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Posted: Monday February 13th, 2006 12:27 |
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1sam1 wrote:
Everytime you go on MTV Base theyre telling you what they want all the time so it is depressing.
May I suggest you dump MTV Base? Watch the Nature channel instead, much more beneficial to your development.
Your life (or your friends life) will indeed be screwed if MTV Base is your point of reference.
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Posted: Monday February 13th, 2006 14:29 |
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Backatya wrote: 1sam1 wrote:
Everytime you go on MTV Base theyre telling you what they want all the time so it is depressing.
May I suggest you dump MTV Base? Watch the Nature channel instead, much more beneficial to your development.
Your life (or your friends life) will indeed be screwed if MTV Base is your point of reference.
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Posted: Monday February 13th, 2006 15:42 |
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| MTV base isnt my point of reference but I think a lot of girls growing up do have that. Its not just TV people make general comments anyway, not to mention if a boyfriend says something! I have another friend who wants them (white) and she told me breasts are everywhere. I tried to argue that they werent but who am I kidding. Women with curvy bodies are everwhere from when you walk down the street on billboards, magazines and adverts. Its really easy for men to say stuff like that but women look at there bodies in a part by part basis, unlike men who tend to look at the whole.
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Posted: Friday February 17th, 2006 14:33 |
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1sam1 wrote: MTV base isnt my point of reference but I think a lot of girls growing up do have that. Its not just TV people make general comments anyway, not to mention if a boyfriend says something! I have another friend who wants them (white) and she told me breasts are everywhere. I tried to argue that they werent but who am I kidding. Women with curvy bodies are everwhere from when you walk down the street on billboards, magazines and adverts. Its really easy for men to say stuff like that but women look at there bodies in a part by part basis, unlike men who tend to look at the whole.
Did you know, that in terms of 'the numbers' a greater % of (non-curvey) women or women who don't possess the 'ideal stereortypical shape/look' are in long-term committed relationships (e.g. marriage) than the % of women who have the 'ideal shape/look'?
Something like 6 out of 10 'non-shapely' women are in a serious relationship whereas only 2 in 20 of 'ideal shape/look' women are single, and in fact find that relationships don't last very long at all.
This would tend to suggest that your friend would find a more 'meaningful' relationship without the implants.
Think on that!
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Posted: Friday February 17th, 2006 20:29 |
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Well I will tell her that but she wont listen. People who get implants often feel that it will make them a "woman" and once they get it in their head theres no stopping them. Shes kinda convinced that it will make her life change (plus she isnt exactly a "thinker) but I will tell her.
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Posted: Friday February 17th, 2006 20:38 |
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I'm probably going to catch some flak, but I actually do think there is a place for Breast augmentation surgery in some cases...and as a man I woould say categorically that it can affect the state of the sexual relationship, if your partner s showing the signs of child rearing..
Whilst I wouldn't proactively push for this to happen, I think there can be positives in the right circumstances..where I mainly take issue is when young girls have plastic surgery because of 'work' if you get my drift...Without long term studies on what will happen to people entering surgery at such a young age...I think its nothing should of reckless to do that to yourself because of money...
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Posted: Friday February 17th, 2006 21:33 |
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Kunjufu wrote: I'm probably going to catch some flak, but I actually do think there is a place for Breast augmentation surgery in some cases...and as a man I woould say categorically that it can affect the state of the sexual relationship, if your partner s showing the signs of child rearing..
Whilst I wouldn't proactively push for this to happen, I think there can be positives in the right circumstances..where I mainly take issue is when young girls have plastic surgery because of 'work' if you get my drift...Without long term studies on what will happen to people entering surgery at such a young age...I think its nothing should of reckless to do that to yourself because of money...
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Posted: Friday February 17th, 2006 23:03 |
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Kunjufu wrote: I'm probably going to catch some flak, but I actually do think there is a place for Breast augmentation surgery in some cases...and as a man I woould say categorically that it can affect the state of the sexual relationship, if your partner s showing the signs of child rearing..
 
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Posted: Saturday February 18th, 2006 01:48 |
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Question?
Can you breast feed After having Implants?
if not.. aren't these women planning on breast feeding their children?
Aren't that what breasts are for?... well mosttly!
Breast fed babies ...Healthier Babies... Guys of African Descent i think prefer Healthy Offspring.
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Posted: Saturday February 18th, 2006 12:28 |
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| My friend already has a baby so I think she already is showing more than the signs of childrearing!
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Posted: Saturday February 18th, 2006 23:36 |
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She should spend the money on a brain implant and buy a personality while she's there.
Having a rock hard pair of boobs that do not move is not going to impress anyone. She needs to face facts. THEY AINT INTERESTED IN HER.
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Posted: Saturday February 18th, 2006 23:42 |
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She should spend the money on a brain implant instead and buy a personality while she's there.
Having a rock hard pair of boobs that do not move is not going to impress anyone. She needs to face facts. THEY AINT INTERESTED IN HER.
Last edited on Monday February 20th, 2006 22:59 by Jhem
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Posted: Sunday February 19th, 2006 00:53 |
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They probably will be interested in her as she is a pretty girl with soon to be 34D breasts but maybe not for the "marriage and commitment" that she wants. And as she is the sexually very conservative type the type of attention she may get kinda will backfire.
Maybe they already do think shes nice but with this insecurity she thinks if someone doesnt its because she hasnt got big breasts. Plus her ex boyf who treated her badly moved onto a white woman with big ones and treated her nicely.
I think there are a lot of women who think if they were different then their lives would be fantastical, never mind grown big ass women "I wish I was mixed race, I wish I was light" syndrome but lets not go there... Cant believe the things that come out of peoples mouth sometimes. Women with big breasts, small breasts, brown skin, light skin and birracial get bad experiances with men (or is it just me who realises that?).
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Posted: Sunday February 19th, 2006 15:04 |
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I agree with that. Having large boobs does not make any one immune to having difficulties in life. Neither does being 'pretty'.
Her boobs are not the problem. If all she wants is to be is part of a 'trophy' couple, who look good in the club then she appears to be a bit shallow and she will attract men who are equally shallow.
If a guy likes her it won't matter what size her chest is. Its about how you carry yourself with what you have.
He can't have a conversation with a pair of boobs, he can't take a pair of boobs home to meet his mother can he?
My advice would be to focus on what you do have and ask yourself why they are not interested because it is nothing to do with the size of your chest.
I notice that there is no mention of what type of person she is. Its not just about being 'pretty'. There are millions of us 'pretty' girls out there, but there has to be more to a person than that - like character, intelligence, confidence, ambition, sense of humour, ability to hold a conversation and being an interesting and fun person to be around.
People who are 'pretty' and are always being told that they are, tend to think that they don't have to bother developing their personality.
Many famous, sucessful and very beautiful women have smaller boobs. Take models for example.
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Posted: Thursday May 4th, 2006 02:07 |
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I think she's wanting to do it for all the wrong reasons which is a bad reason to do ANYTHING, but there's nothing wrong with implants if you are lacking and you have the means then why not buy new boobs.
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Posted: Friday June 9th, 2006 20:44 |
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| hmm i was thinking about getting my breast done too, not really big just small implants, but it's for medical reasons, and also for me as well. I plan to save up for it when i get the money for it, I may change my mind but I'm not sure just yet, over here the percedure isn't that expensive and you can make payments, I'll make my final decision when I feel ready.
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Posted: Friday December 22nd, 2006 18:35 |
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Don't like fake tits.
Can tell they're fake by feeling/looking at them women can't breast feed when they have fake titties either... Jordans kid is gonna grow up to be one confused yout'... its not right.
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Posted: Friday December 22nd, 2006 18:51 |
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man I aint really a fake tit man...infact I like tits that are quite small..
BUT if your titts are too small then you gotta enlarge em..simple.
otherwise how you gonna be a woman with no tits?
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Posted: Friday December 22nd, 2006 19:24 |
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Black men dont even care for hair extensions, talk less of "breast extensions"!!
I can't imagine wanting to have bigger boops ( and beingwilling to go under the knife to get such) just to compete with a woman....but then again I am naturally quite gifted (lol!) and so perhaps I dont understand what the big deal is!!...
Show off or advertising
But I do know a couple of sisters who want the reverse eg breast reduction.
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Posted: Friday December 22nd, 2006 19:32 |
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| but fred did they loose weight off the rest of their bodies aswell??
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Posted: Friday December 22nd, 2006 19:45 |
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| BP they did not go through with it. Both of them got men who love their chests so no longer an issue really. Know how some sisters can get very self critical and nothing is phsycially wrong with them. Just need some man 'hanging' onto them lovely or something...
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Posted: Saturday December 23rd, 2006 03:05 |
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@ FB - only you!!! LOL!
...but to answer your question: neither advertising nor showing off - na so dem dey make us in Africa! (which explains BP taste for small ones!) - but you are free to fantasize if you want!
@ K - shame on you for your comment about the "signs of child-rearing".... and to even suggest that a breast augmentation is a viable solution....... if you were over here, I would knock you over the head for that comment. 
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Posted: Saturday December 23rd, 2006 03:23 |
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@Happy you black women are always confusing us men who are very simple creatures by nature.
A couple of days ago you told BP off when you suggested he was more interested in the woman's cleavage in the other thread where we had to choose the cutest woman. I tried to support my friend BP and you said
'probably because she is the only one showing her tits! lol!
and now when I respond to you publicisng what mama Africa has given you you said @ FB - only you!!! LOL!
..'.but to answer your question: neither advertising nor showing off - na so dem dey make us in Africa! (which explains BP taste for small ones!) - but you are free to fantasize if you want! '
And you cannot understand why you women confuse us so
What is a brother to do.
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Posted: Saturday December 23rd, 2006 03:40 |
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| Well for those women who want larger boobs I'm happy to donate some tissue from my breasts, and I don't mean the andrex kind. Women who want larger breasts must be made of money fi real, not only do they pay to go under the knife they have to pay more for their bras as well. Truss me the bigger u are the more expensive ur bra is, I'd love to buy a bra and panty set for £10 but that just ain't gonna happen. Come january sales I'll have to stock up on bras like people stock up on food, watch me!
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Posted: Saturday December 23rd, 2006 03:48 |
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Facety gal before I go and draw some zzzz. Interesting you should say that because I had no idea, for obvious reasons how much good fitting bras cost for women with full bust until my wife told me and I was in.
Apparently, she said plenty women are doing themselve harm because they wear ill fitting bras and not the proper ones, because they are so expensive.
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Posted: Saturday December 23rd, 2006 03:57 |
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FredB wrote: @Happy you black women are always confusing us men who are very simple creatures by nature.
A couple of days ago you told BP off when you suggested he was more interested in the woman's cleavage in the other thread where we had to choose the cutest woman. I tried to support my friend BP and you said
'probably because she is the only one showing her tits! lol!
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