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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 07:16 |
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 10:12 |
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I turn my nose up in disgust at any woman who would sleep with a man they KNOW is married. Of course if they don't know he's married then its not their fault.
I was reading an agony aunt column once and a woman was explaining how she had been having an affair with a married man for 5 years and was now angry because she suspected he was also cheating on her with a 2nd mistress. She wanted to get back at him by exposing both affairs to his wife. The agony aunt quite rightly told her about herself saying that she did't care about the wife before and that she wasn't doing it to help the woman but to spite the man. About she was going to take her skanky self to the man's family home to distress the woman on her doorstep in front of her kids, dyam eediot. She also asked why she thought a man who is cheating on his wife with her is going to have any respect for her?
The man involved in the affair is nasty with little regard for his wife or kids but the woman is just stupid and deluded thinkig she has a relationship when all she is is a piece of ass on the side in the man's eyes no matter what he says to her.
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 15:18 |
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| I think part of what defines an extra marital affair is the secrecy and omission of truth...thats why men lie to the women about wanting to leave their wives or refusing to admit that they are infact married. Attachment: tonibhwme6869395370445810.jpg (Downloaded 174 times) Last edited on Friday February 23rd, 2007 21:36 by Footprints
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 17:48 |
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 19:44 |
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i personally try to date at least three a year. You get great gifts, stay in lovely hotels and when your done with them they are hella easy to get rid of.
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 20:16 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: i personally try to date at least three a year. You get great gifts, stay in lovely hotels and when your done with them they are hella easy to get rid of.
HONESTY IS SOOO REFRESHING!
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 20:18 |
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What's the 411; STAY THE HELL AWAY!
I messed with a guy who was seperated, LONG You also have to think, would you like it?I know I would'nt.
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 20:33 |
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blessingfromgod wrote: What's the 411; STAY THE HELL AWAY!
I messed with a guy who was seperated, LONG You also have to think, would you like it?I know I would'nt.
I THINK A LOT OF THE TIME SOME WOMEN CANT RESIST,THEY ARE CHASING THE PRETTY WOMAN DREAM, A PHAT CAT ROCKIN UP IN A FLY WHIP SWEEPIN THEM OFF THEIR FEET TO SOME FANCY PENTHOUSE SUIT AND SHOWERING THEM SO MUCH FROST BITE ON THEIR HANDS AND NECK THEY GIVE BLING A NEW NAME, AND SATSFYIN THEIR CHOO FETISH AND FENDI/ GUCCI FANTASIES ANDLast edited on Friday February 23rd, 2007 20:46 by Footprints
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 21:15 |
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Footprints wrote: Madam Butterfly wrote: i personally try to date at least three a year. You get great gifts, stay in lovely hotels and when your done with them they are hella easy to get rid of.
HONESTY IS SOOO REFRESHING!
You thought i was serious?!
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Posted: Friday February 23rd, 2007 21:46 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: Footprints wrote: Madam Butterfly wrote: i personally try to date at least three a year. You get great gifts, stay in lovely hotels and when your done with them they are hella easy to get rid of.
HONESTY IS SOOO REFRESHING!
You thought i was serious?!
It is achievable that 3 men a year goal innit? But all them being married I thought Bloodfire ! she must be crawling around them dejavu websites for sure and traispsing to the ritz and savoy. Hey dont tell me you are a saint, I have a hunch you have had a bad hang over from too much champers and raw mouth from kissin forbidden fruit! Painful tighs from clutching somebody elses man as though he were your own.
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 09:00 |
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messed around with a married woman and that got REAL messy.
chick took nearly 2 months to admit she was married....real sticky situation especially when you start to catch feelings for the other person.
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 11:48 |
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Black_Power wrote: ...real sticky situation especially when you start to catch feelings for the other person.
Exactly, and their emotionally unavailable to reciprocate, only able to offer a fumble every now and then It's degrading - free it to the wilderness I say.
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 12:01 |
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| Some women get caught up dating married men over and over... and they keep sayin things like I know what the score is - I think it has to do with low self esteem. Cause no matter how many times you have been hurt I dont think you can ever get immuned to it, its feel crap every time - why do that to yourself - it's like self harm. Last edited on Sunday February 25th, 2007 17:34 by Footprints
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 12:18 |
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I saw this documentary a while back about this guy who started a 'dating' agency for married people who were looking for 'something on the side'..on the downlow. Aparently it is a roaring success and this man is rolling in it as a result.
Whatever the attitude of people on here is about dating a married man, it would seem that for many married people (men and women), the vows are not sacred and the 411 on the issue for them seems to be........"as long as you keep it discrete".
And you don't think this world is ****ed up?
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 15:17 |
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 18:52 |
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It is achievable that 3 men a year goal innit? But all them being married I thought Bloodfire ! she must be crawling around them dejavu websites for sure and traispsing to the ritz and savoy. Hey dont tell me you are a saint, I have a hunch you have had a bad hang over from too much champers and raw mouth from kissin forbidden fruit! Painful tighs from clutching somebody elses man as though he were your own.
in this case the above fiction is stranger than truth!! you seem to know an awful lot about it though...!
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 19:16 |
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babygirl44 wrote: I turn my nose up in disgust at any woman who would sleep with a man they KNOW is married. Of course if they don't know he's married then its not their fault.
Nuff said!
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 20:48 |
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the woman on the side gives the wickedest ride.
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Posted: Saturday February 24th, 2007 21:17 |
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Incognito wrote: the woman on the side gives the wickedest ride.
I know your only joking but I dont agree with that remark
hence man dont leave wifey for matey... matey juss a hobby
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Posted: Sunday February 25th, 2007 01:12 |
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hmmm...beg to differ..in my world wifey is the one who is more than a ride
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Posted: Sunday February 25th, 2007 02:12 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: Footprints wrote:
It is achievable that 3 men a year goal innit? But all them being married I thought Bloodfire ! she must be crawling around them dejavu websites for sure and traispsing to the ritz and savoy. Hey dont tell me you are a saint, I have a hunch you have had a bad hang over from too much champers and raw mouth from kissin forbidden fruit! Painful tighs from clutching somebody elses man as though he were your own.
in this case the above fiction is stranger than truth!! you seem to know an awful lot about it though...!
OH Come on MB you cant start on me, you are the one who was going on about hotels and that.Besides how I know is coz a gal I knew a while back was exceeding the 3 married men a year target, but she claims it was purely accidental - though she became an alcoholic to numb some of her pain , she also became the mistress of blackmail - she was always calling me from Harrods and Harvey nicks saying "Honey just gettin whats mine, it's damn hard to keep up with a man's fantasies" - thank God she got out just in time after an AIDS scare.
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Posted: Sunday February 25th, 2007 02:17 |
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Black_Power wrote: Incognito wrote: the woman on the side gives the wickedest ride.
I know your only joking but I dont agree with that remark
hence man dont leave wifey for matey... matey juss a hobby
I would like to agree with the above statements; It is those married men who can't face up to reality about their cheating that claim they cant give up their mistress cause she gives wicked ride, and they spend family income on their mistress' victoria secrets and sh*t chasing a vision of a wicked ride
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Posted: Sunday February 25th, 2007 03:20 |
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Depends on perspective, if your marriage is based on sex then I also agree. For me sex is the easy part, if that was the criteria then there'd be no need to get married....but yeah it plays a part.
Put it this way, what is it about matey that makes her not marriage material..assuming she's not someone elses wife of course
To this day I got brothas saying the best sex they ever got was from a whitey...they wouldn't marry one though.
The mistress is responsible for making many marriages look like a marriage...indeed it helps define it....just ask the mistress.
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Posted: Sunday February 25th, 2007 03:44 |
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To this day I got brothas saying the best sex they ever got was from a whitey...they wouldn't marry one though.
I have also heard them say the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice...with white women they are getting therapy for post slavery trauma.
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Put it this way, what is it about matey that makes her not marriage material.. She appears to be wotless and only good for bedroom tricks - swinging off shandalears and all that.
To this day I got brothas saying the best sex they ever got was from a whitey...they wouldn't marry one though. Maybe it's bcos Black women tend not to engage in prostitutional degrading sex to keep her man! So I have heards from many a Black brother your White mistress lets off too easy and feels no way in engaging in activities which allows man to rule and dominate her. Sorry, that's my opinion.
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