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Posted: Thursday June 3rd, 2004 17:00 |
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Generally I believe that there is no chat up lines.
Never approach a woman unless she has maded it clear she is interested in you.
that means, she has looked in your direction (More than once) She has smiled at you ( the best indicator) she has made an excuse for you to speak to her.
othewise you are setting yourself up for a fool.
GENERALLY in life women make the first move, through their body language. And men make the first move through speaking to them. For the woman, she can claim that you have miss understood her signals, for the man there is no Defence.
The reason woman get all het up about "Chat Up Lines" is because they have not made the first move in their body language to provide you with "permission" to drop the line in the first place. So your chat came out of the Blue.
Once they have made it "known" (in commas as Woman are so subtle for a man it's hard to discern exactly what is happening, i.e dropping their keys near you, speaking out loud about a surpposed problem, smiling at you or asking a ridulous question ("Are you allowed to park here?" when the sign clearly states it's safe to park) Then as a Man chat up lines are no problem. Having a chat up line is not being fake, it's simply trying to instigate a conversation with a complete stranger, when you have no other reason other than fancying them.
But generally, if the woman fancies you in the first place, you could sneeze as a chat up line as she would say: "Oh Bless you" In other words you can say what you like, as the woman would be interested in you. It's when she do'esnt like or fancy you do chat up lines become redundant or useless.
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 08:02 |
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 15:28 |
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dont use chat up lines on sisters theyll attack you like a pitbull if you do , since im in geneva i avnt seen much brehswith sisters and brhes in the uk tell me sisters shoulnt be approached maybe thats why brothers are scared to chat them up these days. should we be even approaching sisters in the first place . lol
iv neva uused chat up line b4 anyway i think they are corny.
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 15:46 |
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| Id rather be stabbed 55 times to death and ran over by a steam roller and bashed in the heaD with a base ball bat than approach a sister
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 16:14 |
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| Damn! Are we really that bad? I have to say I have seen some of the looks my girlfriends give and well...okay! And yeah I am the same but only when some guy approaches me and presents with some crap. If you are a sensible, well-turned out Black guy then I am interested to hear from you. Comments about my butt, my looks or along those lines are a no no!
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 16:35 |
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| chat up lines should not be used on blackwomen plz guys dont try it ,a homeboy of my was disgraced by a sister some time ago infact im against dating sisters i was shocked when i saw a website bout men who hate dating sisters and the things our blackwomen do to us. i fink it was called why i dont date sisters or sutti like that wen i find it ill post it iv used chat up line before on some sisters i regreted lmao it not all sisters are heartless as we fink. chat up lines are lame common hahaha are you kinding its for little boys. erm broter from plant . id rather be eaten by a bulldog than approach a sister. lol
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 18:07 |
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 Ur meeting all the wrong girls.All girls want these days is a man with looks, even thought hes putting her down. A man with a great body, Even though she knows it aint all hers. And a man with a phat car and wallet even tought she probably dont get to ride in the car or get any of his money, Unless she becomes another stastic.
The thing is these days is that its all about image.People dont love people for who they are know matter how kind,loving,or honest the man is if you aint got all the above or at least 2 out of 3 you cant even get a look in.
When it comes to "WOMAN" just be yourself. If she want to keep dissin young black men because they dont fit her profile let her do that she will end up the sad one in 20 years with 4 kids to 3 diffrent babyfathers.
I still believe that there are some good woman out there its just all these hoodrats making it harder to find them. But trust me there out there!!!!!!!
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 19:51 |
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Just a simple: "Excuse me....." and before I can say "can you direct me to......" earn you filthy look. And I'm always well turned out.
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 20:18 |
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Guys listen up, ima break it down for u and help u out right now. All u need to do is look for signs/signals from us laydees that shows we are interested and if u don't see any, STAY AWAY. its as simple as that. A simple smile in your direction or if a laydee maintains eye contact for more than you would normally if you glanced at a person walking by, is the go ahead you need. What i hate is when a guy comes over to me, in my space, talking bout so can i get a number and then gettin pissed off at me when i say no. Did i ask u to come over??? Also guys PLEASE and i'm beggin PLEASE don't come with the same old ish. I know i look good, i spent 4 hours gettin ready. Yes i do have a big ass, a pretty smile AND? Just come over and introduce yourself, the conversation should just feel natural and not like you are doin all the work...
If you take the time to get ready, smell good, look good etc then i don't see any1 turning you away. I love confidence and guys that work with what they got. Doesn't even just have to be physical, if your witty - use it to your advantage.
I hope this has been of some use to some1 out there.
peace out ppl
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 20:40 |
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avnt contemplated the idea of even approaching a sister in years and dont think i will iv just lost interest becos all we black men are put into the same categories by sisters ( even me a well educated and well manered breh except you piss me off ill buss ya head. ) i manily date oriental women like hawain, some asians(except indians of course) common guys when you approach a woman act right becos no matter wat race they are if you act stupid they treat you stupid, like i always said there are beautiful women around the globe dont put all your focus on sisters try different types of women. i wont advice you to date whitewomen no way. theres beauty full women of other races brothers get them and act right. enough said. you only live once and god did not put you here to only date blackwomen.
and comom using chat up line on sisters is a joke you better get a benz and bling bling if not u aint got no chance our sisters are mis guided and stuck up.(our sisters are beautiful i dont wana get attacked by angry sisters lol)
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 20:57 |
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| @drill sergent they have more class i think, and act more human like, i think blk gals are just childish . i think they are mean becos of their testosterone level its of the chats
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 21:35 |
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this topis is funny! we really have bitter brothers out their, some sister really done them bad!
I dunno but it seems that me and my friends are the only gals that get approched by brothers and we all have a laugh, maybe the bitter bros need to come to east london
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Posted: Saturday June 12th, 2004 22:49 |
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@Homer J Simposon QC. Bro made me crack up for real.
@Jah Rule ignore those type of women and don't fret none.
@All agree with the female/male concensus. Never used a chat up line in my life. It's lazy, lacks intelligence and makes assumptions about the intelligence of the woman in question and says nothing about you other than your dim and don't have much going on.
Have used my brain to engineer a conversation with a sister at a dance ,who was working behind the bar at this fundraising function. Light came on saw this packing sister and told my bredrin I was going to go and ask for a glass of water and predicted she was say "what" and it would be done and dusted from there.
Went over asked for the water, she looked at me odd and started to smile and asked me was I sure and said positive. She told me to come behind the bar cause I need help. Game set and match. No chat up line. Just an opportunity to show personality.
Chat up lines big no no. But I like Homer's tip and might try that out seems to have prosects...
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Posted: Sunday June 13th, 2004 10:05 |
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| i think there,s still some good blkwomen out there. chat up lines eh eh.
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Posted: Sunday June 13th, 2004 10:22 |
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Aunty Irie wrote: What i hate is when a guy comes over to me, in my space, talking bout so can i get a number and then gettin pissed off at me when i say no. Did i ask u to come over??? peace out ppl
Maybe its the way you all say, no!
And god help you if there is white folks about, because then the way you say no just gets more audible
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 09:50 |
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| To me it is simple and like most of the people in here have said be yourself, if you are confident and truly represent who you are then that should be good enough. If the girl isn't feeling that then that is her choice and her business.
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 11:41 |
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I think it takes a very strong blk man to approach any girl. I think nowadays it's the women who are the men and men who are the women.It's all image, as some guy posted earlier.It's all about looks.I ain't gonna lie. I like looks the same as anyone else. But the difference is (and it's a very important difference) is that no matter how attractive or unattractive a women is. Her attractiveness has nothing to do with her worth as human being.
You get the feeling with some women that if they don't think your on there level looks wise then you are less of a human being. But I know what I am going into when I enter a club.I realise that they are very shallow and superficial places so I don't get upset about it. I just don't get it thoughj , Why do women get so offended when they get approched ? I think if a girl approached a guy then I'm sure the guy would not be offended in the slightest. I get the feeling that some women think they are giving you there life when they have sex with you.I wouldn't mind but all women at some stage in life have been to club met a guy and shagged him senseless on the same night....SO DON'T FRONT !!
I don't approach sisters, (too many bad experiences) and lot of my friends think the same as well.I've given up on them, some of them are fine but I hate to say it, but a lot of them have a " I'm too good for you attitude". But the thing is I ain't good looking enough for a women to approach me.So I guess I gonna have to take my medicine and carry on dong the approaching.
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 12:10 |
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When approaching women just be polite and honest, this is important.
Don't stand there licking ur lips, rubbing your hands together , looking us up and down and trying to look at our backsides!! that will not get you anywhere.
Do not shout all the way down the road then tell us and gesture for for us to walk over to you.
Do not stare.
Do not make comments about our body parts.
Some girls get annoyed because no matter how polite you are they still try to keep the conversation going, it really tries a person's patience.
women do not be rude to the men there is no need for it, if you are not intersested just say no thank you, bye. Just be polite.
@physics I know what it's like to be attracted to someone who is not attracted to you. The type you find attractive don't notice you. It happens to everyone.
Don't give up on the sisters and sisters don't give up on the brothers 
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 15:13 |
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this is serious here, the number of blk single women is skyrocketing, iv even had cases were some older sisters made a move on me . makes you think will some women ever get married if they keep on fronting like they do beocs even if they have kids the fathers arnt even with them, i dont go for girls in clubs becos they are shallow and dumb they dress thier best and brush guys off u blk women are in some serious crisis in the end youll end up marry someone that aint compatable with you, if you have the guts the approach a guy then good luck otherwise singledom forever is knocking on ur door, wow blk women are in crisis but who cares , lmao
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 15:56 |
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to the traveller,
i have noticed that every single post u make is about blk woman blah blah, this topic is about chat up lines, i think deep down u are bitter that u aint got a blk woman, or else u would stop going on and on and on.
Anyway
the best approach is a sense of humour, i like men that make me laugh
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 16:23 |
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hi ya'll,
i'm new ere so i hope u lot dun pick on da new kid!!
slick 1 i fink ur idea of walkin up 2 a girl and sayin hi and bout urself iz fine not all girlz like hearin chezzy chat up lines. most of us jus wan a man who can keep it real
at least datz wat i fink most gurlz want
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 16:24 |
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| THANKYOU TO SOOOFRESH WHO GOT IN THERE B4 ME. TRAVELLER GUY, YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS! HOW R U GONNA TRY N SAY THAT GIRLS IN CLUBS R SHALLOW N DUMB LIKE YOU HAVE HAD THE PLEASURE IN MEETING ALL OF US. I SINCERELY HOPE YOU R NOT JUDGING ALL BY THE FEW YOU HAVE COME ACROSS WITH YOUR UNFORTUNATE SELF! AS 4 ENDING UP WITH SOME1 WHO AINT COMPATABLE WITH US, WELL MAYBE THE NUMBER OF SINGLE GIRLS IS RISING BCOS WE R MORE PICKY THESE DAYS N THERE JUST AINT ENOUGH NICE GUYS OUT THERE!
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 17:37 |
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sofresh and petite ur both single hags, what makes you think i want a blk women u must be mad like i avnt had enough of you women, girls in clubs are shallow and dumb simple as that your both dumb, becos that wasnt direct at you maybe ur one of them. usless brats, stupid 16 yr olds. when i dont call your name dont reply me you single twats. all i see you losers in love do is cos white girls get a life. (i still love blk women lol ) but guys please stop dissing white girls if ur to shallow and dumb to get a man.
anyway lol, chat up lines try this, im no fred flinstone but i can make ur bed rock.
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 17:47 |
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Slick one,
I don't know. With some guys, mines is always conversational. Some of them will start off in a way that we can have a good talk and then it's what your name, then they'll tell about themselves and some of them lie about that. It isn't so much of the pick lines I expect as I do the conversation. To me when they do it that way they expect for you to be immediately comfortable with them in a day. When it comes to men I prefer knowing them on a acquaintance like level before we date.
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 18:23 |
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the traveller wrote: when i dont call your name dont reply me you single twats.
I will reply to you, what are you gonna do you white b**tard frenchconnectionuk off?
who mentioned white girls pls?
the topic is about chat up lines not blk woman, if u wanna get in slanging match best u pm and we can take it from their piece of sh*t
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Posted: Wednesday June 16th, 2004 18:52 |
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d'u no wot makes me laugh da most?!
--- wen u hear "princess" whispered in ur ear.
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