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Posted: Saturday January 1st, 2005 17:54 |
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^^^^ i know ...lol..
i found this the best post on here... the ultimate guide which is very funny and actually has some good points.. particularly the "3 second rule"... which on one hand works, and on the other hand can make a guy look like a rabid dog!
http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/
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Posted: Thursday February 24th, 2005 19:20 |
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| yea i like compliments like 'ur beautiful, sexy, nice, etc' and i think it's cute when a guy uses a chat up line. it's embarrassing but it makes me laugh and it shows that he's got a sense of humour. but it's got 2 be original and kinda slick
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Posted: Tuesday March 15th, 2005 21:44 |
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ya noe..evry gyal likes her own thang.
not evry1 lykes da same shyt bein said to dem.. personally tho if any hot N****r comes up ta me, even if he just sayin hey its imma think its hot + be flattered. hah. pick up lines are fiine..unless dey cheesy 1, to me it doesnt really matter what is first said..because if ya keep talkin..u see who dey are not whut dey first said.
haha but hearin dis shyt frm a hot man is seexxy, daaaaaaym girl
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Posted: Wednesday March 16th, 2005 16:25 |
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| I'm a little ghetto, lol. I like for a guy to compliment me, even if it's a little naughty. I generally get guys who say something like "You are so beautiful. You can be my baby mama" or"Dayum baby, look at that ass on you. I can do some things with that. Let me holla atcha". LOL I've gotten "You look good enough to eat, lemme try it" or guys who stare at my dayum thighs and say they want to get between them. I like it better when a guy looks into my eyes and compliments them or my face or style. I just don't like to be touched if he doesn't know me. Guys tend to touch my face or grab my hand or my butt or my thighs or anything without knowing me and that gets annoying.
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Posted: Thursday March 24th, 2005 16:32 |
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Y dont girlz approach us manz that often, a few timez when im in town, i cant help but notice a nice gyal walk past, and it is bate dat she checkin me too.But i dnt go approach girlz in town n that coz i dont rekon its the right way to get to know a girl, n plus the pressure of getting blasted!!!!lol.
So y dont more girls approach manz if they think the man iz heavy?
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Posted: Thursday March 24th, 2005 16:58 |
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BabyK* wrote: ya noe..evry gyal likes her own thang.
not evry1 lykes da same shyt bein said to dem.. personally tho if any hot N****r comes up ta me, even if he just sayin hey its imma think its hot + be flattered. hah. pick up lines are fiine..unless dey cheesy 1, to me it doesnt really matter what is first said..because if ya keep talkin..u see who dey are not whut dey first said.
And guys actually manage to have a meaningful conversation with you when they chat you up do they?
Don't mind me, I am in a mischievous mood today
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Posted: Thursday March 24th, 2005 18:38 |
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| Its strange because as soon as a guy comes and talks to me I am immedietly on a defence I think he either has a girl, Just wants to get in my knickers or is just plain up to no good. I never tend to respond to guys on the road cause they normally come of with the same thing. Xcuse me whats ur name .....So what can I get a number? HaHa I normally meet guys through friends so it all depends on how u meet them cause u'll be more rude to a random stranger although as a girl myself im neva rude to guys on road i hate it when girls just diss the programme when a guy has not been rude. But the worst possible thing you could do guys is make ur friend approach a girl 4 u that makes u fail b4 u've even tried !!!!
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Posted: Thursday March 24th, 2005 18:55 |
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y are we beating around the bush girlz, the straight truth is.. if a guy has to use a chat up line you KNOW eitha ...
a) He hasnt got a personality so is hiding behind a corny act
b) He THINKS hes a player and can pull any chic with sum overused line
c) Hes overconfident/ cocky, and has obviously tried picking up girls off the street before, which automatically doeant make you feel special!
Personnaly i only chat to unknown guys through friends, but the one time i ever CONSIDERED giving my number to a guy, was when he said somehing nice SPECIFIC to me, that would make a girl stop and think ' o he actuali noticed that'..
For example, if she has a nice pair of shoes on, you can say ' i like your shoes', or if shes obviously just had her hair done ' I really like your hair', or if shes wearing a t-shirt of your fav band or something, you could say ' o ar eyou into ******, i think theyre pretty cool..."
But to just try and Bop up to a girl, and give her the same old " you baby, her shorty, where u goin now," crap is quite simply pathetic ---- and only going to get you the type of girls who are a 'dollar a dozen'. - ( ignore tis advice if ur looking for easy girls with no self respect)
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Posted: Wednesday March 30th, 2005 21:27 |
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| if you approach a girl with too much attitude and start being impolite then don't expect to get their number. never call a girl to come to you, you want them so go to them and most importantly just be yourself because thats whats going to shine the most and attract them to you more
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Posted: Wednesday April 6th, 2005 15:21 |
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Peace!
you what i clocked- every woman is different what works on one may not work on the other, so really be yourself is the best bet- but it dnt mean you gone get anywhere!
i know certain girls dat if you sed to dem oh i like your hair- to them dats just another chat up likely to get you 1 Duuuuttty luk, so bwoy, really an truly i would leave da compliments until the ice is broken through other means- like for example the mutual friend, b ut i reckon theres other more subtle ways. chat up lines really only work on dem ESSEX Gyal anyway!
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Posted: Wednesday April 6th, 2005 16:37 |
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| well if i was to approace a woman i would be myself,to be quite honest i'm kinda shy i have had girls stare at me and smiled and i tend to just stand there, cause i scared that i might say the wrong thing at times
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Posted: Monday May 30th, 2005 14:04 |
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U SUCK
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Posted: Monday May 30th, 2005 20:58 |
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| Hi, (and a quick compliment in-tow would go down a treat) and smile,smile,smile it makes all the difference guys(especially if you look fierce,,,)
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Posted: Tuesday May 31st, 2005 17:38 |
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| Hi is tunisha, well i think in order for a guy to chat u a gal, he should be himself, and most important first encounter is everything, he shouldnt just be for appearances but also to make a friendship cuz there are so many relationships that ended bad cuz they were not mates, and most of all the guy should be respectful.
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Posted: Wednesday June 8th, 2005 02:35 |
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no chat up lines. just be yourself an know that you cant win all.
well said ladyday
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Posted: Saturday June 11th, 2005 04:34 |
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guys, all you got to remember is that a guy uses his eyes while a girl uses her
ears. Don't say nuthin stupid because you got to think before you say, and if you say
something really nice about the girl ( not a chat up line ) then she will remember it
and you.
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Posted: Tuesday June 14th, 2005 15:36 |
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| Now maybe it's just me but being yourself with a pinch of good humour goes a long way as far as I'm concerned. It works really be yourself but then again some guys are real randy when it comes to asses and breasts and all those other things that make guys drull while they're on the dinner table! Attachment: The Big Boss.jpg (Downloaded 229 times)
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Posted: Monday January 29th, 2007 20:30 |
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Posted: Monday January 29th, 2007 20:30 |
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Posted: Tuesday January 30th, 2007 16:41 |
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piscesman wrote: young men dont listen to a woman that tells you to use chat up lines, go ahead and try it embarass your sleves. heres one u can use
u- girl is father a thief
girl- why
u- because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes
girl-loser
Anyone who tries that horrible chat up line deserves a 25 to life prison sentence.
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Posted: Wednesday January 31st, 2007 23:25 |
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LadyDay wrote: no chat up lines. just be yourself an know that you cant win all.
@cockneybouy
It’s not what you say but how u say it.
If you are in a bar why not offer to buy her a drink in a charming way, or perhaps just introducing you're self? Surely that can get the convos starting...
If its the image thing yr worried about...then hun, that’s when you as a man gotta have game...
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Posted: Tuesday February 13th, 2007 10:53 |
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Shallow and Dumb?
if your pretty and you know it. + have some intellegence to back it up.
If your in a club you do not look desperate. you came to have a nice time with some friends i suppose , dance and have laugh. i personally am focused on myself. I love the envy from the girls and the adoration from the guys. lol stuck up? its just how people precieve me. If they get aired get over it. i didnt go there in seach of a hubby! if your nice and try hard get to know me and we get along, well then number might be given. How many times have I heard afterwards about how I think im a royalty this and that, Untouchable. jadajada. I love myself, there aint no1 else to love me the way i do lol. Im not arrogant, im just cool and calmer.
About that is why black men go to white chicks. lol I would go for latinos, whites and asians. Who cares that mcuh for black guys going for white chicks, we CAN find other races. they all have crazy fettishes for brown suggaz!
( that was a responce to sumthing traveller wrote hmm though i had it on quote. Neways)
Back to the topic.
I prefer " hey u alright" ANd a good conversation with it " what brings you down these ens?" "must be my lucky day meeting you" lolol " Damn girl you shoes are killing" abit gayish but who doesnt like compliments for ya SHOES!! "you've got pretty eyes gorjus ( accompaning a wink straigth afterwards " lol "your smile could light up my world like the sun" lool nah lemme stop
I also like teasing sorta flirting, compliments, and then teasing me about how stuck up i look or somethign about the girl i guess, break the ice with a joke. at first just act normal like you would with your friends, puttin in a few compliments.
yea something sweet Following a conversation. Nothing in a rush! if you have not taken your time. forget the number.
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 23:12 |
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First off, to all my brothers out there, keep ya heads up mayne. I know it's hard to approach black women sometimes, but not all sisters are gonna give you the screwface, neck-twithcing attidude when u approach them, and if they do, don't sweat it, that's not the type of girl you want in ur life anyway.
I agree with most of the girls in this thread, 'game' is just played out and wack, just be urself innit. If she's feeling you, cool. if she ain't, she ain't. U can't b everyone's cup of tea..........
Myself, I usually start off with 'Excuse me, my name's Nathan' *offer handshake* give her a compliment, something sweet, not cheesy or sexist and then just start bussing some small talk, maybe squeeze in a joke or two (if an oppourtunity to say suttin funny comes along take it, but planned jokes never work) and then ask for her number eventually. If I get it, cool. But if she declines, no worries. i usually jus say, 'Well it was nice meeting you anyways, c u around'.
NB: (ladies, this ain't a front, I'm always polite  )
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Posted: Wednesday April 18th, 2007 19:47 |
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I got asked out by an 18 year old today...I'm 23. I just thought it was funny. The younger dudes are braver than the ones my own age. 
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Posted: Thursday April 19th, 2007 00:58 |
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lilthuggy wrote: I got asked out by an 18 year old today...I'm 23. I just thought it was funny. The younger dudes are braver than the ones my own age.
The thing is, I actually find it much easier to approach older women. Maybe it's the whole factor of me not having anything to lose because I don't expect to get ur number, I'm jus trying my luck. Did u give him ur number lilthuggy?
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Posted: Thursday April 19th, 2007 01:34 |
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| Nope. It would've felt like cradle snatching.
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