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Posted: Wednesday September 6th, 2006 18:40 |
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My younger male cousin earlier this week asked me an odd question about kisses and butterflies, and if i had ever gotton any...
I was shocked to hear that males experience these butterflies also, i have only experienced butterflies once and thought i was in love, (yes thought, it was only once i was young and it felt extreemly strange and very much a physical experience) but as years have gone on i have been made to belive that butterflies and kisses are common and do not actually mean anything...
i want to know.. Do people think that kisses carry meaning and do any other males experience the same or simlilar feelings?
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 00:47 |
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ok, im back, yes kissing is very very deep, and when a blackman /woman kisses u ..pure desire is on the cards..deisre =butterflies
there is just something about our big jiucy lips, and our spirit that , can and will blow ur ass away lol.
butterflies can lead to deeper connections with ur partner/spouse.. to love.
Ive yet to know if peeps in 20 yr realionhips still get BUTTERFLIES.
or if u let ur soul mate go , do ever feel them again? Elders fill us in plz!
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 20:21 |
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| A kiss reveals a lot about a woman, that is if you know how to read a kiss. For instance, a Black woman that gives you all of her lips, instead of a normal kiss usually means she is really into you, perhaps even in love. I personally think that a kiss is very important. Sometimes the mouth can convey more when it is not talking.
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 21:36 |
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Shemsi en Tehuti wrote: A kiss reveals a lot about a woman, that is if you know how to read a kiss. For instance, a Black woman that gives you all of her lips, instead of a normal kiss usually means she is really into you, perhaps even in love. I personally think that a kiss is very important. Sometimes the mouth can convey more when it is not talking.
So do you experience any physical feelings yourself or is it just a way to read the other persons emotions... And cant some kisses be decieving...
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 21:46 |
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| Definately get that feeling as a man when you kiss a women especially when its the first one....or if you've been apart for long periods...
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 23:09 |
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| Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 23:13 |
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Bredder Tukoma wrote: Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
LOL at so many stages as well
Meeting them
Trying to get the number
That first phonecall
First time linking them
And yes obviously when you kiss her.
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 23:13 |
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Bredder Tukoma wrote: Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
i do hope this doesnt apply to all women or you must have some serious stomach problems LOL
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Posted: Thursday September 7th, 2006 23:19 |
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Constant Quality wrote: intresting
i'll come back later..
ok, im back, yes kissing is very very deep, and when a blackman /woman kisses u ..pure desire is on the cards..deisre =butterflies
there is just something about our big jiucy lips, and our spirit that , can and will blow ur ass away lol.
butterflies can lead to deeper connections with ur partner/spouse.. to love.
Ive yet to know if peeps in 20 yr realionhips still get BUTTERFLIES.
or if u let ur soul mate go , do ever feel them again? Elders fill us in plz!
so you back eh! lol...
Do you think kissing is more emotional than "making love"? even though kissing may be invoved in the latter part...
Ever kissed a girl u werent interested in and still got butterflies? then what is it her or jsut the kiss... how can you define whther you really actually like some1 or that they are just great at kissing
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Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 09:36 |
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Kiss a girl??
I am girl , my lord...
yes i do beleive kissing is more emotional than sex, his tongue is like the penis in my eyes, and my mouth is my honeypot, and what he can do with his tongue , shows his talent, so no need to feel his lunchbox. kissing can be like sex with the right person. all the feelings you get thru sex can be acheived through kissing alone if you only use your imagination !
I know if people kissed more rather than rushed and jump into the sack, there would be less unwanted pregancies and less broken relationships, (remember the days of courtships?..
I had a boyfriend and all I did for the first 2 years of the romance, WAS kiss
the butterflies lasted longer , but it seemed to me, they disappeared with a long lack of contact or sex.
Butterflies.Why do they occur? and what does it mean when tWo people feel them at the exact same time? is it then spritual lol?
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Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 15:25 |
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apologise.. i tried to figure out whether you were male/female... i gave up and just went with male...
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Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 18:20 |
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Have never understood that popular saying that says a kiss is deeper and more intimate than sex. What a strange notion! For sure kissing is deep and meaningful but the comparison is weird.
Ain't as if you have sex without kissing... is it?
I think this was something said in that movie "pretty woman" and people ran with it despite the obvious difference that Julia Roberts was playing a PROSTITUTE so obviously wasn't about kissing lol.
For us non prostitute/trick/john/ho people things are a bit different no?
I'm sure everybody puts a whole big deal more thought into who they kiss above who they jump in the sack with. I hope so anyway.
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Posted: Monday September 11th, 2006 00:27 |
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specialle wrote: So do you experience any physical feelings yourself or is it just a way to read the other persons emotions... And cant some kisses be decieving...
I do experience feelings. A good kiss is one of the best turn-ons for me. If a woman can kiss, then it is usually the prelude to steamy intimacy. And yes, some kisses can be decieving. This is why I try my best to read females before I even get intimate. Once blood starts flowing to a man's genitalia, there is often not enough blood for the brain to think clearly.
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Posted: Monday September 11th, 2006 03:42 |
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The Watcher wrote: Have never understood that popular saying that says a kiss is deeper and more intimate than sex. What a strange notion! For sure kissing is deep and meaningful but the comparison is weird.
Ain't as if you have sex without kissing... is it?
I know quite a few people who have sex without kissing and tahts exactly what they call it.... sex and not making love.. so arguably yes you can have sex without kissing
Comparing a kiss to sex.. you can do both with out the other.. you can kiss with out sex and you can sex without kissing... However if you kiss without sex.. it still can be very expressive and emotional.. however sex without kissing does it still hold that emotion, is it that sensual and can raw feelings be expressed through it with out the kissing... That is why comparrisons are made about sex.. they are both forms of intimate touches
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Posted: Monday September 11th, 2006 13:05 |
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| kissing is ovverrated.
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Posted: Wednesday September 13th, 2006 00:50 |
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specialle wrote: Bredder Tukoma wrote: Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing..
i do hope this doesnt apply to all women or you must have some serious stomach problems LOL
If I think she's quality then yes. Every time.
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Posted: Tuesday September 19th, 2006 17:48 |
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Black_Power wrote: kissing is ovverrated.
me thinks BP either hasn't fallen for anyone properly or is emotionally gun shy ..in my humble opinion that is!
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Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006 19:17 |
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| What about actors/actresses? If kisses 'carried a meaning' how, when they seem to have to kiss several people over their careers, let alone in a single film/episode, do they cope?
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 00:33 |
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athaba wrote: What about actors/actresses? If kisses 'carried a meaning' how, when they seem to have to kiss several people over their careers, let alone in a single film/episode, do they cope?
Look at porn stars and prostitutes.. I would not kiss any women I would not sex and doubt Im unique in that respect..does not sex carry meaning..
Anything can be reduced to its banal components.
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 08:55 |
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last time i checked
prostitues dont kiss. porn stars do , but also there nasty mouths be kissing his nut and crack sacks
but what they have in common is no strings sex, yes with there vagina?
do these lost souls have no morals or feelings either?
the former seems to have some sort of line she does not cross.
both as nasty as the other in my eyes anyway.
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 17:40 |
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@Bredda T said 'Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing'..
Yep, it's called the Mampie effect...Can make a bredder very uncertain.....Flight or fight kinda thing...
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 18:05 |
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Bredder Tukoma wrote: athaba wrote: What about actors/actresses? If kisses 'carried a meaning' how, when they seem to have to kiss several people over their careers, let alone in a single film/episode, do they cope?
Look at porn stars and prostitutes.. I would not kiss any women I would not sex and doubt Im unique in that respect..does not sex carry meaning..
Anything can be reduced to its banal components.
What are you talking about?
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 19:25 |
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FredB wrote: @Bredda T said 'Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing'..
Yep, it's called the Mampie effect...Can make a bredder very uncertain.....Flight or fight kinda thing...
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Hey Fred
Im not talking about the gal you used to meet the Monday after the weekend local dance.dark rooms have done nuff brothers no favours.
Me fight a mampy.. yu mad.
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You seemed to be doubting that kisses carry no meaning. I was just extending your argument to include sex.
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 19:52 |
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Bredder Tukoma wrote: FredB wrote: @Bredda T said 'Man I get butterflies meeting a woman for the first time let alone kissing'..
Yep, it's called the Mampie effect...Can make a bredder very uncertain.....Flight or fight kinda thing...
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Im not talking about the gal you used to meet the Monday after the weekend local dance.dark rooms have done nuff brothers no favours.
Me fight a mampy.. yu mad.
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You seemed to be doubting that kisses carry no meaning. I was just extending your argument to include sex.
No no I was wondering how they cope. Kisses imho have a lot of meaning lol!
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Posted: Thursday September 21st, 2006 23:53 |
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Saida.M wrote: Athaba
You seemed to be doubting that kisses carry no meaning. I was just extending your argument to include sex.
No no I was wondering how they cope. Kisses imho have a lot of meaning lol!
Oh no wonder you were wondering what the hell I was on about..
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Posted: Monday October 23rd, 2006 21:05 |
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If prostitutes go out of thier way not to kiss, it must have a meaning. Porno stars on the other hand seem to enjoy thier job anyway...
I kissed a boy who i saw more as a friend a few times, i still got butterflies in my stomach but it was more like the feeling of imtamacy was overwhelming because i hadnt kissed for a LONG time, nothing to do with him ! But when i kiss my boyfriend of two years now the butterflies are still there but it feels so much better than kissing any boy
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