think of white people as their gods and try to  be like them with bleach creams. Where is the love? Why can't we as people get it together and pull each other in, instead of stepping on each other's toes. They've trained us well. Im an African in a society where if you call a Jamican an african they get offended, or since my name is african to be made fun of or no sort of attempt to pronouce it correctly,yet  most white people do. I don't get black people any more. Im an 1980s kid and sometimes I wish I was born in the 70's where black people had soul, stood for something and were black and proud. It's Just My Thoughts!

 



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 Posted: Tuesday March 15th, 2005 11:01

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There's nothing cool about this discussion when you have a negative view of the black society,..not everyone thinks like the way your potraying us to beconfused3..

You should spend more time concentrating on your punctuation,.. grammars and spaces belowniceone.gif

realistic101 wrote: Sometimes i get so sick of being a black woman in this society. If it's not some dumb ass conversations about light-skin vs. dark-skin, weaves, baby fathers, interracial dating then there is no conversation. Let's talk about how our black community is falling apart due to our ignorance and lack of self love for our people. We are such petty people we don't see how we give white people the power we possess. Our music, our culture, our beauty, our everything is copied, sold, and bought by these people yet we still feel the need to debate amongst ourselves about dumb sh*t. Let's talk about the real. Sometimes i just feel like what's the point of being in this society. I'm in america where everyone wants to be white but in turn really want to be black with white benefits. I go to Africa where people there think of white people as their gods and try to  be like them with bleach creams. Where is the love? Why can't we as people get it together and pull each other in, instead of stepping on each other's toes. They've trained us well. Im an African in a society where if you call a Jamican an african they get offended, or since my name is african to be made fun of or no sort of attempt to pronouce it correctly,yet  most white people do. I don't get black people any more. Im an 1980s kid and sometimes I wish I was born in the 70's where black people had soul, stood for something and were black and proud. It's Just My Thoughts!

I have to agree with realistic101, I read the topic, but then read the comment and understood where she is coming from.

I think it did hit a raw nerve, sometimes it seems like some people are pretentious and any negativity will be seen as putting black ppl down.

I am a guy, and there are times when me and my friend have talked about the same thing realistic101 wrote, but from a black guys point of view, but then we always finish it off by acknowledging that its just a phase.

And I am pretty much sure that is what she was going through when she wrote that correct me if I am wrong here realistic101.

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please tell me is this an english class, I mean who really care if she gets a punctuation wrong or not, I am sure u understood what she was trying to write, isn't that what really matters.confused3



 



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i just wanna say that black commulity is goood,i love to be a black name,even i am be lookde down upon by white guys and some othgers. i am pround of it. 



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You whore,

how can you write a title like that, and

expect me to treat you like everything is wellmad-moonie,

Write sh*t, get sh*t.

I still stand,

you asked,

Why i'm sick of being black?

and,

You got,

I'm sick of you.

i agree with it,just sick of this notion.u r a uniqueue beauty,you neednt please thre guys in the world( black and white guys .) just be u self,nothing impossible



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realistic101 wrote: thank you maria1. I guess some  of the people didn't read the rest of the post. I don't mind the comments though. I'm not going to let a few uneducated apples spoil the bunch. Most of the people here are very educated and cool. I've gained alot of great info and opinions from this website.But see how easy negativity breeds negativity it went from a cool discussion to this. If this gets you off be my guest.blkbowniceone.gif

You're welcome - like you, I think this is a great site, with some very thought provoking and informative forums, but I don't like the abusive language that I've seen on this thread and other forums, as I think it lowers the tone of the site, which is a pity.



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realistic101 wrote: Sometimes i get so sick of being a black woman in this society. If it's not some dumb ass conversations about light-skin vs. dark-skin, weaves, baby fathers, interracial dating then there is no conversation. Let's talk about how our black community is falling apart due to our ignorance and lack of self love for our people. We are such petty people we don't see how we give white people the power we possess. Our music, our culture, our beauty, our everything is copied, sold, and bought by these people yet we still feel the need to debate amongst ourselves about dumb sh*t. Let's talk about the real. Sometimes i just feel like what's the point of being in this society. I'm in america where everyone wants to be white but in turn really want to be black with white benefits. I go to Africa where people there think of white people as their gods and try to  be like them with bleach creams. Where is the love? Why can't we as people get it together and pull each other in, instead of stepping on each other's toes. They've trained us well. Im an African in a society where if you call a Jamican an african they get offended, or since my name is african to be made fun of or no sort of attempt to pronouce it correctly,yet  most white people do. I don't get black people any more. Im an 1980s kid and sometimes I wish I was born in the 70's where black people had soul, stood for something and were black and proud. It's Just My Thoughts!

At first thought, OH LAWD, hmmm........never mind.  I have to say though upon reading the post, I AGREE.   You will find that most of your destractors didn't read yoru words........or maybe they read the first two lines and summed up an opinion based on that.

Get used to it.........you will see a lot of that on this site. 

Damn good post ....good indeed.

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