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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 02:31

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IS THERE A BLACK CONSENSUS ON MASTURBATION? is it sad, bad, healthy etc...

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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 07:37

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Its what u make it. When I was younger I always read that its good becuase it helps to find out about our bodies. Personally I dont think its a bad thing at all. Why should it be? It does not harm or hurt yourself or anyone else. Acutally it has the opposite affect

The only bad thing about masturbation is the taboo it has in society. The amount of ppl that deny it is amazing!

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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 10:57

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is that masterbation with a partner or without? Because there isn't going to be much people that will admit to doing by themselves, blkwall

but of course it might be good if your partner is there with you blkcheers

even if you are just watching or they just watching you (can't be bad) kinda kinky blk2kiss

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Posted: Friday January 2nd, 2004 12:43

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IS THERE A BLACK CONSENSUS ON MASTURBATION? is it sad, bad, healthy etc...

Don't sound like much of a "taboo" if everydamn body is talking about it on every forum on every site.

Masturbating is another one of God's pleasurable gifts to mankind...like taste-buds. There's no telling how many rapes were staved off by men who just had to taek care of business by any means necessary.

Besides, how else would I have learned how to properly use condoms as a young pup comming up???

It's sad only if you have NO CHOICE but to masturbate!!!

I think masturbation is healthy to a point...but if you become ADDICTED to masturbation or masturbate too much for your individual testosterone level...it's not only bad...but dangerous.

Whenever a person orgasms their brain releases large amounts of serotonine, the chemical that makes you feel good, relaxed, and pleasurable.

But if you have orgasms too frequently you can acually damage the part of the brain that releases serotonine by overstaining it!

This is what usually happens with gamblers, junkies, alchoholics and other types of addicts. This is the science of addiction...the over indulgence of pleasurable activities and-or pleasure causing chemicals.

You go from doing abnormal things to receive EXTRA pleasure...to doingabnormal things just to feel NORMAL.

Now....I'd like to say that it's just as bad for women to overmasturbate than men but I've met women who were addicted to masturbation and they were some of the sweetest jewels I ever came across. I mean straight up goddesses because they lossed that part of shame that restrained them.

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Posted: Tuesday January 6th, 2004 02:39

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I dont want to sound like a prude but personally I hate the idea of inserting my finger, hand, cold instrument inside me. I just cannot for the life of me do it- I truly admire girls that do. When guys ask me if I masturbate I truthly say no- then they think i'm lying??

are there any other girls out there that dont either????

coz I feel like the only one!

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Posted: Wednesday January 7th, 2004 03:46

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i would have to aggree with nads, i think its kinda of strange, lonely like maybe im wrong but i thought it was a thing only lonely people or porno stars did, cas when yo have access to someone why would you? but its who evers chose i suppose. when i went to a school in essex, that was the norm for them... my moto is do what ever you want just dont tell me, cas some tings i dont wanna know!!

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Posted: Thursday January 22nd, 2004 20:33

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Well I think palying with your self is not a bad thing. Nearly evryone I know do it, ture you dont need to to know but if you dont do it then you would nevr know what you what you like sexuly. If your boyfriend or girlfriend wanted to make ou feel good then you can show them how to do it right. Its no only prono stars and lonly people play with them selfs. Boy have to do it if they cant get sex as they will have a problem called Blue Balls, where the sprem builds up and causes pain and they need to ejaculat to stop the pain.

So it not jsut prono stars and lonely people that do it. It si not a bad thing, its something that you just have to do. If you dont then you must be very sexuly frustrated as you cant always have sex when you want it.

ust remember every one dose it

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Posted: Friday April 22nd, 2005 11:20

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Well I do somtime an i gota man good sex life an ting raw! An i be thinkin bout my man while i do it 2. when we make love he loves playin wid his sh*t an when he does it 2 me a N****r be drivin me crazy an not ona pushin my fingers up dere its all bout da clit blkheadrock

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Posted: Friday April 22nd, 2005 14:32

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If more people masturbated, there be less unwanted pregnancies, passing of STD's/HIV ect. Nothing wrong with masturbation people just lie about not doing it.

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Posted: Wednesday August 24th, 2005 15:55

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Masturbation is suppose to help you find out about your body, it makes it easier to tell your partner how to please you.

I don't think there is a problem with mastubating, but not many people will admit to it. Lots of boys I chat to say things like 'I would never do that unless i'm in jail' or 'It's gay'. I mean white boys I come across chat about it like it's nothing, if they do it they do it, they don't care who knows.

So I suppose it is a taboo since we can't talk about it openly, but you can say thhe same thing about everyhting other than standard sex i.e head (the amount of girls and boys who lie about doing that....unbelievable)

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Posted: Monday May 21st, 2007 17:37

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Of course its wrong! You people are nasty!

God made your hands to pick up things not to rub yourself.

Whats got into you people :shock:

Theres scienfical evidence that says if a person masturbates they go blind, anyone heard of ray charles?

... well there you go.

Get to making babies already.

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Posted: Tuesday May 22nd, 2007 11:01

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i can't believe people actually feel masturbation is taboo or immoral.

how pathetic. i would have thought everyone would have just started

naturally as a youngen as it feels so good and it's tour body.

personally i find it so sad that some people are so affraid/ ashamed of their own

bodies, it is healthy it is actually good for you as scientific research has shown over

and over again. you should get to know yourself

also there are all different ways to mastubate and for girls we do not have to

insert anything in many many different ways, for some it's all about the clit

the only limits are your own imagination. as madona quoted:

'poor is the man/woman whose pleasures depend on the permission of another' clp)