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 Posted: Thursday March 1st, 2007 05:54

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Rape lets discuss.................whats your take?

New commercial for Rape Crisis a loaded gun
Issued by: The Jupiter Drawing Room


2800 women are raped each day. This is the simple statement flashed on screen at the close of the latest Rape Crisis "Real Men Don't Rape" advertisement, a commercial offering from critically acclaimed South African director, Sheilla Khubeka of Suburban Films.














The creative work of The Jupiter Drawing Room Cape Town, the ad has been flighted during the course of February and is the graphic real-life account of Isidingo actress and rape-survivor Tinah Mnumzane.

Tinah boldly and unflinchingly describes how she was raped for the first time at the age of eight years old. Loading a bullet into a revolver, she continues with her story. Tinah, a well known South African celebrity, has survived rape six times.

As she recounts the various intervals in her life at which she fell prey to sexual abusers, her gun is filled with bullets.

Tinah's closing statement is a shocking truth, sure to have audiences gasping, and the reality of millions of South African women hitting home.

"I feel that, as a woman, the reality is that one rape is one rape too many," says Sheilla Khubeka. "It was an honour for me to have been approached to be a part of the process of raising public awareness about the rape crisis in South Africa."

"Working with Tinah was inspirational, she gave the commercial its depth, and has not let her experiences dictate her life, or govern who she is," comments Sheilla.

Previous advertisements for the "Real Men Don't Rape" campaign have included ads featuring such South African superstars as Charlize Theron.

Each advertisement in the campaign is made at the cost of the production house and advertising agency. Time and expertise are given freely to draw attention to the massive job faced by POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse) and the Rape Crisis Cape Town Trust in helping those who have suffered inexplicable horrors at the mercy of rapists and abusers.

POWA is an initiative that aims to raise awareness about the plight of women in South Africa, many of whom are victims of violent sexual crimes.

Kevan Aspoas, Managing Director of The Jupiter Drawing Room Cape Town feels that: "South Africans need to change their perceptions surrounding the rape issue in this country. As a company, Jupiter Cape Town has made a ten year commitment to shine a spotlight on the situation faced by so many women."

"It's about time South African men take responsibility for the role they can play in preventing such violent human atrocities as rape from occurring. This is an issue of which we can all take ownership. As a society, we need to become active in the discussion of a solution to the problem," says Aspoas.

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 Posted: Thursday March 1st, 2007 21:32

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I am over 25. 


Terrell Forbes, Philip Mighton, Darren Wallace, Ashley Campbell, and Shane Sutherland ...


 

... if it had been your sister, what would you think ...

Earlier discussion here



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 Posted: Thursday March 1st, 2007 22:06

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Was this the rape that they based the Verdict on? Anyone know, as I thought is was.



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 Posted: Thursday March 1st, 2007 23:06

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Do you think Kobe got off too easy?








  



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Kobe Bryant's Accuser:



Kobe's in tight corner in rape case


They have Kobe Bryant's DNA and his admission that he had sex with the 19-year-old Colorado woman who accused him of rape.  They have the rape kit that was administered to the woman shortly after the alleged attack to analyze any bodily fluids, bruises and fibers for clues, although the results have not been made public.  (NY Daily News)   RELATED:   Detective details alleged rape in Kobe hearing








Bryant, accuser had consensual contact; she didn't OK intercourse



ABC News and the Vail Daily, citing anonymous sources, reported that Bryant and the woman had some consensual sexual contact but that she did not agree to have intercourse with him.



The network also said the woman, a concierge at the Lodge & Spa at Cordillera, was in Bryant's room for less than a half hour. Both ABC and the Vail paper reported that Bryant gave inconsistent statements to Eagle County authorities. (Court TV)  RELATED:  Kobe DA shuts access to his office




Kobe makes court appearance on sexual assault charge



EAGLE, Colo. -  Weathering the gale of a media frenzy, NBA superstar Kobe Bryant  appeared in court Wednesday on a sexual assault charge, standing quietly beside his attorneys during a seven-minute hearing in this quiet mountain town.  Eagle County Judge Frederick Gannett  set an Oct. 9 preliminary hearing to determine whether the case will go to trial. The hearing would be one day after a Lakers' preseason game and about three weeks before the start of the regular season.  (FOX News)








Investigators under fire in Bryant case



According to reports, one of the investigators from the sheriff's office that stitched together the case against the Los Angeles Lakers star was among 19 deputies named in a racial profiling lawsuit brought against the state of Colorado and Eagle County, by the American Civil Liberties Union back in the 1990s.  (FOX News)    




Kobe's accuser hospitalized last winter as a 'Danger to Herself'



EAGLE, Colo. - Scrutiny of Kobe Bryant accuser intensified Thursday as authorities said she had been hospitalized as a "danger to herself" four months before the alleged sexual assault.  class=storytextUniversity of Northern Colorado police received a call about 9 p.m. on Feb. 25 regarding a woman in a dormitory room.   (FOX News)








Kobe Bryant charged with sexual assault



Bryant: 'I made the mistake of adultery'



EAGLE, Colorado - Professional basketball star Kobe Bryant was charged Friday afternoon with sexual assault of a 19-year-old woman in a Colorado hotel where she worked.  (CNN)   PREVIOUS:  Kobe hires legal Dream Team




Cops jumped the gun in Kobe arrest: Lawyer



Some legal experts are saying Eagle County, Colo., Sheriff Joe Hoy acted prematurely when he arrested Kobe Bryant before the district attorney had filed charges against the Los Angeles Lakers star in a sexual assault case. And if no charges are filed, his actions will have needlessly tarnished Bryant's reputation.  (USA Today)




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 Posted: Thursday March 1st, 2007 23:37

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Rapists should have their cock and balls beaten off with a smooth stone while they are awake and the wound cauterizesd with a red hot coal BEFORE doing their 50 years in a supermax.



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 Posted: Friday March 2nd, 2007 03:59

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Why would a sensible and educated man feel the need to rape a woman? Is it unresolved issues that exist within himself, or would he be doing it for the crack to liven up his sex drive or would he see it as if he were punishing the woman for coming across as easy or tarty? I just wonder:?

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Ladies some of you have been in a situation where you asked a bitter question to yourself "did I just get raped?" please share your thought.



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 Posted: Thursday March 8th, 2007 15:28

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No one regualar will say if they have or not in a forum, it will be a sore point, or something they want to forget...



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 Posted: Sunday March 11th, 2007 15:13

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some women desire to be raped.



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Black_Power wrote: some women desire to be raped


that is so true its scary



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 Posted: Sunday March 11th, 2007 19:24

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And some men cant take the issue of REAL rape seriously.... if a woman WANTS to be raped then it isnt rape is it....



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Black_Power wrote: some women desire to be raped.

It's pretty shallow to take that view, even ignorant to just assume there is only one type of scenario in rape which is the fantasy one. Well the truth is rape stinks and causes long term damage to the victim. A  few rape survivors such as Gabrielle are a true inspiration.


GABRIELLE UNION was on Capitol Hill this week to help brief Congress on the challenges of providing services to sexual assault victims. The victim of a sexual assault herself at age 19, the star's testimony was part of the 7th Annual National Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Legislative Action Days, sponsored by the National Alliance to End Sexual Violence, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Lifetime Television.

Now, the 'Bring It On' and 'Bad Boys II' star reveals to ET how OPRAH helped save her life that terrifying day!

"Thank God for Oprah, because literally, her words helped me live," Gabrielle tells ET. "Oprah had a show about what to do in case you're a victim of a violent crime, and immediately I went on auto pilot; it was like Oprah in was in my ear telling me what to do to stay alive."

Gabrielle says she was working at a shoe store on summer break from college when a former employee entered the establishment during clean-up and held up Gabrielle and her co-worker with a gun.

"We gave him the money, and he said, 'I want to take you guys to the store room,'" explains Gabrielle, "and Oprah always said, 'Don't let them take you to a second location,' and I'm like, 'Great, this is the second location. I'm gonna die. He's gonna kill us.'"

Gabrielle says during the next moments she felt like she was "having an out-of-body experience."

"He took me out of the room and proceeded to rape me at gunpoint," she reveals. "At some point he put the gun down and calmly asked me to hand him the gun, and at that point I was like, 'It's me or you, and it ain't gonna be me today. I'm about to kill you.' And I grabbed the gun, I spun around and did the best I could trying to kill him ... I missed, and we ended up having a fight for the gun, and I was beaten, literally, beyond recognition."

Gabrielle says her attacker finally yanked the gun away from her and ultimately ended up leaving. He then robbed another store and raped another girl before he finally turned himself in. He made a plea bargain that put him in prison for 33 years.

"I will be testifying to make sure he stays where he needs to be -- in prison," she says.

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Damn he hurt my boo Gabrielle...:(



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how bout young boys getting raped by women. this happens alot more than you think.



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the soul machine wrote: how bout young boys getting raped by women. this happens alot more than you think.


My heart goes out to the young boys who have endured this ordeal.

 

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ALL RAPIST SHOULD HAVE THE WORDS

RAPIST tatooed on their forehead as a warning to other women



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how bout young boys getting raped by women. this happens alot more than you think.

 

On which planet?confused3

Men get raped by other men.  Not women.  Only last week a boy of eleven was raped by a 15 year old in London.  I don't think males handle it as well as females so the likelyhood of reporting such a thing is minimal and I'd suggest suicide rates might be higher though clearly I can't prove that.



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A lot of rapes are actually made up... especially WW/BM rape

heres a true story bout a guy I knew at uni.. names removed of course

man meets woman at nite club

they get on ok and end up at HER crib

SHE initiates sexual intercourse and he blows her back out

Next day the woman tells informs him that she was high on coke and E and can only remember bits n peices f the night before

she goes missing for about a week

a few days later police come to the halls of residence and arrest mr X

mr x gets charged with rape and found guilty...to make matters even worse he does his sentance on the isle of wight where nobody can get to see him without a trek

another fine brothers life screwed up by a woman



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Moral of the story stay away from white women...

If I had slept with someone and regretted it I would not cry rape. When I was at uni, I got very drunk went home with a guy, we were sitting in his front room drinking only he wasnt, it was just me. Looking back in hindsight the guy was plying me with drink and when you already drunk you rarely say no to more alcohol. Anyway we did the do. I regretted it couldnt really remeber much. But the scary thing was I found a few months later he did the same to another girl. The girl was soo drunk she couldnt even stand up let alone remember what her name was.

This made me feel sick. In the recent law changes this would be classified as rape as many feel you cant consent to sex if you are drunk. Also men who sleep with paraletic blind drunk women are kinda wrong especially when they are quite sober themselves. It is not really attractive and I would not want to sleep with a man who was in that state. It has made me learn and I make it a rule not to be drunk when having sex cos I dont want to have any regrets, know fully what I am doing, and know whether I really like the person and sex is sh*t when you drunk anyway..!



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The Watcher wrote: the soul machine wrote:
how bout young boys getting raped by women. this happens alot more than you think.

 

On which planet?confused3

Men get raped by other men.  Not women.  Only last week a boy of eleven was raped by a 15 year old in London.  I don't think males handle it as well as females so the likelyhood of reporting such a thing is minimal and I'd suggest suicide rates might be higher though clearly I can't prove that.

i know men do rap other men yes, but  dont you know that there are many sexually faustrated women out there. it dosnt happen every time. but it does. if a grown ass women screws a 15 yr old boy its rape period.



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If a grown women sleeps with a 15 year old boy call him lucky.



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Bredder Tukoma wrote: If a grown women sleeps with a 15 year old boy call him lucky.


ain't that the truth :D

 

Jokes aside, legally speaking it may very well be rape...though women who do that get a mere fraction of the punishment a male would get in the same sitution. For the very reason that it's belivied men cannot be raped by women...



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