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 Posted: Tuesday April 25th, 2006 01:58

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This has truly shocked me, I don't know why the lady stood there and took that, maybe she was scared, but I don't know if I wanna stay over here anymore, I feel I would end up in prison on an assault charge if anyone spoke to me like that!!!!!

Man Indians are all like that. They take alot of sh*t from whites. My theory is that Indians in general are the most docile and submissive people on planet earth, but only to the white man. Indias history is full of Shame especially the colonial history.



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F*ck’em, white people & Asians too. Those punks get rushed by BNP members in my area, the blacks up here are not to be trusted too, they are sneaky mofos . So I don’t trust no mans, to help me, I fight when I have to… not when I need too…f*ck it I aint fighting for some random person on the street…I mind my own biz! smoking-devil



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 Posted: Wednesday April 26th, 2006 11:14

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indians LOVE white people, and they will do anything to please them, even if it means walking all over us, if i saw this happening, id turn a blind eye to it.



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Why do you and other people keep on saying that Indians love white people?  Just looking around generally and quietly observing situations, and even seeing how white people percieve me personally, I think that black people are obsessed with white people.




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name wrote: Why do you and other people keep on saying that Indians love white people?  Just looking around generally and quietly observing situations, and even seeing how white people percieve me personally, I think that black people are obsessed with white people.

 

they DO love white people, look at the majority of indian women powdering their face so that they appear lighter. they have a caste system in India where it is taught that white is right, hence all the actors in bollywood films are really light skinned, and darker skinned dravidians don't get a look in. i have had experiences where indians will try and disrespect me infront of white people, so that the white people will like them more. and as for black people being obssessed with white people, i disagree.







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 Posted: Tuesday October 24th, 2006 00:14

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'I hate the P*kis, but not you lot' ....I used to think ALL black people felt the same when they heard that comment but apprently not.

Yes asian people do seem to kiss white ass, i guess they aint as strong as black people in that way ( i say this because rascist people where i live are NEVER rascist to any one black or mixed, only asians. They are afraid of black people )

When i read posts like this a feel SOOO good to be mixed raced i swear. Its like a blessing. Im not deluded by stupid and ignorant, black, white, asian, chinese, mexian, spainish, (and all the rest) people because being mixed raced its impossible for me to belong to one race. And no that dosnt mean im confused, it means i can see the confusion in everyone else (including stupid and ignorant mixed raced people).

When i was younger i thought it was 'brown people' against ignorant white people. Then i got older and thought ignorant asian people against ignorant white. Now im thinking ignorant black white and asians people !!! So sad to lose hope in yet another race. I am generalizing, but i dont hate on any race just the RASCISTS. Well actually i feel sorry for them. Its almost the same as realising father christmas dosnt exsit. I must thank all you ignorant people ( really need to stop using the word ignorant) for making me see the light!!

How can you only be affected by black rasicm. You're either against it or your not....

The worst thing is some of the people on this forum seem so 'intelligent' yet the comments they come out with are unbelievable!  I might as well go on an NF forum because they seem so intelligent with thier facts and sh*t i would almost believe them if i was, STUPID!  Ive been on an NF site before and they way some people talk are here- its just like them ! 

Had to get that off my chest, and btw no im not against black people or any other race, embracing thier own, infact i love people like that. I just hate the fact i assume good things about something and then realise it isnt as nice and good as i thought...like everything else in this world ( by that i mean realising Some black people are just as rasicst as any other race can be )

I dont want this to be some mixed raced thing, because really i would feel this way no matter wat colour i was, it just happens to be i can see it more clearly because im mixed ..



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 Posted: Thursday December 28th, 2006 18:29

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Bigup!! Rastawoman 4 sharing with us what you experienced. I feel you loud and clear. I was also brought up in a black community sista, as black as it gets, in the roots, the motherland Africa. I have been living in UK for a short while and I have'nt experienced racism but I know its hard to be a minority race in a western country, back home the few white people where not hated or discriminated against but here, to be black, P*ki, Indian seems to be a crime. They say they brought civilisation to Africa but civilisation is being civil towards others - they know not civilisation. Im sorry to say, Martin Luther knowed not civilisation, brother Malcolm did, and it seems you do.

lets try to find ways to really be civilised, the pain hurts, it has been hurting for generations!!!



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cupid_888.how can you say what you where saying? are you living in an illusion? There's no raceless person on this planet and it seems you havent realises, maybe because of your upbringing or some sort of confusion which race you belong to. You are not colourless! You are like a bird that takes of from a branch and knows not where to land. I feel pity for you!

You are infuriating. Get off blackchat if you've got nothing to say.

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Rastawoman wrote: I was waiting in line at a store today when I heard a comotion going on in front of me, human nature and thing I started listening to what was going down ( although I didn't have to strain my ears to much to hear! ).  Some huge burly white woman was cursin' the Indian woman serving her because the lady gave her £5 in coins instead of a note, the woman was going mad, but the lady told her ( politely ) that she didn't have any notes, the big white b**ch shouted at her to give her her money back so she could go to another till she don't want no coins! What difference does it make its all money at the end of the day!.  Anyways the Indian lady went to the till I was being served at and I gave her the £5 note I was about to use, I felt sorry for the woman.

Instead of being cool this white ignorant b**ch went on to tell the Indian lady how rude SHE was and cursed her some more!. 

Now if that wasn't bad enough the rasshole women went outside where her child was waiting and started shouting " that dirty P*ki b**ch wanted to give me coins, f**kin P*kis i'm sick of seeing 'em in my country!" blah blah blah!!

Nobody said a word, not even the Indian man who was serving me.  Now what the rass is that about?.  I went outside and told the fat b**ch straight " you racist b**ch with your 6 kids living on benifits, how dare you talk to that woman like that? shes paying your benifits whilst you sit on your arse  having kids that will probably end up doing the same bullsh*t that you're doing"  This woman didn't say one word to me, I spat at the ground where she stood and walked off!.

I did have a fear that she would come after me and do me something, she was huge, but she didn't do one sh*t!

Maybe i'm naive, maybe i've been sheltered living in a 100% black community, yeah theres white Bajans but we don't mix, i've never had a white Bajan friend in my life.  But I've met white peeps from England b4 I came here and they all seemed cool!  Maybe they act different when there on vacation but i've stayed in touch with tourist from all over and seem friendly to me.

This has truly shocked me, I don't know why the lady stood there and took that, maybe she was scared, but I don't know if I wanna stay over here anymore, I feel I would end up in prison on an assault charge if anyone spoke to me like that!!!!!hhead

 

I can hear Barbados calling me home.blktears

I just needed to get that off my chestblkangry, thanks people

Ras

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@Rasta woman - yes, you are a little naive but it is not a bad thing. I wish we could all still be shocked and moved into action by racism... no matter how we find it. I hope u never become cynical because in any fight, if u cannot reduce people to the lowest common denominator (ie our humanity) everything becomes a matter of collateral damage. That is, for me, the ultimate definition of cynicism.
 
your actions were about you and who you are as a person and had nothing to do with the worthiness of the woman you defended. You saw a wrong being done and you spoke out against it. Maybe ur actions made no difference at all...or maybe they made all the difference in he world. Who knows. But I for one, as a believer in personal responsibilty, think you exemplified all that is good about us.

Dont ever let some one else define you and cause you to be a lesser human being than you are. Then "They" (whoever you define the enemy to be) - would have won.

Continue to be outraged by bigotry and cruelty no matter who it may be perpetrated against.blkclapNever apologise to anyone for that.

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Happiness wrote: Rastawoman wrote: I was waiting in line at a store today when I heard a comotion going on in front of me, human nature and thing I started listening to what was going down ( although I didn't have to strain my ears to much to hear! ).  Some huge burly white woman was cursin' the Indian woman serving her because the lady gave her £5 in coins instead of a note, the woman was going mad, but the lady told her ( politely ) that she didn't have any notes, the big white b**ch shouted at her to give her her money back so she could go to another till she don't want no coins! What difference does it make its all money at the end of the day!.  Anyways the Indian lady went to the till I was being served at and I gave her the £5 note I was about to use, I felt sorry for the woman.

Instead of being cool this white ignorant b**ch went on to tell the Indian lady how rude SHE was and cursed her some more!. 

Now if that wasn't bad enough the rasshole women went outside where her child was waiting and started shouting " that dirty P*ki b**ch wanted to give me coins, f**kin P*kis i'm sick of seeing 'em in my country!" blah blah blah!!

Nobody said a word, not even the Indian man who was serving me.  Now what the rass is that about?.  I went outside and told the fat b**ch straight " you racist b**ch with your 6 kids living on benifits, how dare you talk to that woman like that? shes paying your benifits whilst you sit on your arse  having kids that will probably end up doing the same bullsh*t that you're doing"  This woman didn't say one word to me, I spat at the ground where she stood and walked off!.

I did have a fear that she would come after me and do me something, she was huge, but she didn't do one sh*t!

Maybe i'm naive, maybe i've been sheltered living in a 100% black community, yeah theres white Bajans but we don't mix, i've never had a white Bajan friend in my life.  But I've met white peeps from England b4 I came here and they all seemed cool!  Maybe they act different when there on vacation but i've stayed in touch with tourist from all over and seem friendly to me.

This has truly shocked me, I don't know why the lady stood there and took that, maybe she was scared, but I don't know if I wanna stay over here anymore, I feel I would end up in prison on an assault charge if anyone spoke to me like that!!!!!hhead

 

I can hear Barbados calling me home.blktears

I just needed to get that off my chestblkangry, thanks people

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@Rasta woman - yes, you are a little naive but it is not a bad thing. I wish we could all still be shocked and moved into action by racism... no matter how we find it. I hope u never become cynical because in any fight, if u cannot reduce people to the lowest common denominator (ie our humanity) everything becomes a matter of collateral damage. That is, for me, the ultimate definition of cynicism.
 
your actions were about you and who you are as a person and had nothing to do with the worthiness of the woman you defended. You saw a wrong being done and you spoke out against it. Maybe ur actions made no difference at all...or maybe they made all the difference in he world. Who knows. But I for one, as a believer in personal responsibilty, think you exemplified all that is good about us.

Dont ever let some one else define you and cause you to be a lesser human being than you are. Then "They" (whoever you define the enemy to be) - would have won.

Continue to be outraged by bigotry and cruelty no matter who it may be perpetrated against.blkclapNever apologise to anyone for that.

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You do realise that the woman who created this thread wrote this over a year ago and has maybe even since left the forum :shock:



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Well Done rastawoman. Someone with courage and principles will always encounter detractors.

I would and have done the same thing myself. I have people who form circles around incidents or lack any sense of humanity.

You are to be commended.blkclap



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First of all, Well done. You are a fantastically brave person and I applaud your courage.

You remind me of my mum. Despite how other treated her, she would always do 'the right thing' - she would not think of people as her 'enemies' but would always fight bullying and racism in whatever form.

Now having said that, I have seen a million and one times when I and others defend asians from racism from whites. At school, work, etc i have seen it so many times.

I have never seen an asian defend a black person from racism, and secondly, many times I have seen asians who have been defended from racism by blacks have themselves gone on to commit racist acts. I have seen this so many times now it is getting to be a joke.

In the UK some whites genuinely don't like asian people, but like blacks due to similiar economic circumstances.

 

Personally I would have done the same as you, but I should warn you that in the UK people often call up cousins and the like and you could have been attacked.

Nuff respect though, but think about what people are saying- don't think that asian people would ever do the same- and don't trust whites, blacks, asians or anyone else.



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@ soulful - thanks for the heads up....but I still have to ask...so?



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ok i may get stoned for this but rastawoman only did what came to heart we as blacks are always looking out for the weak even though asians dont see us as equal but its not important how man sees us god is the judge and we as gods choosen people do as we where created to do and that is to love all and protect and help those who are in need or those who are on the weaker side of the stick in due time the world will see who is the true choosen and the hand of god will judge the wicked



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You do realise that the woman who created this thread wrote this over a year ago and has maybe even since left the forum :shock:


I'm still around sometimes, just haven't looked at this for a while.

Reading over this today has shown me how naive I really was when I first landed.  I saw something that day that I had not experienced b4.  I've been here for over a year on and off and have witnessed quite alot of racism, but I still stick to my beliefs, if I see anything happening infront of me I will speak up, I can't take that kind of behaviour and ignorance.

This country takes a bit of getting used to, but I know I have matured since first reaching here, you have to grow up when you move away from mummy lol.  Quite funny reading over this again

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                              Handle your bizness!!clp)



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safetyblitz wrote: I have problems with this..........

Not with the incident, with you.

1.  Why did you take it up on yourself to defend an Asian when if it had been reversed, she would not have defended you?

2.  If the INDIAN MAN did not do anything, to help the woman, why did you?

3.  Why did you risk yourself to an attack simply to get something off your chest, what if the burly white woman had other people with her you did not know about while you were defending the Asians?

4.  Why did you post your defense of asians on blacknet?


I am not knocking you, but you really should pay attention to who you defend....


Is it possible that not everyone is fixated with race?

Is it possible that maybe she didn't see an Indian women, but a PERSON, a HUMAN BEING like you and me, being verbally abused and didn't stand for it?

Do you always pick and choose who you feel sorry for based on race?

If I see someone who needs help, I'm gonna help them, but maybe that's just me. You obviously see this as naive, but I see it as caring about the society i live in. But I guess that's where me and you disagree.........



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