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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 18:10 |
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hi nicky the only advise i can give u is that most girls like a guy who can make them laugh, it shows how done to earth he is, even when u go on a date am no expert but i can speak for us girls when i say we like a guy to give compliments (not too much as they can become too anoying and sometimes seem desperate). We like guys that are interested in us asking questions and keeping the questions quite basic and personal but no too personal like what was ur ex like (silly question on first dates), as i said before am no expert am just a woman.
I agree i like a man who can make me lough, and on the first date breaking out with the personal questions is a no no, my friend went on a date and all ol boys kept asking was whether she had her virginity, if her friends did, how many people they slept with, and the fact his double bed was lonely, yep suspect 
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 18:13 |
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obal85 wrote: TO SISTA GIRL,
U wrote: Do not stare.
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Ohh, we should keep our eyes closed then. You are one weird chick.
i agree with sista girl, look but do not stare it is creepy n makes you feel weird.Like your doing somthing suspect or the person has just lost their mind.
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 18:24 |
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Young women - Tell them exactly what they wanna hear, any foolishness.
Older women - Tell them they are different, you respect them
Enlightened women - They don't give you the chance to tell them, they will question you to make sure you are a fit man (Mentally) and if you measure up all things being equal you will be in with a chance.
At least thats what my wife told me to write
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 18:24 |
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What do girls like to hear when a guy chats them up?
THE TRUTH!!!!!!
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 19:48 |
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Here you go, a quick google and I have found the "ultimate guide". Ladies it would be intresting to see your opinions on this.
http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 20:39 |
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Nick
I followed your link and the site is SOOO funny!! I ain't had this much joke in ages...
True stuff though
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 20:44 |
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Ha ha, I know. I just discovered even more, if you delete the layguide folder off the end of the address, that whole guide is just 1 small part of the site.
I dare anybody to read the whole site, you will emerge a new man.
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 21:00 |
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I still got tears in my eyes oh boy oh boy....
Check this one it had me LOL ROTF
http://www.pickupguide.com/badpu1.htm
Its these stories of what NOT to do that are bussing me up ha ha ha ha
Anytime I need jokes or catch a happy Im going here!!!
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 21:10 |
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man these ppl are jowkerzzz lol,@drunk
check this http://www.becomeaplayer.com for my players
some more crap there some good points dow @both links by drunk and nick.
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Posted: Tuesday July 13th, 2004 21:13 |
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Oh man, how could that guy not see what he was doing????
Theres a few girls in my life that I do a lot for, but I "know" what their feelings are for me and I do the good deeds for my own personal satisfaction. But that guy....damm over 3 or 4 years as well.
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Posted: Wednesday July 14th, 2004 15:35 |
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lmao........... thats some funny guy at pickupguide link what the........
pman, become a player is full of nonsense i swear boy iv been there b4.
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Posted: Saturday July 17th, 2004 16:25 |
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i think manz need 2 respect women, like were not a piece of meat 1 thing i cannot stand i is when u jus get stared at (ur body) not ur face,and when they comment on ur body parts that ain't right it makes most gals feel trashy, i don't mind friendly flirting, buti also dislike very much when u say ur not intrested and they get offensive and say (u think ur 2 hot,ur a hoe) there is no need 4 that wouldn't u respect a gal more if she said she had or man or she's not intrested, then her lieing cheating and robbin u of ur money? ur choice.and wot's wrong with being friends, friendship can lead 2 alot more, i think 2 many manz r like get wit me or that's it, b patient. but generall i lkie guys who r funny,flirty,not 2 full of themselves and aggressive,i think that can win most gals over,even if they feel there not physicall attracted 2 u.
Although i must admit , i met 1 boy and he was quite rude with he's so called chat up, so i walked off but he made amends by waitin 4 me 2 get out the shop then he was really polite, so some manz my feel they have 2 put a front 2 win ladies over.
 Be Nice,Funny,and Flirtacious then u'll pull!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Monday July 19th, 2004 01:16 |
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Ok I absolutely detest guys who use chat up lines...i mean it would be one thing if i were walking around dressed like i was looking for attention...but when i'm busting jeans and a t-shirt (long sleeved) that is ten sizes to big its a big hint for don't be looking at me ... to avoid it I have tried various techniques...from claiming that I am married or that I used to be a man.
Some mans, its just the way they watch you that puts you off...like they are undressing you with their eyes  ...i can't stand that (and summer time is the worst!!!)
It would be nice if a guy just come up to me and introduced himself...(no not asking me out...how can you accept an invitation from a dude that you just met) and striked up some random conversation...nothing in particular...just like one of those convos you strike up with ppl when trains are delayed or something.
Its nice to be appreciated as a person rather then to be thought of as the next prospective lay.
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Posted: Monday July 19th, 2004 19:13 |
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| why do u ask? just be urself and express ur self jeeez girls (most) like honest men
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Posted: Monday July 19th, 2004 23:29 |
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| Based on personal experience, some women don't need to be chatted up. Once they see a guy in a flashy car, the car will do the chatting up and the rest as they say is history.
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Posted: Monday July 19th, 2004 23:33 |
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TO SISTA GIRL,
U wrote: Haven't you ever been told that it's rude to stare?
No do not keep your eyes closed! but remember to blink!
If a person is looking at you like this it can make you feel uncomfortable.
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If a guy is chatting you up, in what direction do u want him to look precisely?....sorry u r not making any sense.
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Posted: Monday July 19th, 2004 23:54 |
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@obal85
Do not keep your eyes closed, but do keep eye contact with the woman you are speaking to. Just remember to blink, you know sometimes you catch someone daydreaming they have a look in their eyes which is distant and they are not blinking they are staring off into their own thoughts, that is like staring.
I can't explain any further as you do not understand what I'm saying.
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Posted: Thursday November 11th, 2004 02:23 |
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| no noting wrong with that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Thursday November 11th, 2004 06:20 |
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TO SISTA GIRL,
U wrote: @obal85
Do not keep your eyes closed, but do keep eye contact with the woman you are speaking to. Just remember to blink, you know sometimes you catch someone daydreaming they have a look in their eyes which is distant and they are not blinking they are staring off into their own thoughts, that is like staring.
If he looks at you, he makes you feel uncomfortable. When he stares at you, while he chats you up, you find it rude. What exactly do you want?
I can't explain any further as you do not understand what I'm saying.
You dont know and understand what you want.
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Posted: Thursday November 11th, 2004 09:17 |
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You dont know and understand what you want
Obal you are only figuring this out now? LMAO
You will only frustrate and confuse yourself here bro, let it go lol
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Posted: Thursday November 11th, 2004 10:48 |
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Be Natural.......Be complimentary(if U genuinely mean it......Don't give false compliments....Women are not stupid..)..........Be sociable......Be interested in what they have to say and LISTEN sometimes.......Don't go I THIS...I THAT...I,I,I ...Be amusing......If appropriate compliment their intellect and personality as well as their appearance.....If appropriate make Ladies feel the're the most special person in the room....Don't criticise(until U know them well and then only constructively....Girls/Ladeez don't normally "do" criticism.....lol..........Don't take yourself too seriously and be prepared to laugh at yourself just as much as U laugh at others(Very important),,,,,,Don't be up your own ass.......Show U can take a joke as well as give it.......but in essence just be yourself and don't put on any false airs or graces(you'll soon get sussed)....show strength of character(be exactly the same in private as when in front of your M8's.....(f*** what they or anybody else thinks)....if U do something wrong be Man enough to apologise Face-To-Face....be considerate.....be strong when necessary...other times be sweet...try to get the right balance......Remember that every Young Lady is unique and Special in her own way....Don't be afraid to let her know.....Remember Actions speak louder than words....Don't give the impression U know it all be willing to learn as well.......that'll do for now....
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Posted: Thursday November 11th, 2004 10:54 |
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nicky booooy wrote: hey wot happens if u really like tha girl but theres nothing to talk about then she thinks ur boring give me some tips on wot to say if theres no talk
.............just seen this.....Remember Silence Is Never An Embarassment Amongst Friends.......
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Posted: Friday November 12th, 2004 13:20 |
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Just tell her you've been secretly stalking her for the past five years. Stalking is just another way of expressing love afterall. It's just so so misunderstand thesedays.. Sending the lady in question photographs of herself is always a romantic gesture.
She'll think wow he really is interested in me. Maybe I should get to know him.
And don't be fooled. Restraining orders are a sign of love too.
Just engage the person, forget the chatting up business. To be honest with you if people could talk comfortablely in person like they do on this forum then the world would be alot more interesting, and nicer too.
Just use your imagination.
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Posted: Friday November 12th, 2004 16:13 |
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| Im one of these guys that dont really believe in chat up lines. As many people have said if you get a single then just be yourself and talk. What you and how you approach the conversation should be based on the girl you are talking to if the girls comes acrosss as an outgoing bubbly type of person crack a joke or too as she is likely to have a good sense of humour if the girls seems as if she is a serious charachter then still be yourself but show more intellect. BOTTOM LINE if you dont get a sign dont make the walk.
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Posted: Saturday November 13th, 2004 08:10 |
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I don't worry about how to start a conversation. I just wait until some girl is obviously interested. That is an open door to say hi, at least.
*pats belly* Haven't been getting too many open door lately.
If I see a girl that looks fine, or is dressed nice, or has one good feature on which I would like to comment, I just look for any friendly eye contact. If I get it, I will walk up, smile (this is natural, because I have fun doing this, not some car sales polished approach) and say "Wow, you sure have pretty eyes!" or whatever. "You look fabulous in that outfit" translation: nice ass, breasts, waist, legs, whatever it is you are showing off but it would be rude to mention specifically, so I am saying it in a tactful, gentlemanly way, and you have the satisfaction of knowing I noticed your assets without being hypnotized to lustful stupidity by them.
And, then I turn and walk away. It is usually AFTER I turn and walk away that the girl will say "thanks!" because she then realizes you aren't trying to follow it up with "So, my place or yours, YEAH BABY! DO I MAKE YOU HORNY! DO I??? DO I MAKE YOU RAAAHNDY???? YEAHAHA!
I have had several girls then carry the conversation to the next level after that. Such as, asking "So, are you from around here" etc. Meaning "let's talk some more." But, really, the first seven months after I left my wife (it was a frigid deathmatch from hell, I wasn't just dropping her on a whim. Seven years of arctic hatred was enough from her) For the first seven months, all I would DO was say nice things to girls, because I felt no release to pursue a relationship of any sort.
I have found that the sincere compliment, given to a girl who is already looking at you in that amused, friendly way, followed by the turn around and walk off, is all you need. I am usually suprised if they DO want to talk. Because my motive was not to GET anything. Just to GIVE a compliment.
And women RARELY run into THAT, that is for sure. Free compliment, sincere, not "wow you look so thin" when she weighs more than you do. Don't lie. That is a gigantic dead giveaway. This quite fat woman at one job I was delivering furniture to once had a nice looking dress on, which really did look good. Markedly better than what she was wearing the day prior. So I said to her "That's a nice looking dress." She appreciated the compliment. It was real. And BELIEVABLE.
Women know what looks good that they have. If you notice it and comment on it, they will like it. Unless they didn't want you to get anywhere near them to begin with.
I do not treat a compliment like a conversation opener. I treat it as it is: The entire conversation. End of story. Have a nice day. See you in heaven, if no sooner, ta ta.
Not like the Gary Shandling comedy where he is an alien being (all-male race. Had to have a penis attached for the mission of blending in on the earth and finding a woman to have some kids with) conselled by his senior on how to impregnate an Earth woman: Say this: "That is attractive footwear. May I insert my penis?"
Women are so sick of that. In whatever form it takes.
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Posted: Saturday November 13th, 2004 09:05 |
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"That is attractive footwear. May I insert my penis?"
Thanks for the early morning jokes, that was funny!!
Chatting up women?
To be honest I guess theres no magic line
Just be respectful and try not to tell blatent lies
But remeber some women are thick, so have fun creating stories!!
But I think most women make up their mind about you in the first few minits is they like you or not
Me I get a loads of shallow women and older women because Im muscular
So I dont really waste time chatting them up as its obvious what they want.
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