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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 05:26

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My partner has 2 things that make me want to put a bullet in his head.blkbuttkick

* Leaving the tiolet sit up

* Grinding his teeth in his sleep



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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 09:33

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You partner is probably  pissed that:

You sleep too light

You're too lazy to keep the toilet bowl clean

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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 12:02

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Mmmmm
what is the deal with a guy leaving the toilet seat up...
when y'all leave it down we have to pick it up????
if the issue is acutuallt closing the whole toilet fine..
but otherwise..
mmmm the whole up toilet seat thing is silly.. and melodramatic
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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 14:44

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the issue of the toilet seat is easily solved with my new almost patented invention!!  Here's how:

It uses exisiting technology currently used in automatic doors:  Person steps on mat, door opens...

With my device, man steps on bathroom mat, toilet seat raises, man steps off mat seat lowers!!

Of course it also raises when a WOMAN steps on the mat...  still trying to solve that lil bitty problem

Once i have all the kinks worked out, my invention will be saving marriages and relationships everywhere!!!  and will retail for the wallet shrinking price of £499.99!!



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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 18:00

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Lucas... wrote: Mmmmm
what is the deal with a guy leaving the toilet seat up...
when y'all leave it down we have to pick it up????
if the issue is acutuallt closing the whole toilet fine..
but otherwise..
mmmm the whole up toilet seat thing is silly.. and melodramatic
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>carl<

Look who decided to grace us with his prescence. I haven't seen u in a minute.



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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 18:59

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Sitting about listing the reasons why somebody annoys you can't bode well for the future...



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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 19:44

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Gmahogany. wrote: Lucas... wrote: Mmmmm
what is the deal with a guy leaving the toilet seat up...
when y'all leave it down we have to pick it up????
if the issue is acutuallt closing the whole toilet fine..
but otherwise..
mmmm the whole up toilet seat thing is silly.. and melodramatic
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>carl<

Look who decided to grace us with his prescence. I haven't seen u in a minute.

Mmmm wsup.. "G" mmmm original womens rights ambassador... mmm but seriously .. never left.. i just usually read more than i type..
Carl;



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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 21:24

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Lucas... wrote: Gmahogany. wrote: Lucas... wrote: Mmmmm
what is the deal with a guy leaving the toilet seat up...
when y'all leave it down we have to pick it up????
if the issue is acutuallt closing the whole toilet fine..
but otherwise..
mmmm the whole up toilet seat thing is silly.. and melodramatic
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>carl<

Look who decided to grace us with his prescence. I haven't seen u in a minute.

Mmmm wsup.. "G" mmmm original womens rights ambassador... mmm but seriously .. never left.. i just usually read more than i type..
Carl;


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 Posted: Saturday March 3rd, 2007 23:04

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Annoying habbits are annoying but I know i have some very annoying habbits of my own that some poor fool is going to have to put up with so i have resigned myself to just accepting people the way they are

or complaining at him relentlessly and threatening taking away his children until he crumbles and changes!

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 Posted: Sunday March 4th, 2007 02:14

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wifeable wrote:

or complaining at him relentlessly and threatening taking away his children until he crumbles and changes!

Now that aint wifey talk.. that be baby mother talk..:cool:.



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 Posted: Monday March 5th, 2007 04:21

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Hmm I think a great deal of the disrespect between Black men and women starts when we air the negative details of our relationships out in public.  If you look at coon tv shows like Springer and Maury, it's all about Black men and women jumping up and down, criticizing one another, and acting like Sambos for the entertainment of a bunch of crackers and Puerto-crackers. 

If something about your partner disturbs you, talk to him or her about it.  Stop slinking back into the slave mentality by putting your business in the streets.  Do you have any respect for your partner at all?  Or yourself?



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 Posted: Tuesday March 6th, 2007 15:35

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The Watcher wrote: Sitting about listing the reasons why somebody annoys you can't bode well for the future...

I agree. An ex once told me that I'm perfect in my imperfections. I tend to think of my partner in the exact same way. I wouldn't change a thing, even the things that bug me. But then again, I wouldn't list them online either.



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HatHaruhotep wrote: Hmm I think a great deal of the disrespect between Black men and women starts when we air the negative details of our relationships out in public.  If you look at coon tv shows like Springer and Maury, it's all about Black men and women jumping up and down, criticizing one another, and acting like Sambos for the entertainment of a bunch of crackers and Puerto-crackers. 

If something about your partner disturbs you, talk to him or her about it.  Stop slinking back into the slave mentality by putting your business in the streets.  Do you have any respect for your partner at all?  Or yourself?

Thats what happens when people have a dysfunctional culture combined with no home training.



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HatHaruhotep wrote: Hmm I think a great deal of the disrespect between Black men and women starts when we air the negative details of our relationships out in public.  If you look at coon tv shows like Springer and Maury, it's all about Black men and women jumping up and down, criticizing one another, and acting like Sambos for the entertainment of a bunch of crackers and Puerto-crackers. 

If something about your partner disturbs you, talk to him or her about it.  Stop slinking back into the slave mentality by putting your business in the streets.  Do you have any respect for your partner at all?  Or yourself?

Nobody is dragging any sh*t on the street here. This is a forum, it is about sharing advice sometimes and ideas, not a money making talk show where people are encouraged to tick each other off to get tv viewing rates up. There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking about pet hates - after all its not like "I am divorcing" and asking for your advice now am !?



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BT - :D:D - watch out for those. Man instead of learning to gut a fresh chicken they'll all be in the yard compiling evidence to sell you out t babylon:D:D

A brotha said his woman called him a stereotypical black man, he said he's got a babymother and slept with a whitey.....and all in one woman...with blackskin. It's the most honest thing she's ever said;)

I like straight lines and symmetry. It's not unusal for me to be watching tv and having to get up to adjust the physical positon ofthe hifi a mililmeter or two because it's not looking straight enough or something about it is unpleasing to the eye....I call it a nice mix of paranoia and OCD myself yummy!

So anything messy makes my blood boil, everything has its place and a home so not finding something in the same place twice does me in big time.

But the worse has to be cleaning up and finding those little plastic things that hold a new pair of socks together on the floor. That tells me the socks were just torn apart with complete disregard for where that plastic bit landed...it's more the mind behind it than the bit itself..yuk! But then I'm sure I'm not perfect eitherclp)

Anyone living with me will probably be in for a hard time because I'm a perfectionist...but nothing is perfect so you can't win;) though I find me and female perfectionists get on fine - know your class!niceone.gif

In general, anything that I see as a manifestation of laziness does me....the use of microwave ovens is another onesmoking-devil

Still, I think I'm getting better nowniceone.gif

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Incognito wrote: BT - :D:D - watch out for those. Man instead of learning to gut a fresh chicken they'll all be in the yard compiling evidence to sell you out t babylon:D:D

A brotha said his woman called him a stereotypical black man, he said he's got a babymother and slept with a whitey.....and all in one woman...with blackskin. It's the most honest thing she's ever said;)

I like straight lines and symmetry. It's not unusal for me to be watching tv and having to get up to adjust the physical positon ofthe hifi a mililmeter or two because it's not looking straight enough or something about it is unpleasing to the eye....I call it a nice mix of paranoia and OCD myself yummy!

So anything messy makes my blood boil, everything has its place and a home so not finding something in the same place twice does me in big time.

But the worse has to be cleaning up and finding those little plastic things that hold a new pair of socks together on the floor. That tells me the socks were just torn apart with complete disregard for where that plastic bit landed...it's more the mind behind it than the bit itself..yuk! But then I'm sure I'm not perfect eitherclp)

Anyone living with me will probably be in for a hard time because I'm a perfectionist...but nothing is perfect so you can't win;) though I find me and female perfectionists get on fine - know your class!niceone.gif

In general, anything that I see as a manifestation of laziness does me....the use of microwave ovens is another onesmoking-devil

Still, I think I'm getting better nowniceone.gif

 

Perfectionist.. maybe.. fussy definately.. I hear ya on the microwave ovens though.. rice was certainly not designed for it.



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Well they say strive for perfection and settle for excellenceniceone.gif



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But then your excellence is another mans normal...know your class!clp)



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Swiching the tv off using standby - how lazy is that.



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Incognito wrote: Swiching the tv off using standby - how lazy is that.

Hahahaha... I am guilty of that. I dont do it too often though.



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Footprints - lol....you're not Gemini are you?



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Footprints wrote: My partner has 2 things that make me want to put a bullet in his head.blkbuttkick


* Grinding his teeth in his sleep


 

That's called stress pet. Leave him and he'll stop doing it.



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What is the point of having a mobile phone, if it stays switched off, especially after work ?"working late again??????????":shock:



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Washing trainers in the washing machine. Like eating pu$$y, something just seems unethical about it LOL.



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Blowing their noses and the discarding the crunched up slimey tissues everywhere possible.



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Do all women share the same brain?? A woman in the past stated that she hated the toilet seat being left up then all of a sudden ALL women dont like the toilet seats being left up.



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