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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 15:44 |
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Child Support?!?
I'm listening to the radio...WGCI out of Chicago...and the topic is child support...and heres my question...why do men feel that when a relationship ends, that they do not have to financially take care of their child? Many men are calling in...and they are calling their ex's all kinds of names...do 'some' men think that they don't have to financially tend to their kids...its makes no sense how they attack these mothers just cause they go and file for CS payments, the mother doesnt set the amount to be paid, the judge does, so why attack the mother...cause if the man had custody he would do the same thing...enlighten me with y'alls comments...
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 15:49 |
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that station still exists? jeeeez they must have a survival strategy
on the thread..men dont just complain for nothing especially when it comes to raisin up our kids but it gets worse when a woman starts gold gig you or in other words make you her little project of getting funds and all that but that doesnt mean that some brothers mess up so its a two way thing
further more I will come back later
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 20:06 |
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MeMySelfNi wrote: Child Support?!?
I'm listening to the radio...WGCI out of Chicago...and the topic is child support...and heres my question...why do men feel that when a relationship ends, that they do not have to financially take care of their child? Many men are calling in...and they are calling their ex's all kinds of names...do 'some' men think that they don't have to financially tend to their kids...its makes no sense how they attack these mothers just cause they go and file for CS payments, the mother doesnt set the amount to be paid, the judge does, so why attack the mother...cause if the man had custody he would do the same thing...enlighten me with y'alls comments...
I complain about it.
Before I got custody of my son I paid 1,157…when I finally won custody my xwifes child support is 75.00 a month and she can't pay that on time.
I think men complain because they do not want to up hold their financial responsibilities. And some women, instead of using the money for the child, the get their hair done and buy new clothes from themselves. A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Darnit!
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 20:35 |
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Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 22:42 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
LOL
true
throw the question back at them
lets see his reply then
" she told me she was on the pill"
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 22:46 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
Cos they always willing to open their legs and take sperm deposits!!
simple
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 22:48 |
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Sooofresh wrote: Madam Butterfly wrote: Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
LOL
true
throw the question back at them
lets see his reply then
" she told me she was on the pill"
"And the double condom i was wearing broke"
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 22:53 |
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Cos they always willing to open their legs and take sperm deposits!!
simple
Ahh, if only men dispensed as much wisdom as they do sperm, they would be a species to be reckoned with! Its a shame some of them are so quick to dispense their little swimmers into any willing recepticle, but dispense time, effort energy and cash to deal with the consequences!?!? Never!
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 22:56 |
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Abissinia wrote: Sooofresh wrote: Madam Butterfly wrote: Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
LOL
true
throw the question back at them
lets see his reply then
" she told me she was on the pill"
"And the double condom i was wearing broke"
or
i was drunk and she seduced me..........for the whole 1 year we have been together
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:02 |
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really???
Well let me tell you this
as long men bashing dykes like you exist on this forum
Ill be here to fight you
LoL
you make me laugh
whats wrong you havin them hot flushes again???
never mind maddam Buttazfly guess you missed ya boat
as you the "youngin"
stay out of grown folks buisness
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:04 |
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oh and Abbisswhateva
Never knew you could get pregnant from oral....
guess you learn sumthing new everyday
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:04 |
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| >>>comes down to childs level<<< and you, sir, are a woman bashing homo
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:06 |
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And you "maam" are bored single woman
get a life
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:06 |
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Sooofresh wrote: Abissinia wrote: Sooofresh wrote: Madam Butterfly wrote: Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
LOL
true
throw the question back at them
lets see his reply then
" she told me she was on the pill"
"And the double condom i was wearing broke"
or
i was drunk and she seduced me..........for the whole 1 year we have been together
Yep first baby she seduced me with Barry White record, second baby was with D Angelo...
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:08 |
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LoL
im a homo!!
im a FATHER
are you a MOTHER???
Nope!!
I didnt think so
LoL
HAHAHAHAHA
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:09 |
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Black_power wrote: And you "maam" are bored single woman
get a life
I have a life, unlike you who sits around a message bored bashing women in "cyber space" because you fear the real thing. Your weakness is not a sweetness hun. Be a man why dontcha?
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:13 |
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Black_power wrote: LoL
im a homo!!
im a FATHER
are you a MOTHER???
Nope!!
I didnt think so
LoL
HAHAHAHAHA
As you well know, all it takes to sire a child is sperm. You do not have to be hetrosexual. Plenty of gay men hiding behind the institution of marriage and/or family life. If your child is a boy god help the women he dates as you will raise him to have no respect for them. If your child is a girl, she should have been given up at birth, as opposed to have a woman hating father like you. Please do not procreate again, at least until science can find a way to remove your genes from the poor child. May the lord have mercy on your child/ren. God bless them.
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:13 |
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Black_power wrote: oh and Abbisswhateva
Never knew you could get pregnant from oral....
guess you learn sumthing new everyday
HUH?
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:14 |
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LoL
peep this..
your a joke
sad single mid 30s b**ch
no kids and time running out fast
Plus you got a fetish for that bone thug dude!
Now i dont bash women
I love women
how they look
how they feel
they are a part of my life
you are not
piss off buttazfly
whats wrong? been flying too close to the lamp
sont take your pain out on me!
cos i dont care for you
miss adoption
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:19 |
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| First of all I am 26. Second, Yes, i like Krayzie Bine. Don't believe i made a secret of the fact. He is my avater for goodness sake!! And bully for you, being able to cross reference a post i made. Were these supposed to be insults? And btw, its moths that fly close to lamps. Sorry i hit a nerve with you. If i want to take out my "pain" on someone i will choose someone more worthy than you. And the miss adoption thing? Dude, really, how old are you? Serious question! None of you so called insults are new. They are common knowledge for anyone who has read my posts. I am not ashamed of any of that.
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:26 |
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Posted: Monday December 6th, 2004 23:37 |
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Posted: Tuesday December 7th, 2004 00:08 |
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Damn! Ya'll Damn! I could cut the tention in this room with a Knife. Damn! 
"Wish death on whole families" Damn, that scared me . Now bruh that was harsh. Let's not start a male/female bashing contest here.
We don't need the snide remarks from both sides. We're grown folk here. Just explain your point of view.
Most men don't see the child support system as being fair when it comes to men. Parris gave a perfect example: $1grand vs. $75.00
I don't have kids but from my observation, what I see is that some of the men that do not want to pay child support are egged on by the breakdown in relationship with the mother.
To some paying child support may seem like a punishment for not seeing eye to eye with the mother. Though, there is no excuse to not contribute to your childs life. Just that some women don't make it easy and don't care what burden is being put on the man as long as that child support check is coming in.
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Posted: Tuesday December 7th, 2004 02:03 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: Parris wrote: A far better question however, is why do these women have children by men they aren't married too.
Why do men have children with women they aren't married to?
I was married at the time...somtimes divorce is what come of it.
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Posted: Tuesday December 7th, 2004 02:20 |
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Some men complain/dont want to pay because they're been taken for a ride by the woman & the system..The woman has so much support & gets backing from these organisations no matter what..
The whole relationship breakdown may have been her fault but she has all the cards & wants a bigger purse by going to the CSA & is willing to take the father to the cleaners..
Not all men want to have the responsibility (W*****S) generally, but if from all the mitigating circumstances (contact/visitation) etc & there is no real problem & things are amicable then pay your dues, it doesn't always have to end up as a battle & so the courts & agencies need never get involved..
But the no good fathers (as they aren't DADS) make the situation worse by badmouthing etc & or profile-ing..The same can also be said for the mothers who are quick to jump up & down & rant to anyone who will listen how crap the man is..
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