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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 16:18

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Let me preface this by saying I love black when and since my teens I’ve dated black women exclusively, but recently it’s really been getting to me that I can’t have a conversation with some (most) girls unless it’s about some asinine tv show or small talk about what happened at work today. They take no interest in politics or science or anything outside of her little circle for friends and whatever it is they gossip about. And when I do try to talk to them about something deeper, something even remotely more abstract they,re either disinterested or incapable of having an intelligent conversation about it. When I think about it the same thing is true of almost every black woman I know, even the sisters I meet  at college are only interested in learning just enough to pass the class or the next exam, they just to seem to have any desire to learn, they don’t seem to have that healthy sense of curiosity. Has anyone noticed the same thing or am I just approaching the wrong women?



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 16:36

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LOL.  Come on holmes, who you trying to upset?  You know dames could and infact have said that about us.

Haven't really witnissed this myself.  But then again I'm not concerntrating on any of this stuff.




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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 16:49

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BP, you might want to rephrase that question to read "Why is it that the black women I attract, or am attracted to lack intellectual depth". Then maybe, you might find the answer you are looking for.

 

P/S I'm not being snide.



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 17:18

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You have said yourself that you are only interested in 11/10 looking women, they have to be gorgeous before you would date them..... well maybe it stands to reason that with all that "beauty" they dont have much tme to think of much else after all it must be a full time job trying to maintain their good looks...... plain janes like myself maybe have abit more time on our hand so we naturally take an interest in the world around us.... dunno, just a thought.



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 17:27

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Provokative title.

Black women outclass black men in the class room. They could easily accuse black men that have a tendancy to drop out of school for not being intellectually minded.

Women that dont like to talk are the best ones for me.



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 18:27

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Black_Power wrote: Let me preface this by saying I love black when and since my teens I’ve dated black women exclusively, but recently it’s really been getting to me that I can’t have a conversation with some (most) girls unless it’s about some asinine tv show or small talk about what happened at work today. They take no interest in politics or science or anything outside of her little circle for friends and whatever it is they gossip about. And when I do try to talk to them about something deeper, something even remotely more abstract they,re either disinterested or incapable of having an intelligent conversation about it. When I think about it the same thing is true of almost every black woman I know, even the sisters I meet  at college are only interested in learning just enough to pass the class or the next exam, they just to seem to have any desire to learn, they don’t seem to have that healthy sense of curiosity. Has anyone noticed the same thing or am I just approaching the wrong women?
You are just approaching the wrong women.



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 18:36

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Well what i can say Bp!! it seems to me you are definitely attracting the right women, but they must find you extremely yawnsome and boring...

Not all off us African women lack depth or intellect ,

Its just the ones YOU attract, im afraid...confused3

 



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 18:43

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Black_Power wrote: Let me preface this by saying I love black when and since my teens I’ve dated black women exclusively, but recently it’s really been getting to me that I can’t have a conversation with some (most) girls unless it’s about some asinine tv show or small talk about what happened at work today. They take no interest in politics or science or anything outside of her little circle for friends and whatever it is they gossip about. And when I do try to talk to them about something deeper, something even remotely more abstract they,re either disinterested or incapable of having an intelligent conversation about it. When I think about it the same thing is true of almost every black woman I know, even the sisters I meet  at college are only interested in learning just enough to pass the class or the next exam, they just to seem to have any desire to learn, they don’t seem to have that healthy sense of curiosity. Has anyone noticed the same thing or am I just approaching the wrong women?

Black Power I'm really disgusted at the title of your thread and think you need to revise it - disgraceful! Are you also saying that you find more intelligent non Black women? Nonsense!

Maybe this acknowlegment should tell you it's time you started to reflect upon the type of women that you desire... Stop looking for those women who look good on the outside but have f**kall to offer on the inside thenconfused3



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 19:02

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BP:  why do YOU think they lack intellectual depth?



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 19:29

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Best Joke ever. 

Bravo BP clp)



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 19:34

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Chances are you're attracting women who lack depth, and/or the women with depth you do meet dont feel inclined to hold a deep conversation with you.

Another point is that I personally will not open up enough with work colleagues/general acquaintances to have any kind of deep conversation - so if I dont know you good, don't expect me to share any more than my opinion of Big Brother with you!



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 19:43

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No way am I giving a legitimate comment on this thread until the tittle is changed.

Not cool BP.

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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 20:07

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maybe u are boring. all i can say it karma and what goes around come back around.:)



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 20:07

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maybe u are boring. all i can say it karma and what goes around come back around.:)



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 Posted: Saturday June 16th, 2007 23:50

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This is absurd! Do you need to talk about politics to be intelligent? Do you think that's what 'makes' you intelligent? Ridiculous! I for one am NOT interested in politics or whatever bullsh*t you're into, does that mean I'm stupid?

You are an idiot for posting this! You've just insulted my grand mother, my mother, my sister and many women.

Shame on you, moron!



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 00:14

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I know that my friends and i have a great knowledge of politics, history, culture to name a few...maybe your picking too much on looks and some of these women happen not to be able to hold a general conversation.



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 09:36

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I think maybe its the women you are meeting. I definatley wouldn't generalise like that.

Ask yourself one question.


1. Where are you meeting these girls ?


You may have to attened certain events to meet likeminded individuals.

eg look in the Community Announcement forum. I adverrtised a monthly Black discussion forum  which will be taking place in Birmingham. You may find deep thought provoking black women there.



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 09:39

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The thread is called Return of Conscious Equations.


Me personally I have been lucky to find certain black women who can think outside of the box. People who I can have certain discussions with and share ideas with. etc




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here we go again....



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 12:08

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Last edited on Sunday June 17th, 2007 12:09 by Le Moor



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 12:38

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Gazelle wrote: BP, you might want to rephrase that question to read "Why is it that the black women I attract, or am attracted to lack intellectual depth". Then maybe, you might find the answer you are looking for.

 

P/S I'm not being snide.

Well said, I couldnt have put that better myself, do not tar every black woman with the same brush, some of us did actually graduate blktype



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LMAO



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Black_Power wrote: Let me preface this by saying I love black when and since my teens I’ve dated black women exclusively, but recently it’s really been getting to me that I can’t have a conversation with some (most) girls unless it’s about some asinine tv show or small talk about what happened at work today. They take no interest in politics or science or anything outside of her little circle for friends and whatever it is they gossip about. And when I do try to talk to them about something deeper, something even remotely more abstract they,re either disinterested or incapable of having an intelligent conversation about it. When I think about it the same thing is true of almost every black woman I know, even the sisters I meet  at college are only interested in learning just enough to pass the class or the next exam, they just to seem to have any desire to learn, they don’t seem to have that healthy sense of curiosity. Has anyone noticed the same thing or am I just approaching the wrong women?


 

That could be said for about everybody on the planet.

People are more geared towards more emotive topics these days.

Besides if you want to talk about such things then you're better off talking to males anyway, generally the ones over 40 who aren't so wrapped up in themselves..



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 15:45

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Ijeoma wrote: Black_Power wrote: Let me preface this by saying I love black when and since my teens I’ve dated black women exclusively, but recently it’s really been getting to me that I can’t have a conversation with some (most) girls unless it’s about some asinine tv show or small talk about what happened at work today. They take no interest in politics or science or anything outside of her little circle for friends and whatever it is they gossip about. And when I do try to talk to them about something deeper, something even remotely more abstract they,re either disinterested or incapable of having an intelligent conversation about it. When I think about it the same thing is true of almost every black woman I know, even the sisters I meet  at college are only interested in learning just enough to pass the class or the next exam, they just to seem to have any desire to learn, they don’t seem to have that healthy sense of curiosity. Has anyone noticed the same thing or am I just approaching the wrong women?
You are just approaching the wrong women.


as above and there's something to be said about birds of a feather....



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 Posted: Sunday June 17th, 2007 16:42

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